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Ian Snellgrove
September 11, 2024
Remembering all the heroes of 9-11 especially my friend Dennis, glad that God allowed our paths to cross many years ago at the National Fire Academy. My Prayers today go out today and always are extended to the family, especially Mrs. Carey. God Bless!
Ian Snellgrove...
Bossier City F.D. LA (Ret)
Still
Jean Carey
May 31, 2024
Still♥
Mathew
May 30, 2024
I work with my uncle for years he was more then an uncle he was like a brother our maybe like a father he mad me the man i am today you get up take care of your family and always help those you can i love you BIG D
2023
Jean Carey
September 16, 2023
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Brittany Reid
September 15, 2023
Rip Dennis M Carey Sr
Donna Colello
September 11, 2021
It has been 20 yrs and I still have your name from a walk I did, in honor of you. I didn’t know you but you have stuck with me all this time and I continue to pay tribute for your service and your love for cooking.
Peace be with you!
Jay Leonard
September 10, 2021
20 years
#NeverForget
Ian Snellgrove
September 9, 2021
On the 20th Anniversary of Sept 11th, Praying for the Carey family.
“Never Forget”
Ian Snellgrove
Ret. Bossier City Fire Dept., Louisiana
Cindy Roe
September 3, 2021
Remembering Dennis on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
Anay Waghale
May 16, 2021
I didn’t know Dennis but I am sure he was a wonderful person. I clicked this picture back in 2017 when I was in NY.
Ian Snellgrove
September 12, 2020
Dennis and I were friends. We were in a table group when our paths crossed so many years ago at the National Fire Academy in Emmitsburg Maryland. You and your family are thought of often.
Praying for the Carey family.
“Never Forget”
Ian Snellgrove
Ret. Bossier City Fire Dept., Louisiana
Donna Colello
September 11, 2020
As another year passes, and I try every year to sign his book! I proudly hang a large sign in my window, the one that I received while doing a remembrance walk in Portland, ME some time ago. Thoughts and prayers to his entire family as I pray for strength for you all. Never Forgotten-----Donna Colello
Jennifer Letz
September 11, 2020
Thinking about you and your beautiful family today
December 24, 2019
RIP, brother
Ellynn Rolett
September 12, 2019
I am the daughter of a firefighter who learned my dad could die on 9/11, as a small 2nd grader. Our family needed to do something to feel like we were helping our IAFF union family. In 2002 when IAFF made copper bracelets for our 343 fallen heroes our family got 4 for us and one four our priest, Father Judge, obviously. I picked FF Dennis M Carey of FDNY HazMat 1. I picked FF Carey because my dad was a HazMat officer. I was terrified my dad was going to go to ground zero. For the past 18 years I have prayed for the Carey family. I have googled and seen Dennis M Carey is a Senior. I hope his Jr is living a life similar to mine. Living our dreams your dad had for you. I don't know if y'all will ever see this, but I want you to know I've been praying for you all since I got this bracelet so long ago. You will forever be in my prayers and a part of my IAFF family. ❤
Del Newberry
July 29, 2019
Keeping your family in my prayers. We will never forget. Much love from Texas...
Lucille Petrizzi
June 20, 2019
This candle represents the light you brought into our lives. I miss you.
Lucille Petrizzi
June 20, 2019
Dennis you are a true hero, There is no greater love than a man who lays his life down for a friend, may our Lord keep the Carey family safe and comforted as He has promised...God Bless all.
Cousin
Lucille Petrizzi
Wesley Joyner
September 11, 2018
Thinking of you today Dennis as I do every day. Jeanne, may God bless and somehow comfort you and the entire Carey family as you continue on.
Donna Colello
September 10, 2018
Again another year...
Never forgotten in Maine!
