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Gary Frank Obituary
Though Gary J. Frank programmed computers for a living, he was not the nerdy type. He had a dolphin and a starfish tattooed on his left shoulder because he loved to hang out at the Jersey Shore. And he knew his way around smoke-filled pool halls, taking down more than a few seasoned sharks over the past decade. In amateur tournaments from Baltimore to Las Vegas, Mr. Frank, 35, racked up trophies with his pool-stick-wielding teammates. His sister, Laurie Vigeant, said that he would concentrate so hard that he rarely talked under pressure. "It's like watching the professionals," said Ms. Vigeant, who sometimes played alongside him. But even champion pool players take time out. A divorced father, he always devoted every other weekend to his 12-year-old daughter, Jessica. This would have been their weekend.
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Rhoda Pelliccia
September 11, 2024
Gary, I never forget to put in a memorial on this day September 11, every year. Could not find your memorial today so I found this and again will never forget you my co-worker at Abel Noser. May you still find peace in the hands of our Lord. May your memorial be a blessing.
J.S.
July 1, 2024
Hello Gary, I wish I had the chance to meet to meet you, I was told alot about you from your beautiful family. I live here in Florida with Shaina together in our home just 2 minutes from them and always go to grandpa's get togethers, grandpa as in your Dad Stanley, I love and protect them with all my heart. Your family has become my family and I will always keep them safe...
Theresa V
September 13, 2023
Gary I did not write to you on the exact day, does not mean I wasn’t thinking of you. Many days leading up to the day I watched a lot of related documentaries about the day. I was so sad and crying really hard. I didn’t want to remember you that way. I wanted to take the day and remember your smile and how kind and patient of a person you were to me when we were kids. How I admired you. We didn’t have a lot of boy cousins and for that matter I think your one of two for me. So that in itself is special. You are special. I miss you. I wish you were here. I feel like at times I don’t have a ton of family and I would love to think that you would still be a part of my life. Come visit. Share stories. Teach me how to play pool correctly. Laugh. I think you would love my husband and we have a spare room for you to stay in. I would have love to make new memories with you as an adult. Love you cousin. Keep us all safe as we keep you forever in our hearts. Xoxo Tree
Holly Gill
September 12, 2023
I didn't know Gary but I was at the memorial in 2013 on his birthday and took a picture of his name with the rose they had placed there. Each year since then I share the picture with my high school students and read the A Dolphin, A Starfish, A Shark to them. He is remembered.
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Rhoda Pelliccia
September 12, 2023
Gary I think of you often and I also think of your Mother. I pray that you are resting in the hands of G-d. I pray your Mom finds some peace knowing you are in heaven watching down on everyone.
Keith M
September 11, 2023
Remembering you on this extremely sad day of your passing 22 years ago today. As each year passes I´ll never forget time we met and became friends at work. I´ll always remember you and good times we had. May you rest in eternal peace. May your family find peace knowing what a great person that you are . God Bless Gary
Cindy Roe
September 13, 2021
Remembering Gary on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
Rhoda Pelliccia
September 11, 2021
20 years today. It has gone by like a blink of an eye. Rest in peace Gary.
Theresa V
September 11, 2021
Remembering you strongly this day, this 20th year anniversary. How we all have remembered you and are reminded of this tragic day. How we wish you were here to be a part of all our lives. To see what accomplishments we’ve all had, wishing you were here to be a part of them and to see yours. We know you’re looking down and you’re with your family above. Continue to be our angel and watch over all of us. And know you are not forgotten. Our memories are forever. No one can take them. We all have different ones and we share them to allow your spirit to live on through us. Felicia has written some beautiful memories. This year especially she wrote a moving piece. I read it to my husband who you never met. But I wish you did. It’s been 20 years since he and I made it official on 9/5 our dating date and now 17 as my husband. I know you would have liked him. But he couldn’t imagine what it was like. We send you our love. Our hugs. We will see you again. We love you. Fly high angel. Love your cousin, Tree. Xo
Holly Gill
September 10, 2021
Shared the story of Gary with my class in California today although we didn't know him our thoughts go out to you and your family and all the other families affected 9/11/2001.
September 11, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Rhoda Pelliccia
September 11, 2020
Remembering you every year on this day. Rest in peace Gary knowing you are never forgotten.
Shirley Clarkson
September 11, 2020
Sending love and prayers from United Kingdom.
