Robert R. Talhami

Robert R. Talhami

Robert Talhami Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 4, 2001.
A memorial service will be held for ROBERT R. TALHAMI, 40, of Shrewsbury, a victim of the World Trade Center tragedy of Sept. 11, 2001. He was an equity derivatives broker for Cantor Fitzgerald on the 104th floor of One World Trade Center. He was born in Pakistan, where his parents were expatriates, and moved to the U.S. when he was seven. He grew up in Northbrook, IL until moving with his family to Caracas, Venezuela in 1978 where his father, Elias, was again an expatriate working for Harza Engineering. He graduated highschool from Colegio Internacional de Caracas in 1979. He attended Manhattanville College and then finished his degree in economics at the University of Delaware. He found his first job on the Chicago Mercantile Exchange where he worked for two years before moving to NYC. For the past twelve years, he worked for Tullett & Tokyo Forex as a currency options broker, first in New York, then in Tokyo from 1990-94, and most recently in London from 1994-2001. He moved back to the United States with his family last April and was very excited to "grow some roots" and raise his children in their new home. He was a wonderful husband and a father to his two sons, and could never wait to teach them new things. Whether it was to hit a golf ball, or body surf at Monmouth Beach, or to eat spicy foods, he taught them with infinite patience and good humor. Hopefully, he taught everyone who knew him how to enjoy life just a bit more. His family and many, many good friends from around the world have all said the same thing; "I have never met a man as kind as Robert who truly loved everyone and always had a smile on his face." We will all remember his happiness and will miss him dearly. Surviving are his wife Diana (DeDe), two sons, Noah and Jake; his mother, Blanca Talhami of Sarasota, FL; his brother and sister-in-law George and Marybeth, and their children Trevor, Carly and Griffin of Chicago; his mother-in -law Carol Dailey of Yarmouthport, MA; his sister-in-law, Lynne Dailey of Brookline, MA; his brother-in-law, Mark Dailey and his son Andrew; a brother-in-law Jeffrey Dailey and family; and many loving aunts, uncles and cousins around the world. A memorial service will be held Thursday at 10:00am at St. George's-by-the-River in Rumson. Memorial Mass Saturday, November 3rd, 10am St. Mary of the Woods Church 7033 N. Moselle Avenue Chicago, Il 60646 773 763 7577 Graveside Service Memorial Park Cemetery 9900 Gross Point Road Skokie, Il 847 677 4401 Luncheon Immediately Following 6833 Concord Lane Niles, IL In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Robert R. Talhami Memorial Trust c/o the Talhami family, 1 Sunnybank Dr., Shrewsbury, NJ 07702

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September 11, 2024

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October 17, 2013

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September 11, 2013

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Daniel aka TC TUNA 49686 DeLater

September 11, 2024

Just heard your brother read names of those who passed away that September day. He mentioned your name when it came time. He definitely definitely definitely misses you I pray that you was up there listening to him as he called out your name you definitely definitely definitely would have been proud. I am keeping your brother and the rest of everyone who was impacted that day in my prayers Stay strong family and friends!!!! I to loss someone if you can give my brother Larry Steven DeLater Jr. and my father Larry Steven DeLater SR., a big hug let them that I am always have them in my heart. And my uncle, Chris who passed away from that September day. I will never forget!!!!

The picture in my office

Dina Thgipen

October 17, 2013

My friend was at the memorial this summer and took this random photo. Mr. Talhami's name is the only name I can clearly see. This photo is in my office in Georgia. I see his name every day and pray for his family every day. God Bless you all.

Angela Maresca

September 11, 2013

My Name is Angela,

I met Robert at Manhattanville and think of him every 9/11

He was smart ,funny and very handsome!!! God bless his family

Kitty Susca

July 21, 2012

My name is Kitty.I went to Manhattanville College with Robert,and embroidered a denim jacket for him that had the planet Saturn in outer space.Robert had a great appreciation for artwork and followed the progress of his jacket and was very excited the day I finished it.He and I became friends through this project but all the artists loved Robert.He had a great appreciation for beauty and a smile that will stay with me forever.I am so sorry he is no longer around now,to laugh and spread his good humor an innovative ideas.He will be much missed.

Beverley Priest

September 11, 2011

I wish peace and healing for everyone especially on this 10-year anniversary.

September 11, 2011

Remembering...especially today.

ben coen

September 11, 2011

I knew the Swami in london as a customer of tullets. He was definitely a character. I'm sure he's still sorely missed by his family and my thoughts are with them 10 years later.

September 11, 2011

Rob -

I miss you and knowing you're around.
You're a good man.

Walter

kristine

October 23, 2008

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

Beverley, Pam, & John Priest

September 11, 2007

We wanted to send our thoughts and prayers to Robert's family and other friends. Our families have known each other for years and have many fond memories. While he is at peace; hopefully memories can help give his family and friends some peace.

P Tabbernor

March 28, 2007

In memory....

