Patrick W. Danahy

Patrick W. Danahy

Patrick Danahy Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 1, 2001.
Counting Down the Days
She was born on Oct. 11, a month too late to get a blurry glimpse of her father. Grace, she was called.

When Patrick W. Danahy and his wife, Mary, had discussed girls' names, she suggested Grace. He was hesitant. But Grace is the patron saint of motorcyclists, she told him. (No, really. Look it up.) "It'll have to be," he said. "She'll look out for me when I go out riding."

Mr. Danahy loved motorcycles, and cars. (He bought himself an old Porsche for his last birthday, his 35th.) And mountain bikes. (He did a couple of 100-mile bikeathons.) "He seized any sunny day," his wife said. "He wouldn't waste it inside."

But "his girls were his life," she said — before Grace, a 2-year-old and a 3-year-old. He did a weekly countdown with the oldest, saying on Sunday nights, "Five days to go," and on Mondays, "Four," till he would be home with them. He would often get up at 4:30 to go to a gym. And later, from the 90th floor of 2 World Trade Center — he was vice president for investor services at Fiduciary Trust — he would call and say, "How are my girls doing?"

He called and talked to them at 8:30 a.m. on Sept. 11, hanging up just before the first plane hit — and with no bikers' saint to protect him.

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July 19, 2023

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Dennis Jacobi

September 11, 2024

Worked w/ Patrick at Ernst and Young in the early 90's. A terrific friend and mentor. Pure class and kindness. He is still missed.

September 10, 2024

Here we are 23 years later...but no matter how many years go by we still carry your memory with us always.

Tom Fleming

July 19, 2023

I´m 61 years old and thought about Patrick as a youngster in Hastings when I coached him in recreation basketball. Not really sure why he crossed my mind but just wanted to express my sorrow for his immediate and extended family. As a senior in HS, I thought of him as a polite, cute kid who was athletic. It´s wonderful to read about his success in life and impact he made on so many. God bless- TomFleming ( (Hastings `80).

Cindy Roe

September 6, 2021

Remembering Patrick on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....

February 21, 2020

Happy Birthday Pat! Today wouldve been your 54th birthday. We miss you always.

September 11, 2019

Thinking of Patrick and family today.

Kerry and Steve Shybunko

July 8, 2019

Be at peace above us, Patrick!

Chris Webster

September 14, 2018

This is from Chris Webster. Pat and I were good friends and colleagues, and I will never forget the great times we had mountain biking and also working together at Fiduciary Trust. Every anniversary I see Pat's name as well as many others I knew and lost that day. Pat will forever live on in the memories of those who knew him, as a bright, kind, and special person; great husband, father and friend. His light shines on forever.

Kindred Family

September 13, 2018

Sending our continued sympathy to your family for the loss of Patrick. Daily may God give the needed help as you try to cope with such a sad loss. He touched the lives of others and will be always lovingly remembered.

September 11, 2018

We are thinking of the Danahy and Sammell families especially today. We wish you God's peace as we wait in joyful hope of the resurrection. Mike & Pam Kehoe

Charlie Cannon

September 7, 2018

I had to do a report about 9/11, i saw him and clicked on him with no thought in mind. As I went through the guest book and his obituary my heart started breaking. The love his parents and family have wrote on here just break my heart. Rest in Peace Patrick Danahy.

Haley Matlock

September 5, 2017

Just wanted to write a message to the family to say that you are in my prayers every day. I know the pain doesn't go away. Continued prayers for you.

September 12, 2016

9/11/2016 Miss you. Mom and Dad

September 11, 2016

Always in our hearts....

Eric Rose

September 11, 2016

Thinking of you today, Pat. You are not forgotten.

Annmarie Cherolini

September 13, 2015

I think of you often Pat but find comfort knowing you're in a better place. You and your family will be forever in my thoughts and prayers.

Danahy family

September 12, 2015

Your light will shine forever

Mom,Dad Danahy Family

September 12, 2015

We miss you and love you always

Katie LoSasso

September 11, 2015

I work for the Transportation Security Administration and today at work I was given a card with Mr. Danahy's name on it. I read a little about his life and love of his family and motorcycles. His family is in my thoughts. Such a senseless act to take an innocent life. I will never forget and that is why I serve. NOT ON MY WATCH!

