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Christi
January 5, 2025
Melissa was a friend from Junior League. My daughter is in NYC visiting the memorial today and sent me photos of the notes and images that are there of Melissa. She´s a beautiful person inside and out.
Amanda Bailley Deforno
September 26, 2024
What irony only in New York one day only to die from a plane crashing into the building your in. This is confirmation when its your time to die, nothing can stop it. Melissa seemed so accomplished and beautiful but most of all she had an incredible father who tried everything to help her live. Hope Melissa knew Jesus and is in heaven today. Rest in peace my friend.
Crystal
September 12, 2024
Praying for your dear family today Melissa. Time marches on but you are never forgotten. Sending love.
Krista Miller
September 11, 2024
Melissa, was at St. Marys when I knew her, She was always a beautiful, sweet girl from an incredible family, I will never forget her and all the othe angels that suffered on this day, God Bless Melissa, u are an angel no doubt, Love Krista
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Kary Miller
September 11, 2024
I think of you always and your family too. All these years later and it’s like it just happened. Bless you all. Kary Miller, Dexter, Michigan
Jason Johnstone
July 12, 2024
Just an amazing lady who lived life and then some.
I hope the Harringtons and Hughes families can live in peace and harmony.
Jan Hughes
March 14, 2024
Time has moved on, but you are never forgotten and an angel over all of us, watching down. God bless you Melissa xo
Aaron Henfling
March 13, 2024
I don't know Melissa but I'm very sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the immense pain you're in even almost 23 years later. My deepest condolences.
Trinity Francis
September 17, 2023
Thinking of your family and their tremendous loss , you´ll be remembered always Melissa .
Richard Hutchison, Jr.
September 12, 2023
God bless you and your family. WE WILL NEVER FORGET!
Kathleen
September 12, 2023
I´m just a stranger but I will never forget your story. I learned a bit about it when watching Sean on Today show. Your phone message to Sean was heartbreaking. Out of the many, your name/beauty has never been forgotten, by me ~ you left a mark with what you had already accomplished yet still had so much more left to do. Hard to believe 22 years has gone by.
Jocelyn
September 11, 2023
Melissa, you are a huge inspiration to me. I have a very similar story to yours: I’m a girl in her 30s, working in tech, and live in the Bay Area. I always think of you during this time and hope your husband and family are doing well. Prayers always!
Kary Miller
September 11, 2023
Can´t believe so much time has gone by and yet I will never forget. An angel you are. Kary Miller, Dexter,Michigan
Ellyn
September 11, 2023
I just heard your message to your husband and was moved. Rest in peace to you and every victim of 9/11.
Isabel Rosemary Rodriguez
September 11, 2023
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Rob Mastenbroek from the Netherlands
September 11, 2023
At this moment watching the docu " one day in America. You could hear het telephone call in that docu. After that I searched her name on google and saw het pics together with her husband. Now you have a face included with that phone call. Terrible, what a day, complete useless. So many lives spilt in a couple of hours.
NEVER FORGET.
And may Melissa and all the other victims rest in peace.
Louise
September 11, 2023
As long as I live I will never forget
Jan Hughes
September 9, 2023
So much time has gone by and never forgotten. An angel up above now watching down over everyone.
Jan Hughes
Ben
September 5, 2023
In heaven.
louise
September 13, 2022
Melissa, you will never be forgotten. I spoke to your dad a number of times a long time ago, and I told him, I will never forget you. Heaven, got an angel
Diane
September 11, 2022
Thinking of you today Melissa. Rest in peace.
Kary Miller
September 11, 2022
Another year has gone by and I will never forget. Always in my heart. Thinking of your whole family and all the families and victims of 9/11. I will never forget your call to Sean.....hope you are at peace Sean. We exchanged emails years ago. Melissa I hope you are at peace and God Bless your family.
Rachel Morris
April 22, 2022
I bought "Finding Fifteen" because it had your beautiful face on the cover and wanted to learn more about you. I´m reading it now and I must say you are an absolutely remarkable woman to have accomplished so much. I pray that you are at peace, and I can only imagine how much your family misses you.
David
December 6, 2021
Her message to her husband touched me
Louise
September 12, 2021
Melissa here we are 20 years later and I still think of you. You and the victims of 9/11 will never be forgotten.
Katherine Chambers
September 11, 2021
I never knew you. I sit here on this day of remembrance 9-11 -21 I hear your voice message for your husband. You are not forgotten.
