Anthony P. Infante Jr.

Anthony P. Infante Jr.

Anthony Infante Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 1, 2001.
An Inspector in Shape
Anthony Infante, an inspector for the Port Authority Police, had gotten in shape for the New York City Marathon after laying off the race for a few years. His regained slimness came in handy as he ran up the stairwell of 1 World Trade Center, aiding victims. He was seen giving his coat to one man to protect him from burning materials.

Mr. Infante, 47, became a cadet with the Newark Police Department at 18. After staff cuts, he joined the Port Authority Police. As he progressed through its ranks, he attended college and then graduate school at night.

His last post was as the highest-ranking policeman at La Guardia and Kennedy Airports, when Mayor Rudolph W. Giuliani was campaigning for the city Police Department to take over the job. Mr. Infante marshaled evidence to show his force was doing well.

"There is no issue with the police departments," he said. "It's with the mayor."

The mayor went to his funeral, where Mr. Infante was remembered as a nice guy. Paul Brady, a friend, recalled how Mr. Infante nursed him through a divorce. He had tried to say thanks.

"What, are you nuts?" Inspector Infante answered. "We're friends."

Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on October 17, 2001.


Anthony Infante Jr., 47, gave life helping

As a child, Anthony Infante Jr. knew he would grow up to be a policeman.

For the past 20 years, he worked for the Port Authority, most recently, as a police inspector, rising to the rank of commanding officer for John F. Kennedy International Airport. Before that he was an officer in the Newark Police Department.

The morning of Sept. 11, Mr. Infante, 47, of Chatham, was attending a Port Authority meeting in Jersey City when he heard about the plane crashes at the Twin Towers, relatives said. He rushed to Manhattan to help, making it inside the North Tower in time to calm people as they descended.

"I got an e-mail," said his brother Andy, "from somebody saying that while they were going down the stairs, she saw (Anthony) going up the stairs, being very calm and assuring people that there was a way out, a clean exit to the street."

Asked to describe his younger brother, Andy Infante of Piscataway said, "In street terms, he's a stand-up guy. He's somebody that's always there for you, somebody that won't let you down. And he always wanted to be a cop."

His love for the job helped make him a happy man, said his wife, Joyce.

"There's so many people who go to work every day, put in the time, go home, and they spend 20 years putting in eight hours a day. My husband, though, he loved it, from the time he was 18 years old."

Mr. Infante was active in the lives of his two children, Marie, 23, and John Joseph, 19, and in the community. He coached his children's softball and basketball teams, did volunteer work for a soup kitchen, and was a religious school instructor at St. Patrick's Church in Chatham.

"He loved helping," said his daughter, Marie. "He was always helping people."

Mr. Infante attended night classes and earned a bachelor's degree from St. Peter's College in Jersey City and a master's degree from Seton Hall University.

"He set lofty goals for himself and accomplished them," Andy Infante said.

In addition to his wife, two children and oldest brother, Mr. Infante is survived by another older brother, Frederick Infante of Chatham, and by his parents, Anthony Peter and Elizabeth Infante of Basking Ridge.

A memorial Mass is scheduled for Tuesday at 7:30 a.m. at St. Teresa of Avila Church in Summit.

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M. Lee Brooks

July 7, 2025

Tony,
This growing old is not for the faint of heart, but it would have been easier if we could have done it together. We could have told old stories and lies about how great we were when we wore younger clothes. There are so many things we could have shared and perhaps even traveled together, but it wasn't meant to be. Judy and I think of you constantly, but more so on your birthday and it reminds us of what was stolen from you and your family. Happy birthday and know you are not forgotten. Love you brother.

Dave Kontny

September 12, 2024

A true hero and a friend. Tony, as many others, were taken from this earth far too soon. Tony was a man of character, integrity, and was well respected by all.

It’s been 23 years - but loosing Tony and the many others doesn’t go away - nor should it. ALWAYS REMEMBER!!!!!!

Continue to rest in peace my friend.

M. Lee Brooks

September 11, 2024

Tony,
Twenty-three years and the pain is as raw and fresh as the day they told me you were missing. My fear is that as the years go by, this country's memory of that day is fading, and the next generation will not feel the pain that event caused. My promise to you was that my family will never forget the sacrifice you made and the friendship we shared. I wish you were here to grow old with me and we miss you terribly. You are my brother, and we love you.

M. Lee Brooks

Jack Mandy

September 9, 2024

Never forgotten!!! Think of you every day!!