Michele Moscatello
September 9, 2020
Always thinking of Gary this time of year. He will always be a part of some of my teen memories. What a great friend and brother he was. A real sweetheart and a lot of wisdom at a young age I know he was a great friend and great brother. And I’m sure he was a good husband and father !
Christine
September 9, 2020
Never Forget RIP Gary
9-11-19
Laurie Vigeant
September 12, 2019
9-11-19
Laurie Vigeant
September 12, 2019
9-11-19
Laurie Vigeant
September 12, 2019
Laurie Vigeant
September 12, 2019
My Dear Brother Gary :
I can't believe 18 years have passed and it still feels like it was just yesterday.
Felicia and I do everything in our power to keep your memory and your story alive .
This past year was so hard for us with Aunt Frances' and mommy's passing ...but the fact that mommy passed away at 9:11 pm was our sign from you that you were there with open arms to welcome mommy into heaven with you .
I know she is overjoyed in heaven to be reunited with her only son and how much she loved you and I know Aunt Frances is happy to be with you now as well.
Please keep watching over us down here on Earth and keep a special eye on my Smokie through his fight with Lymphoma...
Give Jenni, Pepper, Taffie, Franklin, Duke, Zig Zag, Troubles, Muffins and Sam hugs and kisses from us ...
You will always be my hero .
Love... Your lil sis,
Laurie
Nancy Zapata
September 12, 2019
I will always have fond memories of Gary. Will never forget one of the last birthday presents we got him as a prank, that made him so embarrassed and made us laugh so hard. Our work group was always fun.
RIP my friend.
Rhoda Pelliccia
September 11, 2019
Remembering Gary
Renee
September 11, 2019
I think of Gary every year since 9 11. He makes me think to appreciate those we have in our lives because anything can happen at any time. Thank you for sharing his story. I believe fully Gary made sure all was out that fateful day.
I remember going to elementary school with him. Middle school and high school. Even a few years after HS. He ended always ended up hanging out with us and the neighborhood class of 84 kids. I remember a lot of laughs with him. He could always laugh at himself and his silly smile. We are all lucky to have known him. Even if it was for a short while.
Thank you Gary for the gift of reflection. You have forever put a face on the tragedy that took so many.
Theresa Voelker
September 11, 2019
Gary here we are another year of your anniversary. I think of you often. Always when your sisters post things. It's like you're always with them. We all miss you. I hope you had a good day today with Mom and Dad, Aunt Frances, Gramma and Aunt Mary and Aunt Sally and cousin Julianna. There's so many I am sure I don't know all of them. Please continue to watch over us. I spoke of you often today and what this day means to me. And ask a lot of people what they were doing. Listening to their stories. We all have a stories. Until we meet again. Until we can talk and tell our stories. Love you dear cousin
Marc Bromfeld
September 11, 2019
Gary - not many date back as far as we did. Old Bridge - Cub Scouts, Englishtown Flea Market ........the fateful bat incident. This was all before we were 16yrs old.
So glad I was able to connect with Laurie in the recent years and so sad you arent here to witness it. Rest easy my old friend, so many of us think of you often.
Matt Stragazzi
September 11, 2019
Thinking of you today buddy. Ill always remember our last conversation and how happy you were about your daughter. Im sure shes very proud of you. God Bless!
Suzanne Tarman
September 11, 2019
God bless you
The Kindred Family
November 13, 2018
Thinking of your family and sending our sincere condolences for your loss. Daily may God give the needed comfort and help. Gary will always be fondly thought of and remembered.
Nancy Zapata
September 12, 2018
September 11th is always a sad day in our office. We always think of you and pray that you are at peace up there in heaven. RIP Gary.
Rhoda Pelliccia
September 11, 2018
Remembering you on this day. Rest in peace Gary while listening to the music of the angels.
Rhoda Pelliccia
September 19, 2017
A little late this year because I live in Florida now and we had hurricane Irma. Just today we got power back on TV, internet and phone. Remembered you on Sept. 11, did not forget. God still has you in the palms of his hands. Rest in Peace Gary.
