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Maggie McDonnell is trying to keep Christmas normal for her two children. Their Long Island lawn is decorated in lights and they will have a tree. The tree will be decorated in red, white and blue, and Daddy's police cap will stand atop it.
Brian McDonnell was a member of the Emergency Service Unit Truck 1, stationed on East 21st Street in Manhattan. He was last seen heading into the south tower. "Brian was a cop's cop," Mrs. McDonnell said. "When people get in trouble they call the police; when the police get in trouble they call Emergency Services."
But more important to him than the job were his children, Katie, 8, and Thomas, 3. When his daughter was born, he was there in the delivery room holding his wife's hand, gently weeping.
A former Army paratrooper, Officer McDonnell, 38, was never decorated in his 15-year career because he never wrote himself up for an commendation. "He wasn't showy," his wife said. "It wasn't his nature. He just wanted to help people."
Once, he saw a little girl waving to him and the mother pulled her in the window and scolded her: "'Don't wave to him, police are bad,'" Mrs. McDonnell recalled. "It crushed him."
Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on December 15, 2001.
McDONNELL-Brian, N.Y.P.D. Police Officer. Tragically lost in the line of duty on September 11, 2001 in the World Trade Center disaster. Survived by his beloved wife Margaret and cherished children Katie and Thomas, dear brothers Robert and Kevin, devoted sister Alicia, and his loving mother Ann Claire. Brian was a loyal friend to many, and he will be sorely missed. His command was Emergency Service Squad #
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Alicia
September 14, 2021
20 years you have been gone. It was another beautiful day. We went down to Point lookout , it was so peaceful.
You are Missed everyday. I Love your Brother
Keep watch over us, till we meet again..
❤
Kimberly Wright
September 13, 2021
A group of people in St. Louis Mo did March to the Arch a 21-mile memorial to mark the 20th anniversary of 9/11... We carried people's badges in remembrance.... Brian Grady McDonnell is remembered... God Bless his eternal soul 9/21/21
Kathleen McKeever Gallagher
September 11, 2018
Hard to believe it has been 17 years since Brian was taken from this earth. He was such a bright light, and our world was a better place with him in it. I think he would smile to know that that my first-born son is now a police officer. I look at Brian's picture every day, and it reminds me of his incredible strength and heroism. I will never forget. Until we meet again,
"Kate"
amber parsons
September 12, 2016
I did not know brian but I did have the privilege of honoring his heroism and the sacrifices he made on sat. I climbed the stairs here in panama city with his name and picture around my neck the entire climb in honor of him.my thoughts and prayers are with his friends and family..
~amber parsons ~
Panama city,fl
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Abby
September 11, 2016
Philip Vimini
September 11, 2015
RIP Airborne Brother
Risa Capone
September 11, 2015
Thinking of you and your family today. Can't believe it's been 14 yrs. R.I.P Brian. We will never forget
S J. Friscia III
September 28, 2014
In memory
With Honor & Respect.
Michael Fitzsimmons
September 6, 2014
Today I had the honor of carrying Brian's name up 110 flights of stairs for the Dallas 9/11 Memorial stairclimb. This is an annual event in Dallas and my second year completing it. I am an officer for Richardson PD in Texas. I plan to honor Brian and his family by carrying his name to the top every year I participate in the event. I'd like to reach out to Brian's family and friends so they know his legacy is known by many. Always remembered and never forgotten.
August 29, 2014
Brian,
I need your strength. So much is going on.
Alicia
Carol Higdon
September 11, 2013
We still hold special memories of the times Brian visited our home. He was stationed at Fort Hood in Texas at the time. When I had surgery, he had the sisters pray a special prayer for me. Carol Higdon, Maryneal TX
Alicia A
May 21, 2013
Happy 50th Birthday! I miss you everyday.. I love you...
Risa Capone
May 20, 2013
Happy 50th Birthday in heaven Brian . You're in our thoughts today and everyday.
Maggie
May 20, 2013
Brian, tomorrow you'll celebrate your 50th birthday in heaven. I can't believe you've been gone almost 12 years. You are always on our minds and in our hearts. We love and miss you very much. Happy Birthday.
Street Naming
May 19, 2013
Thomas and Katie
May 19, 2013
Risa Capone
September 11, 2012
Another year has gone by. You are in our thoughts. Keep watch Brian.Rest in peace.