Carol

September 11, 2015

I am thinking about Patrick today and wishing his family peace and comfort on this 14th anniversary of September 11th. Still seems like yesterday. I worked with Pat at Ernst & Young many moons ago and remember his kindness and smiling face. Rest in peace, Pat.

Kerry & Stephen Shybunko

September 11, 2015

Remembering you today, and keeping your family in our prayers.

Al Razi

September 11, 2015

Thoughts go out to Pat and all the Danahys today. We will never forget.

Lisa Lisanti-Zayas

September 12, 2014

Thinking of you and your family.

Carolyn Stipp

September 11, 2014

You will never be forgotten Pat and we continue to pray for your family and for peace.

Al Razi

September 11, 2014

Thinking of Pat and all the Danahys today. God bless Pat and the USA.

September 11, 2014

Remembering you today and everyday Pat. We miss you!

John Tacij

September 11, 2014

Thinking of you today Pat. I can still hear you saying to me make me a calzone for Mary and a meatball wedge with hot cherry peppers for you. You are missed by all but also remembered by all.

September 8, 2014

We will attend a special Mass for you and all those who lost their lives on 9/11/2001. We will always love you and miss you. Mom and Dad and Danahy Family

Mary Anne Danahy

February 22, 2014

Happy Birthday Pat...You are always in our thoughts and prayers...We miss you very much! Love you, Mom and Dad

February 21, 2014

Happy Birthday Pat- We miss you so much!

John Danahy

February 21, 2014

Happy Birthday Pat!!!! You are forever in our thoughts and are deeply missed by all.

On this day you became part of my life Bill

Bill Withers

September 18, 2013

I rode in the 2 Million biker rally to DC. Everyone who rode from Washington HD got a name tag. I wore Patricks name proudly. Sorry for Our Loss.

Kerry and Steve Shybunko

September 12, 2013

Always in our thoughts and prayers.

Joan & Ed Hannigan

September 12, 2013

Blessings to you and your family Pat. We will never forget.

finnegan eileen

September 11, 2013

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Becky Goldenthal Cullen

September 11, 2013

Pat in a close knit town where your high school classmates are people you've come up with since you were in the single digits, we truly lost one of our own. A great athlete, kind of a quiet guy, always warm and kind. I think of your family often and wish them healing and lots of love.

Carolyn Stipp

September 11, 2013

I continue to pray that your spirit shines brightly over your family and gives them the strength they need to carry on in your huge absence. You and your family are carried in so many hearts across the world. We will never forget.

Niki

September 11, 2013

Thinking of Patrick and the Danahy family on this day. I know he is up in heaven watching down on you guys every day of the year.

Terry "Damien" Martin

September 11, 2013

Thinking about you and your family today.

September 11, 2013

Miss u Pat, always thinking of you my big brother

Al Razi

September 11, 2013

God bless you, Pat. You are missed by many. We will never forget.

September 8, 2013

Love from all;
Your family

September 8, 2013

9/11 Anniversary is coming soon. It hardly seems 12yrs have passed. We will have a Mass on Sept. 12 for you and all who lost their lives that day. We miss you and are always in our prayers. Love you, Mom and Dad

mary anne danahy

May 27, 2013

Patrick, we went to Mass today for Memorial Day and we always pray for you on this day because you were a victim of terrorists against our country. We know you are safe and with God our Father...pray for all of us.Love, Mom and Dad

Danahy Family

February 21, 2013

HAPPY BIRTHDAY...Love from all!

Mary Anne&Frank Danahy

February 21, 2013

Happy Birthday Patrick....We miss you and love you always...Mom and Dad

February 20, 2013

Happy Birthday. Thinking of you as always. Another year without you.

Carolyn Stipp

January 10, 2013

Patrick, although we never met I think of you often since 9/11/11. At mass that Sunday we each received a scrolled piece of paper that included a picture with a short background on one of the 911 victims. Our priest asked us to keep this person in our hearts and their families in our prayers. I opened my scroll to read about your love for your girls. I think of you and your family often. You will never be forgotten.

