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Peter Frank Obituary
There were no exchanges of "I do." No cake was cut, with a slice saved to store in the freezer for the first anniversary. And there was no dance to the couple's favorite song. The guests simply looked at photographs and talked about possibilities at a banquet hall in Caldwell, N.J., on Oct. 19.
Karen Carlucci had called a small group of friends and relatives together to memorialize a wedding that never was.
Her fiancé, Peter Christopher Frank, was a vice president and financial analyst for Fred Alger & Co. on the 93rd floor of 1 World Trade Center.
"It was going to be our wedding day and I just couldn't pretend that it wasn't anything," Ms. Carlucci said of that October day. "I had to do something. I think it was helpful, not just for me, but for everybody."
Mr. Frank and Ms. Carlucci, both 29, were looking forward to buying an apartment in Greenwich Village, where they had lived in a rental for two and a half years with their 7-year-old fawn-colored boxer, Chavez.
Six-foot-two, with a slim athletic build, Mr. Frank was the consummate team player on the athletic field and in the boardroom, said his mother, Constance Frank. He was dedicated to friends and family. When doctors discovered last March that his godson, Gregory Waltman, 17, had chronic myeloid leukemia, Mr. Frank stayed by his hospital bedside, whispering words of encouragement, Mrs. Frank said. "Greg, you can get better," Mr. Frank said, according to his mother. "You can get out of this bed. Let's do it."
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Sue Trepal
September 11, 2024
23 years later- Never forgotten Pete. Karen I hope you are well.
Cindy Roe
September 13, 2021
Remembering Peter on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
Cary
July 3, 2021
One year as freshman roommates was the short time that I knew Peter. Great student and athlete and still made family time going home on the weekends.
The Kindred Family
December 13, 2018
We send our continued deep sympathy to your family. The passing of time doesn't always mean that people forget about your sad loss. Peter is still sadly missed by others.
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September 11, 2018
God bless you and your family. You are not forgotten and your spirit moves through those whose lives you touched.
A Family Friend
September 12, 2017
Karen is one of my dearest friends, really a sister. From what I knew of Peter,I know he would be proud of how Karen and his family have continued to champion on. And thrive.
Peter, no time can erase the memory and impact you continue to have to all that were lucky to know you.
Your presence has gone through me
like thread through a needle.
Everything I do is stitched with its color. -W.S. Merwin, poet
Love,
Jacqueline
September 12, 2017
Still thinking of you Peter
Jack
Francesca Diaco
September 11, 2017
I still remember the first night you and Karen met...I was rooting for your from the very start. And I loved watching your love grow and in the process becoming great friends. I still have the piece of bark from the Amazon you gave me before I left for my overseas adventures 17 years ago for luck. It has served me well and kept me safe as you promised. You are deeply missed...but your bright, loving and adventurous spirt lives on in all of us in so many ways. Rest in peace my friend.
September 11, 2017
Rest In Peace, Peter.
I'll try to be the husband and friend to Karen as, from what I've come to learn, appreciate and respect, I know you would have been.
Blair
Sue Trepal
September 10, 2017
I'm currently in NYC and saw the 9/11 museum. It was absolutely heart wrenching. I've never forgotten Peter's story and I will always pray for his family. As always Karen-I hope your life is wonderful.
John Carlucci
September 13, 2016
Pete, you were kind and inclusive enough to invite me to your bachelor party in Vegas which you had the weekend before September 11. To this day, it is still one of my greatest regrets that I did not go.
I still remember you as if it were yesterday.
Jack Carter
September 12, 2016
Still thinking of you Peter.
Sue Trepal
September 11, 2016
15 years and every year I can't forget your story. Peter Frank with the two first names......I pray for your family and for Karen every day- especially on this day. I am a stranger, but Peter will never be forgotten. Karen I hope you are well.
Francisco Manuel
September 10, 2016
I worked with Peter at Citi for 3yrs. We would often commute together from NYC to CT after Citi's merger with SSB. We got to know each other very well. He was a bright, good man. I don't particularly know why I am writing this today, after 15yrs, but there hasn't been one year that I haven't thought of him and his family. I cherish his memory and the time I got to spend with him. He was a tremendous human being. God bless him and his family. We will never forget.