UK
September 11, 2021
I am a total stranger, I never knew you but you are one of so many voices lost that day, forever etched in our consciences from your recorded message to your family.20 years on we still remember that day, May God bless you and keep you. Thoughts to your family.
David Brownlee
September 11, 2021
I used to babysit for the Harringtons as we were neighbors. The family was tremendous. She was such a great person. Few days go by when I don't think of tragic end. So saddened. R.I.P. Melissa
Kary Miller
September 11, 2021
Always in my thoughts . I hope your family and Sean are well and life has brought you some peace after all these past 20 years. God Bless you all and peace to your sweet Melissa
Kathleen Copp
August 31, 2021
I did not know this beautiful young lady but I will NEVER forget hearing her gut wrenching message to her husband, Sean and her name/picture is forever etched in my memory. She had accomplished so much in her short 31 years on this earth and I´m sure was destined to accomplish tons more. I can tell what kind of person she was...that she came from an amazing family and married the love of her life, Sean. Much comfort to her family and RIP beautiful Melissa
Louise Bell
September 13, 2020
I think of you often and especially now. I hope you rest in peace and know you are always loved.
Diane
September 12, 2020
Thinking of you always beautiful Melissa. You and your family are Never forgotten. Rest in peace angel
Linda M Henman
May 26, 2020
Not only cute and beautiful but also brilliant. Only 31 you say and look at all she accomplished. Rest in Peace young lady and peace also to your loved ones.
Janet Savona
September 15, 2019
I hope you went straight to Heaven and it was so beautiful there you forgot everything that happened No malice or torment can ever touch you again RIP Melissa
Louise Bell
September 12, 2019
Dearest Melissa, I hope you have found peace and joined with the angels. I spoke with your dad shortly after you left this earth and I think of you always. Much love and peace
Kary Miller
September 11, 2019
Thinking of you always as I do every year Melissa. Thinking of your family and hoping as life has gone on you all have found peace. You will never be forgotten. Luv, Kary Miller, Dexter, Michigan
Clay Briggs
August 7, 2019
I learned about your life from the documentary on utube. Very moved by your life and achievements and most of all, how loved you are by your family.
Francis Alphonse
June 23, 2019
I pray Melissa that you are with Jesus. Pray for us too, that we may also be joined to Jesus when our own time is nigh
June 11, 2019
Rest peacefully Melissa
Josephine Varian
May 22, 2019
R.I.P beautiful angel ❤
Mary and Doug Brinson
September 13, 2018
I got caught up watching some of the 9/11 stuff a couple of days ago I did watch until I heard the story on Mrs Harrington-Hughes and when I heard Melissa phone call to husband I lost it I cried i deleted all the recording on 9/11i had recorded. I normally don't watch anything that has to do with someone's pain. I want to say I'm sorry for this. Melissa must of been a GREAT person and she must be truly missed. We all Love her.
Kary Miller
September 11, 2018
I will never forget this day.... your phone call left to Sean will always be in my heart. I wish I could have helped you and everyone else that horrible day. I've left a message every year and continue to pray for you and your family . I will never forget. Kary Miller
Virginia Landestoy
April 24, 2018
hope you are at peace, so young, a woman that had her life going on, cut short by this unthinkable act, the world changed that day, they will be no peace, may you rest in peace and your loved ones be grateful for having you in their lives
Carter Lloyd
November 18, 2017
So sorry for your loss and all of the other victims of September 11th. You will truly be missed Melissa.
September 14, 2017
Rest in Peace
gavin blackburn
September 14, 2017
I wish I could of carried you out of there Melissa even from all the way over here in Australia
Kary Miller
September 12, 2017
Think of you all the time Melissa. Will always have you and your family in my thoughts and prayers always. Will remember all those that were lost that day. I will never forget. Hope your family is doing well.
Tom H
September 11, 2017
Today, 09/11/2017, we remember you Melissa. We will never forget. To Melissa's family .. Our thoughts are with you; Share Melissa's spirit thru your actions. With much regards.
Leslie Prather, Daughter of Gay Harrington
September 11, 2017
Our prayers and blessings are with you at this time of year and always. She was obviously such a beautiful lady. We discovered her maiden name when we went to the memorial in New York. We are from a Harrington lineage also so her name caught our attention. My grandfather's name was Robert Harrington. Also, from Washington and California. Our lineage started in Kinderhook. We will remember her goodness. God bless.
Dory G.