M. Lee Brooks

July 7, 2024

Tony,

Happy Birthday. We should have been able to grow old together and tell stories about the good old days, along with stories about our grandkids. It just wasn't meant to be. Judy and I keep your story alive with our children and grandchildren and they will share it with the next generation. We love you and miss forever.

M. Lee Brooks

M.Lee Brooks

September 11, 2023

Tony,

Now that the golden years have arrived, friendships and friends are a few of the things that I miss the most. Even though friends seem to ebb and flow like the tide, they are important to maintain. I would like to think that we would have been friends forever. On this day of remembrance, it is critical to keep your memory alive for those who will come in the next generation. We will not allow your sacrifice to be forgotten nor will we allow your memory to fade. We miss you all the time and think of what should have been. Love you forever.

M. Lee Brooks

July 7, 2023

Tony,

Birthdays are always a day for reflection of where we have been and where we are going. As I reflect on your birthday, I think of what should have been and what could have been. Every day I wish we could have shared these golden years and built other memories. As to what the future holds, I will never allow your memory to fade or be forgotten. Even though I have lost touch with those in ALEAN, your memory will be forever etched in my memory. Again, Judy and I think of you all the time and wish you were here with us. Happy Birthday Tony and we hope you have found peace.

M. Lee Brooks

Marion Brooks

September 11, 2022

Tony,
The pain of that day 21 years ago never goes away and is as real today as it was then. Things have changed so much these past years, but many things remain the same. My pledge was to keep your memory alive and never let people forget the sacrifice you and others made that day. We will be forever grateful for all those that gave that day and your memory will live in me forever. Those that know me know Tony and what a special person you were. We think of you often and pray you are at peace. Love you forever.

M. Lee Brooks

M. Lee Brooks

July 11, 2022

Tony,
Another birthday has come and gone and we are getting a little long in the tooth. Sure wish these days would slow down a little, but that isn't going to happen. I am starting to feel some of the aches and pains associated with age. There is nothing I would not have done to share these getting old stories with you. I suppose we would have debated on who's aches and pains were worse, but it would have been good natured. Judy and I think of you often and what should have been. Love you and miss you forever.

M. Lee Brooks

September 11, 2021

Tony,
On this 20th day of remembrance, I felt it important to say that you will never be forgotten. The pain of that day is still fresh, but more so because it was personal. What you sacrificed was not in vain, nor will your memory fade. You are a hero to those who sacrificed after you, but for those of us who knew you, you will be a point of inspiration forever. Because of you, we know why we did what we did. Love you forever brother and know that Judy and I think of you all the time.

M. Lee Brooks

Lee Brooks

July 13, 2021

Tony,

Happy belated birthday. Seems that I have reached the winter of my life and memory is starting to fade. It would have been nice to grow old together and argue about what day it is. We miss you every day. Love you.

M. Lee Brooks

Lee Brooks

September 12, 2020

Miss you every day.

Bob Bolles

September 11, 2020

RIP my friend, thou it's been 19 years ago, it still just like yesterday. Our thoughts and prayers are always with you and your family and friends. Lest We Need Forget!

Judy Brooks

July 7, 2020

Happy Birthday Tony! Another year older and it seems the more we know the less we understand. The world is a different place now and it is not safe to wear a uniform. You would be saddened by the place we are in with the world being turned upside down. Judy and I miss you everyday. Love you brother.

M. Lee Brooks

M. Lee Brooks

September 11, 2019

Tony,

The pain seems to be more intense on today, but the pain of missing you is everyday. The world will remember today for the horror of the event, however, those of us who lost someone personal feel that loss everyday. You will not be forgotten nor will those of us who knew you stop telling your story. The measure of one's life can be determined if they were a good person during their life. You gave your life for all the innocent people who died without even knowing why. You are one of my hero's and will forever be in my heart. Judy and I miss you every day and think of you constantly. My hope is that you are resting comfortably knowing you were a good man. Love you.

M. Lee Brooks

M. Lee Brooks

July 7, 2019

Tony,

This growing old is not for the faint of heart. I only wish you were here to share and enjoy this journey. Judy and I think of you every day and miss you terribly. Happy Birthday! We love you.

