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Michael Lunden Obituary
Michael P. Lunden's friends always said he was worth waiting for, an assertion he tested frequently. "They called him the Human Rain Delay," said Michelle Lunden, who married him even though he was 20 minutes late to their first date.
People would wait for Mr. Lunden, 37, because, basically, no event could start without him. He was the constant center of an ever-widening social circle, a member of 26 wedding parties, a hyperfriendly guy in a loud Brooks Brothers shirt who introduced himself to each and every waiter, bartender and vineyard keeper he came into contact with.
When Mr. Lunden was not cocooning (loudly) with Michelle and their 10-month- old son at their Manhattan home or their weekend place on the North Fork of Long Island, or playing Friend's Best Man for the umpteenth time, or touting a new merlot, he was an energy trader at Cantor Fitzgerald.
The night before Mr. Lunden's memorial service, a few of his pals — about 85 of them, actually — got together at his favorite steakhouse, Smith & Wollensky. "Somebody said that only Michael would have a rehearsal dinner for his funeral," Ms. Lunden said. Mayor Rudolph W. Giuliani happened to be eating there. He went over to see what all the noise was about and ended up donning a baseball cap that said "Lundo!!" and giving a speech about the indomitable spirit of the city.
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September 11, 2024
Never forgotten ❤sending hugs to your family
John Clark
September 11, 2020
Mike, it's been now 19 years & I still recall the great times we had in high school, college, & attending weddings with you. Hope your family stay's positive and healthy. Miss you - Larry
Joseph P Sweeney
September 11, 2020
Remembering you today, Michael. May your perpetual soul continue to shine upon and help others.
Mary Carol Schmidt
September 11, 2019
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September 11, 2018
I did not know Michael, but after reading the words his family and friends had to say, I feel like I missed out! God bless you all!
Sondra Williams Wichita, Kansas.
Melanie Carlson
September 11, 2017
Remembering you today.
MARK HAYES
September 11, 2016
THINKING OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
Shaun OLeary
September 11, 2016
Wow, you have a sophomore in high school. 15 short years....Big, we all still miss you.
Kristy McGinty
September 14, 2015
We will never forget!
Brian Daly
September 11, 2015
Still remember!
John Graham
September 11, 2015
We miss you Mike.
John Clark
June 17, 2014
Mike,
Miss you, Happy 50th Birthday Mike!
Larry
June 16, 2014
For a guy who remembered EVERYONE's birthday, we can't forget his. Among the many things we miss, those phone calls each year were great. I am sure there are hundreds who think of Mike on their own birthdays each year.
Tracy Lunden
June 15, 2014
HAPPY 50th !!!!!
THINK ABOUT YOU EVERYDAY!
LOVE YOU!
S J. Friscia III
May 21, 2014
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
Jimbo
September 12, 2012
My nephew Conor Dwyer and his USA Swimming Teammate Ryan Lochte helped honor Lundo and the rest of the victims by participating in the 9/11 Day event at the NY offices of Cantor Fitzgerald yesterday.
No socks were worn!
Greg H
September 11, 2012
Lundo!!!!!!!!!!!! Thinking of you
Jeffrey Meldman
September 11, 2012
Miss you Uncle, Ill be doing my best to keep the family as close as I know youd want us to be. Living everyday with however little I know of you still makes a difference in a lot of peoples lives id hope and keeps me striving to be a better person, like you... everytime I put on a polo I think of you and uncle mark lol. I do my best to try and fill the void of good that opened up the day you left us, love your nephew Jeffrey
Michael Lunden
December 29, 2011
It's sad to lose a fellow Michael Lunden I hope the best to him and his family
September 12, 2011
The name Michael P Lunden came to me via a rememberance card at the SF Giants vs LA Dodgers baseball game on 9/11/11, and entire decade and country away from the disasters of that day. Although I was effected as all Americans were, I did not personally know anyone who lost their life that day. Michael P Lunden is the only 'name' that I hold. I was so moved by the rememberance ceremony and so moved to learn more about this person who's life was tragically cut short that day. I challenged all those around me to do the same with the 'names' on their card. Michael, I never knew you, but you will always have a place in my heart, I will always cherish you, honor you, and remember you. I wish nothing but peace, love and happiness for those that you left behind. We will never forget you Michael.
Kristy McGinty
September 11, 2011
...remembering how much you laughed. In honor of your memory, I did not wear any socks today Michael. God bless you and your family. You are truly missed.
John Graham
September 11, 2011
You are fondly remembered my many Mike. We Love you for giving your life for this country. RIP & Godspeed. Much Love & Peace. Johnny G
September 11, 2011
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Larry
September 10, 2011
Miss you Mike!
