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Edward Kavanagh
June 13, 2025
RIP John all my condolences to all your family
September 12, 2017
Its hard to believe its been 16 years. I have not had the chance to meet his family, and I hope John's children are doing well, and my prayers for his wife always. R/ Jerry Formisano
M Jeffry Spahr
September 11, 2017
John and I were classmates, dorm mates, teammates and sometimes we squared off against one another at Holy Cross. I always enjoyed his quiet strength and dry wit. John, I think of you often and think of your family. May God bless you.
Jerry Formisano
October 26, 2012
I met J.R. at Holy Cross as a freshman in Healy. We talked, drank, laughed and listened to the Who together. He was a kind and generous person, and I am sure a wonderful husband and father. My deepest sympathy to his family, I'm so glad I got to know him. God Bless
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Frederick Hannigan
September 11, 2012
I met John when he was attending Holy Cross and dating Patty Esposito. I was friends with Patty's sister, Gina. John was the first football player that I knew that I really liked. He was fun, intelligent, and a real gentleman. It is hard to reconcile disliking Wall Street guys when you know someone like John. It was an honor to have known people like John and Patty. I also got to meet their daughter, Laura , as a newborn baby. They are always in my thoughts.
Jon Schoen
September 11, 2011
John, I am thinking of you on this day. You were a very special person. God Bless you and your wife Patty and your children. We will never forget you.
Ceara Burden
September 9, 2010
we miss you Uncle John!
Bill Harnett
July 2, 2008
I just moved back to the US after living abroad since 1998. Just now I learned of John's death. He and I were good friends in grammer school and drifted apart after the high school years. Last seeing each other during the summer of our freshman years of college.
He will always be remembered in my prayers and the memories we shared in Suffern, New York. We played alot of basketball on Mile Road.
chuck bianchino
October 5, 2007
I actually was looking up information on my father Charles Bianchino Sr when I came across this site. My father worked with John and though very highly of him. My father passed away 9/10/05 from cancer but during those last years he was truly heartbroken at what had happened to his friends and co-workers.
kristine
May 1, 2007
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
February 27, 2007
In memory....
Ed Haskins
September 10, 2005
It's hard to believe that tomorrow it will be four years since that tragic day yet few days go by that I don't think of "JR", my closest friend...my third brother. We met in August 1970 on the bus heading off to the Xavier(HS) football camp and we never looked back. Xavier...Holy Cross...kids...life. We did so much of it together...31 years of the greatest memories anyone could hope for. God led me to this site tonight to again remind me to live every day as if it were my last. Looking at his picture here tonight reminds me how blessed I was to have a friend like JR. I'll always love him and miss him. Love to Patty, Laura, Colin, Kristin and to all the Ryan family.
Susan (Eustace) Regan
September 7, 2005
To the Ryan Family: I dated (John's brother) Teague, 25 years ago, as a freshman at Seton Hall University. Just tonight, for the first time, I saw John's name on a list of those who perished at the World Trade Center. After so many years, I still remember you all with affection, and the strong sense of family that bound you together. I will think of you on this 4th anniversary of John's passing, and I am truly sorry for your loss. Sue
Charles Bianchino
September 11, 2004
I worked with john he sat next to me, we hooked up for a couple of drinks after work. I went to his 40th birthday party.
I miss him
Charlie B.
Louise Hertzog
April 15, 2004
John covered Danny McManus and me at Meridian Investment Company. We miss him dearly. The Ryan family is forever on our hearts.
Love & Prayers,
E Stasio
October 16, 2002
A very dear friend of mine lost a piece of her family on Sept 11th. I hope that she knows, that I am here for both her and her family. I did not know John but think of him and his family often. Life brings many challenges take them all one day at a time.
Vince Ryan
September 11, 2002
To all of Johns family and friends go the love and prayers of my family. Even in New Zealand we have felt the pain and the waste of life that this tragedy has brought to our world.
Brian Blanchfield
September 10, 2002
I didn't know John, but a good friend of mine, Ed Haskins, a classmate of John's, was a close friend. Immediately after John's death, Ed took the time to tell me about him. Having read the tributes in this column, I know many others thought the world of John. My thoughts and prayers will be with John and his family tomorrow. God Bless you all.