Sincerely
Donna
September 13, 2016
Thank you for not forgetting... we visited Maine as a family and loved it...Peace and love, Jeanne Carey
Donna Colello
September 11, 2016
To the family of this never forgotten hero
Just wanted to let you know. I first adopted your loved one in a march in Portland, Maine 15 years ago. I have displayed his name and sign in my window every year following. I pay tribute to changing my Facebook page to let people know even though I have never met or know him he will still be never forgotten in the state of Maine
September 9, 2016
Thinking of you and Dennis not just this weekend but all the time.. hope all is well!
September 11, 2015
I am thinking of Dennis and his family and friends again today, while wearing his photograph in memory of his sacrifice.
Louisville, Colorado
Jennie
June 1, 2015
Dearest Jeanne- although its been so many years since I've last seen you, I do think of you often and wish you well. You are the epitome of strength and optimism. I miss you all.
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Brian Hollister
April 2, 2015
My wife and I were just visiting Oranjasted, Aruba in March 2015 when we visited Eden Beach aka Spice Beach, there at the beach was a shade covered hut....on the pole inside the hut, was the most wonderful memorial for Mr. Dennis Carey...We cried reading the memorial plaque, and said some prayers for his soul and for his family and friends....it was so nice to see his name remembered and honored....we took photos of his name, the plaque and the sun hut.....if anyone from his family or friends would like the photos, I would be happy to email them all 9 pics, to you Please email me at brianhollisterguy @ gmail dot com
This memorial was so unique. I don't know if the Carey family knows about this Aruba memorial.....but I felt it important to share it with you.
May he rest in peace. His bravery will never be forgotten by me or
Jim and Lillie Bloodgood
September 12, 2014
Always in our prayers
Haverhill High Sep 11 Memorial Fountain
September 11, 2014
Edward Woods
September 11, 2014
Thinking of you Dennis and your family on this day. My son Ryan continues to wear a bracelet with your name on it every single day in your honor. You and your sacrifice will never be forgotten.
Lori Capra
September 10, 2014
I am a high school teacher in Haverhill, MA. Our school will be having an outdoor ceremony tomorrow morning to honor the lives lost on Sep 11. Names of lives lost that day were randomly posted on classroom doors throughout our school. Dennis's name was posted on my door. So, I have read and shared a few things about him with my students. We will proudly acknowledge his name card during tomorrow's ceremony. As difficult as this time may be, I know that Dennis's friends and family will be honored to know about this.
Michelle Di Lorenzo- Celano
September 12, 2013
Sending love to all of you!! The Di Lorenzo Crew will never forget our fun times with all of you at The Fireman's picnics and Camping in Lake George:). My Dad misses you Dennis and will never forget you
Laurie & Vince Carey
September 11, 2013
Our thoughts & prayers continue to be with your family & friends. May you all find comfort in knowing others care & share your loss. A greatful nation thanks you Dennis, for your service. God bless your family & may our Lord hold them gently in his arms. Deepest & heartfelt sympathy continue for you all.
Ian Snellgrove
September 11, 2013
Remembering and honoring Dennis M. Carey on this day.
Tonight at church we will have a special prayer for Dennis and Fellow Firefighters, Police officers, Military personnel and Civilians who all were Courageous - Heroes of Sept.11th
Jeanne, Nichole and Dennis Jr., I'm thinking and praying for you all today as well.
Susan Woolen sky
September 11, 2013
Thinking of you and Dennis.
Diane Stephan
September 11, 2013
I recently took my daughter to the 9/11 Memorial at Eisenhower Park. I pointed out your name on the wall.
Your sacrifice will never be forgotten.
Rest in peace.
September 11, 2013
Christie Accardi
September 11, 2013
Uncle Dennis, I have many great memories of you and if I mentioned them all I would be writing my first novel! There are two that always stick out in my mind that are definitely worth mentioning. The first was when I was learning to drive and you let me drive your car to blockbuster video in Wantagh. We were driving down Jane Street and midway down your block was a stop sign that obviously I didn't see and went right through it and I remember you laughing and saying, "Christie, you just drove through a stop sign." You laughed the whole way there. My second favorite memory was my 21st birthday in Atlantic City. You, Nicole and my father were sitting at the black jack table and I was watching from behind, and you made me sit down and taught me how to play. We had a lot of laughs that weekend. Unfortunately your life ended way too soon, but not a day goes by that I don't think of you, your smile, your laugh or the twinkle in your eyes. And although you're not physically here to see your family and your amazing and beautiful grandchildren your love and light shines through them everyday!
