Add a Memory
Send Flowers
Make a Donation
Jacquelyn Delaine Aldridge
Jacquelyn Delaine Aldridge
Obituary
Guest Book
Jacquelyn Aldridge Obituary
Jacquelyn Aldridge's family called her "the connector," because she was the one who always knew what everyone was up to. Ms. Aldridge grew up in Tampa but moved to Staten Island in 1979, joining a sister who was living there at the time. She worked as an accountant for Marsh & McLennan, and was in constant touch with her two sisters and brother, even though none of them lived in New York.
"She was always one of those who pulled folks together," said her oldest sister, Delores P. Aldridge, who lives in Atlanta. Their parents, who always emphasized to their children that they should get good educations, died in the 90's. The siblings remained close; Delores Aldridge said she talked to Jackie, as her family called their youngest sibling, once or twice a week. Jackie Aldridge married three years ago, to Lafayette Fredericks, and continued living in Staten Island. She would have turned 47 this month, said her longtime friend, Stephanie Wright. She was someone who raced to take advantage of everything New York City had to offer -- jazz concerts, plays, new restaurants. "I used to tease her that she was a girl from Tampa who got New Yorkanized," Ms. Wright said.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Dianna M
April 27, 2024
Rip Jackie. You will be missed
Jen Rohloff
September 11, 2023
Never forgot you. Voice of a angel.
Cindy Roe
August 31, 2021
Remembering Jacquelyn on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....
Lynëlle Samuell
September 11, 2018
Rest in peace! Never forgotten!
How you can show support
Donate in Memory
Make a donation in memory of your loved one.
Add photos
Share their life with photo memories.
Plant trees
Honor them by planting trees in their memory.
Follow this page
Get email updates whenever changes are made.
Send flowers
Consider sending flowers.
Share this page
Invite other friends and family to visit the page.
Louise Scalzo
April 5, 2017
Rest in Peace Jacquelyn, God bless your family and friends.
October 3, 2015
I am so sorry for your lost. It is very difficult to lose a one. but their is real hope for the future. Please read Roman 16:4.
Mahnoor Khan
September 11, 2015
My deepest condolences to the Aldridge family. Its not always we see personalities like Jacquelyn Aldridge's: adventurous, courageous, and friendly. You will be missed, rest in peace.
Peggy Childers
September 11, 2014
To the family and friends of Jacquelyn Delaine Aldridge:
Jacquelyn will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not allow those we lost on 9/11 be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you.
Barbara J. Mobley
September 11, 2014
To the Aldridge family, your Tampa friends, Middleton High Schoolmates and neighbors are in sustained prayer for you as we celebrate Jackie's life on this day. May God continue to be there for you all.
April King
July 23, 2012
I didn't know Mrs. Aldridge personally but I just wanted to send you my condolences. May she Rest in Peace and she will never ever be forgotten. May the Lord keep you in his loving arms during this difficult time.
Barbara Boam
October 11, 2011
Barbara Boam & Kim Rogers walked a mile for you (mile #40) on 10/11/11 as a dedication to your life.
Carol Iverson
September 17, 2011
Each of the members of our ONE VOICE chorus had the name of someone from that tragic day in a locket tied with a blue ribbon. We sang patriotic songs at a 9/11 memorial.
I had Jackie's name in my locket. Her name will forever remain in mine and I will wear the necklace every year in her honor.
Jennifer Garcia
September 11, 2011
I watch the memorial every year. when they read your name, it still doesn't seem real. RIP Jackie. I haven't forgotten you.
Laine
September 11, 2011
Hi I am a Canadian woman who has just been watching the events of 911. it saddens me so much even all these years later that So many innocent lives were taken. My name is Laine so Ms. Aldridge's middle name caught my eye. I have recently had a great loss in my life so I understand that loss you have suffered. Her picture leads me to believe she was a very up, positive wonderful person.
Kymberli Colbourne
September 11, 2011
We hold you in our hearts.
Julie Zimmerman
September 2, 2011
We will think of YOU Miss Jacquelyn -- on this the 10th anniversary of your passing!
Geraldine Rollins
September 8, 2010
Gone too soon.
Heather Wanamaker
May 8, 2009
I will NEVER forget. R.I.P.
Lisa Guzzi
March 11, 2009
Jackie, you were always in a good mood everytime i saw you. Rest in Peace.
Josephine Restivo
September 12, 2008
I just realized an error I made yesterday while leaving my msg. Because I was upset and, I guess not thinking clearly, I stated that I had seen Jackie's sister at the ceremony, when, in fact, it was the sister of Betty Fox, another of my co-workers. Sorry for any confusion.