My Brother, My Friend
Felicia Cappo
September 12, 2017
Dear Gary: My Brother, My Friend
Another year has passed and I miss you as much today as I did 16 years ago on that fateful day. The emotions I felt yesterday were just as raw. You get used to it, but it does not get easier. I receive signs from you daily and some days they are in abundance, so I know you are here with me always. That is truly a comfort. I always recall our last conversation on 9-6-01 and that has inspired me to always express my love for those important in my life and to be kind to people everyday. Life is too short and too precious, so finding my "happy" is what living is all about. I know that is what you would want me to do. I am sad that you did not know Mason. His smile lights up the room like yours did; he is goofy; kind-hearted and loving like you always were. I see so much of you in him and that makes my heart smile. Your spirit will always be with all of us. I wish you were here to hug but I am blessed to have the many amazing memories I do of you. I will never forget and will love you always.
Your sis,
Felicia xoxo
Theresa Voelker
September 12, 2017
Gary it's been another year and this year I shared the time that we lived with you guys. Although it was a rough time in our lives you and your sisters tried to make it normal. We were family. You guys took care of us. It was a special memory. I remember going to your school and having to write a paper which you guys helped me with. I do remember my teacher he was sort of a health nut. He had all these vitimins he would take and it was the first time I ever had frozen yogurt. I also remember being really sick at your house. But whatever the memory most of all I remember we had fun. You teaching me words to the devil went down to Georgia. I hope you're looking over all of us and seeing how we are remembering you. How your sisters and mom honor you and how you're never forgotten. Love you cousin. Xo
Angie P
September 11, 2017
Never forgotten.
September 11, 2017
Gary - the love your family has for you shines on. Your sister, Laurie, is an incredible soul and I'm sure you are looking down on her with enormous pride. She keeps your name on the tip of her tongue and tells your story as often as she can. Your name is known to so many who have never met you but love you and hurt for your absence. You are not forgotten. You will never be forgotten.
Sending my deepest condolences to all of Gary's family on this very difficult day as well as every day that has passes and the ones that are still to come. I pray that you find comfort in the support of your family and loved ones.
XOXO
Lisa Adamek and all of us at Good Karma Dog Rescue.
September 11, 2017
Dear Gary,
You are never forgotten....RIP!
Nancy
Ed
September 11, 2017
May you Rest in Peace Gary!!
Heather S
September 10, 2017
I am so sorry for your loss. Like many Americans I will never forget the day he was taken from you. May he Rest In Peace.
Dolores Hoffman
September 13, 2016
Dear Gary I miss you very much,surfer dude. Pool tournaments etc. RIP GARY. I WILL NEVER FORGET MY POOL BUDDY. LOVE DOLLY HOFFMAN MUCH LOVE TO YOUR FAMILY
Dina (Portnoy) Kaplow
September 11, 2016
Hi Felicia- I know this is a hard time of year for you. I wanted you to know that I was thinking about you and hope you are doing ok.
Rhoda Pelliccia
September 11, 2016
Remembered
Debbie Baker-Chamberlin
September 11, 2016
Thinking of you and our childhood memories on this day. May you continue to rest in peace.
Freedom Tower Rainbow 9-10-15
Felicia Cappo
September 12, 2015
My dear Gary - not a day goes by that I don't think of you and talk to you. I am especially reflective every year on the eve of 9/11, when on 9/11/01 life was normal and then the next day, life was changed forever for us and so many others. A beautiful rainbow appeared to rise out of the Freedom Tower on 9/10 that was captured on photo. It prompted me to reflect and write this in memory of you:
On the eve of the 14th anniversary of 9/11, this beautiful rainbow reminds me of the first anniversary at Ground Zero. Other than the constant sobs you could hear from the thousands of people at Ground Zero, it was a quiet and beautiful morning like 9/11/01. As the ceremony began and names of loved ones started to be read, the wind and dust kicked up out of nowhere. On such a somber day, I found comfort in the wind and dust (it was a lot of dust). I took it as a sign that Gary and the almost 3000 other souls who lost their lives on that tragic day were smiling on us from Heaven and letting us know they were there. It was truly a "divine" experience and I find this rainbow to be in the same vain. I am fortunate to have so many cherished memories of my brother; had the opportunity to tell him "I love you" on 9/6/01; and to know that he is with me every single day of my life. These are the positive aspects I focus on when it comes to his loss and 9/11. They give me the strength to honor him in a way that he would want me to...to be happy and live my life to the fullest. I see so much of Gary in Mason...his smile, his sense of humor, his sweetness and his klutziness (Gary was a walking accident and so is Mason, Lol). I am lucky to be blessed with the most amazing little boy a mom could ask for. Knowing my brother is watching out for us, makes it all that much better. I am also lucky to have so many wonderful people in my life, including my FB family, who have touched me in so many special ways. There are not enough ways to say "thank you", but I hope knowing you make my heart smile is enough. Love and God Bless to all! ♥♥♥
Yesterday was a long and somber day as always, but I really felt your presence and connected to you all day. That truly is a comfort for me. I miss you so much my brother. I know you are with and watching me always. Kisses to you in Heaven. We all love you!
