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kerri croake
March 23, 2025
He only knew me as his younger brother's college friend but spoke to me like I wasn't an 18-year kid accosting him at a NYC bar. He was exceptionally nice with a rapier's wit and a 120-watt smile.
Patrice McCann
September 12, 2021
Yesterday, your beautiful niece, Lucy, read names at the 9/11 Memorial Service. She’s a young girl, but she was poised and graceful. I have a feeling that you were beaming with pride. We miss you. Love, Kevin and Patrice
Frank Cheswick
September 11, 2021
Alice and Jay,
Thinking of you and your family on this sad day.
Love, Frank and Georgia
George Stratten
September 11, 2021
Matt I am in Fire Departments and airports all the time. I always point out your name on the flag to them. God bless you and America.
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Jim Forde
September 9, 2021
Matt 20 years on, you are always in our thoughts and prayers. Never forgotten.
Cindy Roe
September 3, 2021
Remembering Matthew on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
Frank Cheswick
September 11, 2020
Jay and Alice,
Our thoughts and prayers will always be with you on this day.
Love,
Frank and Georgia
Mike D
August 19, 2020
Remembering Super Brunch. Good times. Blessed to have known you. Cheers!
George Stratten
September 11, 2019
Cousin all my firefighter friends are remembering you and the many others murdered 18 years ago today.
Your Friends in
September 10, 2019
Remembering Matt 18 years later.
Matt's Friends
September 11, 2016
15 Years in Heaven
Brooklyn Friends
September 11, 2016
Remembering Matthew 15 years later.
So much has changed since you left us, but our memories and the love we have for you are still strong.
I know you are watching over us.
November 9, 2015
Sorry for your lost. It is very difficult to lose a love one. Satisfying answers to life big questions. Please read Roman 15:20
September 12, 2015
Alice, Jay and the Burke family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Frank and Georgia
Diane Kurpis
September 11, 2015
I never met Matthew but heard so much about him from his Aunt and Uncle.
YOU ARE HAVING A BIG PARTY IN HEAVEN!
With thoughts of you,
Diane
JW
September 10, 2015
9/11/2015 RIP my friend. You have not been forgotten. Thoughts and prayers to Alice and Jay.
Diane Kurpis
September 13, 2014
I never met Matthew but he sure as heck died way too young. I heard from his aunt, Ann and uncle, Chuck, that he was the life of he party. My thoughts are with the Family every day.
Frank Cheswick
September 12, 2014
Alice, Jay and the Burke family,
Matt is in our thoughts and prayers.
Frank and Georgia
Brian
September 11, 2014
9/11 always makes me miss you....but your life is one to celebrate and many people wished they lived as well as you did.
Claudia Daly Stringer
September 11, 2014
Thinking about Matt and sending my love to the entire Burke Family. I hope he and my parents are together sharing stories and laughing!
September 13, 2013
Time will never erase our wonderful memories of Matt Burke strolling down Jamaica Walk with a nice smile and a big hello!
Pam & Jack Daly
Frank Cheswick
September 12, 2013
To the Burke family,
Thinking of all of you at this time.
Love,
Frank and Georgia
Claudia Daly Stringer
September 11, 2013
Bruce Springsteen, U2, Squeeze, Van Morrison, to name a few...I hear songs on the radio each and every day that remind me of you and many good times! Thankful for the memories ....they will live on forever.
September 11, 2013
May the Burke family find strength and peace today remembering our friend Matty
September 11, 2013
From The Whole Stratten Family, peace & love everyday! Ali & Jay we love you :)
Brooklyn Friends
September 10, 2013
12 Years later....your warm smile and the way you made everyone around you feel has not been forgotten. Miss you.
Barbara Boam
July 13, 2013
I walked a mile for you (mile #277) on 6/10/13 as a dedication to your life.
Frank Cheswick
September 12, 2012
Alice and Jay,
Great seeing you at Johnny's wedding. I believe Matt enjoyed the band.
Love,
Frank and Georgia
Catherine Stratten
September 11, 2012
Ali, Jay & Family, just want you to know you are in my heart & prayers always but especially today!
Mark Duffy
September 11, 2012
Told my 8 year old son about you this morning when he asked if I had any friends in the building. Peace be with you and your family, you will always be remembered and missed.