Christine Biers
September 11, 2013
Sometimes I am still as speechless as the days when we "should have been there". We never really got to say goodbye, and still somehow don't want to. We are sorry. Uncle Dennis, thanks for all you instilled in Joe, for your bravery, for the memory of your funny personality, and lastly, for teaching me the secret to perfect gravy. I hope they're serving it in heaven ?
Christine Biers
September 11, 2013
Sometimes I am still as speechless as the days when we "should have been there". We never really got to say goodbye, and still somehow don't want to. We are sorry. Uncle Dennis, thanks for all you instilled in Joe, for your bravery, for the memory of your funny personality, and lastly, for teaching me the secret to perfect gravy. I hope they're serving it in heaven ?
The 4 Biers
September 10, 2013
<3
Christine Biers
September 10, 2013
Sometimes I am still speechless as the days when Joe and I "should have been there". We never really got to say goodbye, and somehow we still don't want to. Uncle Dennis, you're still in our hearts and I am forever grateful for all the good you instilled in Joe, for your bravery, your funny personality and lastly, for teaching me your secret to perfect gravy. I hope they're serving it in heaven <3
Lois Maglione
September 10, 2013
9/11 was a devastating tragic day, it claimed the lives of so many people and changed the lives of their family and friends forever. Dennis you are loved and missed by all of your family and friends. You have touched all of our lives in a special, meaningful way. You would be so proud of Jeannie, and how she handles everything, she's very strong, she's amazing. Your grandchildren are all beautiful and Jeannie is a wonderful grandma. R.I.P.
denise (di marzo) butera
September 10, 2013
Thinking of you & hoping you are at peace. Jeannie you are in my thoughts & prayers. xxxooo
Susan Cellura
September 10, 2013
As we enter into the 12 anniversary of this devastating day,I am forever changed as a Person, Us as a Nation, America as a whole.
All that was lost and all that is gone will live in our hearts forever. I mourn all the lost and their families daily, and mostly I mourn for the brave Military, Police, Firemen,and civilians that didn't go home that day. There are no words for the families left behind, Only prayers....
Lillian Bloodgood
September 10, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
September 10, 2013
You are and will always be a hero and a wonderful Husband,Dad and a cousin and friend forever we love you Dennis
G&L Antonacci
September 10, 2013
We Love You D and miss you so much. Our lives have changed since you have been gone. When I see the 9/11 on my clock I always through a kiss up to heaven to you. It happens quite often. I hope God is taking good care of you. How I wish you were still here with us. The world would be a better place if you were. May God bless you everyday and keep you safe. All our Love forever, Greg and Lynda
Pinuccia LiVigni
September 10, 2013
<3 R.I.P. DENNIS <3
Barbara DeLuca
September 10, 2013
You will never be forgotten. Thank you for all your help. I'm sure you know you have a beautiful family. With Love, Barbara DeLuca
Ton Guigliano
September 10, 2013
Your are missed so much you were a Great man
Michael LiVigni
September 10, 2013
The LiVigni family will never forget Dennis & Jeannie and their children! When they first got married they lived upstairs from me for quite some time and he was the funniest guy ya ever want to meet! He always had My Mom and all of us in stitches! I worked for him before he became a firefighter in his roofing company and he was the best boss you could want! He would give me an advance on my pay and NEVER take it out when I got paid. I would remind him and he would just smile and say don't worry about it. He always put my friends to work even when he had no roofing jobs. He would make them clean the shop or do just about anything just to give them a days pay! His kids were his pride and joy and I'm sure he is watching over his grandchildren and family as he always did. Dennis you will always be remembered not just on 9/11 I think of you so much I can't explain it. I always looked up to you as an older brother and your sacrifice for our country will never ever be forgotten. Jeannie and your kids will always be a part of me as will you! R.I.P. Big D you left us too soon but you left a part of you in all of us and your legacy will live on forever! With all our Love to you Jeannie and your family! The LiVigni's