Love always and never ending,
Felicia
Laurie Vigeant
September 12, 2015
My Dear Brother Gary :
It is hard to fathom that 14 years have passed already with you not being there.
As I do every year, once again I went to the memorial at the WTC site in NYC on behalf of our family to honor you.
You touched so many lives in ways you will never know.
This was the 2nd year of attending the Old Bridge Memorial where your name and memory now lives forever.
I love you and miss you more than words can express.
Please continue to watch over all of us from up above.
I love you always.
Your lil sis,
Laurie
Theresa V
September 11, 2015
I have had such a long day that it's actually the next day. As I sit here and reflect on how you left this world too early as I have to believe you just have been called on for something far more greater than we could understand. I just wanted you to know that you're thought of. Loved. Remembered of how awesome of a person you were to so many. I wish you were here. I wish we could just hang and talk. Love you cousin. Keep watching over us and be well angel. Xo
Rhoda Pelliccia
September 11, 2015
Never forgotten, ALWAYS REMEMBERED.
Nancy Zapata
September 11, 2015
Hard to believe it has been 14 years. RIP Gary!
Gary and Jeff
Bobbi Leder
September 11, 2015
Gary (aka Gumby to the Nadler family) was the kindest, sweetest, most genuine person who was the epitome of selfless. He would drop everything to help someone else and never hesitated. He was loyal, loving, and such a good friend to my brother, Jeff. He was a part of our family from the time my brother met him and it breaks my heart that Gary was taken from his friends and family so early. Life is truly unfair sometimes. We should all strive to be the type of person Gary was. The world lost one of the greatest human beings that day.
Gary and Jeff
Bobbi Leder
September 11, 2015
Gary (aka Gumby to the Nadler family) was the kindest, sweetest, most genuine person who was the epitome of selfless. He would drop everything to help someone else and never hesitated. He was loyal, loving, and such a good friend to my brother, Jeff. He was a part of our family from the time my brother met him and it breaks my heart that Gary was taken from his friends and family so early. Life is truly unfair sometimes. We should all strive to be the type of person Gary was. The world lost one of the greatest human beings that day.
Mary A Valdivia
September 10, 2015
RIP Gary J. Frank. I have never had the pleasure of meeting you, but I will now have another name to look for when I visit the memorial; pause at your engraved space, say a prayer and touch your name with my hand; makeing the connection. I will never forget. Lest we all forget. xo
Terry Alvarez
September 10, 2015
Another year gone and another year remembered. I spent some time talking about you last night to my coworkers, some younger ones this year that were very young when you taken from this earth. I once again talked about growing up with and playing Little League Baseball and other times we all shared. How your amazing family remembers you.... Hard to believe it's 14 years, so wish our paths crossed more as we got older....please know Gary, you are talked about alot by your old friends and by the Old Bridge people that knew and love you and miss you......
Odalis Kennedy
September 10, 2015
14 years gone by and it feels no different. Gary, please know you are in all our hearts and thoughts always. Not a day goes by that I don't reflect on the events of the day of your passing. May you be at peace. Wishing you love and light on your next journey.
Stan McCauley
September 9, 2015
The great thing about Gary for me was it did not take to know he was a good guy. Such a good man that god called upon him early for things bigger than just life on this planet! Much love to his family and to all who lost someone during 9-11.
Laurie Vigeant
November 5, 2014
My Dear Brother Gary:
Happy 49th Birthday in Heaven...I miss you very much and hope you are celebrating up there with my Jenni & Pepper to keep you company.
I love you and miss you very much.