Jack Carter
September 11, 2015
Forever in my thoughts Peter
Sue Trepal
September 11, 2015
I only know of you of what I read from your fiancé. After all these years I never forgot her sadness and how she said you have two first names. I think of her and pray for your soul and your family. I will never forget.
Karen
September 14, 2014
Always remembering you Pete!
September 13, 2014
Still in my thoughts and he will never be forgotten.
September 11, 2014
Remembered
See this brink withPeter's name while at Narragansett Rhode Island and wanted to know more about Peter. His live continues to touch others.
Sherry Learned
June 19, 2014
Jack Carter
September 12, 2013
Peter is one of those people you never forget...he was a good guy.
I think of him often....particularly on September 11.
Kate Kelly
September 11, 2013
Remember you today pete and the fun we had when you visited Scotland with my nephew Ernest, A young life taken to soon god bliss you son aunt Kate.x
September 11, 2013
R.I.P Peter Frank a young man taken far to soon.
September 12, 2012
Thank you for writing this, Mike. So touching and well put...
Karen C
Mike May
September 11, 2012
I often think about Pete.
This is how I remember him.
I remember when Pete first showed up at Lakeville Elementary School with his dirt bike, he looked like a cool kid.
I remember when I couldn't find a seat on the bus and he let me sit with him in the back.
I remember when Pete pitched his first game at Lake Success Little League. Pete was so good that after the game they wouldn't let him pitch anymore. The excuse was he was too old or he registered too late. But we all knew it was because he was too good.
I remember Pete, my junior year of high school football, he was the starting Quarterback and I was his center. It's a unique relationship. A lot of time spent one on one having catches, a lot of time for him to make me laugh.
I remember when he said my snap was too slow and that I needed to work harder and I did.
I remember the fire that Pete had and how hard he threw the ball and how it hurt to catch his passes.
I remember watching that incredibly quick first step off the dribble when he played basketball.
Pete, I remember you and always will.
My prayers go out to your family.
Mike May
GNS 90'
Jack Carter
September 11, 2012
I knew Peter when he worked on my team at Citibank. He was an ambitious young guy willing and eager to learn. A person with great potential and a funny guy in his own way.
I add this on the tenth anniversary of Peter's death.
Stephen Silverstein
December 14, 2011
I will always remember you as the mad man on the court. You're a great person who will always be missed.
Richard Moore
September 12, 2011
I had never met young Peter, but I had the pleasure of working with his Dad at Morgan Guaranty's 15 Broad Street branch in the mid-1970's. I heard that Peter was one of the victims of 9/11, and felt very badly for him and his family. This day after the 10th anniversary, I leave this message to let Peter, his family and friends know that we have not forgotten him. I pray for the Frank family to have peace and closure.
Danielle & Chris Fournier
September 11, 2011
I wish I had the chance to get to know you, but I know how happy you made Karen and that made me feel like I knew you already. Rest in peace and know that we will never forget you.
Danielle & Chris Fournier
September 11, 2011
I wish I had the chance to get to know you, but I know how happy you made Karen and that is so wonderful, that I feel I know you already. Rest in peace. We will never forget you.
Jaynie Carlucci
September 11, 2011
I remember Brett coming home worried that day that Karen could not find her fiance. While I had not met either, I remember hearing wonderful things about "Peter Frank" and feeling the ideal he set in the Carlucci family. Just as I felt watching those towers fall and wishing I could hit rewind and make up a new ending, each time Brett wondered I hoped Peter was just in a hospital somewhere unable to get through the phone lines.
Ten years later, I have had the gift of watching Karen's strength and this loss create a legacy that has changed many lives in positive ways. Hearing about her progress in life in a way she had never pictured, I saw the strength of love endure and minifest itself if way that gives anyone who knows a remarkable inspiration to trust in our ability to heal but never forget.
And reading this memory book for the first time today, I see an entry from my aunt a year ago. I KNOW everyone lost has touched people personally in powerful ways you will never even know.
God bless you and may your legacy continue!
September 11, 2011
Marianne Curl
September 11, 2011
Rest in peace Peter. We will never forget!
Ron D.
September 10, 2011
I was scheduled to meet Peter for the first time on 9/13/2001 at 4:30 PM and have saved the itinerary for that day as a reminder. I wish I would have met him. My deepest condolences to his family.