M. Lee Brooks

William C. Ajello

September 30, 2018

I think of you often Anthony, the last time I saw you was way back in 1965 when we were classmates in Berkeley Terrace Elementary School in Irvington, N.J.
Then, I saw you on television on the news when flight 800 went down and I told my wife at the time, "Hey, I know that guy, I went to grammar school with him!" And I was proud of you for the man you became.
And sadly, the next time I saw your picture was among those tragically taken from us on September 11th but after I read the story of how you died, my heart was heavy with pride that it happened while you were saving people's lives from certain death.
I will never forget you Anthony, your name on the wall at the pools is on my iPad and there it will stay forever.
Rest In Peace Sir and thank you for your service.

Ronna D'Arcangelo-Marchello

September 11, 2018

Every year on this day I think of you my dear cousin. Your name is mentioned constantly in my home and when the family is together. My father and mother adored you along with my sisters brother and I as well. I have a picture on my table of my father holding you as a baby. I know you are in a better place and your Brave acts saved many people on that horrific day.
Please know that you are so missed and you're never forgotten. You were more than a cousin. Xo
Love
Ronna

Donna Stockl

September 11, 2018

Tony,
It's been so many years but every year on this sad anniversary I always remember you and your kindness and your bravery.
I was at your home as a tutor for one of your children -- a delight. Yet you were kind enough to help me with suggestions for dealing with a troubling situation which was not in your jurisdiction.
So, having that experience, I was not surprised that you rushed to help that terrible morning.
May your example of love and service continue to inspire all who had the privilege of knowing you!

M. Lee Brooks

September 11, 2018

Tony,

They say time heals all wounds, but this wound is too deep and there isn't enough time to heal this wound. We now have a generation of people who were not born when this event happened, so they will study this as history. My promise is that I will not allow your memory to be forgotten. Judy and I miss you every day and we think about what might have been. We love you and miss you more than ever.

M. Lee Brooks

July 7, 2018

Tony,

Wish there was a pause button on these birthdays! Judy and I think about you every day and wish you were here to celebrate these days. Happy Birthday, miss you more every day. Love you.

September 11, 2017

Tony,

On this day of remembrance, you are still in our hearts and thoughts. Even though it has been 16 years, you will never be forgotten by those of us who loved you. There have been and will be many hero's, but you will forever be mine. Judy and I miss you every day and wish we could have grown old together. We want you to know we miss you and love you.


M. Lee Brooks

M. Lee Brooks

July 7, 2017

Tony,

Another birthday has rolled around. They seem to get here much faster than ever before. I have reached the age where reflection on the many blessings I have weighs on my mind. Having you as a friend is one of those blessings. Judy and I wanted to say happy birthday, we love you, and miss you every day.


M. Lee Brooks

Ray Ramos

September 13, 2016

Anthony you will always be our Hero, we will never forget you. Rest in peace.

M. Lee Brooks

September 11, 2016

Tony,

Fifteen years and I remember it like it was only yesterday. Phoenix seems like so long ago, but the memories will never go away. There is so much that I would have shared with you and I had hoped we would grow old together. Know that your heroism was not in vain and I know and understand the depth of your sacrifice. Judy and I talk about you all the time and we will always have a place in our heart for you. We love you and miss you dearly. Love forever brother.

Ron Snyder

September 6, 2016

RIP Tony.... 15 years and I will NEVER FORGET

M. Lee Brooks

July 7, 2016

Tony,

Another year has passed and we are contemplating retirement. Looked forward to visiting you after you retired from the teaching position, but it wasn't meant to be. Think of you everyday. Judy and I wish you a happy birthday. You are missed deeply by those you touched. Love you brother.

Ruben Infante

September 11, 2015

Hola. Me llamo Ruben Garcia Infante de España . Siento mucho su perdida. Ojala nunca hubiera pasado semajante horror. Mis condolencias

diane wood

September 11, 2015

To My Dear Cousin Anthony, Thinking of you today on 9-11-15 and always, until we meet again... Love always, Diane

M. Lee Brooks

September 11, 2015

Tony,
Another day of remembrance and I am thinking about all that could and should have been. So much lost, but so much to be proud of. You are in my thoughts every day, but more on this day. Judy and I were talking about how special the trip to New York was and how you made it have meaning. We love you and miss you terribly.

diane wood

July 7, 2015

TO MY DEAREST COUSIN ANTHONY, MISSING YOU TODAY ON YOUR BIRTHDAY AND ALWAYS. LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU FOREVER.....LOVE YOUR COUSIN DIANE...

