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John Wright Obituary
It wasn't exactly a feminist household, but it didn't revolve around the only boy in the family, either. A shy kid at first who suffered through ''the hormonal rages'' of three sisters growing up, John W. Wright Jr. finally put his foot down at 15, when it became chic for girls to wear boxer shorts. ''They are stealing my underwear,'' he complained to his father. ''Don't I have a right to have underwear?''
Nonetheless, or maybe as a result, John grew up to be a staunch family man, remaining devoted to his mother and, despite the demands of being a managing director at Sandler O'Neill, always finding time to help with the care of his three children, frequently taking them to visit relatives to give his wife some time to herself. ''He was a very devoted father,'' his father said. ''I was so proud of him for that.''
And, adolescent chafing aside, his sisters now realize how much they looked up to him. ''They would never let him be the big brother,'' his father said, ''although now, from what they're telling me, he was the big brother all along.''
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Amber McKnight
September 12, 2024
I gave blood yesterday in Kingsport, Tennessee, and I was given a card with Joh W. Wright, Jr.'s name on it, saying that I was donating in his memory. Reading his tribute here makes me proud to have done that. God bless his memory and his family.
P.F.N. Eugene J. Buehl
Gene Buehl
September 11, 2016
February 9, 2015
My name is John Wright from Indiana. Sorry about your loss, God bless you all.
Dana Kovac
September 11, 2014
John worked with my husband in Florida. The memories I have of him are reflected in this article. We eventually, met Martha and attended their beautiful wedding. They both were clearly surrounded by wonderful friends and family. Martha, I think of you often. I never met your children, but I hope you all are doing well.
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A Mom of Three
January 28, 2014
I never knew John but I have been reading alot of the bio's of lives lost and I read John's story. He was the protector of his sisters and Mom, I am sure they miss him so much. May God bless his wife, children family and friends. None of the victims of 9/11 died in vain, they are always in the hearts and prayers of the American people. Be at peace John with the Lord.
Linda McLean-Golub
September 11, 2010
I met both Martha and John at UVM. John-O, as we called him, was such a fun loving, kind hearted person. He was one of our ski buddies and always had us laughing with his quick wit and great smile. My heart is heavy this day as I think of Martha, their children and the rest of the Wright family. As well as the other families who lost loved ones in this horrible tragedy.
Edward Hoyt
December 17, 2009
Thanks for sharing your spirit, John.
Gene Mazza
September 11, 2009
Gene & Lois Mazza
Tony Shulman
September 9, 2009
John and I became friends during our freshman year at UVM. He was a good man. I will never forget nor stop being angry at the cowards that involved innocent civilians in their insanity.
Michelle Lajoie Pfingst Michael Pfingst
September 11, 2008
Thinking of you and your family....
Karen Seppa
July 29, 2008
When reading I kept thinking about John's wife, the joy of a new baby and a future of sharing the baby's growth together. It must have been more devastating than imaginable, and always will be. I hope she finds some comfort in the thought that he looks after them now from a different perspective, and that someday they will all be together in a place where no one can ever separate them again. I send her and their children my love in John's memory.
amy wright
February 18, 2008
We share the same last name. I pray that your family is well. I can see the kindness in your face and I feel so bad for your kids. I know you are watching over them. i want to hug every family member who has had a loss as a result of 9 11. I cannot find the words....
PC
September 12, 2007
John:
Please know you are not forgotten. Rather, you are missed by your loved ones more now than ever before. Please watch over us from heaven and give comfort to those left behind. We pray for you and your family always!
terrylee klos
September 11, 2007
my thoughts are with you
Sheryl Rodriguez
May 31, 2007
After reading John's profile, I am even more determined to read all of the profiles of the beloved lost on that tragic day and to pray for their families.
I would have liked to have known John, I am sure I would have been a better person for knowing him. God bless his family and friends always with his memory and the comfort of knowing they will see him again.
P Tabbernor
April 23, 2007
In memory....
miriam ramirez
March 23, 2007
my most sincere, condolence to every member of his family my mon and I always pray for each of you.
T Crawford
September 14, 2006
This tribute hits me hard. My father has the same name. I hope that his family is never forgotten. I will think of him as well.
Alex Potter
September 11, 2005
You are in my thoughts today as well as many days throughout the year. John was a wonderful human being. His humor, wit, honesty and caring nature stands in the forefront of his character. He is missed. God bless you Martha and family, we hope you are well.
Ron & Chris Mazzarino
September 11, 2005
On this anniversary our thoughts always include John. We remember him with great fondness when we talk of the days of the deli in RVC. May God shower blessings on his whole family.
July 25, 2005
THIS DAY HAS BEEN IN MY THOUGHTS EVERYDAY FOR NEARLY 4 YEARS NOW AND EACH DAY MY HEART TUGS FOR THOSE WHO LOST THIER LIVES. PLEASE FIND, AS I DO, SOME SOLACE THAT GOD FOUND MANY ANGELS THAT DAY. PEACE.
George & Patti Gallo
September 11, 2003
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Wright family, always.