Love Your LiL Sis,
Laurie
Theresa Voelker
September 12, 2014
My dearest cousin I always think of you and your sisters,mom and even got a chance to be with uncle ray before aunt Mary passed. It brought back memories of living with you guys for that short period of time. The only difference is I wasn't afraid of "the look" uncle ray gives when you're in trouble. Ha. He did not approve of my piercings. But that's ok. I didn't feel like I was in trouble though, since I was 44. But anyway. I thought how cool it was as kids when we made beds on the floor with blankiies and we all slept in the girls room. And sliding down the stairs. And if I remember correctly for some reason not being allowed to go downstairs. I think that was dad's man space. But just having these memories are very special to me and knowing I will be able to see you again and hug you someday makes me happy. We will have the relationship we did not, here on earth. Love you, cousin Tree
AON - Rose Ceremony 9-11-2014
Laurie Vigeant
September 11, 2014
Gary here is your stone at the Old Bridge 9/11 Memorial
Laurie Vigeant
September 11, 2014
My Dear Brother Gary:
It is still so hard for me to believe that it has been 13 years that you left us here on earth.
There isn't a day that goes by or a moment in the day when I don't think about you and miss you tremendously.
It never gets any easier.
As always I went to NYC to pay tribute to you and honor your name and your memory at the 9/11 Memorial & Museum, and once again George accompanied me as he has done for the past 4 years.
I also ran into your good buddy Anthony today and we had a really nice talk...He misses you & Donna greatly. He traced yours & Donna's names today for the very first time and it was very emotional.
AON also had a rose & name reading ceremony for the first time today at the WTC site..It was a beautiful thing to see everyone's names with a yellow rose.
The Museum is a beautiful and haunting tribute to all that were lost on that horrible day.
This year was extra special for me because after fighting with Old Bridge and waiting for over 12 years, you are now and will always be remembered as part of the Old Bridge 9/11 Memorial. Our Hometown and childhood-through adulthood.
I fought so hard to make this happen and it was so important to me that you be honored there. Mayor Henry was an integral part of this and I can't thank him enough...He made a beautiful heartfelt speech and at the end he said to you GARY..."WELCOME HOME"...It literally had me bursting in tears.
My love for you will never end and will always do my very best to keep your memory alive.
It was nice to see all the support and love from people who knew you and the impact you had on everyone's life.
This year was tough for me losing both my dogs Jenni & Pepper within 9 months of each other to cancer but now you have them to keep you company in Heaven although you are allergic -LOL ... Give them lots of hugs and kisses from me.
Please continue to watch over all of us down here especially mom who really needs you.
I will always love you and miss you forever.
Your LiL Sis,
Laurie
rich nadler
September 11, 2014
gary you were one of a kind and are deeply missed
our thoughts are always with you
RIP
all our love
Richard and Noreen
Felicia Cappo
September 11, 2014
Dear Gary:
It is hard for me to believe that it has been 13 years since I lost you. Although this day is extremely hard for me, I mourn your loss everyday as I miss my brother and my friend. You give me a sign daily you are with me; mostly that it is 11 past the hour 95% of the time I look at the clock. There are many others, but that is the most significant. I try not to reflect on the horror of that day, but on the many wonderful and funny memories I have of my time with you like rolling glass milk bottles down the stairs when we were young kids to see what would happen (you can guess what did) and wallpapering our bedroom with Vaseline because we thought it would be fun (my parents were not laughing). I remember crashing your brand new moped before you drove it, and then your car a couple of months after I got my license. You always took it in stride and never got mad at me. When I was away at Rutgers, I love that you often came and hung out with me, sharing in my college experience. As adults, we did many things together and helped each other whenever possible. I loved that you would come on weekends to my house with Jessika and we would go to breakfast on Sunday with Trina, which was a weekly ritual. As a true sap and sentimental person, I saved so many things you gave to me over the years from a wool scarf, t-shirts, a handbag, and many cards. I am so glad that I still have those with me today. Of course, my best and most special memory is our last conversation on 9-6-01. Prior to that, we were talking daily about some things going on in your life. I was so happy that I could be there to listen and counsel you. When I received the most beautiful birthday card (pictured here and made me cry), I called you immediately to thank you. We had the best conversation, making plans to get together. As we hung up the phone, we said "I love you". I remember where I was and what I was wearing during that phone call, and how happy I was when we hung up the phone. Little did I know it would be our last. I am grateful to have had that 10 minutes of blissful conversation with you. This is one of the reasons I never hesitate to let those that I love and care about know it.