July 7, 2015

Tony,
Another birthday is here and it is another day closer to my going into retirement full time. I often wonder what it would have been like to share our retirement together telling stories about the grandchildren. Just wasn't meant to be. Happy birthday and know that Judy and I miss you and think of you often. Love you.

M. Lee Brooks

DIANE WOOD

September 11, 2014

TO MY BELOVED COUSIN ANTHONY, THINKING OF YOU ON THIS DAY SEPT. 11, 2014. I KEEP MEMORIES OF YOU GROWING UP TOGETHER,AND HAVING YOU ALWAYS BY MY SIDE.. FOREVER IN MY BROKEN HEART. YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN. LOVE YOU TODAY, TOMORROW AND ALWAYS. YOUR COUSIN DIANE.

M. Lee Brooks

July 9, 2014

Tony,

This was to be the decade of enlightenment, wisdom, and a sense of satisfaction with our life goals. All the mysteries of the world were to be revealed and we were to become the learned ones. Along the way, life got in the way and it wasn't meant to be. Happy birthday and know that Judy and I think of you all the time. Know that you were a major reason I am as wise as I am. Love always.

Diane Wood

May 16, 2014

To my dearest cousin Anthony, you will be in my heart always. I love you and miss you. Think of you every day. Always and Forever, Diane

Bob Bolles

September 11, 2013

12 Years have past, but it still seems just like yesterday. I stopped and visited your final resting place for the 1st time in July, we were up in NYC for Craig's daughter's wedding. It's strange the feeling one gets, seeing all of those names and knowing you were on the job, doing what you did best. From our Rescue 251 days to that day, you traveled the road to protect others. RIP my friend. Lest We Never Forget!

M. Lee Brooks

September 11, 2013

Tony,
While we post here to honor your memory, there is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you and what should have been. Time allows us to move past tragic events, but they are never forgotten. Know that Judy and I think of you and we keep you in our prayers. We love you and miss you terribly.

September 1, 2013

Inspector Infante and all the Port Authority Police , "true heroes are seldom in the spotlight", May God bless your families. Only met Tony a few times at EWR Presidents Club, we were all a unit there, it only took one meeting to get it. We will never forget, we will remember daily.
Allie- Co Pclub EWR

Bill Murphy

July 8, 2013

Happy what would have been you 59 Birthday. Will never be forgotten Tony.

July 8, 2013

He came on the NPD at an early age, with a passion for Law Enforcement..I worked the Decoy Sqd. with Tony, and he was a stand-up guy always there as a backup......R.I.P.

M. Lee Brooks

July 7, 2013

Tony,
Today is a day to celebrate milestones and mourn those who are no longer with us. We share a bond that cannot be broken, my thoughts are with you constantly, but more today than others. Judy and I miss you and think of all the things that should have been. We love you and miss you dearly.

Ray Ramos

September 14, 2012

I will never forget my friend and partner Anthony. I worked with him in the N.P.D. Decoy Sqd.He was one of the best. R.I.P.

Kathryn Kormash

September 11, 2012

Uncle Tony,
11 years has passed and the pain of losing you is still as bad as it was that fateful day. You were an incredible person and have never thought anything less. My dad still tells the crazy stories you two had together as Newark Police. I know that there is no one else I'd rather have to be my Godfather...I believe there is a special reason that you were chosen. I hope I make you proud. I know you are in a beautiful place right now. Rest easy, Uncle Tony...

Thomas Dahl

September 11, 2012

Tony, on this the eleventh anniversary, I wanted to add some of my recollections of you. You were a good friend during our years together as members of ALEAN. You were always professional in your actions, caring of others, funny and personable. I think of you often. I pray God has provided a special place for you.

M. Lee Brooks

September 11, 2012

Tony,
As others go about the task of rememberance, there are those of us who simply close our eyes and remember those who were dearest to us. As time ebbs, memories fade, but I will forever be grateful for having known you. Please know that I think of you often, but more today than others. I don't think I have ever thanked you for what you gave for us all. You are missed terribly.

July 7, 2012

Anthony, Happy 58th Birthday! You are very, very sadly missed every day, but especially today.
Love you today and always!
Carol

M. Lee Brooks

July 7, 2012

Tony,
Another year has come and gone and I miss you as much today as I did then. I think of you often as I watch my grandchildren grow older and know we would have had a great time sharing memories. Happy Birthday and I miss you terribly.