Bud Moffett
September 11, 2012
To All My Dear Friends,
As I said I would do EVERY year, I have changed the “Anniversary Year” number, and ask you to RE-read this and send to as many people you know, no matter WHAT their “political views” are… May we NEVER forget…
"ELEVEN YEARS OF TEARS"... OUR 9/11 HEROES
God bless JOHN D'ALLARA, God bless BRIAN McDONNELL, God bless ALL of the N.Y.P.D. and F.D.N.Y. "heroes", as well as all those that "came to help" from ALL over, near and far. All those, who gave their lives on September 11, 2001, so that others may LIVE...
I am lucky enough to know TWO angels, that shine down on me every day of my life, reminding me that SOME people put mercy and kindness before their own lives. In this world there are GIVERS and there are TAKERS, these are two of the "GIVERS". Something in their UPBRINGING, something in their SOUL, something in their HEART, made them DIFFERENT. They were able to see the bigger picture of life, and knew what they had to do in a time of crisis. Like hundreds of other "heroes" that day, they didn't think twice when it was time to show what they were made of... Modest, loving people, with families of their own, KNEW it was up to THEM to save other families loved ones from harm, and in doing so, paid the ULTIMATE price. How can we ever forget what was done to them, AND their families that day? Hundreds of beautiful people trying to help thousands of other "innocent" human beings, all over WHAT?
I am no longer sure of WHAT I believe in, only that there will NEVER be a good enough explanation, to explain ONE SINGLE DEATH! I don't want to hear "there is EVIL in the world...", THAT doesn't take away the tears of the lonely HEARTBROKEN husbands and wives, with only a "void" left in their soul, THAT doesn't take away the tears of the mothers and fathers that lost children, THAT doesn't take away the tears of children that cry every night cause they will never see a parent again, THAT doesn't take away the tears of a brother or a sister losing someone they've perhaps shared a "lifetime of memories" with, THAT doesn't take away the tears of some poor child, that never got to KNOW his or her parent, and only has a picture to cling to, for the rest of their life. No, THERE WILL NEVER BE AN ANSWER GOOD ENOUGH...
I DO wonder what kind of force could let something like this happen, to bring SO many tears to SO many families. If THAT makes me an "agnostic", then "SO BE IT"... If THAT makes me a "bad person", well then, I HAVE NO COMEBACK... but maybe, just MAYBE, I am unable to comprehend and accept ANY kind of justification or explanation for THIS...
So JOHN, BRIAN, and all the other beautiful angels looking down on us from up above, please know we have cried "ELEVEN YEARS OF TEARS" for you ALL, and are thankful to have had you in our lives, if only for a short time.
THERE COULD NEVER HAVE BEEN ENOUGH TIME...
~BUD MOFFETT~
Alicia Arancibia
September 10, 2012
It's 11 years that you are gone. I still cant believe it. I miss you everyday. I wish your nephew could have known you.
What a good man you were.
I love you Brother...
Alicia
Daniel Schneeberger
September 9, 2012
God Bless Brian Mcdonell,I was fortunate enough to recieve his name during a Ham radio special event 9-9-2012 My family is praying for you and your family Amateur Radio Station W9DCS Dan Schneeberger Cudahy WI
Riley Matthews
February 17, 2012
NYPD P.O. Brian McDonnell, RIP my Brother from NYPD Class 87-10...
Alicia (McDonnell) Arancibia
September 11, 2011
I cant believe its been 10 years since your gone. You would be so proud of Katie. She is going to NYU. She is truly a Beautiful young woman. Thomas is a gentleman. I wish your nephews could have known you. They would have learned so much.
I LOVE AND MISS YOU EVERYDAY.
I know you and Daddy watch over us.
BUD MOFFETT
September 9, 2011
To All My Dear Friends,
As I said I would do EVERY year, I have changed the “Anniversary Year” number, and ask you to RE-read this and send to as many people you know, no matter WHAT their “political views” are… May we NEVER forget…
"TEN YEARS OF TEARS"... OUR 9/11 HEROES
God bless JOHN D'ALLARA, God bless BRIAN McDONNELL, God bless ALL of the N.Y.P.D. and F.D.N.Y. "heroes", as well as all those that "came to help" from ALL over, near and far. All those, who gave their lives on September 11, 2001, so that others may LIVE...