April 25, 2012
To The Family,
It's been a little over 10 years, but the terrible memories of 9/11 will live on forever. I did not know Mr. Matthew J. Burke but I would like to extend my deepest thoughts of sympathy to you at this time.
Sincerely,
Mr. Terry of NC
Kevin & Stephanie Austermann
September 12, 2011
Burke Family-
Our thoughts are with you- It doesn't feel like 10 years have passed already.
The hurt will never go away, but take comfort knowing that he is in heaven... a much better place!
September 11, 2011
Thinking of you Matt. Super Brunch.
Claudia Daly Stringer
September 11, 2011
The great memories seem like yesterday, but unfortunately so does the loss and sadness. My thoughts and prayers are with the Burke family today and always!
matthew Bourke
September 11, 2011
peace my friend.
Johnny Henley
September 11, 2011
Matty, I can't believe it's been 10 years. You are missed more today, however your spirit lives on forever. Until we meet again my friend!
Johnny
Frank Cheswick
September 11, 2011
Jay and Alice,
Keeping you and Matt in our thoughts and prayers today.
Frank and Georgia Cheswick
Tracey
September 11, 2011
Matthew's memory lives on in everyone who knew him because he was a kind and loving person. I'm sure he's serving everyone drinks in heaven and telling great stories. Until we meet again my friend.
September 11, 2011
Even though it's been 10 years we can still see Matt's smiling face coming down Jamaica Walk as if it was yesterday. We will never forget him. On this somber day, our prayers and love go out to Alice and Jay and the entire Burke family.
Pam & Jack Daly
George Stratten
September 11, 2011
Jay & Alley,
My familys thought and prayers are with all of you on this, the 10th anniversary of the passing of Matthew J. Burke. Love from George, Debra and our two sons. May there be peace in your day.
Brandyn Duncanson
September 11, 2011
I never met Matthew, but his name was chosen randomly to be honored today. To his family, I am sorry for your loss. He will live on forever in your memories.
Bill Curtis Jr.
September 11, 2011
My thoughts are with all of the Burke family.
Diane Kurpis
September 11, 2011
I never met Matthew but his aunt, Ann Stark is my good friend and Matthew's mother is wonderful. They are compassionate, loving people, and my thoughts are with all of Matt's Family today and every day. What a handsome man like all the Family, they have a beauty inside and out.
Catherine Brosterhous
September 10, 2011
Here's a great big hug for the entire Burke family! I love you all!
Frank Cheswick
September 11, 2010
Alice, Jay and the Burke family,
Thinking of Matt and all of you on this day. Keep his great spirit alive in your memories. You are in our prayers.
Frank and Georgia Cheswick
September 11, 2010
Hello my cousin who I never met. I hope you're looking down on all of us and still smiling. From what Uncle Jay has told me about you I figure that is precisely what you are doing.I wish we could have met each other so save me a place upstairs please!I talk to you when I get there.
Love and peace!
George, Debra, Kyle & Garrett Stratten Corvallis, Oregon
September 11, 2010
RIP Matt
Marguerite Hyland & family
September 11, 2010
We will never forget Matthew walking down Jamaica Walk with a happy smile on his face and saying hello. Our thought and prayers are with the Burke Family and we pray for Matthew everyday.
Jack & Pam Daly
September 11, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Burke family at this time of grief and our fondest memories of Matt will always be with our family.
Monte
September 10, 2010
The warmth, enthusiasm and sincerity of your greeting to me are what I will always remember the most. The hearty handshake, back-slap, big smile and "hey Monte!" I have a hundred other memories from the shell pile to Brazil, but I can still hear your voice greeting me like it happened this morning.
September 10, 2010
Gonna raise a glass to you today. Miss you.
Jennifer Pinedo Sormillon
June 15, 2010
I remember you from our OLPH days and then we end up at Fordham. You were always so nice to me, remebering talkign to you at Duane library on campus. You are missed and nice to know there is another angel looking from above
December 24, 2009
Merry Christmas. You are missed,
Jenny Mavronas
Frank Cheswick
September 14, 2009
Dear Jay and Alice,
We think of Matt and your family this time of year. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Frank and Georgia Cheswick
Stephanie Austermann
September 12, 2009
Matthew,
Today I am thinking of you. I am praying for your family. While every day without you is tough for those you touched deeply, I take comfort in knowing that you impacted so many.