Kathryn Kormash

November 4, 2011

Thinking of you...Miss you

R Blair

September 14, 2011

You will never be forgotten, nor will any of the others who perished on that tragic day. You gave the ultimate sacrifice. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

September 12, 2011

Tony,
You are not forgotten and never will be.

Bob Bolles

September 11, 2011

It seems like to was yesterday, but ten years have past. Just last week, I visited the Echo Lake Park 9-11 Memorial and stopped to say hello to you and others lost from Union County. I'll visit you soon at you final resting place. Never forgotten and missed by all who knew you.

Ernie MacVane

September 11, 2011

We held a memorial parade today (09-11-2011) in Portland, Maine to remember those who lost their lives saving countless others. My 5-year old son Tyler carried a poster with your name on it as a tribute to your memory and sacrifice. Thank you for giving your all so that we could can be safe. And to your family- we extend ours. Thank you for your precious gift.

Officer Ernest MacVane III-
Windham, Maine Police Department

Sarah Cunningham

September 11, 2011

Uncle Tony,
I can't believe it's been 10 years already. It seems like just yesterday when we were at your house, twirling around the room and playing ring around the rosie. I always loved it when you played with me. I really wish I had more time to know what an amazing uncle you were, but God needed another angel. I love you so much, you're in my heart forever and always.

Love, your niece and god daughter,
Sarah

M. Lee Brooks

September 11, 2011

Tony,

A decade has passed since the world was turned upside down. While it seems like yesterday, in many instances, it was a life time ago. I recall the conversations we had and miss growing old with you. You are a hero to all of us, but more importantly, you were my brother. I love you and miss you terribly, but know we are better for having known you. You will forever be in my heart and mind.

M. Lee Brooks

Bill Murphy

September 10, 2011

Ten years have passed since that terrible Tuesday morning of death and destruction, including the loss of Tony. His memory and bravery will never be forgotten. My prayers are with his family. May the Lord grant Tony eternal rest. A retired N.P.D. officer who worked with him in the W.D.

James Dobak

September 4, 2011

Tony:
You remembered me as a kid when you worked with my Dad as a Newark Police Officer. You laughed when Bobby Magnani announced my name at Danny's, describing me as being a kid from Jersey, because you thought they were talking about my Father. I called your cell phone from the NJSP Bloomfield Station on 9/11 to see if you were ok and searched the pile to see if I could find you. The "Secret Society of the NYPD" still miss you and you will always be our lost, but not forgotten, Brother. I find it hard to believe it has been ten years because it seems it was only yesterday when the sky was blue and the World was still a peaceful place. Rest well Brother till the Gang meets again.
Jim Dobak (Former Newark Police Officer, Sgt. NJSP)

Kathryn Kormash

August 21, 2011

Uncle Tony,
almost 10 years and i still can't believe it. finally justice has been served, even though it will not bring you back. I know you are watching over us (thanks for the sign yesterday! :) ) I wish i had got to see you more before this happened but I know I will always be in your heart and you will always be in mine.
I'll love you forever,
Your goddaughter,
Kathryn

kathryn kormash

July 6, 2011

happy birthday uncle tony...another year you should of been with us...i know you have a great spot in heaven though. watch over us. i love you
your goddaughter,
kathryn

M. Lee Brooks

July 6, 2011

Tony,

Another birthday and the time seems to get away from us. I think about you every day and wonder how things might have been. We would have been telling lies about our grandkids and saying how funny the other one talked. Most of all, we would tell each other we both love the other. We miss you and love you.

Allison Hanley

July 5, 2011

Tony, I was one of your students attending Seton Hall at night. Your words still inspire me today as a leader.. "No problem, I will get it done". These words I carry with me always!! Thank you!!

Kathryn Kormash

March 30, 2011

Uncle Tony,
I think about you everyday, but some days more than others. Today is one of those days. Some days are real bad and I still can't believe it's almost going to be 10 years since you left us. I know you're in a much better place but it's still not fair. I know you were a hero and that makes me so proud to have not only an uncle who's a hero, but my Godfather. There's only a few people who are as lucky as me to have amazing angels as a Godparent. Uncle Tony, you were taken too soon from us, I know there's nothing we can do about it now, but I just wish...wish it never happened. I love you so much, my angel. Please keep watching over all of us. I love you forever and always.
Kathryn

My Christening With My Godparents

Kathryn Kormash

March 4, 2011

Kathryn Kormash

March 4, 2011

I miss you. wish you were here, my Godfather. I know you're in a better place now though, just wish I could of seen you one last time. Love you lots Uncle Tony, please continue to watch over us. There's no one else I'd rather have to call a Godfather. I love you.
Kathryn

Tom Carpenter

February 27, 2011

I just saw your name on the Oliver Stone movie and it reminded me of a friend named Anthony Infante Sr. from upstate and I just wanted to say that you are not forgotten

January 26, 2011

Hero forever

Bob Bolles

September 11, 2010

Two people, both friends and neighbors, Tony at WTC and Hilda Marcin in PA were lost nine years ago. I will never forget their lost as well as the void that family and friends have had. Rest well as your are remembered by those who knew.