Cindy
September 11, 2010
A loved one lives forever in the hearts of their families.
I will always remember that day and the ones who's lives were lost.
Stephanie Kelly
September 11, 2009
I met Peter many many years ago, when he was on vacation with my cousin in Scotland. Although I never had any contact with him after that, I always thought fondly of him and was saddend by his death. Rest in Peace.
Safely Home
Michael Iezzi
December 1, 2008
Peter,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Michael iezzi
December 3, 2007
Peter,
Happy Belated Birthday in Heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
A loved one lives forever in the hearts of those who cared.
A loved one lives forever in the memories that were shared.
Doug Abraham
December 1, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Rand
September 12, 2007
It has been a while since I checked this tribute page, but I think of Pete often. I think of his strength, I think of his confidence and I think of his kindness. Thank you Pete for always reminding me of what is important.
Michael Iezzi
December 1, 2006
Peter,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Kristine
November 2, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
October 9, 2006
In remembrance....
Ana
September 18, 2006
I am so sorry for the loss of this special young man, who will always live in Karen´s heart and in all of those who knew him and loved him so.
Karen
September 13, 2006
It is still and will forever be unbelievable, how you were here with me and then suddenly just gone. No matter what, I will always miss you...
Courtney McSherry Manghan
September 12, 2006
Not a day goes by without us thinking of all of you and praying for you. WE LOVE YOU!
Peace and love,
Courtney, Austin, Reese & Austin Manghan
Amy Whitehouse
September 11, 2006
Connie, Peter, and Karen
You are alway in our thoughts and prayers.
morgana
May 11, 2006
I was visiting another friend at this web site and so I deceide to drop a line and say that I still remember that smile and how nice you always were to me. I will never forget you, so I just wanted to let you know.
Bill Patrick
April 15, 2005
Another spring has come, and as I was walking Chavez this morning, I pictured you running him through the streets of the Village, with Chavez stuggling to keep up. He misses you. We all miss you- Peace
Teresa Wong
September 10, 2004
It's been nearly three years since this has all happened and I felt compelled to write. Though I never did know Peter, his name will forever be etched in my memory because I read about Karen's story in a newspaper article that was printed in our local Dallas Morning News three years ago. I was drawn to the headline, and felt such emotion when I got a glimpse into Peter's life. I ached and cried for Karen after reading this article. I was only just a single 24 year old first year elementary school teacher at that time, emotionally distraught more so for my students whom I wanted to protect and keep innocent from the reality of what had just happened. After reading that article, I marveled at how strong Karen was, and when I prayed to God, I prayed especially for Karen, and all the familes who experienced such a loss. At that time, if God were to bless me with a significant other in my life, I had hoped that it could be as loving of a relationship that Peter and Karen shared.
I stand here now three years later, and am preparing to marry next month- I know God sent my fiance my way for a reason, but I also felt that somehow Peter had something to do with it. As we prepare for the anniversary of 9/11, I still wanted to search Peter's name on this memorial. Karen, I have prayed for you and thought about you ever since this happened. Though you never had that moment to announce those vows verbally, I know you and Peter shared those vows in both of your hearts. I share your sorrow and cry tears that are only but a fraction of what you must have cried, but do know that I will never forget Peter's name or face because of you.
Chrisine (Richerme) Barnett
September 11, 2003
I went to Great Neck South High, and graduated with Peter in 1989. Although you tend to loose touch with people you once knew, I was heart broken to hear that Peter was one of the people lost on 9/11. I can still remember his smiling face in class, and on the football field. He was a spectacular person who will always be in my thoughts and my prayers. My heart goes out to Karen and his family.
May 29, 2003
While I did not know Peter, he must have been a kind man. "Boxer" people are such caring souls.
Cosette and Alex Pouteau
October 1, 2002
May today not only be a day of duty done and life's little battles won; may it be a time of joy, of laughter, of memories made and faith renewed. May today be a sweet success and not in the form of furnishings and wealth, but in the much more dear and valuable ways: good friends, good feelings and good health. And as each day comes full circle, and the quiet times of reflection bring an evening of serenity, may a distant dream find you, and lovingly remind you that you have an angel who will always keep a close watch.....over you. Our love and deepest sympathy goes out to you Karen and to Pete's loving family.
