Thomas Foley

Thomas Foley

Thomas Foley Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 24, 2001.
Fame and Firefighting

Sometimes the spotlight lands on a New York City firefighter and just stays there. That's what happened to Thomas Foley, 32, a member of Rescue Company 3 in the Bronx.

Two summers ago he helped rescue construction workers dangling from a broken scaffold 12 stories above the street. "Don't worry," he told one of them. "You'll be going home to your family tonight." He got plenty of TV time for that, which blossomed into bit parts in "Third Watch" and "The Sopranos." Then he posed shirtless for People magazine's list of 100 most eligible bachelors last year.

"It was one of the most popular photos in that issue," said Carol Wallace, People's managing editor.

Mr. Foley, who lived in Nyack, N.Y., started out shy, said Joanne Foley Gross, his sister. But as an adult, he pursued interests like bull riding and hunting and turned his German shorthaired pointer, Maggie, into a field-trial champion. He was "always the life of the party," said Danny Foley, his brother and a firefighter with Engine Company 68.

When it came to firefighting, "he said it was the best job in the world and he would never give it up, ever," remembered a cousin, Christina Cimmino. "No matter how famous he got."
Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on December 7, 2001.


A decorated New York City firefighter who a year ago rescued two construction workers dangling from the outside of a building, Thomas Foley was among the first rescue workers to arrive at the World Trade Center.

Foley, 32, was among the most notable firefighters in New York. Last year, he was listed as among the nation's 100 most eligible bachelors by People magazine. He also recently had a bit part on "The Sopranos,' scheduled to be shown next year.

"He never wanted to be anything else other than a fireman," said Serena Cantor, a former New Yorker who met Foley when he was a boy. "He became a volunteer fireman at the age of 18."

Upon reaching one of the two men whose scaffolding collapsed last year, Foley told People magazine: "I told him don't worry. You're going home to your family tonight."

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September 14, 2021

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September 13, 2021

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Judith Cherbonneau

September 14, 2021

Rest in peace, Thomas and may you continue to guide your family from above.

Dawn mccutchan

September 14, 2021

Remembering you on this the 20th anniversary that you gave your life so that others may live. You made the ultimate sacrifice that horrific day. You will be remembered fondly. Rest easy Tommy .

Cindy Roe

September 13, 2021

Remembering Thomas on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...

D Mccutchan

September 11, 2018

Remembering your sacrifice. ..

Judy Cherbonneau

September 11, 2018

Continue to rest in peace, Tommy and may you and God watch over your family and friends. Never forgotten.

Michael

September 11, 2018

True heros never die

Tricia

September 10, 2018

I miss you

Pattee Williams

September 12, 2016

On this somber anniversary, I am thinking of you and your entire family!! God hold you all!!

Becki

September 11, 2016

Never forgotten

Dawn Mccutchan

September 11, 2016

Never forgotten, rest in peace Tommy.

Mel

September 11, 2016

Thinking of you and your family today. Hard to believe it has been 15 years. But I know you and your mom were there to greet your dad.

Judith Cherbonneau

September 9, 2016

Continue to rest in peace, Tommy. You and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers.

Brigid Brown

September 15, 2015

Dawn mccutchan

September 12, 2015

Rest in eternal peace Tommy

Judy Cherbonneau

September 11, 2015

On this somber anniversary, I wanted to express my deepest sorrow that your life, on earth, ended 14 years ago. Only you and God know how many lives you saved, that day and sacrificed your own. Rest in peace, hero.

Becki Smith

September 12, 2014

A hero to many thank you for your courage and your selfless RIP

morne mahon

September 12, 2014

I dream of becomming a fire fighter in south africa thomas is a hero today and he is a reason for my motivation to be a fire fighter

September 11, 2014

Thank you for your service, your courage, dedication and honor to protecting others. May God bless your family with peace. We will never forget. Rest in peace eternal

L. Branin (nee Ocasal)

September 11, 2014

To the Foley family and all of Tommy's friends, you're in my thoughts today. Please know 'we will never forget'.

Melissa

September 11, 2014

Tommy you are so missed. I think about you often. Praying for the family today and always. We will never forget.

September 11, 2014

your name we will never forget Karen and Ian Oxford UK x

D McCutchan

September 10, 2014

Gone but not forgotten

Mary Shay

September 9, 2014

We will NEVER forget...God bless you...

Judith Cherbonneau

September 7, 2014

I have always wondered why the darkness of night is my favorite time of all. That's because I know all the Angels in Heaven are holding their stars for us to see and God leads you on your way, with the help of the brilliant full moon. Rest in peace, Angel Foley and may God continue to comfort your family.

Judy

January 20, 2014

Happy Birthday, Tommy! Hope your celebration in Heaven is wonderful! God bless your family and friends. You are not forgotten!

Karen and Ian

January 19, 2014

Just returned from New York to oxford uk, touched Tommy's name on the bronze plaque, and remembered his birthday as it was the same as my fathers also named Tommy always carry his prayer card since given to me by his Mum on our last trip when she was the tour guide, will always remember him best wishes to all the famil

M

January 18, 2014

Happy birthday Tommy. Thought of you and your family a lot today.