September 10, 2010

Tony,
Another year and the pain seems to be the same. After nine years you would think the pain would subside, but it doesn't. We love you and I think of you often. I wish I could talk to you about the grandkids, but you know about them anyway. Love you.

M.Lee Brooks

Carol Greaney

July 8, 2010

Anthony,

Happy 56th Birthday, one day late! Wish you were here.

Love,
Carol

M. Lee Brooks

July 7, 2010

Tony,
I wish we could have grown old together and shared stories about grandchildren. Life just doesn't work out that way. Happy birthday, I miss you everyday. Love you.

September 11, 2009

Tony,

There are many defining events in a person"s life and we never know where life will take us. I am glad life took me to a place with you in it. This day will be forever imprinted in my mind and the tragic loss we all felt. I love you Tony and I miss you very much.

M. Lee Brooks

Doug Abraham

July 7, 2009

Happy Birthday!!!

M. Lee Brooks

July 6, 2009

Tony,
Another year and another birthday. Happy birthday and we love and miss you everyday.

Harvey Sparber

April 24, 2009

I remember the entire Infante family from Irvington NJ. I was a friend of Anthony's older brother Fred. As I read all of these nice tributes to Anthony, nothing surprises me. The Infante's were a good ALL AMERICAN family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

M. Lee Brooks

September 11, 2008

Tony,
It seems like yesterday we were in Arizona together. Another anniversary and the pain is still as real as that day. I love you and miss you every day.

Carol Greaney

September 10, 2008

Anthony,

You are sadly missed every day.

Love you,
Carol

Carol Greaney

July 11, 2008

Happy Birthday Anthony! You are in our thoughts and prayers every day, but especially on 7/7/08, your 54th birthday.

Love you,
Carol

M.L. Brooks

July 10, 2008

Tony, we shared many memories, including our birthdays. Judy and I miss you and we think of you all the time. Happy birthday brother! Love you.

Doug Abraham

July 7, 2008

Happy Birthday!!!

M. Lee Brooks

September 11, 2007

Tony,
Another year has passed and the pain still remains. We think of you all the time and wish we could share our happiness with you. You are my brother and I love and miss you dearly.

Jennifer Frye Gentry

September 11, 2007

I never had the privilege of knowing Mr. Infante personally, though I knew Marie in high school. I keep your wonderful family in my thoughts and prayers and I thank you for making the ultimate sacrifice.

Doug Abraham

July 10, 2007

Happy Birthday!!!

Jim Robson

May 22, 2007

Tony,
i have your picture on the wall in the classroom where I teach law enforcement classes, right next to poster of an American flag that memorializes all who perished on 911. My students occassionally ask "who is that guy in the picture?" My answer is always the same " His name is Tony Infante.He was a great man and a hero" You are not forgotten.

P Tabbernor

November 14, 2006

In remembrance....

Kristine

November 2, 2006

As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

M. Lee Brooks

September 11, 2006

Tony,

It has been five years since they told me you were missing and the pain is as great today as it was then. I wanted to stop time and find you before you went into that building. I wanted to tell you I love you and to hug you one last time. My prayers are that we will see each other again and I will be able to tell you how much I love you and miss you. I also want to hug you and tell you how proud I am of you. Your southern brother will never forget what you meant to me and we miss you dearly. Judy and I listen to Doo Wop and say that's Tony's music. Look over us and know I love and miss you every day.

Allison Hanley

March 2, 2005

I was fortunate to have Tony as my professor for 3 courses while attending night school at Seton Hall. Many times I thought of missing class due to a hectic schedule but I didn't want to miss Tony's smile and "war" stories that he enjoyed adding to his presentations. Thank you Tony. You are missed!!!