I am lucky enough to know TWO angels, that shine down on me every day of my life, reminding me that SOME people put mercy and kindness before their own lives. In this world there are GIVERS and there are TAKERS, these are two of the "GIVERS". Something in their UPBRINGING, something in their SOUL, something in their HEART, made them DIFFERENT. They were able to see the bigger picture of life, and knew what they had to do in a time of crisis. Like hundreds of other "heroes" that day, they didn't think twice when it was time to show what they were made of... Modest, loving people, with families of their own, KNEW it was up to THEM to save other families loved ones from harm, and in doing so, paid the ULTIMATE price. How can we ever forget what was done to them, AND their families that day? Hundreds of beautiful people trying to help thousands of other "innocent" human beings, all over WHAT?
I am no longer sure of WHAT I believe in, only that there will NEVER be a good enough explanation, to explain ONE SINGLE DEATH! I don't want to hear "there is EVIL in the world...", THAT doesn't take away the tears of the lonely HEARTBROKEN husbands and wives, with only a "void" left in their soul, THAT doesn't take away the tears of the mothers and fathers that lost children, THAT doesn't take away the tears of children that cry every night cause they will never see a parent again, THAT doesn't take away the tears of a brother or a sister losing someone they've perhaps shared a "lifetime of memories" with, THAT doesn't take away the tears of some poor child, that never got to KNOW his or her parent, and only has a picture to cling to, for the rest of their life. No, THERE WILL NEVER BE AN ANSWER GOOD ENOUGH...
I DO wonder what kind of force could let something like this happen, to bring SO many tears to SO many families. If THAT makes me an "agnostic", then "SO BE IT"... If THAT makes me a "bad person", well then, I HAVE NO COMEBACK... but maybe, just MAYBE, I am unable to comprehend and accept ANY kind of justification or explanation for THIS...
So JOHN, BRIAN, and all the other beautiful angels looking down on us from up above, please know we have cried "TEN YEARS OF TEARS" for you ALL, and are thankful to have had you in our lives, if only for a short time. THERE COULD NEVER HAVE BEEN ENOUGH TIME...
BUD MOFFETT
Tricia O'Brien Guldner
May 27, 2011
Brian,
You were such a good decent man, someone I truly respected and looked up to. Although I can't believe you have been gone for almost ten years now it never surprised me that you died a hero, putting others in front of yourself. I see so much of you in Katie and Thomas. I know you are up in heaven watching them always, proud of all they have accomplished in their young lives already. I wish my own children could have met their Uncle Brian. I hope the stories I tell them about you do you justice. We attended your street naming ceremony this past weekend. Maggie, and all your family were so proud. It was inspiring to see all the people whose lives you impacted. You are, without a doubt, a "success". We all miss you and love you always.
Tricia
Gene Isnardi
May 21, 2011
When I think of Brian one word comes to mind. Hero. He was a family man first and thats what he talked about at work. They came in to watch the St Pats Day parade when we had the detail one day. Brian served his country as a US Army Airborne Ranger. He believed and lived God and Country. His physical strength working in the upper westside put fear into the bad guys and made the good guys happy Brian had your back. He used the term "toot sweet" which i use to this day. My son joined the Army largely in part of Sept 11th and I could only hope he becomes half the man and father Brain was and is. Brian Mcdonnell:hero See you toot sweet. Gene Isnardi NYPD Ret
May 21, 2011
Read this story n cried. What a great father n what a great family u r
Much love
risa capone
May 16, 2011
you are never far from our thoughts..
May 15, 2011
Brian,
Next week to celebrate your 48th birthday, Kinloch Road will be named "P.O. Brian G. McDonnell Road". We are expecting many to attend. Your name will forever be remembered on the street where you grew up. You are so deserving of this honor. We are all very excited. We love and miss you always.
Maggie
9-11 Memorial. Tempe Arizona
Kristen B
September 15, 2010
Never Forgotten.
Risa Capone
September 11, 2010
It's been Nine years Brian and you are thought of often. We will never forget and we will keep you and your family in our hearts forever!
September 11, 2010
Nine years after you became an angel you continue to touch the lives of so many. Katie and Thomas continue to make you proud and shine your light on so many. You will always be in our hearts. We miss you.
Maggie
September 10, 2010
can not believe its 9 years ago- feels like yesterday- can not believe your gone from us- you were a force of life just like your dad- watch over us and give us all strength lov ya cuz
September 9, 2010
I can't believe it's 9 years that you've been gone. I will always love and miss you.
April 23, 2010
It's going to be 9years since you got taken away. It feels like it's been forever since I have seen you. I think about you and grandpa a lot, and I really wish you both where still here. It hurts knowing the memories after you where gone are more clear then the ones before you left. But I will never forget how good of a person u where, and i will always love and miss you for that. I hope one day I get to see you again.