Josephine Restivo
September 11, 2008
Jackie's family is in my thoughts today, especially after seeing her sister on television this morning at the ceremony.
Kemeshaya
March 5, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Doug Abraham
October 31, 2007
Happy belated Birthday!!!
denae williams
September 14, 2007
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
nellie jean
September 11, 2007
Im so sorry for your lost i know how it fells to lose someonr so dearly to you god bless jacquelyn my prays are with her and her famliy
crystal medina
September 11, 2007
im sorry for your loss everyone had som one they losts and i wish you guys the best of luck!**
Lenora Shelton
September 11, 2007
I will never forget that morning as I listened to the radio in such unbelief of the horror. My prayers were with you then and are with you still.
Richard Swafford
June 15, 2007
i will never forget
Toni Edden
March 22, 2007
im sorry for your lost
Toni Edden
December 19, 2006
Im very sorry about your lost it is a hoibel tradigy fore me and u im very sorry
jennifer harris
November 24, 2006
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
aj
October 31, 2006
god bless
Pat Reed Sircy
October 27, 2006
Very sorry about your loss! Sincere sympathy, Pat - R.N. in TN
Kristine Furstenberg
October 11, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vane. We will always remember.
September 15, 2006
May your family remember the wonderful times you shared during your brief stay on Earth.
Denisha Peterson
September 15, 2006
R.I.P
Demetrice Dunn
September 14, 2006
Auntie Jackie, you've been a blessing in my life and I will never forget you being there for me whenever I needed you. Rest my dear auntie you will forever be in my heart.
LOVE
MEECHIE.
Georgia White
September 12, 2006
Jackie O, My family misses you so much.Your godson Cody is almost twentyone. Roe,Brandy and myself we all miss your face. Our crazy sister in Christ Stephanie is to be Ordain the 17th of Sept. in the presence of our King. She's dedicating her Ordination to you.
Rest my sister we will always love you forevermore.
Georgia White
Josephine Restivo
September 12, 2006
It's been five years, and not one single day has gone by without a thought relating to 9/11. In my mind I can still see Jackie's face and smile and hear her voice. She was always so pleasant and soft spoken. I'll be trying to make sense of this tragedy for the rest of my life.
Stephanie Wright
September 11, 2006
JACKPOT, MY BELOVED, MY SISTER, MY PARTNER,MY FRIEND. I'll ALWAYS LOVE YOU MORE THEN THE STARS IN THE SKY. AND WOULD YOU BELIEVED YOUR FRIEND IS ABOUT TO BE ORDAIN
TRUST I'll SEE YOU ON THE OTHER SIDE IN HIS KINGDOM.
LOVE YOU STEPHANIE WRIGHT STATEN ISLAND
P Tabbernor
August 18, 2006
In memory....
Freddy De Schutter
December 11, 2004
It does heart pain what has happened on 11 September 2001.
Our sympathy is prayed and with you.
rosemary sands-johnson white
April 11, 2004
Rest in peace my dear god loves you. i rember that day i cried for the next three day,s and when ever i see any thing about 911 it hurt so bad i do not know you but my heart goes out to all your family and friends.
Fay Moore
September 11, 2003
Jackie,
You are truly missed, as I remember just walking over to your desk and talking about life and you always had a smile and a caring heart. I wish your husband and sisters the strength to continue to go on. God bless you and you will always remain a friend and your memories will continue to live on as you are and was a special person.
Marva Morris
May 29, 2003
To those who loved her;
I went on the internet to see if this was the lady I used to talk to at Marsh several years ago over the phone. I worked with Jacqueline on a project....I am so very sorry for your loss. I will remember her as a highly energetic person , vibrant and very helpful.. God bless you all and my prayers are with you.
Love, Marva Morris
Shirley Davis
September 16, 2002
I have never met Mrs. Aldridge however, based on her smile alone. She was definately good and friendly person.
God bless you.
Shirley Davis,
anne jones
September 16, 2002
you are in my heart you are in my soul
Tami Paalman
September 11, 2002
I am a student at the University of Wisconsin Fox Valley. I never knew Jacquelyn Aldridge nor did she know me. Some wonderful people on our campus made up ribbons with the names of victims of 9-11. All of the ribbons had names on them. I picked the ribbon with Jacquelyn's name and age on it. Other than those two things, I knew nothing of her. However, I wore that ribbon with her name on it on my shirt all day. I was glad to tell anyone who asked me what this ribbon meant. I spent my entire day looking down at that ribbon and wondering about who Jacquelyn was...was she married? did she have children? what were her hobbies? what were her passions???? But, more so than wondering I prayed for her and her family and friends and everyone who knew her. I looked up Jacquelyn on the internet tonight and I found wonderful words written about her...more importantly I saw a face and beyond that a soul...someone I wish I could have known and held as a friend. To all of Jacquelyn's family and friends...my deepest condolences and a few shared tears from a seeming stranger in Wisconsin who came to know of your loved one by fate and a ribbon. God Bless You!!