I am glad that the 9/11 Memorial and Museum exists so I and our family have a place to go and honor you. Your profile in the Museum is so special and I love that excerpts from the StoryCorps interview I did, talking about the amazing person you were and our memories together, are forever a part of the Museum. It is a wonderful and honorable tribute.
You are now finally part of the Old Bridge 9/11 Memorial. Laurie was so instrumental in making that happen. Her love for you is everlasting.
I wish you had a chance to know my son, Mason Gary, but I look forward to sharing many wonderful stories and memories of his uncle with him, and know you will always be a part of us.
I wish I could turn back time, but unfortunately I cannot. Continue to look over all of us from above, especially mom who misses you terribly. We know you are forever smiling and shining brightly.
All my love,
Felicia
Memories of Gary
Felicia Cappo
September 11, 2014
Gary's Profile and Name at 9/11 Memorial and Museum
Felicia Cappo
September 11, 2014
The last birthday card I received from Gary
Felicia Cappo
September 11, 2014
Rhoda Pelliccia
September 11, 2014
REMEMBERED
I did not know Gary J. Frank but I was at the 911 memorial on his birthday 2013. I thought I would submit this picture.
Holly
April 11, 2014
Karen Gilligan Kaplan
September 12, 2013
I'll never forget seeing a flyer with Gary's picture after 9-11 at Woodlane Pharmacy. Think of him every year at this time, remember him as always having a smile on his face. Prayers to your family. God bless.
September 12, 2013
Hey Gary,
We still talk about you here at work. When you work with someone eight hours a day and get along well, they become your family. Good memories!
RIP.....NZ
Gina Hyams
September 11, 2013
Gary I never met you but if you are even 1/10th as wonderful as your sister Felicia then I know you were an amazing man. Your family loves and misses you so much and your legacy lives on through your nephew Mason and your new grand baby. God Bless!
Your Memorial Poster and message 2013
Laurie Vigeant
September 11, 2013
My Dear Brother Gary:
It has now been 12 years since you left us here on Earth and went to be an angel in Heaven.
I went to the Memorial today as I do every year to honor you and celebrate your name. George has been my rock for me and has helped get through this day for the past 4 years now. Although he never met you in person, your memory and stories our family and myself share with him about you, he can say that he knows you. He knows how much I love you and wish you were still here.
I always make sure your memorial stands out and again this year it did.
Please continue to watch over me from up above. I really need you. My Jenni dog hasn't left my side all week because she sensed my hurt and sadness that you're not here.
You have become an uncle and a grandfather in the past few months and I can imagine how proud you would feel and love them unconditionally.
I love you always and miss you every minute of every day. You will always be "MY HERO"
Love always and forever,
Your "LIL" Sis,
Laurie
September 11, 2013
Thoughts and prayers for you and your family..
Phyllis Martino MTHS 1973
Debbie Chamberlin
September 11, 2013
Thinking of you and your family today.
Me and Gary on my 21st birthday
Felicia Cappo
September 11, 2013
My dear brother Gary - I wrote this on my FB page with a collage of pics as a tribute to you. I think it is only fitting to express the same sentiments on this page as well.
As I reflect on the 12 years since I lost you on 9-11, I continue to feel your presence. Maybe it's the little signs you give me with a movie, song, random thought, or the fact that it is almost always 11 past the hour when I check the time. I know you were instrumental in bringing Mason into our lives as I prayed to you daily. What a true blessing Mason has been and I am honored to have his middle name as Gary. I miss your smile, laugh, friendship and just plain brotherly love, but am eternally grateful for the many memories I remember so vividly. Getting a chance to tell you "I Love You" during our phone call on 9-6, not knowing at that time it would be our last, has forever changed me. My mantra in life is to say something nice to someone every day and let those I love and care about know it. I've always been a compassionate and an emotionally outspoken person, but that has magnified since losing you. I miss you terribly but cannot change the past, so I move forward in life and do the best to honor your memory by being the person I am today. We had such an amazing bond, especially in the months leading up to 9-11 with all our talks, and that will never be broken.
I love you my brother always and forever!
Your sister,
Felicia
September 11, 2013
May you and your family have peace! You are not forgotten and your life and death were not in vain! May God bless those you left behind!
Amy T
September 11, 2013
Remembering you on this sad anniversary. Praying for your family and the other families. MCHS Class of 84
Theresa Voelker
September 11, 2013
every year we remember and there's not one day that goes by that we have forgotten. you will forever be my cousin and my memories in my heart. and I know you watched down over us and smile at the accomplishments we've all had.. so please continue to be there you angel in the heavens and we'll see each other again.. until we meet again I love you now and forever.