Danielle Leone
September 11, 2009
Dear Mr. McDonnell,
although we've never met, i know that you meant so so much to Kat. Im sure she got all of her great qualities from you! She is truly a great person and I thank you for her!
Love always,
xoxox
Dani
Rich Law
September 11, 2009
Father Mac,
It has been 8 years since you had to leave us. It seems like yesterday we were talking on the phone. I really miss you, but I know you are always with me. I just visited Maggie, Katie and Thomas a couple of weeks ago. You would be very proud of all of them. Thomas is just like you ! Katie is beautiful and growing up fast and Maggie has her hands full. Your mom and Maggie told stories about your wedding. Can you believe they said that I wanted to throw the photographer off the roof? Not me, you know me better than that:)
I think of you everyday and I know we will meet again. You are my hero and you are the face of America...I love you. - Lawman
Donna Portanova and family
September 11, 2009
Dear Maggie, Katie and Thomas,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.
September 11, 2009
Dear Maggie,Katie and Thomas
Our prayers and thoughts are with you always.
All Our Love
Jimmy and Roe
Yolanda Desantos
September 10, 2009
My condolences to the family of Brian Mcdonnell. I worked with you in the 106th Pct and I knew, one of your dreams was to go to ESU. We were all proud of you when you finally made it. We knew you would excel in ESU. Only the best are selected for such an elite unit. To my NYPD brother, you are truly missed by your fellow police officers of the 106th Pct.
Midnight Brother
September 10, 2009
Still missing you, brother. You could never out-shoot me, but you certainly were a better man. Hi to Nicky.
Risa Capone
September 9, 2009
Its been 8 yrs and you are thought of often. My thoughts are with you and your family on this sad day.
September 9, 2009
cuz we all miss you and i talk to you all the time --miss you- give us some of your strength denise
Riley Matthews
September 8, 2009
Rest in Peace my NYPD Brother. It's been a long time since the NYPD Academy... Thinking of you and the times we shared...
Signed,
Riley G Matthews Jr
Retired NYPD (Disability)
Alicia Arancibia (McDonnell)
September 8, 2009
Its been 8 years since you have been taken from us. I miss you more each day. Its been a little crazy around here wishing you were here.
I have 3 sons who will never know what a Great Man you were. I really wish you were here. I know you are watching down on us.
I Love and Miss you very much.
Your sister
Alicia
Ryan your Nephew
September 8, 2009
Andres and Aedan your Nephews
September 8, 2009
Risa Capone
May 21, 2009
Happy Birthday Brian. you are always in our thoughts!
Doug Abraham
May 20, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
denise molony
September 12, 2008
I always remember what a strong person in spirit and life you were- not too many out there like that -please look out for all of us- we miss you cuz
Risa Capone
September 11, 2008
It's been 7yrs and you are missed everyday! thinking of you today and everyday. keep watch and keep us safe!
Donna Portanova & Family
September 11, 2008
Dear Maggie, Katie and Thomas,
I'm so happy that in such a short time we have become good neighbors but more importantly good friends.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all on this day.
denise molony
May 21, 2008
miss you cuzin -your always in our hearts - love cuzin denise
Doug Abraham
May 20, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
Risa Capone
May 20, 2008
Today is your birthday. It doesnt seem appropriate to say happy Birthday. But I am thinking of you today! Keep watch and keep us safe. you are missed !
December 7, 2007
a toast to my brother i will never forget you
Risa Capone
September 12, 2007
I just wanted to stop by and let you know we're thinking of you today. I cant belive it has been 6 years. keep us safe and please keep an eye on Kevin. i think he needs it! Thanks to Alicia we're in contact again. goodnight
Alicia Arancibia
September 9, 2007
I cant believe it will be 6 years since you are gone. It cant be possible. I miss you everyday. I know that you are watching over us , as dad is too. I love and miss you.
Joseph Welch
September 9, 2007
I forget nights like when we liberated Brian from the hospital. Nights spent at the Cork & Bib, Tabbards ale house. Laughing over shots of Irish Whiskey. I can never forget though how you were always there whenever someone needed you.