Sincerely, Brian Blanchfield, Xavier '70
Tracey Connell
September 7, 2002
On behalf of the Connell Family you all are in our prayers and throughts. As September 11 comes please know that we are thinking of you. John will be remembered in a Mass at St.Charles Borromeo on 9/11
With Peace and Love
The Connell Family
marybeth benedetto
June 11, 2002
we will always be there and we love you
our world now
christine barton
May 2, 2002
to the family of Ryan
I just want to tell you how sorry i am for your loss I do not know if my daughter jeanmarie wallendorf knew Ryan or not she also worked for kbw , and i want to add a drawing here it is one my younger daughter drew it may have jeanmaries name on it but it is for all who were lost.
Marie Netrosio
April 19, 2002
My deppest sympathy goes out to the Ryan Family. I can't express enough how sorry I am for your loss..
April 16, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN...JOHN J.RYAN JR AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS LOVING FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK...MAY JESUS AND ST.JOHN GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Mark Putrino
March 22, 2002
I was one of John's clients. In this business you don't meet too many really nice, decent, honest people. John was one of those few. I miss him.
TOM QUINN
March 12, 2002
My thoughts and prayers go to John's family and friends. We went to Xavier together.
THE JONES FAMILY
March 12, 2002
OUR THOUGHTS AND OUR PRAYERS GO OUT TO THE WHOLE RYAN FAMILY. YOU ARE ALL IN OUR PRAYERS DAILY.
Shannon Peterson
March 11, 2002
I did not personally know Mr. Ryan but was compelled to sign this guestbook. My family and I were neighbors of the Ryan's for several years and my younger brother had the honor of calling John "Coach" and was also friendly with his son Colin. When our family heard of John's passing, my brother Michael could hardly believe that his "favorite coach" as a child was gone. Although we no longer live in West Windsor, the news hit home and we continue to keep the Ryan family in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
Sarah Righter
February 19, 2002
Mr. Ryan was a good friend and neighbor of my family's. I have known him for as long as I can remember. The Ryan's were always at the beach the same time we were and we were always allowed to go over and use their pool anytime we wanted. I have fond memories of both. We miss you, Mr. Ryan and you will forever be in my heart.
Jim Weatherall
January 17, 2002
I first learned that John was among the missing when I heard his name at the Memorial Mass at Xavier on Sept 19, and it shocked me to my core. I will be keeping John and his family in my prayers.
Kevin McLaughlin
January 16, 2002
I first met John at Xavier, we are both Class of '74. I played football my sophmore year and was a Team Mgr my Junior year. John was a real leader and it would have been easy for him to the play the star as he was the starting quarterback, he didn't he treated everyone with dignity and respect. Later we would kid because I was going to BC and him to the Cross. God Bless him and his memory. Kevin McLaughlin
Beth Donovan
January 15, 2002
To the Ryan Family- I am deeply sorry for your loss...John was and will forever be known as a fantastic father, loving husband and devoted brother and friend. My heart and prayers are with you.
Teresa Jahn
December 14, 2001
We are very sorry for your loss of John. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
John Cooper
November 9, 2001
Dear Ryan Family, Rosa myself and my entire family think of you often with our heartful thoughts and prayers.May all of you find peace abd comfort. Sincerly yours John Cooper Jr.
Theresa Kaszas-Jensen
November 1, 2001
I wish to express my sympathy to all of you at this most difficult time. My heart,thoughts and prayers are with everyone in the family.
With love, Theresa
Aileen Ryan Burden
October 31, 2001
Thank you both for your lovely messages of sympathy concerning my brother John. Your thoughtfulness is sincerely appreciated by the Ryan Family. God Bless.
Sincerely,
Aileen Ryan Burden
Christine DeStefano-Vuksanaj
October 8, 2001
All my thoughts and prayers are with you all. I hope as the days pass your pain lessens and is replaced with all your wonderful memories of John.
Margaret Ryan
October 2, 2001
My thoughts and prayers of my school and I go into your hearts. And I hope that all of these people are in the hands of GOD. Because they didn't do anything wrong.
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