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Sherri Partridge, a native New Yorker, had been searching for the right man for years, and at 39, she found Evan Hunter Gillette.
They met on the Internet. "We just really hit it off," recalled Ms. Partridge, a publicist working downtown. Mr. Gillette, 40, was a vice president at Sandler O'Neill & Partners.
After a few dates last year, the two moved in together and spent weekends in Canada, Vermont, Washington and Monticello, Va. "We did a lot of bed and breakfast," she said. "We walked hand in hand, lay on the grass and took it all in."
A wedding was in the offing. The couple roamed the streets of Manhattan, looking for the right rings and talking about babies. "We were very, very happy," she said.
Before the attack, Ms. Partridge says, she had a dim prescience of what was to come. "Sometimes, I woke up in the middle of the night and had this gripping fear that he might die," she said. "I would tell him, please don't die, please don't die. And he would tell me, 'I'll never leave you.'"
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Alex Gillette
September 12, 2024
I didn’t know you, we’d never met and we weren’t related. I was only ten years old on that tragic day - but we share a last name. So I guess I just came here to say that we’ll never forget Evan and all those we lost that day, and may Evan’s memory continue to be a blessing to all who knew and loved him.
Jacquelyn Quesnel-Fisher
September 12, 2023
Evan remebering your kindness and wisdom. Our Nonnewaug connection began with the high school reunion committee,(class of 1979), and our time spent together echoes in my mind. We asked you( the committee) about the first bombing at the WTC and you said, we were fine, the day was intense but the Towers could not have been damaged by those bombs and could not collapse. It would be impossible to destroy them....we were glad you were safe. After your death, at the reunions we made a memorial for you. In time, I visited your mom with a colleague because we brought her an American flag that was flown on a mission in the military in your honor, (son was a captain in the Military). Story goes, I ask my colleague to give her son the pewter American flag pin to wear that your mom had distributed for mourners on your funeral day. I asked my colleague to have her son wear the pin on his uniform in your honor. He went to war to fight because of 911 attacks. He explained military is not allowed to wear pins on the uniforms, so, in your honor, they completed a mission, "Evan Gillette mission". In your honor and to defend our country and they flew a flag for you. They fought specifically on this mission, in your memory. Often, I try to imagine the agony and angst that you went through on this day but I cannot imagine being witness to this unfathomable attack. My mind brought only nightmares about this day. My visit with your mom in Woodbury to present her with the American flag flown during the militaries mission was a powerful moment in time. She was honored by this beautiful gesture, and she shared your last words to her were not to worry and that you loved her, (because the plane hit the other tower)...no words only tears. Anyways, we all remember you and will never ever forget the tragedy of 911. May you Rest In Peace our Nonnewaug genius, and dear friend. The world was a better place to have your grace in its existence.
So, today I remember again your life.
Bruce Bakke
September 14, 2021
I remember Evans love for finding local beers to bring back home with him. He loved local breweries and one time in Milwaukee he found too many to bring home and I believe he ended up shipping some of them. Evan was fun to have a beer with, here's to you Evan.
Bruce Bakke
September 14, 2021
Evan and I worked together at NCUA for several years. I remember Evans love for local beers. He would by six packs of local beers and always bring one back home with him. He had a blast one time in Milwaukee,WI with all of the local breweries in the city of beer. He was a fun guy to drink a beer with. Here's to you Evan.
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Sherri Partridge Oustalet
September 11, 2021
❤❤
Jim Hayes
September 11, 2021
Evan, can’t believe it was 20 years ago today. Miss you buddy. Never forget!!
Donna Gerl whitlock
September 12, 2019
We all miss you .
Steve Austin
September 11, 2019
Evan, my friend, think of you often, but, of course, especially today. Rest in peace.
Kevin Bragdon
September 10, 2016
I left a message years ago but I don't see it, I guess it is a good time to update anyway.