Ken Miller

January 19, 2005

Tony hosted the Spring ALEAN convention in NY. Our first trip to the Big Apple. My wife and I were just two people among many, and he stopped to talk to us - see how we were going - if we needed anything.

What a great guy. Miss you brother.

Dave Pond

September 12, 2003

I only worked with Inspector Infante once, when I set up a trip for Air Force One at JFK. I remember feeling that we would be completely safe during our stay. The Inspector exuded a purposeful confidence, that there was no way he would let anything bad happen to us on his watch. I can be sure that as he helped people at the WTC, he displayed that same quiet confidence and dignity, as well as a courage that defies words.

I will carry his memory and example with me forever.

God Bless You



Dave Pond

Air Force Presidential Advance Agent

ronnie giameo

April 30, 2003

Many fond memories of Anthony, growing up together in Irvington. Most memorable moment was Anthony and I painting a welcome home banner for my brother Jack returning home from Viet Nam. My deepest sympathy to the family of Anthony Infante.

Safety Patrol/ Chancellor Ave. 1968- Anthony is the one behind the hat.

Ray Boyer

March 5, 2003

I have many Great memories of Anthony growing up together in Ivington,NJ.,really to many to share. But I looked long and hard for the attached photo and finally found it. It is a picture of our safety patrol at Chancellor Ave. grammer school in 1968. "Antny" as we called him back, then is the one behind the boy with the hat on. Once a patrol boy, always a patrol boy, in my heart and in the big house too. We miss you "big guy", rayb

Lt. Kevin Hassett

December 21, 2002

You were a true Commanding Officer and your leadership, insight and friendship is forever missed. In the days that followed 9-11-01 you were the type of boss we needed but God had other plans for you. May you rest in eternal peace my friend. Till we meet again with the rest of the Squad.

Ana Nedelcu

September 10, 2002

It will be a year tomorrow and everything still feels so surreal. I know I never got to meet you but I think about you and your family everyday. I still wear the bracelet with your name on it every single day. I know you're watching over your family and friends giving them strength to go on. May god bless you and your family. You will forever be in our hearts.

Andy Anderson

August 21, 2002

You were my C.O. but above all my friend. You are dearly missed.

Andy Anderson PAPD JFK Airport

Bill Ajello -2002

Bill Ajello

July 14, 2002

To The Family Of Anthony Infante Jr,

I am proud to say that I knew of this hero named Anthony. We went to the same Grammar School in Irvington, Berkeley Terrace and I was in Annthony's class fom Kindergarten right up till my family moved when we were going into the 6th grade, we had our moments during this time but all kids do but I never saw Anthony again after that until Flight 800 went down and I saw him being interviewed on the news and I just blurted out to my wife "HEY, I know that guy, I used to go to school with him many years ago!". Then Sadly came September 11th and a week or so later I saw his picture in the paper as listed among the missing and I felt sadness for a man I only knew as a kid but very proud to say I knew him and am very humbled to know that he sacrificed his own life saving others, this is the mark of a true and inspirational human being and I was proud of him....and will always be. My deepest Sympathies to his wife Carol and his children, Anthony will always be in my heart. God Bless!

joannie

July 10, 2002

Anthony,

Such a sad day Sunday-your birthday. It's nearly 10 months and I still cannot believe you're not here. Your partner's heart is truly broken - he'll never be the same. However, he has done everything he can to honor you. You both started as cops together 29 years ago - on September 11th, 1972.

I only wish September 11th, 2001 never happened. Although you're not here, you'll still remain Nick's only partner and in our hearts forever.

Love, Joannie

John Infante

June 17, 2002

Dad,

It's almost been a year and I still can't think clearly. You were my father but more importantly my best friend. You have helped me through life, along with so many others and on 9/11 you were only doing what came so natural to you. I felt like dying when I heard that you were in the WTC, but I was not suprised. I knew that if you were in the area you'd be the first one to go in. Although I am so proud of you my selfishness makes me wish you didn't go in. I know you are in a better place now and you are well taken care of but I'd much rather have you here with me. I miss you every minute and I can only pray that one day I will be blessed to see you again. Thank you for being the best to me. I have never met a person that I'd rather call Dad.

Love always,

John

Angie Campbell

May 2, 2002

**********GOD BLESS YOU**********

Nicole Laing

March 29, 2002

Inspector Anthony Infante,



You are my hero,

My cousin,

and my friend!

I wish I could see your face again

I wish I could say good-bye

I even wish you were right here with me

Thank You

I Love You!

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