September 9, 2011
I never knew Mike but 10 years ago I received a small remembrance card at Christ the King Catholic Church in Atlanta with his name on it. On the front of the card it says, "Michael P. Lunden, Manhasset, NY, Partner, vice president, Cantor Fitzgerald, Last Known Location: World Trade Center." On the back there is a short prayer, "May the angels lead you into paradise; May the Martyrs welcome you upon your arrival, and lead you into the holy city of Jerusalem. May a choir of angels welcome you and may you have eternal rest. September 11, 2001." This card has been sitting on my desk for 10 years; I have read it many times and thought of Mike and his family. We will all be praying for Mike and all of the fallen at the memorial Mass this Sunday at Christ the King in Atlanta. God bless you all!
May 2, 2011
mising you and thinking of you
thoughts and prayers to you and your family
O'D
September 11, 2010
thinking of you today lundo - mary & chuck
Shaun O'Leary
September 12, 2009
Big, Still miss you. 2 more until the 25th..We'll keep Kudz away from the d'Yquem until then.....ShaunO
Joshua Ecuyer
September 11, 2009
As I finish my blog entry in honor of you as part of the 2996 project, I'm touched, even though I've never met you. Perhaps on the other side eh?
RIP
John Graham
September 11, 2009
Always a smile MPL; you'll always have that smile.
Much Love My Brotha and enjoy the Springsteen!
John
;.?[)
Jimbo
September 11, 2007
No one lived their life with more enthusiasm, or a bigger heart than Lundo. The efforts he made to keep his friendships alive and current are an example to us all. He touched so many lives, and I can't help but smile everytime I think of him.
Opening up a BIG bottle of Red for you tonight!
Lunnnnndoooooooooooooooo! ! ! ! ! !
Jimbo
p.s. I still miss the birthday calls.
Ryan/Loughry cousins
September 10, 2007
From our family to Mike's family, you are all in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss and God bless Mike and you always.
P Tabbernor
December 15, 2006
In memory....
Kristine
November 14, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Steve Luczak
November 3, 2006
Mark and family, came across a front page on AOL today and ironically it made me think of Mike and my days at Loyola. I think Mark catered to pink Polo shirts and Mike liked blue. In any event I'll say a prayer and we all know our good friend Charlie and he are together watching over all of us. Take care and how about we all get together sometime in Chicago!
Matt Seeberg
May 19, 2004
To Michael and his family --
As with no doubt many others, Mike touch my life in a sort of indirect way. My brother and I, Pat, played ice hockey with Mike in the 80-81 Loyola Academy school year. No offense, but Mike was a terrible hockey player. I was not much better, but his spirit, good nature, and constant comedic presence made the season bearable and every practice something to look forward to. I look back at the picture of the team, Neil H, MIke P, Ziggy, etc. And there is Mike, the one guy I knew who perished on that terrible day. May his spirit, craziness, good-heartedness, and all of the rest live on. Go Ramblers, Go Holy Spirit, and Go Mike. Peace to all.
Ro Arrington
December 23, 2003
Just thinking about the first time I met Lundo. I was a poor ass bond broker in NYC for some training. He bought me beer all night at Wollensky's. I have been going there for 15 years now and will always raise a glass to him.
Michael, the people of this Country, including the Southland, will never forget. Never.
Tom Curran
December 9, 2003
Lundo: We just finished the submission for the 9/11 fund on behalf of Michelle and Matthew. I cannot tell you how hard it was to finish the cover letter that went with it. I hope we hit a home run for you. We miss you terribly.
Dorian Harkoff
September 13, 2002
Just to look into those happy shinning blue eyes, you own world would light up. He had a very special way of making you smile by just watching him for two minutes.
When I met Michael, he wanted to work for a winery on his weekends. For a short-time, within his hectic schedule, he worked with me at a North Fork winery. At this time he was so anticipating the birth of his first child. He was so excited!
We all thought of Michael often and hoped to run into him again. I now wish I had just picked up the phone.
Sandi Grzybowski
September 13, 2002
To Michaels Family,I worked with Michael for a brief period at Osprey's Dominion Vineyard.That brief period, was one of the most enjoyable times of my life. Him and I would be behind the bar and all we would do was laugh. I said to him, you remind me so much of Robin Williams. He now lives forever in my heart. God Bless all of you and may Michael forever shine upon you.All my love, prayers and peace be with you. Sandi
Susan Beyersdorf
September 11, 2002
As I say my prayer today for the 365th day I promise a prayer every day going forward for Michael, Michelle, Matthew, Jerry, Rosemary, Mark and Tracy and for all those who knew and loved Michael.
Please watch over us.