I knew you from UMO. Only had one semester with as you transferred to UConn. You were smart and well read and politically astute and I liked you a lot and always thought we would get together sometime. We did a few crazy things as youth do but it was your serious side that I liked most. I think of you more often than you might think. For one thing My neighbors named their child Evan a few weeks after 9-11. Providence I guess. Anyway you are not forgotten and I bet you touched a lot more lives than you knew in your too short life. You are fondly remembered. Kevin Bragdon
James Logan
September 9, 2016
Dear Evan:
This summer (2016) I came back to Woodbury for one day and visited some locations that brought back memories of you and happier times. Nonnewaug High School that we both attended, the North Congregational Church where we spent many Tuesday evenings together as Boy Scouts and the Woodbury Farm Market where we worked and laughed together for one year. I will never forget the intelligent, articulate young man so full of hope for the future that I had the pleasure and honor of working with and calling my friend.
nancy cacy
September 11, 2013
still remember you as the younger brother to my friend earl. you are missed
Ariana Mucci
September 11, 2013
Dear Evan,
I barely knew you, but I am one of your cousins. My mom, your cousin Claudia, misses you so much, and mentions when you were kids and you two would play together. I hope you're at peace now, and whenever I see a bald eagle, I know it's you watching over us. I love you.
Alan Zinser
September 11, 2013
The Zinsers of Woodbury and NYC remain devastated by this terrible loss of such a great kid and such a fine man.
Sherri (Partridge) Oustalet
September 11, 2013
xo
Steve Austin
September 11, 2013
Evan, you made your mark on so many people. Thinking of our friendship especially this day.
Donna Gerl Whitlock
September 11, 2013
Evan,
Remember because memories never fade, & friendships never end. You are loved & thought of everyday <3
Sherri (Partridge) Oustalet
November 15, 2012
Dear Evan,
My final words on these Tribute pages. I know you are with me always, and you are a part of me and my life journey always. I send my love across time and space. Thank you for gifting me with the opportunity to make peace with deep loss. xoxoxo Love, Sherri
Julia Weinbrecht
September 11, 2012
Hi Evan, It was been yet another year of your passing. I had only found out a year ago that I had a 4th cousin who passed away in the World Trade Center on 9/11. Even though I never knew you I'm sorry you had to pass away this way like other Americans on that tragic day. I miss you.
- Julia Weinbrecht
Granddaughter of Nicoletta Criscuolo
Dawn Keating-Lawlor
September 11, 2012
Thinking and praying for you and your family.
Sherri (Partridge) Oustalet
September 11, 2012
Hi Evan,
I'm thinking of you and feeling you. I'm sending love out into the universe to you. Your sweetness,kindness, and love is etched in my memory. xo Love, Sherri
Lisa Terrell
September 11, 2012
Hi Evan, thinking of your sweet soul today and praying for your family and all who loved and miss you here. See you when I get to the other side, friend.
Kevin Bragdon
April 2, 2012
I knew Evan from his second semester at the University of Maine. He was a nice and interesting guy and we had some great times. Evan made a lasting impression on me and I had always hoped we might cross paths again. My neighbors named their son Evan just a couple of months after 9-11 and so I have a frequent reminder of Evan. :-) Kevin Bragdon
September 11, 2011
I still remember that day as if it were yesterday, You have stayed in my heart all this time, I know it was an angel that helped you on your journey, I saw it happen . It will live with me always.
Lisa
Blane McMichen
September 11, 2011
Ten years seems like a long time...but then it doesn't. We are not here for a long time, but we have a choice to do good with our lives. I am certain that you did many good things with yours, since we graduated and went our separate ways. I'm sad that we will not have the pportunity to reconnect in this life. I know what the future holds and the source of hope is in Christ. To be absent form the body is to be present with the Lord.
Maureen Testa
September 11, 2011
I worked with Evan for a short time in Waterbury and have thought of him often in these last 10 years. His quiet manner was something that I have always remembered about him. I pray that he is at peace and pray for comfort to his family and friends.
Tom Warner
September 11, 2011
RIP my friend!
Julia Weinbrecht
September 11, 2011
Dear my 4th cousin Evan,
Even though we've never met you will always be in my heart for eternity. I've already decorated a shirt in your honor. I've heard many great things about you and I believe all of them. When the sun sets on my time here I can't wait to meet you.
Love your cousin, Julia Nicole Weinbrecht 11 yrs.old, grandaughter of Nicoletta Criscuolo
Nicoletta Criscuolo-Stone
September 11, 2011
Evan,although we have never met, you are in my heart and the heart,thoughts and prayers of my family. One day we shall meet,talk and share all that we both know.