Danahy Family

November 22, 2012

Our love and prayers

mary anne danahy

November 22, 2012

Happy Thanksgiving Patrick...as always you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Mom, Dad and Family

Al Razi

September 11, 2012

Thinking of Pat and all the Danahys today. We will never forget.

Joan & Ed Hannigan

September 11, 2012

Thoughts & prayers to you & your family. We lost our dear nephew, Donald, on that fateful day. We will never forget.

September 11, 2012

Praying for Pat and his family today. I will never forget his smile, his warmth and kindness. I can only hope and pray that this world fills itself with more people like him. God bless.

Niki Raucci

September 11, 2012

Thinking of you today Pat and all the others who lost their lives 11 years ago...my thoughts and prayers go out to your brother John and the rest of your family. I know you are watching down and smiling from heaven!

John Danahy

September 10, 2012

Hey big brother, another year gone by without you,never a day i dont think of you, wish you were here.

September 10, 2012

Always & forever.........

Mary Anne & Frank Danahy

September 10, 2012

Our love and prayers from
Mom,Dad and family

Mary Anne & Frank danahy

September 10, 2012

Patrick you are always in our thoughts and prayers....and we miss you so much. Hard to believe this is the 11th anniversary of that horrendous day. We will be at Mass for you tomorrow and we love you very much. Mom and Dad

Tony Castro

September 10, 2012

Hi Pat,

I never did thank you for hiring me at Fiduciary. You were a great man and an example of professionalism.

One day comes to mind when thinking of you. I am not a runner and you always tried to make me into one. So what do you do? You sign me up for the Chase Corporate Challenge and surprise me with my number the day before the race.

You were something else and had a great sense of humor. I'm glad to have met you.

February 22, 2012

Happy Birthday for yesterday Patrick. I went to Mass for you but we will have a special Mass on Sat.since it was already taken for yesterday. We love and miss you very much. Mom and Dad

John Danahy

February 21, 2012

Hey Pat, Happy Birthday big brother ! Always thinking of you and especially today.

In admiration

February 1, 2012

You would be so proud of your girls. Now fine young ladies. Mary is strong and an excellent mom. The love and miss you dearly.

September 25, 2011

Forever in my heart, always on my mind.

September 24, 2011

you left us too soon
even though i only met you once you are always going to be a hero and you will always be loved
grace will never forget you because you live in her and you always will

Chris Webster

September 11, 2011

Mary,

This note is from Chris Webster. I worked with Pat at Fiduciary Trust. It has been since prior to Sept 11 when you and I last spoke or saw each other, but I think about Pat and you and the girls all the time, and you have all been in my prayers over these 10 years. (I did not live in the Northeast for most of that time).

I saw the segment on ABC with the footage of Pat, and with the interview with you and Grace, and it warmed my heart.

I will always have the great memories of mountain biking with Pat, and they are as vivid as if they happened yesterday, riding down the "shoot" in Dobbs Ferry.

God Bless you and the girls.

Chris
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Bailey Danahy

September 11, 2011

I didn't know Patrick, but I couldn't help but feel a pain in my heart this morning when I saw the list of people and saw that a Danahy passed away on 9/11. I just wanted to express my sympathy.

Maryellen (Rutkowski) Milostan

September 11, 2011

To Patrick's Family,
I am finally expressing my thoughts today about Patrick. I never had any contact with any of you since that summer I spent with your children, Mr. and Mrs. Danahy. So, you'd think I wouldn't recognize any of you. But as I look ino the picture of Patrick, the man, I see that little boy who reached out for me to lift him out of his crib.
I still live in the same house and when I walk past your old house, I remember all those times.
I can't even imagine the loss you must feel on a daily basis. I can still feel him on my left hip.
May God bless you as the world was blessed with Patick's presence for too short a period of time.

John Danahy

September 11, 2011

We miss u Pat!!, keep looking out for us, I think of u everyday , love, your little brother.

Caryn Kelloffer

September 11, 2011

To the Danahy family,

I worked with Pat at Ernst and Young on the FTCI audits for many years. I feel honored to have known Pat and think of him often. Pat was a great supervisor and friend. Although we worked hard and long hours at Fiduciary, Pat had a way of always making it fun. My thoughts are with your family today.