We love & miss you,
The Austermann's
Eileen Brower
September 11, 2009
Matt, you will always be in our thoughts and prayers.
Alicia fitzgerald
September 11, 2009
Dear Matt,
you are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you and miss you very much.
Love Alicia
Catherine Brosterhous
September 11, 2009
Our thoughts & prayers are with the entire Burke family today & always! The entire Stratten family
Bill Curtis Jr.
September 11, 2009
To the Burke Family,
Thinking of you all today and remembering Matt.
Jack & Pam Daly
September 11, 2009
Dear Matt,
Eight years since you passed yet our family remembers you like it was yesterday. Our prayers are with you and the whole Burke family. You are missed!
The Daly Family
Alicia Fitzgerald
March 26, 2009
Dear Matthew,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! we celebrate your life each year by having a pizza party with the kids. We reflect on your life and your love of life. You continue to be an inspiration to us all.
We love you and miss you,
Alicia ,Peter and kids
Doug Abraham
March 24, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
Scott O'Keefe
January 13, 2009
The sheer volume of heartfelt remembrances and anecdotes over the years speaks more eloquently about the quality of the man than I ever could.
Suffice to say, he's missed and often in our thoughts...
John Carona
December 20, 2008
Dear Matthew,
Your kindness and friendship at OLPH meant a lot to me. Remember how each year you sat in front of me because of our names being in alphabetical order? I'm sure I got us yelled at enough. And your birthday was always 1 day before mine! Remember all the excitement and laughs we shared! You got me into U2 and Bruce. I listened to Unforgettable fire and Nebraska every night for years after. I was always amazed how you could get along with everybody. We could tell then what a great person you could be. And reading these messages just confirms you were. Take care and rest well my friend. I'm glad to have known you.
Your classmate,
Stuart J. Carona
Raymond DeJesus
December 19, 2008
Matthew-
You always had a smile and a kind word for each and everyone of your fellow peers in and outside of the classrooms of OLPH; you were forever kind to us all.
We miss you, dearly.
Love always,
Ray, OLPH '87
Roxanne Reyes
December 19, 2008
Seven years after the fact, I just found out Matt was lost on 9/11. We had not been in touch since 1988. He was a sweet boy, and in reading all of these entries, he, no doubt, was a great man. His family will be in my prayers.
Philip Hoblin
November 20, 2008
Just thinking back how much and how little the world has changed
Brendan McCormick
September 11, 2008
We miss you today and always. Our memories always bring a smile.
Jack/Pam Daly
September 11, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with Matt and the Burke family on this saddest of anniversaries.
Jack & Pam Daly (& family)
Stephanie Austermann
September 11, 2008
Jay, Ali & family,
Today as I think of cousin Matt, I am sad but also happy that he is smiling in heaven. I will our time with him had been longer but am glad that I did know bits of him from our visits to our East Coast family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers today. I hope it is a day of celebration and great memories.
Love,
Stephanie & Kevin Austermann
Catherine Stratten-Brosterhous
September 11, 2008
Jay & Ali, I just want you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers especially today. I'm sad I never really got to know Matt, but I know I would of loved him. He had awsome parents!
George Stratten
September 11, 2008
Uncle Jay & Aunt Alley,
I'm thinking of you today and said prayers for cousin Matthew.
Your nephew,
George J. Stratten
Corvallis, Or
Jay and Alice Burke
September 11, 2008
Matt,
We love you and miss you more each day. You are loved and remembered by so many. God bless!
Mom, Dad, and Terence
Monte
September 11, 2008
I can still hear your voice as if you were here, giving a warm enthusiastic greeting...
Frank Cheswick
September 11, 2008
Alice, Jay and the Burke family,
Our thought and prayers are with all of you today. So is Matt.
Love,
Frank and Georgia
alicia fitzgerald
September 11, 2008
Dear Matthew,
We miss you very much ! Our children have very fond memories of you and talk of you often. You have taught them how to live their lives. You have taught them strength, courage and hope. Best of all you taught them to lead lives filled with
laughter and friendships. Matt your spirit is with us everyday. We love you.
Love,
Peter and Alicia
Kari G
September 11, 2008
Happy Anniversary in Heaven Matt!
