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Brian Murphy Obituary
The first thing Brian Murphy would say when he got home from work was, "Where are my girls?"
There were three of them: his wife, Judith, and their two daughters, Leila, 4, and Jessica, 5.
Mr. Murphy, 41, coordinated electronic bond trading for Cantor Fitzgerald. But as his wife made clear, "He would always talk about his three girls. That was his priority." He was always planning trips, teaching them things, springing little surprises. One of the last things he did was take everyone apple picking.
Mr. Murphy's mind was stuffed with facts. You name it, he knew it. "He knew a lot about nature ‹ different birds, insects, plants," said Steven Bram, his brother-in- law. "He knew all about gadgets and was great at fixing things. He was like a 'Jeopardy' contestant."
When friends got lost ‹ and it could be just about anywhere ‹ they called Mr. Murphy. He knew which roads to take. And he knew the answers, with great precision. Once, Jessica said to him, "How come you know so much more than Mommy?"
He answered, "I know a little bit about everything, and Mommy knows a lot about a few things."
But his wife said that he was being modest. He truly knew a lot about everything.
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September 11, 2016
What a beautiful tribute your wife provided at today's memorial service. May God richly bless your family with peace knowing you are in God's arms. Remembered.
S J. Friscia III
May 8, 2015
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
Stephen Davis
September 10, 2011
Always in my thoughts...
victor tracy
September 9, 2007
Miss you "Murph" I remember the slightly hairyer version of you and your great sense of humor
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P Tabbernor
January 11, 2007
In memory....
Kristine
November 17, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Patsy Jo Reed Sircy
October 27, 2006
Very sorry about your loss! Sincere sympathy, Pat - R.N. in TN
C Thomas
September 11, 2006
Godspeed...........
Ann Murphy
September 11, 2005
Brian was not only my brother but my best friend. His total love and devotion for his family and his dedication to his friends made Brian a truly special individual. Today, on the fourth anniversary of his death, it is important to remember how many lives he touched and left better. At his memorial service which was attended by over 1,000 family and friends, it was apparent that Brian had a unique gift for making each person his "best friend." He truly cared about others and their lives and was often the glue that kept groups of friends together creating mini-reunions. Brian's sense of humor and great smile reflected the enormous zest for living he shared with the world. Our family honors his memory daily as we remember the little things that made Brian unique. His daughters, Jessica and Leila, reflect so many of his endearing qualities that it is reassuring tr to know that his enthusiasm and personality live on through them. It is fortunate that Brian shared himself with so many in his short 41 years that we all have special memories to share.
Bill Bitting
September 11, 2003
I had a great time with Brian in his single days in ther City and Newport. He was a great guy(good sense of humor and smart) and I know he was a great Dad and husband. I just can't believe it happened. I pray that his wife and kids do alright.
Brian Joseph Murphy
August 27, 2003
My deepest condolences to Brian's family and friends. God Bless.
Carousel Andrea Bayrd
September 11, 2002
I am the sister of Jodi Lynne Bayrd, who is married to Gary Steinter, a cousin of yours. I am truely sorry for your loss. I have heard wonderful stories about Brian and all three of his "girls" from Jodi and Gary.
Kathy Acosta
September 11, 2002
I was honored to read Brian's name at a memorial tribute today in San Diego, CA. All of our lives have been deeply affected by your loss. May peace be with you now and always.
Terry Wooten (Mason)
September 11, 2002
I am truely sorry for your loss. This tragedy touched everyone in this country and I am sorry your family is going through the most severe and painful part of this whole mess. Please believe our prayers are with you now and forever.
Nina and Bret Coughlin
September 9, 2002
Dear cousins
Judy, Jessica, Leila:
We send our love and prayers to you at this one year memorial of Brian. Our family gatherings and holidays together are treasured memories of a bright, shining smile and a great sense of humor. He is dearly missed by the entire Coughlin family.
Godspeed to you Brian until we meet again. Watch over your 3 girls, and let them feel your loving presence daily.
Tracey Coleman
September 7, 2002
I work with Brian's sister Cindy. As the one year anniversary of this tragedy is at our doorstep, my heart goes out to you and to your family. God Bless.
Sophia
September 5, 2002
My condolences goes out to you and your family.
Brian Murphy
May 9, 2002
Im sorry for all your loses, and hope that he will look down on use from heaven with love and forgiveness.
Angie Campbell
May 7, 2002
May God Bless you and keep you.
Brian Joseph Murphy
April 30, 2002
I am sorry at my namesakes loss, and hope the lives of his family can go on in happiness.
Brian Joseph Murphy, MD
March 13, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL MAN...BRIAN JOSEPH MURPHY AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS WIFE AND DAUGHTERS..FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY JESUS AND ST.JOSEPH GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AND ST.PATRICK TOO...AMEN
Jeffrey Bunch
January 1, 2002
A continent away and 8 years after leaving NYC, Brian is the sole friend I lost in the tradegy. While I grieved with the rest of America during and just after the events of the 11th, it wasn't until I learned that I did indeed know someone who died that the full human toll of the acts became known to me. In a normal effort to bridge a gap, others often ask me (because of my years spent on Wall Street) if I knew anybody killed in the disaser. I respond yes...then proceed to tell how I knew Brian and how much I thought of him during our friendship in the early 90s. To the wife and two girls who survive him, I say that Brian's memory is also kept alive by those whose lives he graced, however briefly, in the past. I am so sorry for your loss.
Teresa Jahn
December 18, 2001
We are very sorry for your loss of Brian. May his life and love continue living on through his loved ones. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Kevin Meredith
December 4, 2001
Dear Judy,
I worked with Brian a couple of times on his computer (I've worked with you more often). You and your girls have been in my thoughts so often since I heard the news. Just rest assured that there will be better days ahead. These terrible times will pass, and there will be better days for you and your family.
Debbie Manasse Davies
November 20, 2001
Dear Judy:
I was so saddened to learn of your husband's passing in the Quad magazine from Riverdale. I have been thinking of you often since I read the news and wish you and your family my sincere condolences and the strength to carry on.
Love,
Debbie
Anne R Carey
October 25, 2001
Dear Brian,
We don't remember meeting you in our hometown, Westfield, Mass., but you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Very sincerely,
The Careys
LESLIE VEENKER
October 9, 2001
I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS. REMEMBER YOU ARE NOT ALONE, MAY GOD GIVE YOU STREATH TO GET THROUGH THIS.
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