November 25, 2013

We are all so Thankful, to you, your Family...Happy Thanksgiving. Thank you.
Love,
The Brown Family.

G Bryan

November 22, 2013

Thank you for lending me your strength and courage today.

Faith tobin

October 18, 2013

Dear Heather Strachan hello there my name is Faith tobin and my condolences's for the loss of your'e hubby.he'll surely be missed very very much.luv,Faith

D McCutchan

September 12, 2013

RIP Tommy, your sacrifice will never be forgotten

Melissa

September 11, 2013

Tommy you are missed and loved by so many. You will NEVER be forgotten. Wish I could see that beautiful face. My youngest girl is wearing your shirt today.

September 11, 2013

You will never be forgotten, till we meet again. God Bless

March 14, 2013

I meant Michele...sorry!

March 14, 2013

There are no co-incidences in life, Michael! God bless you and thank you for remembering Tommy Foley.

Michele Brenner

March 13, 2013

I never met you in person, but my company gave us each a name to learn about in honor of September 11's anniversary one year, and I got your name. I was fortunate enough to be at the World Trade Center Site yesterday while on vacation. I wanted to look for your name and was ready to go find out where you were located at the memorial. However, as I started to walk away, I looked down and your name was right in front of me. How amazing was that? Thank you for guiding my family to your name! Thanks for all you did for our country and I hope you are having a blast in heaven! RIP

J Cherbonneau

January 19, 2013

Happy Birthday in Heaven, Tommy!

Melissa

January 18, 2013

Happy birthday Tommy!

January 18, 2013

Happy Birthday!

December 27, 2012

Memories are awesome I hope to meet up again one day! Love you!

Harry Thompson

September 23, 2012

Tommy, your dear mother sent me a DVD created and produced by your sister in tribute to your honor entitled: " Legacy of a Young Hero" for which I am eternally grateful. I will treasure it always. You see God face to face. Keep me in your prayers there as I keep you in my prayers here.

September 11, 2012

Tommy I miss you and think about you all the time especially today. RIP Love ya Aunt Maureen

becki smith

September 11, 2012

Tom iv heard of the things you've done and everyone speaks highly off you. Just watched 9\11 firemans story and everyone their said how brave and full off life you were I wish I had the chance to know you rip thomas your a genuine hero . I bet your up in heaven now doing what you love to do firefighting :) xx

Michele Brenner

September 11, 2012

Thinking of you and your bravery that day. RIP...we have never met, but I look forward to meeting you in Heaven.

September 11, 2012

My Angel watches over your picture. Thinking of you today and always, God Bless You. Till we meet again.

Melissa

September 11, 2012

Tommy, you will be forever missed. I will never forget you. I think of you always. You are my hero.

Dawn

September 10, 2012

Remembering the sacrifice you made to save others, we can never repay you,but to honor your memory forever. RIP Tommy

O'Sullivan

September 9, 2012

God Bless you Tomas

Judy Cherbonneau

September 7, 2012

Rest in peace, Tommy. You were a hero in life, in death and now in Heaven. You will never be forgotten!

Nina

August 27, 2012

R.I.P You give the most waluable for another people! The whole world remember you all.

Nina

August 27, 2012

R.I.P All world folloved your fight by the news.

J

July 2, 2012

Still thinking of you EVERY day. One day we will meet:)

courtnie green

January 19, 2012

A hero is somebody who is selfless, who is generous in spirit, who just tries to give back as much as possible and help people. A hero to me is someone who saves people and who really deeply cares.
Debi Mazar

Courtnie Green

January 19, 2012

I noticed others had posted that it was your Birthday,so I may be late but Happy Birthday.Even though I never knew you've touched me in such an amazing way and your always on my mind.Hopefully when I get to heaven I can finally meet you.

M

January 18, 2012

Happy Birthday Tommy

January 18, 2012

Happy 43rd Birthday Tommy!
The Archacki Family, Connecticut

Mary

September 19, 2011

I saw the film of you that your sister created...what a beautiful and loving tribute. I wish I had the honor of meeting you, God bless your family and I hope God keeps them in the palm of His hands.

Teresa Kotarsky

September 12, 2011

As one family member said, "Ten is just a number." Someday I'll get that dance, cowboy! Save one for me!

Rob "Bobby" DiPadova

September 11, 2011

I was living in Chicago when I got the phone call from my brother telling me you had died. I remembered all of the good times from playing football at CSHSS to coming home for a visit and see one of Peoples most eligible bachelors. Having you shout out "Yo its Bobby D from down the street" will forever live in my mind. God bless and keep you always.

Marianne Clancy

September 11, 2011

Remembering you and your family on this, the 10-year anniversary of 9-11. Your heroic acts that day will never be forgotten. It was a blessing to know you. Continue to watch over us all, as I know you do. There is a true void in this world without you, though your bright, happy life shines on for all to see through the documentary your sister created about you. Rest in Peace, my friend.