Johnny
September 10, 2008
Matty, Who could have imagined? You are missed more then ever. Your spirit lives within all of your friends and family. Until we meet again! Prost!
JIM FORDE
September 10, 2008
MATT SO MANY PLACES I PASS REMIND ME OF THE GOOD TIMES WE HAD. ALL THE PLACES IN BAY RIDGE YOUR HOUSE ON 56 ST YOUR APARMENT ON BATHGATE AV I ALWAYS TURN AND DRIVE DOWN THAT BLOCK KEEP LOOKING OUT FOR US YOUR BROTHER JIM
Bill Curtis Jr.
September 10, 2008
Burke Family,
I'm thinking of you all and remembering Matt. He seems to have left such a strong impression with those he came in contact with and lives on in so many hearts.
Wishing you peace.
Aurea de la Cruz
April 12, 2008
Dear Matt. I went into Manhattan today and I met your brother John. I too lost my sister, Lillian Caceres, on that day. She worked at Marsh, on the 97th floor. So I know how John and your family are feeling, how they miss you and think about you always, because we do the same for Lillian. You, you live in our hearts and mind, and we don't forget the times shared here on earth. You have a brother who really cares about you,and I am glad I met him, because I got to know you. Say hello to my sister for me.
Sincerely, Aurea de la Cruz
Doug Abraham
March 24, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
Kevin McCann
March 24, 2008
Happy Birthday Matty.
You remain sorely missed.
Jay Burke
September 13, 2007
Matt,
We attended a beautiful ceremony down here at Breezy on 9/11. We miss you terribly. Terence brought up a flower and placed it on the altar. You are forever in our hearts.
Love,
Mom and Dad
Jennifer Dormack
September 11, 2007
You are n my thoughts.
Christine Leonick-Szenes
September 11, 2007
Mattie, Times goes by and yet when i think of you time stands still...I miss you .
love Christine
Jay and Alice Burke
September 11, 2007
Matt
You brought so much joy to us in the short time you were with us. Your
smile was infectious. Terence received the Matt Burke Rookie of the
Year award in the night league He said, "My brother Matt would be proud
of me" We are certain you are. We love you and will remember you
always.
Love,
Mom and Dad
Bill Curtis Jr.
September 11, 2007
Burke Family,
You are all in my thoughts today. I wish you all peace in fond memories of Matt.
Katherine Savala
September 11, 2007
Six years ago our church was selling bracelets with the names of those that lost their lives on 911. The money collected was to hlep those that lost so much on that horrible day. I didn't know the persons name I would get... I left that up to the Lord to choose the bracelet that He wanted me to have. The name on my bracelet is Matthew Burke. Every year on 911 I wear this bracelet proudly and in honor of Matthew. My prayers and thoughts go out to his family and friends. May God comfort your hearts forever.
Scott O'Keefe
September 11, 2007
The Burkes-
You are very much in all our thoughts today. He is sorely missed.
Alicia Fitzgerald
September 11, 2007
Dear Matthew,
You have deeply touched our lives and we think of you always. We miss you smile,your laughter and
your thoughtfulness. Our memories with you will always be in our hearts.
Love always,
Alicia,Peter,Tim,Katy,Emily and Matthew
Frank Cheswick
September 11, 2007
Dear Alice and Jay,
Our thoughts are with you and your family today. Matt's spirit lives on among all he touched in his short time on this earth.
Love,
Frank and Georgia
Jack & Pam Daly
September 11, 2007
Matt, it is said that time heals, yet six years later the sadness that we feel for you and your family is still like an open wound. You and your loved ones remain in our hearts and prayers always.
Jack/Pam Daly & family
Jessica
September 10, 2007
Happy Sixth Anniversary in Heaven Matt. I'll have a drink for you tomorrow buddy.
Alice, Jay, John, Alicia, Paul, AnneMarie, Terrance & family you are in our thoughts. May your pain lessen with each day.
September 10, 2007
Thinking of you and your family today.
Claudia Stringer
March 24, 2007
Happy 34th Birthday! There is not one day that goes by that I do not think about you! I miss you terribly and continue to try and live my life as you would have!
You continue to inspire me,
Doug Abraham
March 24, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Jessica
January 1, 2007
Another year without you.....we all still miss you Matt.
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