Donna DeMartino
September 9, 2013
My friend, my neighbor, my "family"... Dennis was a great husband, father, friend. Extremely kind, loving, thoughtful, caring and generous. A family man who enjoyed life -- traveling, dining, entertaining his family and friends is what Dennis enjoyed most. This loss of life is deeply felt by all who knew him. The world is a darker place with the loss of this man, firefighter, hero. The tragic events of that dreadful morning will forever linger in the minds and hearts of all of America but mostly New Yorkers who endured the brunt of the sucker punch dealt to us by the evil that lurks around us. For those who didn't know Dennis personally I'll tell you that he loved his wife Jeanne with all of his being. His two children were his heart and soul. He was a dedicated family man who worked to provide all that he possibly could to better the lives of his family. Unfortunately, the good do die young. Never forgotten and forever missed...God bless your soul, Big D ox
Diane Diecidue
September 9, 2013
Miss you.you should be retired with me down here in fl. I made it to 63. Wish you did too. You're missing your grand children . Barbara has 4 and is wating for the 5th to arrive from india. Do wish you were here. I think you know all thats going on. Be with God. Love you Di.
Grandaughter....
September 9, 2013
September 8, 2013
At our small town Fire Department rememberance last year, we received a remnant of the World Trade Center towers. Growing up in New Jersey, I could see those towers rising on the horizon during construction. I went to pay my respects, and was given a small photograph of Dennis as part of the ceremony. I will wear it with pride and sadness again this year, with prayers for his family and friends, and all those loved ones lost.
September 12, 2012
I'm sooo touched by the heartfelt acts and condolances from everyone who writes. The children are incrediable...Health & Happiness to all..God Bless Jeanne Carey
Ryann and Grandma Jeanne
September 12, 2012
Dennis Jr. Grandma Jeanne, Grace and Juliet
September 12, 2012
Edward Woods
September 11, 2012
My son Ryan, climbed 110 flights of stairs in Denver, Co today in remembrance of Dennis. Ryan carried his name with him and now has a para chord bracelet with Dennis' name on it, which he will wear on a daily basis. My son is just beginning his fire fighting career and is a volunteer fire fighter in Fountain, Co. We all appreciate Dennis' dedication to the fire fighting community and his ultimate sacrifice. He has now touched my family in a profound way.
Ali Segarra
September 11, 2012
My 5 year old son came home from Kindergarten today with a prayer card that had the name Dennis M. Carey written on it. I then found his profile and told my son his story. Although we have never met this hero, today he is in our hearts and prayers, as well as all the innocent men and women we lost on this day 11 years ago. Our most sincere condolances to the family and friends of Dennis, a true hero who made the ultimate sacrifice to help others. May your hearts find peace. God Bless.
Ian Snellgrove
September 11, 2012
I met Dennis at the National Fire Academy in Emitsburg Maryland many years ago. He was one of the nicest men I have ever met and very generous. Since I was from a small city in Louisiana (Bossier City)He offered to bring me home between class break on the weekend to show me around. I had another obligation and couldnt go. After I told him I could not go,later that class he tore off the back of a New York newspaper add that had the Manhattan skyline and wrote on it"Ian this is New York, Come see me" and signed it Dennis. I regret not being able to go to this day!
Jeanne, Nichole and Dennis Jr.I'm thinking about you all today and will continue Praying for you.