September 10, 2011

Remembering you today

Dawn McCutchan

September 10, 2011

Tom
10 years is a long time yet it seems like yesterday that our world changed and God called you to be one of his new angels. May you be a peace as you are not forgotten for you left your foot print on our hearts forever. Hoping Maggie your beloved shorthair is by your side and running the heavenly fields together as you did with her here.We have fond memories of our field trial days when you and Maggie kept winning the blue! Be at peace my friend

Susan R

September 8, 2011

Tommy,
It has been 10 years and I have not forgotten you. I hold your birthday sunset near me each day and remember you. "One Small Star" is printed on it. I have never seen anything more beautiful on the Wasatch Mountains or the Great Salt Lake. Each sunset has its beauty but that day was breathtaking. I shared that sunset with your family and hope all is well with them...and those you love. I will never forget. Love to you and your family!!!!

Lori

September 8, 2011

May angels walk with you today and always. You have a special place in my heart and you will never be forgotten.

Courtnie

September 8, 2011

God bless you in Heaven Tommy.

Judy

September 4, 2011

In loving memory. You will always be remembered and never forgotten.

May 3, 2011

We finally got him, rest in peace Tom.

Virginia and Joe Sigillo
Sun Lakes, Arizona

Brigid Brown

May 3, 2011

We got him...we will NEVER FORGET.

Teresa

May 2, 2011

All I can think of is you today, Tommy.

james pagan

March 7, 2011

my prayers and thoughts are with you always

The Glass Family

January 18, 2011

There's a great party in Heaven today! We're celebrating down here, too. Happy Birthday, Tommy! We love and miss you.

Judy

December 24, 2010

Wishing you a blessed Merry Christmas in Heaven.

The G's

September 16, 2010

Thomas, you're forever in our hearts and in our prayers. May God bless your family and friends with His peace.

Joseph Sigillo

September 13, 2010

We remember Tom and your family, our prayers are with you all. I have more pictures of the flag memorial for you.

Joe Sigillo - Arizona

Flag of Heroes Memorial - Honoring Thomas Folley

Joseph Sigillo

September 13, 2010

Gwynn

September 11, 2010

Remembering. Thinking of your family, friends and all who love & miss you.

Mike & Karen Robinson

September 11, 2010

We will always remember!

Teresa

September 11, 2010

Still miss you being in the world Tommy. You live on in our hearts, until we meet again.

Jennifer

September 10, 2010

We will NEVER forget!

Brigid Brown

September 10, 2010

We miss you..FOREVER in our hearts.

Brigid Brown

September 10, 2010

You're FOREVER in our hearts..Thank You.

September 10, 2010

You are in our thoughts and prayers and will never be forgotten. Till we meet again.

Judy

September 6, 2010

Tommy,

You will forever be in my thoughts and prayers as well as your beloved family.
God bless you, Tommy.

Brigid Brown

January 19, 2010

Happy Birthday Tommy!!
This is a good day!
I always manage a smile thanks to you!
Miss You!!
~the Browns~

Lindsay Glass

January 18, 2010

Happy birthday, Tommy. We were hoping our little one would arrive today, but it looks like it's going to hang on for a little longer. We miss you always and very much today.

January 18, 2010

Happy Birthday in Heaven Tommy. You are missed today and everyday.

Love,
L

Brigid Brown

November 7, 2009

Today Tommy we all Honor you again with the commisioning of the U.S.S. New York!! Now all of these soldiers now and in the future will board this ship knowing that the hull that leads that ship and them to battle or hopefully in peaceful times, has you and all of us with them, heart and soul. May the message that ship brings to the crew & those who challenge it ring in their hearts FOREVER!! I miss you!
OOXX!!
~Brigid~

Cindy Phillips

November 6, 2009

Dearest Tommy,
You are so loved and so missed! We are fast approaching your next event! I am excited to celebrate your life and legacy with your loved ones!!! Thank you for leaving your legacy so that I can apply your zest to life to mine in your honor!
We are having your yearly scholarship fundraising event at the Lexington Grille & Pub, 325 Route 304, in Bardonia, November 21, 2009 so if anyone visits this site, please join us there!
Love, Peace and Respect,
Cindy Phillips

Jeff Herrington

October 31, 2009

Tommy, with tomorrow being All Saints Day, of course our thoughts are with you. Would to have loved to have gotten to know you however when my son Tommy has a wild streak, I know it comes from somewhere. God Bless, Cowboy.

September 12, 2009

YOU ARE MISSED

Teresa

September 11, 2009

Thinking of you today and always.

Love,

deirdre

September 11, 2009

8 years , time flies,,,,,and stands still at the same time .......
God Blessed us by having Tommy in our lives in any way

Brigid Brown

September 11, 2009

Tommy,
Today is a day that rings somber for so many. It never gets easier..so I am letting you and your loved ones know how missed and loved you are..now and forever. Thank You for your sacrifice.
You are our hero. Ride 'em Cowboy! OOXX.
~The Brown Family~

J Cherbonneau

September 11, 2009

Never forgotten. Rest in peace.

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