With love, your second cousin, Nikki.
September 11, 2011
Dear Evan,
I'm loving you and thank you always for your shining light and sweetness. I know you watch over me. I still feel you in the wind and in other moments. Thank you for opening meaningful, rich doors. Me, my family, friends, and all whose lives were touched by you think of you with love, warmth, and gratitude. It's the 10th anniversary today - it's truly hard to believe it's been 10 years. The feelings of 9/11 are tangible, accessible, and integrated in the fabric of my being and cells. And all is well. xoxo
Love, Sherri
Emmalisa Kaminski
September 11, 2011
Hi Mr.Evan,
I never knew you but my daddy knows your family. I am very sad that that happened to you and I want to let your family know that I am praying for them. God Bless you
Emmalisa Kaminski 11 years old
Kelly Slater McKenna
September 11, 2011
I think of you so often, Evan. You were a good friend to me. I miss your phone calls, your visits , your dry sense of humor and so many other things that have been absent for the last 10 years. It's still hard to believe that one group of people had so much hate they extinguished the lives of so many others who didn't. I miss you my friend. Love, Kelly
Lisa Terrell
September 10, 2011
Evan I'm thinking of you today, as I often do. I will never forget how happy and proud you were the last time I saw you. I am proud to have known in this life and hope to see you again.
Venise Foster
September 10, 2011
I work at Wills Point Texas Middle School. Our high school students had wrist bands with names and pictures of the victims of 9-11 put on each one. Evan's is the one I am wearing. I am praying for his family, friends, and coworkers as I remember him on 9-11. My heart breaks for you all.
Pattie
September 10, 2011
Evan, a sweet young man forever.
Ingrid Boedecker
September 10, 2011
What a shock to discover tonight, on the eve of the 10th anniversary, that you perished on 9/11. Until now, I wasn't aware of personally knowing anyone lost on that fateful day, although I have long regarded every single casualty as part of our all-encompassing American family.
Evan, I remember you so clearly from my teaching years at Nonnewaug HS. From the entries I have just read, I can tell you continued to grow in compassion, integrity and community service, an upright citizen in adulthood as in youth. I thank God for the privilege of knowing you. I honor your life and send a special blessing to your mother.
Harry Eyre
September 10, 2011
We only met once when we were kids at your Aunt Midge and Uncle Art's home in a backyard picnic back in the early '60s in Woodbury, CT. How life passes us by. I don't know what to say this 10 years later but you are missed by so many.
Elizabeth Broome
September 9, 2011
I never knew you but just wanted to let you knowI was thinking of you and all the ones that died that day.
Carmen Givens
September 9, 2011
Although I did not know you in life, when I asked for someone to honor on Facebook for the the 9/11 Anniversary, you were selected for me. I have read things by your friends, family and other loved ones. I pray you are resting peace with those who left so suddenly. I hope to meet you one day down by the river of life.. Until then..
Carmen Givens
Scott Gibson
September 7, 2011
To you Evan. Many people will never the person the world has lost. Through school and scouting we knew each other and remained friends after. I remember you on many more days than just those surrounding 9/11. I tell my daughters about you and all those who were killed on that day and remind them that life is fragile. All those who knew you miss you. God bless.
Benjamin O'Neil
September 7, 2011
Though I never knew you, as we approach the 10th anniversary of that horrible day I think of you and all the innocent people who were harmed, and the families and friends who lost loved ones that day. I want you to know that it is for you all that I fight now in Afghanistan so that no one else ever has to go through what happened that day. God bless you.
Andrew Heavens
September 7, 2011
Evan,
Although we never met, I've know your family for a long time. As the anniversary of the tragedy of 9/11/01 draws near, know that you are being thought of and remembered.
Julie Boyd
August 21, 2011
I signed your name today to artwork painted by Leoma Lovegrove in Sanibel, FL
Julie Boyd
August 21, 2011
Julie Boyd
August 21, 2011
Maggie Gillette
June 12, 2011
I hope your in heaven having a wonderful time with grandpa. I miss you both a lot, but I know someday I will see you again. I love you guys.
Dawn Lawlor (Keating)
April 6, 2011
Evan, I saw that your dad died, my heart is so heavy. may god bless both of you in heaven as you reunite. god bless your family as they now morn you both.