Ellen Ruban
September 24, 2002
I've been wanting to sign this guestbook for a while. I think about Pete alot. I'm close friends with Karen, his fiance. I was supposed to be the maid-of-honor. I was so honored to share in their happiness and future plans.
I had only talked with Pete a few times. He was very charming, confident and strong. He seemed to have it all together. I remember thinking how Karen was going to marry a great guy - her best friend.
I've learned more about Pete since his death. I've learned how determined he was to reach his goals and that he would never quit. He was a leader. He also had a great depth and insight. He had something special about him. He was an inspiration for many and will never be forgotten.
I believe that Pete is still around in some form. Maybe he's an angel. His spirit will never die.
Delia Noce
September 13, 2002
I only had the opportunity to meet Pete once, but I felt as if I knew him or met him before. Without a doubt, he had an old soul...here on earth for a specific purpose...
May god bless Karen and the Frank family and remember that
"We never part with the ones that we love, they are with us everywhere, as long as our hearts remember....
Susana Rodriguez
September 13, 2002
I knew Peter well when we worked at Citibank. We were friends and then drifted apart. I will never forget the good times especially his trip to Venezula. I lost a good friend this year and coupled with the loss of Peter, I now understand how important it is to keep in touch with your friends and to cherish those moments together. I will miss Peter and am grateful for the good memories.
Steven Carey
September 13, 2002
I am one of the fortunate many who was able to call Peter Christopher Frank my friend. Seems like yesterday we were playing hoops, going up to his parents house in R.I., or going to a Knicks game with Karen and Kim. It's a year and 2 days since Pete was taken and the pain still lingers. I find myself constantly reflecting and struggling now on how fragile life is, and how easily it can be lost. Over this past weekend I found one more reason to reflect. My wife and I found out we would be having our first child. As I made my rounds of family and close friends to call, there was one absent undenyable void, and that was the call that I would have made to Pete. I laugh though because I can hear him telling me he better teach the kid how to play ball, because if I did it they wouldn't be able to make the CYO league let alone the Pro's?? God, could he make me laugh..
I miss you Pete, and thank you for all the time we were able to share together.
My families love and prayers, go out to Karen, Pete's parents, Michelle, and the rest of Pete's family.
I know that one day Pete will be greeting me at Heaven's gate, with a hoop in one hand telling me "Hurry up and get in here quitter, I got a game for us".
Carol Newman
September 10, 2002
Your spirit lives on. Your love, humor, kindness and competitiveness touched so many lives. You are so missed.
Amanda Coyle
June 2, 2002
To the Friends and Family of Patrick:
Although i did not know Patrick he is still in my prayers. We have to do an assignment for High School on a Victim of 9-11, i chose Patrick. He seemed like the best kind of person to know. I too am in to sports as well as i read he was. I just wanted everyone to know your in my heart and prayers
Pablo Koziner
May 3, 2002
Peter and I were teammates in a basketball league in New York. I knew him for two years. I will miss him for the rest of my life.
He and I were very much alike in many respects. We shared a common sense of humor, age, academic/athletic background, and the last time I spoke with him, we were both engaged to be married. I enjoyed Peter’s company and always looked forward to seeing him on those weeknights we would play basketball.
Although I never met Karen in person, Peter and I often spoke about our fiancés. I thought about Karen and Peter on my wedding day and have done so on countless other occasions. I am reminded of him all of the time.
Peter, Connie, Michelle, Karen and all others who knew and love Peter, I share in your loss. You are in my thought and prayers.
I feel lucky to have crossed paths with Peter during my life. I hope to do so again someday.
Aliza Gelb (Aizenman)
April 15, 2002
I grew up around the corner from Pete for the first 12 years of my life. He was a year older than me, and I can remember playing together when we were little in the Park down the road. Although it has been years since I've seen Pete, the news hit me like a ton of bricks. My thoughts and prayers go out to Pete's family and fiance.
-Aliza GNS '90
Karen McNulty Walsh
April 9, 2002
Pete grew up in the house behind mine. I remember him as a little boy with a mischievous smile. Then he'd grown into such a handsome man in what seemed like the blink of an eye.
I didn't know him very well, but I did know his family. His parents, Peter and Connie, have been dear friends to my parents and especially my mom. And Pete's sister Michelle, with whom I worked as a lifeguard during our teenage years, loved her "little" brother more than words could say.