Love,
Aunt Susan
September 11, 2002
kristin furth
July 3, 2002
dear michelle,
we just returned from chicago. so much of that wedding revolved around mike. he was very much present.
i was struck by your grace and strength throughout the weekend. you are so lovely and dear to so many people.
we are all rooting for you and matthew, michelle.!!!
much love, kristin and dan
anonymous
March 11, 2002
I went to high school with Mike at Loyola. Although we did not travel in the same circles, he was one of those guys that you just gravitated towards. always smiling, always laughing, always gregarious. i think paul kissane's tribute says more than i could ever. but i guess the one thing impresses me most. although i had not seen or spoken to mike since high school, it was great to know that he never changed. when so many of us let the world change us, mike stayed the sme and changed the world around him.
February 26, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN..MICHAEL P.LUNDEN AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS WIFE..BABY..REST OF HIS FAMILY AND HIS MANY FRIENDS...GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY JESUS AND ST.MICHAEL GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Tom Fitzgerald
February 4, 2002
As a teacher and coach at Loyola Academy it was with great sadness we received the news of losing one of our own on that tragic day. Mike was a terrific young man and will be missed. We pray each day for his family and for all those who have suffered a loss from this senseless act. Reading the tributes, especially Paul's has inspired me this evening. Thank you.
christina wyman
January 23, 2002
I never met Michael, and I know I missed out. My heart goes out to his wife and child every day. May you have all the courage and strength you need now and forever. We will not forget, Michelle, we will not forget.
Ellen & Angelo Tambornini
January 5, 2002
Mike, your sparkling eyes, charm and wit will be remembered by all that came in contact with you. Your love of Michelle and Mathew continues to remain in their hearts.
Laura Risher Brinckerhoff
January 3, 2002
Mark: I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. Please know that you are in my prayers.
Jackie Gott
January 1, 2002
Michael sounds like a great guy. I'm so sorry that he was a victim of this terrible tragedy. I will pray for him and his family.
Teresa Jahn
December 24, 2001
It sounds like Michael and all those around him enjoyed and celebrated life every single minute. May Michael's warmth, humor, positive attitude, life and love live on through everyone who was touched by his life. We are so very sorry for your loss of Michael. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Michael Kessler
December 18, 2001
Mark Lunden - Sorry about your brother, I heard about it at the recent Parrilli dinner. It was held at the White Eagle in Niles where the owner lost her daughter Vanessa Kolpak in WTC building 2. Both of these have changed me a little. (For the better) Talk to you soon.
Paul Kissane
November 27, 2001
I first met Michael when we were freshman at Loyola Academy. We were struggling in the same Algerbra class, but we also shared a common interest in sports. So we decided that we would take a leave from Mr.McMahon's Algerbra and head out to opening day at Wrigley Field in April of 1979. Leaving school without permission was one thing, but Mike said if we were going to go to the game it had to be in style. He arranged for box seats and we saw Dave Kingman whack 3 homeruns from the front row behind homeplate.From that day forward, Mike always stood out to me as a person who truly enjoyed "going the extra mile" and doing it first class. Through our high school and college years Mike and I also had inumerable memorable good times caddying out at Sunset Ridge Country Club in Northbrook,Illinois. The members always enjoyed Mike's charming ways and he always enjoyed their tips. Years have passed since those days, but I along with so many of Mike's friends from his youth on the NorthShore of Chicago could always count on a call from Lundo on our birthday. During those calls Mike would always remember one of the great events from our mutual past like going to Opening Day in 1979. Mike was a true friend who transended all social clicks and most importantly he was not afraid to be his outgoing gregarious self. He enjoyed it all and led by example by being a first class friend,husband,son, brother and father. Mike and his family will always be in my prayers and thoughts. I'll make sure and toast him at every Opening Day at Wrigley Field...from the box seats.
Bob O'Brien
November 13, 2001
Mike and I went to school together for 12 years. We also spent about as much time in the Principal's Office together as anyone. I'll always remember him as someone who could make me laugh... and would be the first to laugh at my bad jokes.
rick klein
October 23, 2001
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Lundon family. Know that Michael will live on in our hearts. His zest for living lifted the spirits of those he came in contact with, and I am a better person having him as a friend.
The Bednarz Family
October 21, 2001
Lots of sadness in lives taken tragically. May happy memories sustain you and your baby. All the nation is with you in spirit.
Theresa Olk-Peiffer
October 3, 2001
My Thoughts and Prayers go out to Michael's Family and especially to his wife and son. He was a great guy. I went to school with him at St. Norberts in Northbrook, IL. He was the greatest guy you could know. I have alot of great memories from grade school of him and each one makes me laugh.
Sincerely,
Theresa Olk-Peiffer
Class of '78
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