Jonathan Packman
September 11, 2003
My thoughts are with the Wright Family as we're all thinking of John today.
Dan Wright
September 11, 2003
Never forget......
Vivian & Ross Hoffman
September 11, 2003
With the birth of our new child, we felt compelled to extend our thoughts and prayers to Martha and her three beautiful children, who will grow up with an extraordinary sense of dignity and pride for their loving father. Martha, we marvel at your courage and strength through this difficult time in your life. You are truly an inspiration!!!
Tom Rhodes
September 11, 2003
Although two years have passed, the memory of 9/11 has not, and never will. To Wayne and Virginia (who I still remember from long ago), and the entire Wright family, I send my deepest sympathy and condolences to you. I pray that good friends and family, and a loving God bring you comfort and healing in your loss.
Michelle Correa (Wright)
September 11, 2003
To all that were related to John, may God Bless you and keep you. I didn't know John, but when I saw the name John Wright, I also realized that this could of been one of my family members. I have a Uncle John Wright and also 2 cousins that are John Wright. I'm sure John was a great person, and I am sure he will never be forgotten.. In my eyes all who lost their life this tragic day, are all my heros, and wil be rewarded in Heaven. God Bless you John and all who were close to you.
Lisa Blount-White
September 18, 2002
John was my brother's college roommate at UVM. He was a very fun guy. I'd like to write to his wife. I think about you often and wonder how you're doing. I can only imagine how hard it's been on you. I'm sure you've become very strong and I know that John would be proud of you. John is watching over you and loving you. I'm praying for you and I want you to remember that God will always be with you. I'm thinking about you. God Bless you.
Kelly MacCaskill
September 9, 2002
I first met John at Riverside School ,RVC in 4th grade. I remember John as a pretty quiet, sweet kid.
Your husband, your child, your Father, your brother, I have not stopped thinking about since 9/11.
My brother too passed away very suddenly (John knew him) his name was John also. My brother died in 1988. My lost was a knife in the heart, like I'm sure yours was.
Please know I'm truely sorry, the world will miss our John's deeply.
All my love and sorrow,
Kelly Dibenedetto
(formly of RVC)
Julie Donat
August 27, 2002
To John's wife and family,
I only knew John for about 48 hours, having met him during a kayaking instruction course last June 2001. Our class was small (maybe 14 people total?) and I was there with my friend Kim. During the first hour of instruction, we could tell that John was fun, funny, and outgoing. As soon as class was done for the day, the 3 of us prepared to meet for a beer in town. John told us at length of his family and the baby on the way - his pride and love shone through his every word.
My thoughts have frequently been of the Wright family of Rockville since September 11th.
God bless you all,
Julie Donat, Havertown, PA
Richard Williams
May 30, 2002
John,
You were a great friend. I'll always remember the good times we all had growing up in Rockville Centre, and I'll never forget you.
May God bless you, John.
May 27, 2002
MAY THE BEAUTIFUL SOUL OF JOHN WRIGHT AND THE SOULS OF ALL THE FAITHFULLY DEPARTED THROUGH THE MERCY OF GOD REST IN PEACE AMEN..MAY JESUS AND ST.JOHN GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Jim Mullany
January 25, 2002
I never knew John. But his father, John, Sr. taught me History at Regis High School.
My condolences to John's wife and children, and to his parents.
May John's memory live on through his wife and children.
Maureen Horan Smoluch
January 19, 2002
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Wright family and John's wife and children. My memories of John are fond ones that I will cherish.
Ron & Chris Mazzarino
December 30, 2001
Our thoughts and prayers are with John's wife, children, mom, dad, and sisters during this very difficult time. John worked with us while he went to Chaminade, and we will not ever forget him. May God bless the Wright family.
December 9, 2001
GOD BLESS YOU JOHN WRIGHT AND MAY
YOU REST IN PEACE.GOD BLESS YOUR
FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA
AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01
Teresa Jahn
December 2, 2001
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
John Sweeney
November 26, 2001
John always had a warm smile and a friendly word for everyone he'd encounter. "Sunny" is somewhat a cliche, but apt for this young man. Unbelievably, he is the second in our Chaminade home room class ('85) to fall victim to terrorists. I hope that God now holds he and Mark Tobin (who died in the Lockerbie bombing) safe in His hands, and that He watches over and comforts their families in their time of grieving.
Paul Curran
November 1, 2001
John: We met many times when you came to visit us at Georgetown. I lived with your cousin Robby for 2 years and know how highly he thought of you. Nothing will ever take awy the many fond memories your family has of you. You are missed but never forgotten. Rest in peace.
Debra Costello
October 21, 2001
Our family name is Wright, so when I saw your name I realized it could have been someone in our family. God Bless you, I know you are in God's hands and heart.
Susan Oliverio
September 27, 2001
We will never forget you, John; your strength and goodness; your loving and fun-loving nature; your compassion and understanding. Your memory lives on with all of us forever. We love you dearly and miss you!
Bobbie Plymail
September 25, 2001
God bless all of you. We're praying for your family and for you John Wright. May you rest in peace.
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