I'll never forget the cold chill that ran through my heart on September 11 when my mom told me Pete was "missing." She had been talking about his upcoming wedding to Karen just the night before.
Peter, Connie, Michelle, and Karen: I wish I could throw my arms around you all to take away the pain. May the love and support you all share help comfort you. And may Peter live forever in your hearts.
The Rev. Jose Bove
April 1, 2002
Karen, my deep condolences to you on Peter's departure. I am sure you will always carry you within your heart. I am so sorry. Never having married myself, I have always felt the joy of seeing young couples who have been close to me join their lives in matrimony. Take comfort in Peter's memory and love for you. I wish I had known him.
God bless.
The Rev. Jose P. Bove
Phil Bean
March 27, 2002
I was in Sigma Nu with Pete at the Univ. of Delaware. Pete was funny, honest, outgoing, bright, successful, and a great athlete. I'll always remember the talks we used to have and stories we would share about summers in Rhode Island and sailing. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. I'll think of Pete when I visit Block Island this summer and look out towards Naragansett. God Bless.
Phil
Morgana Laurent
March 12, 2002
I knew Peter for a short while when he worked at citibank. I just wanted to say that he will be greatly missed. I didnt know him that well but I will never forget his smile.
Lisa Pierce
March 12, 2002
I worked closely with Peter for three years at Citibank. I only heard about his passing a month ago when a former colleague of both of ours gave me the news. The first thing I thought about was Pete's beautiful boxer and how much he would miss his master - he really loved that dog. Then I though "dear God, I hope he went quickly and didn't suffer". Then I remembered the times both joyous and difficult that we had both experienced at Citi. I also remembered how kind he had been to me during a difficult time in my own life. I'm so sad that Peter was taken from us in such an untimely and violent fashion. I hope he is somewhere watching out for all of us. Peter I'm glad to have known you.
Tom Dignazio
January 23, 2002
I just learned of Pete's death in the U. of Delaware alumni newsletter. We had attended the same winter session in London together. When I read the news, I broke out my photos and journal from the trip. At the time, I had commented on what a fun guy he was on the trip and how remarkably decent he was (he had defended someone from a racist comment). We were not close after the trip, but I just want to say that I am yet one more person he touched in life, and my heart goes out to his friends and family.
January 19, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON PETER
CHRISTOPHER FRANK AND MAY HE REST IN
PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS.GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS ST.PETER..ST.CHRISTOPHER AND
ST FRANCIS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND
NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01...AMEN
Robin
January 16, 2002
I last saw Pete at my brother's wedding a year ago, June. My youngest brother, Jeff Vande Poele, from Newark, Delaware,was a Sigma Nu Fraternity Brother of Pete's. Pete and Karen's story was picked up by the Associated Press and their story has run in many newspapers across the country. The article includes a picture of my brother, Jeff, Pete, John Manna, John Fidicaro and Gavin Garrison,all Univ. of Delaware buddies. It also shows a picture of Karen holding a huge teddy bear and a separate picture of Pete and Karen dancing. I don't recall if I remember meeting Karen at Jeff and Kim's wedding a year ago June but I sure remember Pete.
My brother, Jeff, thought very highly of Pete and for Jeff's 30th birthday this January, Gavin Garrison gave a framed picture of the Assoc. Press photo that was taken at John Fidicaro's wedding showing all five Univ. of DE buddies
together. Gavin was to be a groomsman in Pete and Karen's wedding and this picture meant a lot to my brother, Jeff.
My deepest and heartfelt condolences go out to Karen and the Carlucci and Frank families.
Karen, the AP article said you went out with friends and danced on Pete's 30th birthday on Dec. 1st. Please "keep dancing". It's what Pete would have wanted.
Jeff Vande Poele's sister, Robin
Jerry Nappi
January 14, 2002
I worked with Pete at Bear Stearns when we where both right out of college, and I have to say he was one of the best people I've come across. We kept in touch every so often and he always cracked me up when we spoke. My condolences go out to Karen and all of Petes family.
Christian Drury
January 11, 2002
I was friends with Pete at the University of the Delaware. He was such a great guy and had many admirable qualities that I looked up to: he was funny, easy going (at times), loyal, driven, and confident. For these reasons I asked Pete to be my Big Brother in our fraternity, Sigma Nu. PF was an excellent athlete; a great quaterback and a great baketball player (though a better shooter than a passer), but most importantly, he was a great friend. I will never forget you, PF. Rest in peace.