September 11, 2017
Me and my daughters have been blessed to have been introduced to Melissa's story. A gift of love, kindness and life taken so very soon. My eldest daughter was 5 yrs old when the attacks happened and my youngest wasn't born for another 4 yrs. It is so important that we as parents keep each and every person who lost a life.. loved one... friend on that tragic day in our hearts. Melissa's story and love for her family was beautiful. As was so many of the others that were lost. Just wanted to say thank you for sharing your family's story with me and my daughters. If there is a silver lining to be found in such a loss. . I imagine it would called Melissa Hughes. Bless your family and live life full of knowing. . She is looking over and still loving you all. Rest in peace Melissa
September 14, 2016
remembered
Kary Miller
September 11, 2016
Dear Sean and family, this is Kary Miller formerly from Wisconsin now back in Michigan . I reached out to you Sean 15 years ago and we exchanged emails. I think of Melissa always and hope that you are happy and found happiness in your heart again. Hope both your families are doing well and know that I along with many others will never forget. God Bless
K Monroe
September 11, 2016
I remember hearing your phone call message to your husband 15 yrs ago today. So touching. Yours is the name I remember every year. Thoughts and prayers for you and to your family every day. I appreciate being able to read about your wonderful, adventurous, giving life. Rest in Peace
Vicky Trueman
March 13, 2016
I heard your story from the documentary 'phone calls from the towers'. Giving an insight into the real lives lost is so deeply moving and my heart goes out to you and all your family x
Sally Clark
September 12, 2015
I am originally from Westfield Ma. and purchased the candle sold in memory of Melissa at the Big E while visiting family. I light that candle every year on Sept. 11 in memory of Melissa. Since that candle burnt out I replaced it with another one and still burn it every year on Sept 11. May she rest in peace. Mellisa I know you are missed. My heart goes out to her family. Sally Clark
Dayna
September 12, 2015
Bless you and your family.
September 11, 2015
Every year on the anniversary of Sept. 11 I always think of Melissa. Will always remember your phone to your Dad and to Sean. All my prayers to your family and to Sean. Sean, we exchanged a couple of emails after that terrible day. Would luv to talk again someday. Formerly from Wisc. Kary Miller
Shirley Paganelli
September 11, 2015
Thinking of you Melissa, God Bless you and your family, although we never met, I will never forget you. RIP
Kelly Blanks
September 11, 2015
Thinking of this beautiful young lady today. Melissa I hope to meet you in Heaven 1 day and be your good friend. I will never forget your phone calls to your father and husband. God bless you, He needed another Angel and he chose you. Rest well forever Angel. You're not forgotten today or ever.
Céline Trts
September 11, 2015
Your message touched my heart deeply. Since 2001, I think of you every september the 11th.
Rest in peace Melissa and God bless you.
Condolence to your family.
With all my love, Céline from Belgium
Céline Trts
September 11, 2015
Each year, I think to you...
RIP Melissa
Phillippa Miao
September 10, 2015
I watched calls from inside the Towers and the sadness it brought when I saw your dad and your brother describing the events of that day really touched me. I never knew you but you were an exceptional person. I am from the UK and on the 14th anniversary of those terrible events I want to offer my condolences to your family and we will never forget.
Steve Murphy
September 1, 2015
I will forever think of you, amongst others, this time of year. God Bless
Kelly
April 12, 2015
Melissa your story touched my heart. I think about that day everyday and still I get teared up. Such a beautiful young lady and so full of life, I know I don't know you personally, but ever since your story was told, it breaks my heart and my prayers go out to you and your family R.I.P. Melissa We will never forget
lisa straker
November 28, 2014
God bless u melissa
Elizabeth Nguyen
July 31, 2014
I didn't know you, but I think your story more than almost any other has stuck with me since that terrible day. Why today it's on my mind I don't know, but I take it as a sign that I should reach out. The call to your husband is what I always come back to when I need a reminder of what is important and what matters in the end. You are thought of and remembered.
Donald
May 29, 2014
Another birthday without you 39 again?
Richard Hutchison
May 15, 2014
God bless all of her family! WE WILL NEVER FORGET!!!
Scott Rice
September 15, 2013
I had the privilege to ride for Melissa during the 2 Million Bikers to DC event. While we had never met, it was an honor to do so in her name. Her name is on my helmet and I will never forget what happened to her and our country for the rest of my life. God Bless.
September 10, 2013
Dearest Melissa, I will never forget you. I called your dad shortly after that terrible day, and he was comforting me instead of me comforting him. What a lovely man. I didn't know either of you but felt I had to reach out. I left a rose for you there, and one lives in my heart forever for you and all the lives lost that day. May you rest in peace.
donald
May 29, 2013
another birthday without you
what might have been........
