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Holly Wall (Schwarz)
September 14, 2021
I lived in Tulsa when this tragedy happened and was friends with Peter Decola from church. I was grieved to hear his brother (maybe even twin) died in the towers. I never looked up his brother until now. My deepest condolences to the family and prayers.
Cindy Roe
September 7, 2021
Remembering Paul on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
August 26, 2019
Rest blissfully, Paul. Even though I never met you, I can imagine your family always misses you.
T Daniels
January 14, 2019
Dearest deCola Family,
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Shane Clutterbuck
September 2, 2018
I think of you, and your family especially during the first two weeks of September every year. I was only 19, which now seems a lifetime ago. Yet that day is as fresh in my mind today, like it was only yesterday. You will never be forgotten. You have inspired me to live life to the full, your death was not in vein. Rest In Peace Paul.
Virginia DeCola Bowrosen
September 9, 2016
Virginia Decola Bowrosen
September 9, 2016
Gina DeCola Bowrosen
September 9, 2016
Still miss you, hard to believe 15 years have past since you died.
Virginia DeCola Bowrosen
September 9, 2016
joan opatka
September 13, 2015
I will keep your family in my prayers♡
Gina DeCola-Bowrosen
September 9, 2015
Gina DeCola-Bowrosen
September 9, 2015
bauke wielinga
October 24, 2014
We visited the 9/11 memorial I made a random photo of a name, a name to find the person. To give a face, some one to think of a a representative of all those who lost their life. I took a photo of your name. A man I never met, and will never forget.
netti
August 18, 2013
I saw your name at the memorial today and was moved to know who you were and pay my respects. God Bless
Rosemarie Hernandez
September 11, 2009
Remembering you cuz, Love you
Doug Abraham
April 27, 2009
Death, be not proud
Death, be not proud, though some have called thee
Mighty and dreadful, for thou art not so;
For those whom thou think'st thou dost overthrow
Die not, poor Death, nor yet canst thou kill me.
From rest and sleep, which but thy pictures be,
Much pleasure; then from thee much more must flow,
And soonest our best men with thee do go,
Rest of their bones, and soul's delivery.
Thou art slave to fate, chance, kings, and desperate men,
And dost with poison, war, and sickness dwell,
And poppy or charms can make us sleep as well
And better than thy stroke; why swell'st thou then?
One short sleep past, we wake eternally
And death shall be no more; Death, thou shalt die.
By John Donne
The Poetry Foundation
Rosemarie Hernandez
September 13, 2007
We speak of you often and will never forget you. Willie, your cousin, still misses you. Our love to Gina and Peter Jr. and we hope and pray that they are both doing fine. We know you are with your parents in heaven. I hear from your brother Peter often. We miss you, God Bless, Your cousin Rose
Frank Deliu
June 3, 2007
RIP
Kristine
October 31, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
September 21, 2006
In remembrance....
Laura Shute
September 14, 2003
On the second anniversary of September 11 we had a memorial in Lubbock of 3,412 flags, each representing a victim of the attacks. On Septmeber 14, my son and I took home one of the flags and a certificate with the name of the person the flag represented. We were given Paul's name and would like his friends and family to know they will always have a special place in our hearts.
Paul DeCola at his Uncle Jack DeCola's birthday party
Chrissi Sepe
November 12, 2002
Virginia and Peter -- our prayers go out to you both. My mother, Sharon, and Paul were first cousins, and this picture is from my grandfather, Jack's, 65th birthday party many years ago. We really enjoyed the times we spent with Uncle Peter, Aunt Nelly, Peter and, of course, Paulie. Love from our hearts -- Sharon DeCola Sepe, Randy Sepe, Jr. and Chrissi Sepe
gretchen snavely
September 13, 2002
a blue spruce has been planted in the El Dorado Springs National Park, colorado, in memory of Paul DeCola. i picked paul's name and planted a blue spruce inside the park next to the river that passes through the beautiful canyon. i chose this site because i can care for the tree and watch it grow. although i do not know Paul DeCola, my heart goes out to his family. my thoughts and prayers are with you. may the peace, love, and care with which this tree was planted embrace you and live on in your heart for ever.
gretchen snavely
louisville, colorado
NICK CALIGIURI
September 9, 2002
Paul - Everyday I think about you bro, we were childhood friends, at least since 1979.... You spent lots of time at my house with my Brother Willie and Mom...as I did with you and your family... I miss you man and am always reminded of you when the news focuses on the Twin Towers... My heart goes out to Peter & Gina... I feel bad that the last time we saw each other was at your Mothers wake.. You were one of my Best Friends...
angela heighton
September 6, 2002
i did not know paul but i was reading the memorial and looking at the info of victims. when i see bergen county resident names i get extra sentimental. i grew up in fairlawn. lived in jersey for forty years. i just want to say to the family that i pray god blesses each and every one of you with strength on the crest of this one year later of 9/11. bless you angela morrel heighton
Judith Fessel
September 5, 2002
To my aunt Gina and cousin Peter I am sorry for your loss of Uncle Paul.
Rosemarie Hernandez
July 11, 2002
I know my cousin Pauly is in heaven with his mother and father. Our prayers are with his wife and son that god may give them the strength to deal with this loss. He is gone in flesh, but will always be remembered in our hearts and minds.
Paul's Block
Margaret Alderson
June 30, 2002
I never had the honor of meeting Paul but chose his name to make a block for the United In Memory Quilt project. I hope that his wife, Virginia and son,Peter like the block. I shed many tears for your sad loss will making it. The two hearts on the block are for you Virgina and Peter
Angie Campbwll
April 23, 2002
May God Bless you and the ones who knew and loved you. I am so sorry for your loss. Rest in peace......
Beda Koorey
March 11, 2002
May God Bless my cousin Pauly and may he be with his mom Nelly in peace and in heaven.
virginia DeCola
March 2, 2002
to find this site came as a surprise to me. I don't always go online a lot, Paul was always the one into computers. I loved him and miss him as does our son. Please continue to pray for us especially Peter daniel (18) as he has been having a very tough time dealing with the loss of his father. My thanks to all who have prayed for us as we can use all the prayers we can get. Thanks to all and may God bless you for your kindness.
His wife, Gina DeCola.
Anonymous
January 8, 2002
MAY THE GOOD LORD BLESS YOU PAUL
DECOLA AND MAY YOU REST IN PEACE
WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS
YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS
AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..AMEN...+++
Teresa Jahn
January 5, 2002
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Lori Schroder
January 4, 2002
Paul I am at a loss for words knowing that you were there on that day and lost your life. We went to school together and I want to offer my deepest sympathies and prayers to your family. You are definately in a better place and watching over all your loved ones. May God bless you and your family and friends
Melissa Latorra
December 16, 2001
To the friends and family of Paul DeCola: On behalf of the students at Ursinus College, we are sorry for your loss and we will keep you in our prayers. Despite the tragedy, we hope you will have a wonderful holiday season.
Dianne Purdy
November 4, 2001
My Prayers continue for your family. My heart aches for your great loss and I wish I had the words to comfort you.
leslie miller
October 26, 2001
Our thoughts and prayers will always be with you. Please know that you are not alone.
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