Delaine Bjerke
September 11, 2002
As I watched the memorial on NBC this morning, I saw my name through my tears. I couldn't believe it! No one has my name, I've met one other who spelled it with a "y" and heard of two others. I sat watching the names go by again on CNN to make sure I wasn't imagining it, this time caught the whole name. Then I went to church with Jacquelyn Delaine Aldridge written on a piece of paper. We had a prayer vigil and I had felt that it would be better if I could focus on at least one person, rather than over 3,000. With my bible, my hymnal, a candle and Jaquelyn Delaine Aldridge, her age, and accountant on the paper, I prayed for her. I imagined her as white, black, asian, native american, Christian, Jewish, Muslim, trying to get a feeling for her. Some how I thought she might be black. I don't know why. Back at home I thought I'd try NYTimes to see if I could find her and when the entry said sister connection, I knew I had to find out more. I am one of 4 girls, my parents believed in education for all of us, they died in the 90's, I am white and protestant (Norwegian Lutheran). I would like to know more about Jacquelyn. If her family visits this sight, please know I am with you in spirit.
Terre Lausin
September 11, 2002
Today I remember the tragic loss of innocent lives from one year ago by wearing a badge given to me at a memorial, which bears the name of Jacquelyn Delaine Aldridge. To come to my computer and put a face to this name, this beautiful person with such a radiant smile, causes tears to spill down my face. I mourn her loss with you and pray for God to help you through this day, and all days to follow.
Jane Gray
September 11, 2002
We are a family of seven from Perth Australia. The emotions of September 11 has made its way into the hearts of people around the world. Our heartfelt sympathy to Jacquelyn's family who must miss her terribly. God Bless you all in knowing our prayers of comfort are with you.......
Jettie Dewalt
September 10, 2002
To the Family I've set in that same loosing my only Son, Keep the faith and know He is able to bring us through any situation, May God bless your family through your time of grievace.
Clay Christensen
September 10, 2002
Jacquelyn has a huge smile that I love. I am sure that she is still smiling down on all of us. Thank you for sharing her life with us.
Kim Hannah
September 7, 2002
Thank you for sharing your sister with me in Christ. God Bless your family and all of America
Del Newberry
July 30, 2002
My prayers go out to the family and I will do my part to keep Jacquelyn's memory alive. I look forward to that wonderful day in heaven when we can all meet and not have to shed any more tears.
Lisa Dedvukaj
July 22, 2002
I know how hard it is to live without your loved one. My brother is also missing and the hardest part is not knowing. I pray for you and your family. May you have the strength and courage to live and to always remember the joy your loved one has given you. God Bless You And Your Family
Angela & Anthony Clement
June 14, 2002
May you rest in peace forever more!
Seresa Newell
May 14, 2002
You seem like a beautiful person, loved by many & greatly missed. I think about your family often, even though I don't know them, I was always a huge fan of the TV show Big Brother & your cousin should have won! May peace be with you all.
All My Prayers,
SeresaR. Newell
A J
April 18, 2002
Rest in peace, Jackie. May your family find comfort in a loving God who cradles your spirit in His bosom even now.
Death is not the end for the children of God.
Jeff Aldridge
April 7, 2002
To an angel with a beautiful smile:
We shared only a last name and profession, yet your loss is having a profound impact on my life. YOur family must believe that all of American and the clear-thinking world are praying for you and their recovery from this horrific loss. I hereby dedicate what little good I may do in the world to your memory.
Jeff
Shana
April 5, 2002
You will be deeply missed. God Bless you.
Ellen Frey
March 13, 2002
Jack:
You were one of the nicest people I knew at J&H and Marsh. We go back about 15 years. You were always so helpful when I had problems with Herb's expense account and just a pleasure to work with. You are truly an angel in heaven. I will never forget you.
Torgny Juulstrup
March 9, 2002
May God Bless Jacquelyn Delaine Aldridge. May God Bless United States too. NEVER FORGET SEPT 11.
Mark Capper
February 10, 2002
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family of Jacquelyn Delaine Aldridge.
maria vitucci
January 29, 2002
Jackie and I worked for J&H. We worked in different departments. I remember one thing about Jackie. She was crazy about my son. She would always say "How's my baby?" Every time I would bring my son up for a visit she would always make sure that she would see him.
Jackie - we miss you!! You are forever in our hearts.