Joan Hannigan

September 11, 2011

You are in our thoughts & prayers Pat. Have fond memories of watching you play basketball in Hastings on Hudson.

Joan & Ed Hannigan

September 10, 2011

Remembering you today.

Sheryl (Lay) Cowan

September 10, 2011

Mary Anne and Frank - although it has been many, many years since I've seen or spoken with you, please know that you are in my thoughts on this horrific anniversary.

Kim Hudson Coleman

September 10, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with the Danahy family on this 10 year anniversary. I knew the Danahy's when they lived in Cody, Wy many years ago. Special thoughts go out to his wife and children..May God Bless You

niki raucci

September 8, 2011

thinking about you guys as the 10 year anniversary approaches and i know that patrick is looking down on you guys everyday. I'll be saying a special pray for patrick and the danahy family on sunday in church. thoughts and prayers go out to the danahy family!

September 8, 2011

The mountain bike poster, the m3 poster, and the bumper sticker are still where you left them. Rest in peace.

Scott Chamberland

September 7, 2011

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Dawn Serbanic

September 6, 2011

Although I didn't know Patrick personally I have been following his story for years. I just wanted to offer my thoughts and prayers for Patrick and his family. It's been ten years but time never completely heals all wounds. The loss of a loved one is terribly difficult and I hope during this time of memorials to those who parishes on 9/11 Patricks family can find peace in having such an amazing person in their lives, a person that lives on through memory and three beautiful children. Grace, from the pictures in People Magazine, looks just like her father. God bless you all.

Mary Anne Danahy

September 4, 2011

We are approaching the 10th Anniversary of 9/11...a day we will never forget. We love and miss you everyday. Mass will be offered for you and all those who lost their lives on 9/11 on Saturday the 10th for our Vigil Mass for St Teresa's parish. Our love and prayers always, Mom,Dad and Family

john tacij

August 25, 2011

Pat you had all the qualities that makes a man a man and I can say so does John and you would be very proud of him as I know you always were. I miss talking to you when I saw you and as many times that you have invited me to ride with you i'm glad I got to to so before you were taken from us. When we meet again I will bring your meatball wedge with hot peppers.
John Tacij

Fran OBrien

August 17, 2011

I remember Pat for his kindness, intelligence, and humor. I worked with him at FTC for 3 years. He was an absolute pleasure to be around. I wish he were here to teach others how to be a truly genuine person. We miss you Pat.

August 5, 2011

Always in my heart and forever missed.

May 4, 2011

You are loved and missed by all of us. We pray that one day soon we will have peace in this world and the terror that rages now will cease. God Bless you; our friends and family. Love you,Mom&Dad

John

May 3, 2011

Well , we got him big brother!,many thanks to our military, they're the best. I'm always thinking about you, I miss you so much. John

gigi gigi

May 2, 2011

i miss u dad

Nancy Donne

May 2, 2011

you are still missed....

May 2, 2011

Justice was finally served Pat.
We love and miss you.

February 22, 2011

Happy Birthday Patrick...Your birthday Mass was changed from the 21st to the 26th due to snow. Dad and I will be there but you were in our prayers on Monday. We love and miss you....Mom and Dad

February 21, 2011

Happy Birthday Pat. We love and miss you.

Leonor Galati

September 12, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family on this anniversary of 9/11. God bless...

Annmarie Cherolini

September 11, 2010

Pat,
You will never be forgotten and forever in our heart.

John Penz

September 11, 2010

Though I never met Pat, I did know his wife, she is my cousin, we will never forget those tragic hours, that tragic day,God Bless You Pat, Mary, and Family.
I am doing my part to make sure this never happens to innocent people in our country again.

James Searles

September 11, 2010

Your grave marker is but a few feet away from my Father,and everytime I visit with Dad, I stop by to pay my respects to you. I did not know you in life, but feel a connection as we share the exact same birthday...same day...same month...same year..and every birthday that I have celebrated since 2002, I think of you...May You Rest In Everlasting Peace....Jim

September 11, 2010

Thinking about you today, but remembering you always, throughout the year.

September 11, 2010

Hard to believe it's been 9 years since that horrible day. We love and miss you always.

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