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Tatyana Bakalinskaya Obituary
Tatyana Bakalinskaya did not love her job. But she loved where she worked.
She was a hostess at the offices of Marsh & McLennan, tending the kitchen and making sure that there was always a pot of hot coffee available. But she worked at the World Trade Center, on the 93rd floor. "For her, every day was like a vacation," said her daughter Natalie. "You could look out the window and see all of New York City. It was too good to be true."
Mrs. Bakalinskaya, 43, came to New York from Ukraine with her family in 1994 and started working at the trade center about three years ago.
The move to America was exciting for the whole family, but Ms. Bakalinskaya took to it the most. She worked out daily at the gym, went to school to become a hairdresser and when she turned 40, told everyone that her life had just begun.
Natalie Bakalinskaya, 24, a graduate of Brooklyn College who has inherited her mother's tough work ethic, said that everyone in the family — her father, sister and grandfather — has dealt with the loss in different ways.
The holidays were difficult, but the family tradition of celebrating New Year's Eve together at home was a powerful reminder of their strength. "We prepared dinner together and gave each other gifts," Natalie said. "It was hard, but because we were all together it made it a little easier."
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Ray Erran
September 8, 2023
Remembering Tatyana, prayers go out to her and her family.
mh
November 24, 2021
i did not know her, or any of her family, but i went to the memorial and saw her name. i really hope her family is okay.
Cindy Roe
August 31, 2021
Remembering Tatyana on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....
September 11, 2020
For Tatyana's family, I would like to say sorry for your loss. But deep in my heart, may every day be filled with memories of her.
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September 11, 2020
You are remembered today and your life, celebrated. May God richly bless your family with continued peace
The Kindred Family
October 24, 2018
Sending our deep sympathy to your family for your loss. Tatyana touched the lives of others and will be sadly missed and always remembered. May the time finally come when families are not separated by these acts of violence and they will be a thing of the past.
September 12, 2018
I never knew you but I promise for as long as I live I will never forget the victims of this tragedy.
September 13, 2016
9/11/2016
In a local ceremony for our 9/11 Memorial Day, they displayed over 3000 flags with names attached. After the ceremony they were selling the flags and we purchased one with Tatyana's name attached. I feel like I have a connection with her being of Ukrainian descent myself. May she be a bright star looking down on us all and I will remember her in my prayers.
Del Newberry
July 13, 2015
I pray today for Tatyana's friends and family. Such a tragedy, and we will never forget. May you find some comfort in knowing that we honor Tatyana by visiting this site and pausing to thank her for the good work she did while she was here. With love from Texas
April King
November 13, 2013
I know you don't know me but, I just would like to express my condolences. I will pray for you and your family that you'd find peace in this dark time.
September 30, 2013
On September 11, 2013, I rode in "The 2 Million Bikers to DC" memorial ride, honoring those who were lost in the 9-11 tragedy. Each rider was given a name label in honor of a victim, I was given Tatyana's name. I am having a permanent name patch made for my riding jacket, She will not be forgotten. Rest in Peace, Tatyana.
sebastian russo
September 11, 2012
dear tati, we all miss you
foxy, sebastian
Barbara Boam
June 11, 2012
Barbara Boam & Kim Rogers walked a mile for you (mile #119) on 5/30/12 as a dedication to your life.
Karen
December 22, 2011
A couple months ago, I donated to a charity called Fallen2Light where 100% of the proceeds go to the children of the victims of 9/11. In return, a shirt is made with one of the people who lost their life that horrible day. My shirt had Tatyana's name on it. I looked her name up on line today so I could learn a little bit more about her. Although I never knew Tatyana, or will ever have the chance to, I will wear this shirt proudly in her honor. My heart goes out to your family and friends...RIP Tatyana.