Olujoke Akindemowo
January 22, 2002
Rest peace, dear sister. May the Lord comfort your family and loved ones.
marvin fredlaw
January 13, 2002
ALL OF YOU WILL BE MISST. AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL
Teresa Jahn
January 10, 2002
What a wonderfully bright and beautiful smile Jacquelyn has in the picture you have shared with the world. We are deeply sorry for your great loss of Jacquelyn. May her life and love live on in you. May precious memories of times together lighten the sorrow in your hearts. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Josephine Restivo
December 26, 2001
Jackie and I worked for the same company and in the same dept for many years. She would tease me because more often than not, when I went to lunch, I returned with a purchase from one store or another. Now that I think about it, I don't remember Jackie ever getting angry or raising her voice. I know her loved ones are dealing with a lot of pain and they are in my thoughts.
Kathy Haynes
December 13, 2001
A student where I work here at Belmont Abbey College asked folks to send an email message to 5 victims of Sept 11 and I received Jacquelyn's name. Please know that all of America is grieving with you. I would like to share a poem that helped me cope with the unexpected death of my father last Christmas Eve.CHRISTMAS IN HEAVEN
I see the countless Christmas trees around the world below
With tiny lights, like Heaven’s stars reflecting on the snow.
The sight is so spectacular, please wipe away the tear
For I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I hear the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear,
But the sounds of music can’t compare with the Christmas Choir up here.
I have no words to tell you the joy their voices bring,
For it is beyond description to hear the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me, I see the pain inside your heart.
But, I am not so far away, we really aren’t apart.
So be happy for me, dear ones, you know I hold you dear.
And be glad I’m spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I sent you each a special gift from my heavenly home above.
I sent you each a memory of my undying love.
After all, love is a gift more precious than pure gold.
It was always most important in the stories Jesus told.
Please love and keep each other, as my Father said to do.
For I can’t count the blessings or love he has for each of you.
So have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear.
Remember, I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
Author Unknown
IRENE STAPINSKI
December 1, 2001
GOD BLESS JACQUELYN DELAINE ALDRIGE
AND MAY SHE REST IN PEACE..GOD BLESS
HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS
AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01
Elaine Kimmel
November 18, 2001
Dear Jackie,
I cannot beleive that you are gone. I thought you would live forever.
I miss your laugh, I miss your smile, I miss our conversations and the time we used to spend together.
I miss you and I pray for you everyday.
Nikki
October 30, 2001
This is a sad sad tragedy. You sound special and I bet you were. I wish you family all the happiness in the world. Family please keep up the faith and god will prevail. Evil ones will not win.
RAY AND FRAN CRABBE-BROWN
October 28, 2001
OUR PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS WILL BE WITH THE FAMILY FOR A VERY LONG TIME.JACKIE IS IN OUR HEARTS AND SOULS.WE PASSED HER HOME THE OTHER DAY.OUR NEIGHBORS ARE STILL LEAVING FLOWERS IN THE FRONT YARD. JACKIE IS MISSED BY THE ENTIRE COMMUNITY. "TO KNOW HER IS TO LOVE HER".
Mason
October 25, 2001
What a woman your sister was! Who is going to take over as the "connector"...the great communicator? It's the relationship bonds that are what life is about. Stay together..as sisters..and don't lose sight of the beauty that still exists in this often crazy world. Look closely for these things...sunsets, laughter, the constancy of the seasons, tides, sun and moon..Keep peace in your heart...not hatred and anger. In the end, love will prevail..I pray for your ability to endure this agony and for you to be able to have fun again...much love to you....our country is with you in your darkest hours...feel the love and power
Lisa Battee
October 23, 2001
I pray God's comfort and peace in the lives of Jacquelyn's loved ones.
Monick Hall
October 18, 2001
I am truly saddened by your loss. I am praying for the family daily.
Maureen O'Brien
October 13, 2001
One of Jackie's accounts was my brother-in-law's company. Jackie got to know both him and his wife via their phone calls. She was warm, professional, and funny. If Jackie was taking care of the problem, it was going to get solved. My family spoke of her often and how special she was. Jackie teased that she was taking my brother-in-law to the next family reunion!
Her family should know that on September 12, in an office on the other side of the country, I placed a picture of the WTC and her name in my office. Over the next few days small flower displays began to appear for Jackie, a woman we had never met. It is a small world and one person can make such a difference.
My sincere condolences for the loss of your wonderful sister.
miller leslie
October 10, 2001
Ms. Aldridge looks like a lovely, fun lady! Please know how many people care, across the country, about your difficult loss.
Showing 1 - 81 of 81 results
Make a Donation
in Jacquelyn Aldridge's name
How to support Jacquelyn 's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Jacquelyn Aldridge's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
Sponsored