Jeff Nadler
September 11, 2013
Jeff Nadler
September 11, 2013
Jeff Nadler
September 11, 2013
remembering the good days......
Jeff Nadler
September 11, 2013
Bobbi Leder
September 11, 2013
You left a hole in the hearts of all who loved you. Your kindness, generosity and loyalty will never be forgotten. You are missed each and every day.
Gary N.
September 11, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lori Dougherty
September 10, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
MCHS 84
Rhoda Pelliccia
September 10, 2013
Remembered.
Joe Kantrowitz
September 10, 2013
RIP Gary. MCHS Class of 84.
Donna Nielsen
September 10, 2013
Prayers to you and your loved ones that are without you. Thought of u and u were there.. Happy to have known u <3
September 10, 2013
You will not be forgotten. My students will see your face and hear stories about you and kids who were not even born yet when you were taken will feel the loss. God Bless your family.
Mike Maffei
September 10, 2013
Words really can't express how sad it is to think of this terrible tragedy. It is very heartwarming to see that you are never going to be forgotten and have made such a lasting impression on so many lives.
September 10, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure that not a day goes by that Gary is not in your thoughts.
Mark Nelson
September 10, 2013
I did not know Gary but I respect all who have perished that day. I know several people who have and almost lost their lives that day. It never gets easier. RIP
September 10, 2013
Gumby you are always in our hearts and you are surely missed
love noreen and rich
Barbara Mauceri
September 9, 2013
R.I..P. Gary
September 8, 2013
Another year...it never seems possible, I stop here often over the months to see the posts others put on here. It's nice to see how many lives you touched. I was telling my daughter about you today and growing up in O.B. and playing ball together down at the little league field. Lots of great memories....
It's hard to believe it's been 12 years now, still seems like it was yesterday for so many reasons. You are missed Gary, more then you may ever have known. Your friends from O.B. talk about you alot....
I will always remember you, Gary...
Eric Hu
August 26, 2013
Thought about you, the other day. We were in Vegas for the APA and your name came up. Our team should have won States, back in 1996(?) I still can't believe that Karl sat Carlos the whole tourney. Hope you are playing well, see ya...one day...
Laurie Vigeant
November 7, 2012
Gary I hope u had a very Happy 47th Birthday in Heaven...I couldn't write you a message on your birthday on here due to Hurricane Sandy and i had no power, but I know you were watching over me and our family from Heaven and got our power turned back on...I love you and miss you every minute if every day.
Love always- You LIL sis,
Laurie
jeff nadler
November 7, 2012
Gumby my brother, last time we were together i beat you in pool. Sharpen up those skills... happy birthday, thinking of you every day, as always.jessica is doing good. Ive been looking out for her from time to time since she moved out near me and josh..
Felicia
November 5, 2012
Dear Gary - hoping you had a wonderful 47th birthday today playing pool and having fun in heaven. I miss you so very much but know you are always with me everyday. God bless you my brother. I love you always!
September 12, 2012
September 12, 2012
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Laurie Vigeant
September 11, 2012
My Dear Brother Gary :
It has now been 11 years since you were taken from me and our family.
There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you. You are in my thoughts and always in my heart.
Spent another anniversary at the 9-11 Memorial today in NYC with my boyfriend George. It was beautiful as always and traced your name and left a poster from all of us. Spoke to mom while I was there and she sent her love to you. Also spoke to our sis Felicia and your beautiful daughter Jessica this morning and sent love to you from them as well.
You are very truly missed by many people and you touched so many lives.
I know you will always be watching over me from heaven...My Hero and my Angel....I love you !!!
Your lil sis,
Laurie xoxoxo
Felicia
September 11, 2012
Dear Gary - there is not a day that goes by that I do not miss you. I love you so very much. Thankfully, you give me a sign daily to let me know you are always with me. I have so many wonderful memories of us, from when we were so very little, up to our last conversation on 9-6-01. I am grateful for each and every moment we had together. I could not have asked for a more amazing brother and friend. Keep smiling down on us, my angel.
Love forever,
Felicia
Rhoda Pelliccia
September 11, 2012
11 years. Not forgotten. Too young. Rest in the palms of God's hands.
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