Michelle Di Lorenzo
September 10, 2012
Jeanne,
The Di Lorenzo Crew remember ALWAYS!! I will personally remember the Ladder 154 Fireman picnics and Camping in Lake George with your family:). During those times I just remember how silly Dennis was and how much he loved Nicole and 'Little' Dennis the way my Father (Frankie Dee) loves his girls:). It is nice to get updates on how you and your fam are doing from my Dad every year after the picnics. You Are so strong and Dennis would have been so proud of you:). Know that we listen for his name every year and think of him as a true hero. I will think about you tomorrow and know that each year for the rest of my life I will do the same:). Peace and Love to you always!!
Love,
Michelle Di Lorenzo ( Frankie Dee's middle daughter).
May 19, 2012
To The Family,
When I think back to 9/11 the painful memories seems like yesterday. Thousands of innocent people lost their lives and we often wonder, why? I did not know Mr. Dennis M. Carey, but, I do know that anyone who would risk his life in an attempt to save the lives of others is a true " Hero." Please accept my sincere thoughts of sympathy in the loss of your loved one.
Sincerely,
Mr. Terry of NC
david parisi
February 5, 2012
my uncle steve knew Dennis very well so i am sure we was a good Family Guy who was and is loved by everyone and we all appriecate what he did as a Firefighter, God Bless Dennis and his family even alot of years since sept 11
November 13, 2011
It was great to read the most recent heartfelt words...Thank you for not forgetting. Steve I know you truly loved Dennis and always remember his love for you and your family. Ten years has gone by and he is so missed. He would have been so in love with his three grandaughters. I'll carry him in my heart forever. 9-11 has brought such love and care from everyone which helps me go on..John Cantone wow! I still miss our great life together back in our day. I wish everyone health and happiness...Love Jeanne
September 27, 2011
Hi my name is Kyla. I live in rome, GA and i go to armuchee middle school. this thursday we are going to plant a flower in memory of you. thank you for giving your life to help save our country.
i am proud that you gave your life to save our country because without people like you our country would probably be in great danger. so thank you for giving your life and always know that we are thinking of you and what happened on the day of 9/11/
September 27, 2011
Our names are Faith and Alexis . We are students at armuchee middle school.On Thursday September 29 were going to plant a flower in the memory of Dennis. He was a brave fireman he risked his life to save many. We released a ballon in your honor on September 11. We will never forget dennis and what he did.
Donna Colello
September 11, 2011
In Portland, ME a walk was held in memory of your heros on Sept. 11, 2001! Local Firefighter and Police passed out signs with a fallen name of a hero! I was proud to have carried his name through our streets of Portland, Maine on his unforgetten day! God-bless
Jay Leonard
September 11, 2011
I meet Dennis in early 90' at the National Fire Acdemay. We were taking the Site Operations for Hazardous Materials. Dennis was a lot of help during this class and shared some great stories in the Pub. Never Forget - Forever Grateful.
John Cantone
September 11, 2011
Every anniversary of 9/11 I think of Dennis and Jeannie as I knew them. I remember Jeannie's excitment at meeting him. I remember them buying a small house near her family in Ozone Park, where Dennis gutted and reconstructed the inside to make a home. I remember working for Dennis harder then I ever worked, roofing a building during my summer break from school, before Dennis became a fireman. My thoughts are with you Jeannie.
Wesley Joyner
September 10, 2011
Never a day goes by that I don't think of you. Rest well brother.
September 9, 2011
So many years have past since we were friends in East New York; but now, I think of you each Sept. 11th.
Rest in peace,
Russ
May 2, 2011
Nothing can bring you back but it's something.Another Birthday coming up God Bless.
Stango
May 1, 2011
god bless you sweetheart
mike mccormack
September 11, 2010
Always remembered by the McCormack family in ireland>
K Carey
September 11, 2010
You are loved and missed by the entire family!
December 29, 2009
Thinking of you and the other firefighters lost on 9/11. As a daughter of a NYC fire chief I am so thankful for all of you guys.