August 25, 2006

DeDe - You may not remember me but I lived up the street from you in Sewickley on Thorn Street and was friends with Lynne. I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your husband 5 years ago. I found this website by chance since I was actually looking for Lynne - our Sewickley Academy class reunion is soon and I was remembering my old friends during my many year at SA and from Sewickley. I googled Lynne's name to see what might come up. Again, I am so very sorry - please pass on my condolences to your family as well. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. I hppe you get this note.






Martha Shorter

Tim Davis

September 25, 2002

I did not know Robert, but by chance I drew his name, I rode for him in our Patriot Parade to pay tribute to all those that lost their lives in the terrible tragedy of Sept. 11th.

There were 7,294 Motorcyclists honoring them.

After having read all of the prior tributes to Robert I am sure we could have been good friends, his family & friends were blessed to have him in their lives, if only for such a short time. May he continue to watch over you, & be a part of your lives forever. I have a wrist bracelet I wore during the Parade & for the following week.

If you would like to have it I can send it to you.

God Bless you all & keep you safe



Tim Davis

Michael (Billy) Connolly

September 11, 2002

I worked with Rob at Tulletts London options desk for four years and he was allways so upbeat having such a positive influence on those he worked with. When I spoke to him a while after I left the UK DeDe had just had their second son and I can still remember him telling me how great it was to be a Dad again.

He was a genuine warmhearted guy who loved life and the company of those around him.

God Bless Billy.

Laila Sukkariyyah

June 20, 2002

I also attended the same school as Robert and George Talhami in Caracas, Venezuela. We all went to CIC, along with my sister Soraya. He is also the second person I went to school employed by Cantor Fitzgerald. My heart sank when I found out. I was a very young girl when Robert was at CIC, but God I remember him as if I had seen him yesterday. He had a presence and an aura that very few have! My deepest condolences to his family. I am so sorry.

Angie Campbell

May 29, 2002

May God Bless you and watch over the family and friends that you left behind that horrible day last September. I am so sorry for your loss. May you rest in peace forever more!!!!!!!!!!

May 11, 2002

MAY THE SOUL OF ROBERT R.TALHAMI AND THE SOULS OF ALL THE FAITHFULLY DEPARTED THROUGH THE MERCY OF GOD REST IN PEACE...AMEN

May 11, 2002

DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN...ROBERT R.TALHAMI AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS LOVING FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY JESUS AND HIS SAINTS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN

Diana Bandak

April 5, 2002

I am Robert's cousin and I miss him everyday although I rarely saw him. He lived with us in Delaware while he attended the University and always had a smile on his face. He made us laugh at his antics and was always conning us into something. I just miss his cheery face. I love you lots Rob..Diana

Kiko Crews

March 11, 2002

My condolences to the Talhami family. Just by chance and because I had some free time, I was scanning the pictures of the victims of 9-11 and saw Bob's picture. I graduated with Bob from CIC in Caracas. I am sure George remembers me. Now it is 2 good friends I lost at the Towers both worked at Cantor-Fitzgerald (the other friend was Charlie Murphy). I had not seen or heard from Bob or George since we graduated from high school but I hold them in high regards because of the many experiences we had together. God bless you all and God bless Rob's legacy.

Brian Caesar

January 18, 2002

Robert moved to NY. in 1990 and he became my roommate living on the upper east side of Manhattan. I can't tell you what a pleasure it was to have Robert light up a room when he walked in. Always with that positive attitude and genuine smile that will never be forgotten! After he moved to Tokyo, we lost touch for ten years until July 2001 where I bumped into him at Monmouth Beach near his beach house. I was so excited to see him and find out he'd be living just a few minutes from me. We spent a number of weekends together until that fateful day of 9/11 and we had a chance to catch up of our missed times together. He was extremely happy and at peace with himself just days before the tragedy. My heart and prayers go out to Dede so she may have the strength to care for those beautiful little boys!!

Teresa Jahn

December 10, 2001

The world will miss Robert. We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts cry with you.

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

Marge Deady

November 12, 2001

As a friend of Robert's Mother Blanca, I wish to extend my deepest symnpathy to Robert's wife , children and other family members. You will be in my prayers. With deep sympathy, Marge Deady

Carolyn Dixon (nee Moody)

October 25, 2001

My deepest sympathy to the Talhami family. My sisters and I grew up with Robert and George in Northbrook. We spent many days being typical rambunctious kids in our little neighborhood. My family and I have such fond memories of Robert - as he was always the thoughtful and studious good kid of our bunch! I ran into Robert and his lovely family last summer at Northbrook Court and was able to spend some time with him and George remembering the "old" days. I will keep a special place in my heart for Robert always. God Bless! Very Sincerely Yours, Carolyn Moody - Dixon

Vivian Facusse Neuwirth

October 18, 2001

On behalf of my late mother, Mae Bandak, my late father, Albert Facusse, my sister Denise Facusse, my husband Eddie Neuwirth and myself, I would like to extend my deepest sympathy and condolences to the family of my cousin, Robert Talhami, his friends and all those whose lives he touched. Since Robert had just moved here to work for Cantor Fitzgerald we didn't have the opportunity to get to know him better but he lives in our hearts forever. With love, your cousin, Vivian.

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