Kevin
August 3, 2007
DEE MOLONY
July 9, 2007
ME AND YOUR CUZINS SAT AROUND THIS WEEKEND TALKING ABOUT YOU MY BROTHERS AND I STILL CAN'T BELIEVE YOUR NOT HERE HOPE YOU HAVE MET UP WITH THE GANG THERE AND GIVE US SOME OF YOUR STRENGTH AND COURAGE WE MISS YOU CUZIN
Risa Capone
July 8, 2007
I thought of you today and wanted to let you know! I found an old picture of Kevin on his bike in front of your parents house. So naturally i thought of you. Keep watch on us all. And keep an eye on Kevin, keep him safe!
Doug Abraham
May 20, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
P Tabbernor
December 27, 2006
In remembrance....
Kristine
November 17, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Risa Capone
September 4, 2006
Dear Maggie & Family, As that day comes nearer please know my thoughts are with you. I only met you once at a Christmas dinner at the McDonnell's house a very looong time ago. I am a childhood friend of Kevins. Brian is a hero in our hearts and will always be remembered as such!I will be thinking of you and yours on that day. I wish you peace and hope Brian is looking down on us all. God Bless! Please feel free to e-mail me anytime.
Denise Molony
August 29, 2006
Dear Cuzin Brian- your always in our hearts- you were my good friend as well as my cuzin- we always got to "life talkin" and pondering- but I know you were so happy and blessed with your family- you must be so proud of them all as your watching over them- You gave us all a great example in your everyday life of being a hero not including 9/11- strength, courage, loyalty & love - I knew I could always count on you to be there for me - we miss you everyday... love cuzin denise
Juanita Thompson
August 23, 2006
I will be posting a tribute to Brian G. McDonnell on my blog on September 11, 2006, to commemorate his sacrifice in defense of the people of the city of New York. Please stop for a moment and say a prayer of thanks for all those who gave their lives that day in the performance of their duty to protect the citizens who were in danger. God Bless Brian G. McDonnell and his family.
Alicia Arancibia
May 18, 2006
Well Brian they made a movie about the world trade center. I think of that day and still cry. I miss you so much. Thomas is going to received his first communion, I wish you were here to see it. Its these things that I wish you were here for. I love and miss you. Please watch over us...
Maggie McDonnell
September 14, 2005
I can't believe it's been 4 years. Sunday 9/11 was spent at your sons first football game. I'm sure you are proud. Thomas played a good game. Katie was there to cheer him on. When the kids experience something and I know how happy you would be if you saw this I get angry. Then I come to realize that you are there always watching over them. Brian you are always on our minds, always in our hearts. We are happy because of you. Keep those Irish eyes smiling. You will be loved and missed always.
November 14, 2004
i know we werent my real family but u where the most i really ever had to a family and u and your family have always been there for me 100%. i miss u so much and u will always be my uncle, And i hope one day ill be able to see you and grandpa again. But you'll always stay in my heart and my memories for the resst of my life i love u so much.
Alicia Arancibia
September 11, 2004
Well Brian it is 3 years since you have been taken from us. It seems like a lifetime... I know that you are looking down on us and saying they are crazier than ever... I love and miss you very much. Wishing you were here to see your children grow and see your crazy nephew. I LOVE YOU AND WISH YOU WERE HERE.. Maybe things wouldnt be so crazy... Love always your sister
Maggie McDonnell
May 20, 2004
Dear Brian,
Wishing you a Happy 41st Birthday in Heaven. Your strength and love are felt always and comforts us. You are missed more than you could have ever imagined. There is so much to be shared with you, I hope you hear our prayers. Your favorite pear tree is growing strong. We will love you always.
Almajane McDonnell
March 31, 2004
Dear McDonnell Family, We will always remember 9/11 and those lost. We McDonnell's will stick together!
Justin Weber
January 26, 2004
Dear McDonnell Family,
I want you to know that I proudly wear the name of Brian on my left arm and pray for peace and the love of God to bless and strengthen your family everyday.
I thank God for your husband's service to others and have faith that one day you will be reunited.
If you need anything please fell free to write to me. May God Bless you and your family.
Justin G. Weber
Acquire The Fire
"The Power of One" 03-04 U.S. Tour
Teen Mania Ministries
Johnny Mac Johnson
September 29, 2003
Dear McDonnell Family,
I heard about your tragedy by way of another NYC Cop that I seved with in the Army. I found this website today. Brian and I served together in Charlie Company, 1/325 Airborne Infantry Regiment, 82nd Airborne Division in the early 1980s. We were in 2nd platoon together. When I was told of what had happened to "Mac" on 9/11, I still remembered his face, mannerisms and general good nature. We weren't best friends or anything, we just served together and got along well. The service can do that sometimes, through together a kid from Oklahoma and New York, and they somehow get past cultural differences and become good friends. I was happy to hear that Brian had married and had two wonderful children. I'm sure his family brought him his greatest joy. I have the same privilage of family. I can not fathom your loss. Take courage where ever you can McDonnell Family. The Brian I knew, the Paratrooper, had a never quit attitude. You know he would want his family to thrive and succeed. The last time I saw Brian was the day he got out of the Army, I and a few others had helped him pack the moving van he rented. I have a few photos of Brian and would be glad to copy them and send them to the family if anyone so desires. And to Brian; Good bye for now, and I hope you'll fare well.