Janet Brown
September 4, 2009
I have the distinct honor this year of reading Dennis's name at the 9/11 memorial ceremony at the WTC site. I will announce his name with pride and respect. My thoughts and prayers are with his family as we once again deal with the heartache and sadness of the anniversary of 9/11. God bless Dennis and God bless his family.
Doug Abraham
May 23, 2009
Happy Birthday!!! On this Memorial Day Weekend of 2009, I am remembering Dennis Carey!!!
Me in front of HM1/Sq288 in May 2008
Wesley Joyner
November 23, 2008
I was in Chemistry of Hazardous Materials with Dennis back in 1996 in Williamston, NC. I wear a memorial bracelet with his name on it every day to remember him. God bless Jean and the entire Carey family. Lieutenant Wesley Joyner-City of Fayetteville FD HazMat 1
September 13, 2008
Jean,
May you find peace in knowing even after seven years, the spirit of your husband, his courage, his sacrifice, are honored and remembered by Americans everywhere. May God richly bless you in the days ahead, with His amazing grace and eternal love. We will NEVER forget!
Doug Abraham
May 23, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
Steven Stango
May 23, 2007
Happy Birthday buddy.I'll never forget our times together.
Steve
Doug Abraham
May 23, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Kristine
October 27, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
suzy murnane
September 11, 2006
To the Carey family God bless you. Dennis and his family will always be in my thoughts.
P Tabbernor
September 5, 2006
In remembrance....
Jean Carey
January 8, 2006
I want to thank everyone for the beautiful condolences and stories from friends and family members (even if we've never met) Reading the words from people around our country brings tears to my eyes and it has been 4+ years....My family misses him more and more as time goes on..Our lives will never be the same, he was our life...Strong,brave,supportive,lovi
ng and kind I wish everyone health and happiness all the days of your life...Love Jeanne Carey
James Johnson
September 11, 2005
God Bless You...
Steven Stango
May 25, 2005
Hey buddy it was your birthday monday .Always thinking of you and Happy birthday in heaven.
Antoinette Vurro
February 26, 2005
Dear Dennis,
When I first wrote about you it was very hard (it still is) and I tried to let people what an exceptional person you were, even if 9/11 never happened. Now I kind of feel like by writing about the happenings in our lives, I am speaking to you. So here are the updates.
Jeanne is still not the same although she puts up one hell of a
front, you would be very proud of all the good things she has done, and how she commemorates you. Dennis just got engaged to "Cindy", you would love her, she is sweet, pretty and an animal lover like you.
Nicole is still our delicate flower.
She is like a rose that grew up with a strong foundation and thorns to protect her.Now that she is in full bloom are petals are becoming delicate and needs sun and water to sustain her. (Hawaii)She has a boyfriend Michael who helped through
some hard times. She is a beautiful young women and still finding herself. She has a deep soul and sense of the spiritual
side of life. You would enjoy her even more now and She still misses you deeply.You were her foundation.
Jason is getting married to Amanda in October, another pretty,
smart and outgoing girl, I am sure you would like. Johnny and Marianne
are expecting there first baby any
day. I still remember us driving to their apartment the day after the wedding. We were all so happy.
Michael is in Nassau Community and following, I'm afraid the route of Dennis and John, In other words having a slow start. He wears HAZMAT
shirts constantly and misses you too.
John closed the video store and is trying to make a living as a painter/contractor, boy could we use your help now.
Dennis, Joan passed away last June,
I hope somehow you Larry and her are together.
Well I guess that's all for now.
Jeanne is in Aruba with Marilyn and Freddy and Debbie. I'm sure you are like always,there with her.
LOVE ALWAYS
Antoinette - We all still love and miss you. Oh you would be very proud of Dennis he is working with Audio equipment and loves it. He is very good at what he does. Dennis is a man now and comes through for Jeanne whenever she needs him, so does Nicole.
Jeanne has inherited (through osmosis) a lot of your spirit and we have shared many sad/happy times together because of you.
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