Christian Drury
ERIK NERZIG
January 10, 2002
I MET PETE A FEW TIMES THROUGH A VERY GOOD FRIEND OF MINE WE WENT TO A MET GAME TOGETHER AND INTO THE CITY A COUPLE OF TIMES PETE WAS A VERY GOOD GUY AND HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED BY ALL OF HIS FRIENDS AND FAMILY MY CONDOLENCES GO OUT TO EVERYONE WHO WAS CLOSE TO HIM
Teresa
January 6, 2002
I feel compelled to write as I just read an AP news article in the Dallas Morning News about Karen. My heart goes out to her, Peter's friends and family. I promise that despite all the adversity that we as Americans are experiencing, I will teach each and every one of my young students that we should never forget that day. Angels like Peter gave me the strength to stand bravely in front of my classroom on September 12 to give me the courage to remain strong, and answer my innocent students' questions of "why?". That will most likely be the most difficult moment of my entire teaching career. I will do my best to teach my students to be good citizens, and to respect others.
Karen, I am so sorry- I will never forget your story. I can only hope that one day I can find the true happiness like you and Peter shared. You are in my thoughts and prayers daily. You are so blessed to have found someone so special, and to be surrounded by wonderful friends and family.
Jennifer Todd
January 6, 2002
To Peter and Karen:
I have never met either of you, but I read an article today about your story. I was deeply touched. What a tragedy. Karen, I admire your strength. May God give you his peace through this time in your life, and may you find true happiness again.
Teresa Jahn
January 1, 2002
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Musser Hall @ Ursinus College
December 5, 2001
We as the international students are terribly sorry for what happened on that day. We wish you and your family endurance, everything will be ok. This war against terror is about to be won. your soul be rest in peace.
Jason Rosenbaum
December 4, 2001
I feel lucky to have met Peter while playing basketball on our league team - Random Kaos. Peter was the best point guard I had ever played with -what an athlete! His personality seemed perfect for the position - he could shoot the lights out from outside or take it to the hole at will - but he was just as eager to get his teammates involved. He had a competitive spirit that became infectious and always gave 100% every minute of the game. He was a leader on the floor and a great person off the court.
Peter - I'm going to miss playing ball w/ you...I'm going to miss debating who had more game during warmups...I'm going to miss breaking down the games on our cab rides back to the village. Every time I step on the court - you'll be on my mind - may you rest in peace.
Dianne Purdy
December 1, 2001
I did not know Peter. It it has now been almost three months since the tragedy but the wound is still painful to me personally but I coudn't even begin to imagine how hurtful this is for you. I feel so helpless! Please accept my heartfelt love and sympathy for your family. My thoughts and prayers contintue.
Janet Butta
November 16, 2001
I only met Pete once but I work with Karen and through her, I felt like I knew him so well. Pete was clearly one of those special people. He had everything -- good looks, a great personality and wit, a sharp mind, an amazing sense of humor, and he had Karen.
Karen's daily anecdotes continually brought a smile to my face (and to hers!) and I always looked forward to hearing Pete's perspective on just about everything! I didn’t even have to know Pete to really, really like him. And I will really, really miss him. The world just won’t be the same without people like Pete, and my thoughts and prayers are with Karen, his family, and his many close friends.
Soohwan Kim
November 8, 2001
Peter and I worked together at Citibank. We worked on the same product and had offices next to each other. Peter always had a great attitude even though we went through some really tough markets and big internal changes at the bank in 1998.
Nick Grudzien
November 2, 2001
Peter,
You were that rare person who balances being the best player on the court with being the nicest off of it. You made basketball enjoyable for everyone. Thank you.
My thoughts and prayers go out to your friends and family. You will be missed. It was a joy to have known you.
Rose Cipriano
November 1, 2001
I knew Peter from my years on Citibank's trading desk. He always had a mischevious smile on his face, one that implied he was pleased with himself. You know that look.
Food was a big part of our day on the trading desk. He knew that. On occassion, I would bring in food for everyone. Something I would prepare at home. One day, it happened to be lasagne. Peter quickly found his way. He had some and said it was quite good. I said thanks. As he went for his second helping, he mentioned again, how good it was, but...Karen's was much better. "Not as gooey" were his words. Her lasagne was firm.