Johnny Johnson
Stilwell, OK
Richard Law
September 12, 2003
Brian,
Here I am writing a day after the 2nd anniversary. What can I say, I was always late and you were always on time. I miss you more and more each day. You are my friend, my brother and my hero. Not a day goes by without a thought of you. I remember all our time together as if it were yesterday. Everytime I hit a door during a warrant I talk to you. I know you will give me strength and that you are with me. I talk to you all the time, but don't tell anyone, they may think I am crazy. We all miss you, and are empty without you. I will never forget...I love you my brother...Lawman.
Marciel White
September 11, 2003
Hello Maggie, to me your a hero in my heart, having to raise both Katie and her little brother Thomas alone without their father Brian is not an easy task, and I bet your children feel the same way. "Your their Hero". May God Bless You and your beautiful children.
Marciel White
September 11, 2003
Hello Maggie, to me your a hero in my heart, having to raise both Katie and her little brother Thomas aone without their father Brian is not an easy task, and I bet your children feel the same way. "Your their Hero". May God Bless You and your beautiful children.
Chris Higdon
September 11, 2003
Hello Maggie,
Brian and I had lost touch over the years. You and I had talked a few times on the phone, but we never met face to face. I remember the good times he and I shared. We were roommates at Fort Hood and we worked together, but that did not stop us from becoming best friends. I brought him home with me and we went deer hunting. He became a part of my family and I miss him dearly. I am proud to call him friend and brother. I hope to someday come and visit you and the children. My prayers are with you all!
Love always,
Chris Higdon
Jacki & Sarah Postlethwait
September 11, 2003
Dearest Maggie, Katie and Thomas,
We think of you often and hold you all in our prayers. Sarah and I are so incredibly proud of you, Maggie and the work you have done in Brian's name and because of your wonderful charitable spirit. On this day, as we have on past and future days, we will hold you dear in our thoughts and prayers knowing that Brian is watching over you all and smiling with his heart filled with love. Katie, Sarah sends her love.
Best to you always
Maggie McDonnell
September 10, 2003
It's been two years since Brian was tragically taken from us. During the past two years he has missed so much. His children have done well and he would be so proud of them. We all know how difficult it is especially at this time of year to deal with the heaviness in our hearts. To sing Happy Birthday, the birth of a baby, the first day of school, a great report card, the growth of his children, a wedding, or just watching the seasons change.... these things are not the same without him. He would have enjoyed it all so much. There is no such thing as "things going back to normal". However, we are finding a new normal. September 11th has taught us to do it now, live for today and enjoy life. Go ahead and take a chance. Do something you always thought of but never did. Think of our Brian and smile. We know he is sleeping peacefully with the angels now.
Suzy & Mike Laviano
September 7, 2003
To Brian's wife and family,
We have not met you but we are good friends of John and Miriam. We work for United Airlines and September 11th has changed our lives forever.
Mike was supposed to fly TO JFK that morning.
We called Mia on 9/11 and found that she and John were safe but, through tears, she told us about Brian.
We have been to the site a couple of times (We went with John his first time) As the 2 year anniversary approaches it still feels like yesterday. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and the children. When I talk to Miriam to find out how John is doing in Iraq, I ask how you are. Please keep a smile and be sure that there is an angel on your shoulder watching out for all of you, and you are ALL on our prayer list here in California.
Suzy and Mike Laviano
Alicia Arancibia
July 27, 2003
Well the last time I signed the book I said it was 34 months.. You can see were my head was at.. it is 22 months since u are gone.. I miss you no matter how many months it as been...
I hope that you are in a better place and that you are happy.. I miss and love you..