James logan
September 12, 2010
9-12-10
Thought of you many times yesterday. I will always remember the cheerful Scout who helped me to run Troop 54 in Woodbury, CT and who made it so enjoyable to work together at the Woodbury Farm Market those many afternoons and evenings after we got out of high school each day. Just the other day I ran across some of your letters to me when I was Freshman at Purdue University and it was like a gift from heaven to read your words. I only wish I could have met with you again as an adult. You were a great support to me in High School and I am so proud of all that you accomplished in your short life.
Your old buddy from Nonnewaug High,
James C. Logan
September 11, 2010
I never knew you - but I am thinking of you and your today - September 11, 2010.
Southbury, CT
Sherri Oustalet (formerly Partridge)
September 11, 2010
Loving you, Evan. Thinking of you. Your love, spirit, and guidance are with me. All is well, these nine years later. I am happy. Last year, my partner and I of almost 5 years married - he's a really loving, good man. You would like him.
I saw your photo as names were read at Ground Zero today - the one I took of you on our trip to Cape Breton and Prince Edward Island days before 9/11. It shows your warmth and kind spirit. I know you look out for me... Thank you for your gifts and for the time we had together - now and always. xx
Love,
Sherri
bill havrda
September 10, 2010
always thinking of you
sal maz
May 12, 2010
i was there on 9-11 and assisted with the recovery of evan. I think about him often even though i never met him.
in memory, god bless
sal m
Sherri Partridge
September 13, 2009
Sending love to you Evan. Thank you for your love, support, and guidance through the veils of time and space.
September 11, 2009
Thinking of you today Evan.
Elisa McPhee
September 11, 2009
Missing and thinking of you today and always.
Valerie Kifer
September 10, 2009
Gone but never forgotten ;; family is forever. RIP
Sherri Partridge
September 15, 2008
My Love & Gratitude always
xoxo
~S
Valerie Kifer
September 11, 2008
Evan is actually a family member of mine who I have never been able to meet. That chance was taken away 7 years ago today. May God rest his soul. R.I.P <3
Lynda
September 11, 2008
I knew Evan when I worked in Waterbury and he was always the kindest person. We often had lunch together at The Tea Room. I think about him often and every year around this time I am remembered that a sweet man was taken way too soon. God bless you Evan.
Holly Gillette
September 14, 2007
I don't really know who you are, but I came across you in the victims list. You have the same last name as me, and I have some family I don't know about, and I am praying for you and your family.
Sherri Partridge
September 11, 2007
Dearest Evan,
Thinking of you & Loving you. I am happy. Thank you. Thank you for watching over me.
Love,
Sherri xx
Florence Bernardy
May 6, 2007
Forget me not , for I love you and you love me.
I am sure Evan was thinking this.
Kristine
October 26, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
October 20, 2006
In memory....
Sherri Partridge
September 13, 2006
Dearest Evan,
I love you from here to the ethers...thank you, always for your divine love & support. I am in a good place now. It took awhile, but I'm happy now. I know you've been a big part of guiding me & gifting me. Kisses & Love,
Sherri xoxoxoxo
Sherri Partridge
September 11, 2005
Dearest Evan,
I'm loving you and thinking about you...you were and are a gift. I miss your sweet loving kindness. Thank you, thank you, thank you for our brief time together on this earth and for your continued support realms apart.
Love always, Sherri xoxo
John S
September 11, 2003
I din't know Evan, but he must have been a great guy.
Lisa Cesare
September 11, 2003
Evan,
I remember you from Woodbury Middle School and my mom, Loretta, and your mom worked together at Voices for many years. Your family and my family are parishioners at St. Teresa's. I work near the site and tell you that the hole in the ground is being observed as a place of memory, especially today.
Lisa Cesare
David Isham
September 11, 2002
Dear Evan,
This morning at Qualcomm Stadium in San Diego, California I read your name age and where you passed. I rang the San Diego Liberty Bell and will be wearing your name all day today in your Honor. Your name and story will live on in my heart and memories every time a bell is tolled. Thank you for being the wonderful person you are. God Speed.