Where did he put it? When he couldn't be found in his office intensely working, or in the trading room intensely eating, we knew we could find him at the gym, intensely working out.
May you rest in peace. You brightened the lives of those who knew you. I promise I will work on my lasagne.
Philip Salvatore
November 1, 2001
I was fortunate to have had the opportunity to play football with Pete in high school and the priviledge to be his friend throughout elementary, middle, and high school.
Pete was a good leader on the field and as true a friend as they come off the field. Although we had lost touch after high school graduation, I've always held special memories of Pete and our friendship. Those memories are ever so more special and treasured today.
To the family and friends of Pete, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Pete is one in a million and we will all miss him. I'm thankful to have had him touch my life and he will be an inspiration to me going forward.
Phil Salvatore
GNS '89
Robin Ruffner
October 31, 2001
Dear Pete,
While we only met a few times, I feel as if I know you well from my conversations over the years with your fiance Karen. I know how happy you made her during your time together. My heart goes out to Karen and your family as I send my deepest condolences.
Chris Urciuoli
October 31, 2001
I grew up with Peter in Great Neck and we played football and baseball together. He was a leader on and off the field. We both went to the University of Delaware and Pete was my little brother in the Sigma Nu Fraternity.
He was the kind of person you would want as a friend. Sincere, honest, funny, easy going and trustworthy were just some of the many great things about PF. He will be missed dearly and I will never forget him.
My prayers and thoughts go out to all his family. Rest in peace my brother.
Urc
Nicole Vander Voort
October 31, 2001
Pete:
Unfortunately for me, I never had a chance to get to know you as well as I would have liked...I was looking forward to doing that when you married into the family. But anyone that can make my cousin as happy as you obviously did, had to have been one amazing man. And from the limited time we did spend together, I am certain I am right. My heart goes out to your family, friends and to Karen. But we are all lucky to have had you in our lives when we did.
Jay Mangan
October 31, 2001
Being the 'old codger' and head trader, I had the opportunity to interact daily with Pete. He was always cheerful and full of good humor and a good dash of mischief. I
could always count on his strong 'can/will do' attitude but most of all I could always count on his appetite! Whenever we had food in the trading room pete had the uncanny ability to 'smell' it out and get here while it was being unwrapped. I'm sure Pete had a napkin and a knife and fork with him at all times.
I'll miss that cheerfullness and great zestful attitude very much.
Jimmy Schwartz
October 30, 2001
Dear Pete,
I was fortunate to be on the receiving end of many of your passes on the basketball court. You were a terrific player and a great, genuine person off the court. I am honored to have known you. You will be missed.
Jimmy
Birgitta Stone
October 30, 2001
I knew Peter from Citibank. I worked with him for nearly three years. Peter was such a wonderful guy. He always had a smile to share or a funny joke to pass along in email.
My deepest condolences to Peter's family and fiance, Karen. He used to tell me about all of you.
He will be missed dearly.
Kindest regards,
Birgitta Stone
Random Kaos Basketball
October 29, 2001
Peter was our teammate and friend. An inspiration on and off the court. His importance can't be summarized in such a limited space. Suffice it to say, we will never be the same without him, but we will never forget him or what he has left in our hearts.
Marc Loew
October 29, 2001
I knew Peter from Citibank and he always had a smile on his face and carried a positive attitude around the office. We will all miss him. Sincere condolences to his family. Marc Loew
Mike Riordan
October 17, 2001
To Peter & Connie,
Our thoughts & prayers are with you in this great tragedy.
Mike & Mary Riordan
NA NA
October 11, 2001
Dear Pete,
I remember you from high school with a smile on your face. You were always so kind and friendly. My thoughts are with your family and loved ones. May you rest in peace eternally.
Sincerely,
A high school friend
A Friend
October 8, 2001
Dear Pete,
You were a great guy, I remember you from college. May you rest in peace.
Phyllis D'Errico
October 4, 2001
Peter,
I worked with you briefly when you worked for Citibank in Stamford, my
thoughts and prayers go out to you.
May you rest in peace.
Barbara Bolin
September 23, 2001
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU ALL.MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
PETER MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.
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