Love always,
Alicia
Alicia Arancibia
July 14, 2003
Well brother it is 34 months since that terrible day. I still cant believe that you are gone. I talk to you and dad everynight hoping to see you like I did that night in my apartment. I miss you very much..The kids are lost without you. Katie really is her fathers daughter. Mommy still cant believe that you were taken away from us. She misses you greatly. Kevin is making a Memorial book about you. It has everything in it. I miss you brother, I know that you are looking down on all of us.. It is still very hard I have days were I cry thinking about you.. I love you and miss you..
Love Always your sister,
Alicia
Brian G. McDonnell (May 2001)
Maggie McDonnell
May 18, 2003
Not a day goes by that I don't think of Brian and how fortunate I was to have been a part of his life. It give me comfort to view this website and read all of your words again. There are so many of you who I don't know and have said such wonderful things. If ever you wish to talk please contact me via e-mail. My screen name is [email protected]
Deborah (Higdon) Wolfe
May 3, 2003
Dear Maggie, Katie, and Thomas,
My brother Chris was in the army with Brian and I had the great honor of getting to know Brian then. I think about him often. He was truly a great man. Even back then he spoke of becoming a police officer with great pride.
I have often wondered how I could honor Brian and I have finally been given the opportunity to do that. I am attending a military leadership school and am doing a presentation on terrorism. I am going to start my brief with Brian's picture and bio, and end it with the legacy he has left behind through Katie and Thomas. He truly was, and still is, our hero.
I will always keep Brian Mac in my heart, and you in my prayers.
Deborah
Paul Jones
March 12, 2003
Dear Mrs. McDonnell,
I still remember exactly where I was the morning of 9/11.. Standing there in dis-belief, wondering if what I had just heard from co-workers was really true, and praying they were wrong. You can always trust in this one thing we all should know by now,,, Brian may be gone now, but he's in the hands of god, and in a much better place than we are just waiting for you and your loved ones.. I'm a Deputy Sheriff in the county in which I live and I wear a bracelet bearing
Brian's name on a regular basis.. It makes me feel close to him also even though I never had the honor of meeting him.. I just wanted you to know on behalf of my family and everyone in the San Bernardino County Sheriff's Department that we feel we have also lost a brother.. Our love and prayers are with you.
Paul & Kerri Jones
katie mcdonnell
November 26, 2002
dear Daddy,
i miss you very much.i hope you are happy wherever you are.save a seat for me!
love,
your daughter katie
Alicia Arancibia (McDonnell)
November 20, 2002
Dear Brian,
Well brother it's been 14 months and I still cant believe that you are gone. The last memory I have of you is at my wedding telling me that you Loved me. We were not talking prior to that because you were mad at me. Well I wish you were still here to be mad at me. I Love and Miss you. They say that we were so much a like I guess that is why we always butted heads. I know that you and Daddy are watching over us. I really hope that everything is in bright colors for you. You are a great man and missed by many people. I Love you , you truely are my American Hero..
Love Always your sister ,
Alicia
ida koestner
November 15, 2002
i am so sorry for your loss i did not know Brian but you can be proud of him and what he did . I have a brother who is a police officer and they all who put there life on the line should be admired and looked up to without all the police and firefighters and anyone else who protect us we all would be lost god bless you . i did not lose anyone in theworld trade towers but i have lost both of my parents my mom 6 years ago and my father 3 weeks ago i feel for you truly god bless
Anthony McDonnell
November 15, 2002
This sad event will always touch the heart of peace loving individuals around the world.
May the strenght of your god be with you for ever more.
Remember that there will always be people who care and want to listen.
Love from a name sake.
Nancy Smythe
September 24, 2002
Dear Mrs. McDonnell,
On the anniversary of 9.11, the Associated Ministries of Thurston County printed up and passed out names of people killed in the WTC. I received your husband's name and wanted to know more about him, so went on to the internet and this site. I wanted to send my condolences to you and your family. I have young grandchildren your children's age and know how painful it must be for you. I hope your family is a support for you but can never replace your husband. It sounds like he was a great guy and a brave guy, I am glad I drew his name. Please accept my good wishes for you and your family. Sincerely, Nancy L. Smythe
Halina Fontaine
September 16, 2002
Dear Maggie and children:
I just found out that Brian was one of the brave souls who lost his life at the trade center. The last time I saw him was happily in your arms on your wedding day. It never occurred to me that he was a NYC police officer. On this first anniversary of that horrible day I mourn for Brian and pray that God will look after you and your children always. He is truly a hero and I promise to keep his legacy alive within my own family. Take care Maggie, Katie and Tommy! My prayers and love are with you today and always. I hope to see you soon! Love, Halina
Bonnie Peer
September 13, 2002
Dear Maggie and family,
I don't know you personally, but I have learned much about your family. I've learned much about Brian and what a wonderful husband, father and police officer he was. I felt as if I was part of your family, since I am a very dear friend of Brian's cousin Frank and Jane McDonnell. Jane was ever so kind to tell me some really fond stories of your family, and also shared some of your more trying stories following that fateful day. I wept for you and with you. The first time I saw a picture of Brian, I choked up at how much he resembled Frank. And to this day, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Brian is a selfless hero who saved many lives. God Bless Brian and God Bless your family.