Marlene Warren
September 10, 2002
Evan,
You are missed by people like me and John that knew you as a friend, but did not talk to you as often as we would have liked. Each morning when I drive to work and go by Total Estates, I wonder how Sherri, your parents and the rest of your family can even begin to understand and cope with why such a gentle soul was taken from this earth. You are thought of often. We are both glad that we had the opportunity to catch up with you in DC and that you were able to join us celebrating several holidays. Rest in peace.
lisa nardello
September 5, 2002
My name is Lisa and I am a registered nurse in new york city.
On september 11th,I arrived at ground zero at about 2pm to see if I could help. I stayed for the next 5 days. I was assigned to the temporary morgue to help identify the victims. It was extremeley difficult but I truly wanted to help.i was there when Evan was brought in.There where many victims there that day but something about Evan has remained with me. touched me in a very special way. I am not very religous, but at the exact time we were identifying Evan I became very overwhelmed. I looked up from the task at hand and standing near me was a priest, I asked him if he could bless Evan, and he replied that he had already done so.When I looked up again the priest was gone.It was as if an angel had appeared to help Evan with his journey. When I finally came home I thought of him often.I even tried to contaact the family, but did not know what I could possibly say to them to ease their grief. I did not know Evan in life, but I did have the privledge of being there in death. I want all those who loved him to know that he was treated with dignity and respect. In the midst of the horrible chaos of those days, someone took extra care of him.I hope this in someway brings you comfort. His memory stays with me.There were many victims that I saw in the days following, and most of it is a blur now, but Evan became someone special to me.
Nichole (Tremblay)McPhee
August 12, 2002
Evan, Thank you for the balance you brought to this family, ice cream sundaes in "Mayberry", trips to the NGA, and for being a sensitive listener. You are missed greatly. I know that God has taken you away from us so soon for a good reason even if we all simply do not understand it right now. We miss you!
Love your baby cousin, Nichole
Angie Campbell
April 26, 2002
May God Bless you and watch over the ones that you left behind on 9/11/01. Rest in his loving peace.
Nadine Bailey
March 12, 2002
I ordered a mercy braclet from the Billy Graham Ministry. The name is Evan Gillette.
I wear it in memory of his family and friends. It is a reminder to me to pray for each of you as I pray for our Country and our leaders.
I am 61 years old and my husband, Leon, is 63. We both retired from education. I taught and Leon was an administrator of schools. He didn't stay retired and is in financial services business. I just retired in July, 2001.
This sterling silver wristband is specially engraved with Evan's name on it.
We are praying for you and the ongoing efforts of Operation Enduring Freedom.
In Christ's Love and Ours, Nadine
Chris McGinn
January 28, 2002
Sending my Love & Respect to a great soul who was taken from Sherri & everyone much soon than our hearts could bare.... May this Angel with the name Evan help heal our hearts!
January 26, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS
BEAUTIFUL YOUNG MAN EVAN HUNTER GILLETTE AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD
BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND THE GOOD PEOPLE FROM NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01...AMEN
Marilyn K
January 15, 2002
I joined a group called Mercy Band.
I now wear a band that has Evan's name and the letters WTC on it.
I am please to know the info that this site has offered. I will be praying for him and you. You are loved.
Teresa Jahn
December 30, 2001
We are very sorry for your loss of Evan. May his warmth, his life and love continue living in all who love him. May you always feel the warmth of his love radiate into your hearts. Our hearts cry with you in your loss of Evan.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Sara Clarkson-Howson
November 6, 2001
Evan was a "good guy" and I remember him fondly from my high school days in Woodbury. May he rest in peace and those who love him find comfort and solace some day. It is too soon now to know why he is gone.
With Sympathy, Sara Clarkson Howson, formerly of Woodbury
Blane McMichen
September 26, 2001
James 4:13-14 [NLT]
Look here, you people who say, "Today or tomorrow we are going to a certain town and will stay there a year. We will do business there and make a profit." How do you know what will happen tomorrow? For your life is like the morning fog--it's here a little while, then it's gone.
Evan was my first true friend when I moved to Woodbury. I regret that we drifted apart over the years, and still I feel a deep loss. My heart is breaking for your parents, Earl and Sherri. Life is far too short -- my prayers are with you.
Laura Ambrozy
September 25, 2001
Sherri loved you with all her heart - for there you will always remain.
God Bless you both!
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