Chris Williams
March 14, 2013
Rest In Peace, never forgotten.
Ellen girouard
September 14, 2012
Melissa, I never knew you, but i remember hearing your message to your husband in the years since those horrific events. I was watching the passionate eye this week, Septemebr 11, 2012, and heard your father tell your story. I hope you got comfort talking to you dad. I know I still call my dad when I need to talk, and I'm 45.
I'm sorry for the years you were robbed.
maye vasquez
September 13, 2012
R.I.P Melissa..
September 11, 2012
Always remembered...
September 11, 2012
On 9/11/01, of everything saw and heard, it was Melissa's recorded message to her husband (one that was played on the news coverage) that has always stayed with me. I never knew her but her message was so knowing and it was so important for her to say "I Love You". Such strength, such devotion. I've thought of that message and what her life was like many times through the years after looking on the website of victims and seeing her name. Only today did I look further and found "WOW" what a woman!! What a life!! God rest her big, beautiful soul. And family, I wish peace for you all.
Angela Whitaker
September 11, 2012
I was listening on the radio on my way home from work that morning. I remember ABC News playing phone calls from victims to their families. Melissa's phone call always stood out to me. I will always remember. I pray for her and all of her loved ones. God Bless and God be with you all.
September 11, 2012
I am still remembering you Melissa, though we never met.
Mitch & Cyndi Ogulewicz
September 11, 2012
Bob, Bev and Mike....Our thoughts and prayers are with you again this year as we remember Melissa.
We shall never forget.
Mitch & Cyndi Ogulewicz
September 11, 2012
Bob, Bev and Mike....Again Cyndi and I think of you on this day. We shall never forget.
Lorin Smith
September 11, 2012
Thinking of you today and always in my thoughts!!
Lorin Smith
September 11, 2012
EVERY year I think of Melissa Harrington-Hughes. To me, her story is one of a life lived to the fullest, a love story, and a tragic loss I will never forget so long as I live. I often wonder what happened to the man who loved her so, how he tried so desperately to get to her following the tragedy, and how their story breaks my heart. Melissa.....I think about you still. I never knew you but oddly each year thoughts of you and your family and loved ones come to mind.
Lorin Smith
Wooster, Ohio
Preston W
September 11, 2012
Will always remember
September 10, 2012
Mellisa changed my life, she made me a better and stronger peron. We were close when she lived in DC, and it took my 11 years to comment. A day never goes by when I don't think of her.
God Bless Melissa and her family.
Jeannette Burgess {Wester}
July 16, 2012
My heart goes out to you and your family, I still remember to this day when this happened, I was at home, and on my computer when I saw the buildings. Onething I have learned is from my brother getting killed in the Gander Crash on 12/12/85, I was 16 he was 19, I learned to keep him alive in my heart, and it's still hard at times though.
Preston Wood
January 20, 2012
Melissa's story has touched my heart, my prayers go out to the family and friends of Melissa.
Sincerely Preston W
Jennifer Kleinhans
September 27, 2011
It's been 10 years since that tragic day. I just heard Melissa's story watching a documentary yesterday. I will be turning 40 this year, as I believe Melissa would have also. Please know that even though I never knew her, she has deeply touched my life by hearing her story. I am tearful and forever affected, but also mindful of the precious gifts of love and life. I hope her husband and family know that she has made a difference in the life of a woman in Minnesota years after her death, and I have no doubt she will continue a rich legacy for others to be inspired by.
Sincerely and God Bless. My prayers are with you.
September 12, 2011
I remember watching on the news 10 years ago your husbands story when he was trying to find you-you in NY and he in CA. This has always stayed in my mind. I still pray for him that he has found peace. I am sure you will meet again.
Susan, Pennsylvania
Lorin Smith
September 12, 2011
Yours is the Story that I think of most. I have prayed for Sean throughout these years. You must be an Angel now. No I never knew you, Melissa, but I think about you so very often.
Love from Wooster, Ohio and Lorin Smith
Jan Hughes
September 12, 2011
Although we never met, the angels are watching over you and God Bless your families at this time......
Tracy Foster
September 12, 2011
In honor of Melissa and in rememberance of today 9/11 and all those we lost, I purchased breakfast for and delivered to firestations in my area for 911day.org. I didn't know Melissa, but I wanted to honor this day. So Melissa, this is in honor of you. You are a blessed child of God and I know he is taking care of you. God Bless You and your family.
Wendy
September 12, 2011
My prayers are with your family on this and every day.
Monica
September 11, 2011
Peace to your family.Love from Spain
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