Tina Nesbitt
September 12, 2002
Brian, I did not know you, but, brother in law enforcement, today I climb for you. It is a year to the date of that horrible incident which took your life so tragically. In memory of you, who was chosen for me, I joined over 1,000 Arizona Firefighters and Police Officers from around the State who gathered today and climbed the tallest office building in Phoenix, Arizona. It was during a memorial service to remember and pay respects to you, and, those like you, who lost their lives on 9-11. You and your family will forever be in our prayers and may God Bless you in death and your survivors in life.
Respectfully,
Detective T. Nesbitt
Badge #4793 (18 years sworn)
Violent Crimes Unit
Mesa Police Department
Mesa, Arizona
Jonathan Bryan
September 12, 2002
dear family and friends of Brian McDonnell,
i did not know Brian, but i have carried his name on my mind, let me explain. i started training for the transportation security administration this week, that is the federal airport screener part of the government. my instructor on the first day of class gave me Brian's name to call out when he does roll call. he also stated that when we got down about the job that we were training to do, to think of the name that he gave us, and that will be our modivation to do the job and do it right. i have been thinking about Brian and wanted to know more then a name, i wanted to know who he was. i wanted to know about his life. that way i will never forget why i am doing the job. i prey for you, his family, his friends, and most of all, his wife and children.
please know that when i think that i cant go on in this new line of work, i will be thinking of you and Brian to help carry me on, so that maybe this kind of thing will never happen to anyones loved ones ever again.
Nancy Sherlock-Walker
September 12, 2002
Dear Maggie and Family, Deepest Sympathy. I grew up with Brian and I was thinking of him all day. There are a few of us from high school that have shared our memories of Brian. He is missed. We Will Never Forget. Memories can be a great healer.
Thinking of you,
Nancy Sherlock
Mike Peterson
September 11, 2002
To Brian's Family,
I was a high school friend of Brian's. We weren't real close, but we played soccer together, and had lockers near each other several years. Everything I've read in this guest book is true to what I remember of Brian. He carried himself well, but always beneath that semi-tough persona was a smiling, warm person. I too am not surprised by the path Brian chose in life. Military and police duty seem like a perfect fit for him.
My memories of Brian are of a quiet, unassuming gentleman who always had a smile or a laugh for you. His loss puts a face on this senseless tragedy for me. My thoughts and prayers are with you on this day as we remember what happened one year ago, and never forget the heroes like Brian who allow us all to live in freedom. By the way, if you haven't already done so, please read Brian's quote in the back of our high school yearbook. It speaks to exactly the kind of hero he is.
Debbie Hendrix
September 10, 2002
Yesterday I received a MERCY B.A.N.D. with Brian's name on it. I had requested a bracelet with the name of an NYPD officer because my husband is a retired law enforcement officer (Georgia State Patrol), and I feel so fortunate that he survived to see retirement. After reading Brian's tribute on the Legacy website, I realized he sounds so much like my husband -- he too has never been "showy" and was content after 29 years of duty to retire as a trooper first class instead of an officer with rank. My husband's main desire has always been to serve and protect and after reading about Brian, I feel we share a kinship that many law enforcement families know. May Maggie's & Brian's children know what a brave and courageous hero their father was and always be proud of his legacy. To Maggie, I hope my prayers for you and your family will give you the strength to carry on as Brian would expect you to. I will tell his story to everyone who asks about my silver bracelet bearing his name, and I want you to know we are so grateful to Brian and will NEVER, EVER FORGET the ultimate sacrifice he made for his city and his country. May God bless you and keep you safe in His loving care.
Robert McDonnell
September 9, 2002
Unfortunately, I did not know Brian, however, from what I have read here and from his unconditional giving to help others in distress, he is now resting in Peace. May your family and the families of all others who were lost be perpetually blessed. They blessed this Nation in time of need, and it is time to give back. My family sends it best wishes and prayers to you.
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