December 16, 2011
To The Family,
It's truly a shame when a person works so hard and comes to the U.S. to have a better life and loses their life by a senseless act of violence. Obviously, Ms. Bakalinskaya went all out to care for her family. Her life is now in God's memory and therefore, she will not be forgotten by Him. God, who can not lie promises to bring righteous deceased persons back to life in a system of things where wickedness will not exist. Be there to welcome Ms. Tatyana Bakalinskaya back with the opportunity of never dying again. I offer my deepest sympathy to you.
Sincerely,
Mr. Terry of NC
Thomas Howell
September 19, 2011
I recently visited the USA on business. While I was there I went to watch San Francisco Giants play Los Angeles Dodgers. The date was 11 Sept. On entry we were each given a card with a flag of the USA on one side and the name of a 9/11 victim on the other. The name on mine was Tatyana Bakalinskaya. I was curious about the name, so I came here.
Who was it said strangers are only people you've never met.
Christy Keeler
September 11, 2011
I am pleased to say I successfully completed the 91.1 km bicycle unity ride held on September 10, 2011 in Las Vegas, Nevada. It was a privilege to ride in honor of Tatyana. Throughout the race, I prayed for her and her heirs and I continually thanked her for her innocent sacrifice. She will not be forgotten.
Kymberli Colbourne
September 11, 2011
We hold you in our hearts.
Nena von Bogen
September 10, 2011
There are moments in life when you wish you could bring someone down from Heaven...and spend the day with them just one more time, give them one more hug, kiss them goodbye or hear their voice again. One more chance to say I Love you. Copy and paste in remembrance of our loved ones who are not here...gone but not forgotten
Christy Keeler
September 9, 2011
I look forward to honoring Tatyana in the 9/11 Remembrance Bike Race tomorrow in Las Vegas. This will be a difficult race for me—I've never ridden over 30 miles and this race is 91.1 km (56 miles)—but I know that Tatyana's memory will keep me strong. She is remembered for the example she set by working hard to improve her life and the lives of her family members and for her love of the New York City skyline.
Doug Abraham
February 29, 2008
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Nena von Bogen
January 10, 2007
Tatyana is with Angels now with all other 9/11 victims.God Bless her.God Bless USA.
Kristine
October 13, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vane. We will always remember.
P Tabbernor
August 21, 2006
In memory....
Nancy Warren
September 11, 2003
Memory Eternal. May God bless the family and give them peace.
Galina Kofman
September 8, 2003
As another sad anniversary approaches, my heart is with Tatiana’s family.
I did not know Tatiana, but from the photo she looks very beautiful. How sad it must be for her family to lose her so early.
We shell never forget.
I wish to Natasha and the rest of the family all the best.
God bless you all.
Carol McGuinness
September 11, 2002
God Bless Tatyana & her family.I had the pleasure to know her working on the 94th fl for American Express.She was very interesting to talk to and loved the USA. Her coffee every day was delicious and she was striving to get better employment.She was well groomed every day & kept the company kitchen neat & clean. I was not at work out on medical leave and just found out she is gone.My heart goes out to her family, she was a very lovely lady.
Stepheny Elkins
September 11, 2002
Thank you to all the firefighters and police officers.
We will remember.
UNITED WE STAND!
GOD BLESS AMERICA!
Halie Reichle
September 10, 2002
At my school (St. Pius X) we are doing a rememberance project of the people killed in September 11, 02. And we all are wearing wristbands with a person's name on them and I chose Tatyana.
To all of the people who knew her i am sorry, b/c from what i have read I can see that she was a verry kind person! I will keep Tatyana & her family & friends in my prayers throughout this weak and forever!!!!
~ Halie Reichle~
Louisa Szewczuk
September 10, 2002
To the family of Tatyana, our prayers are with you on this one year anniversary of your loved ones parting from this earth. God bless all of you and may you find peace in God's love.
Svetlana and Igor Rashevskiy
May 26, 2002
Always we remember and we grieve together with you
Angie Campbell
April 22, 2002
May God Bless you and the family and friends that are left behind to deal with your passing. Rest in his loving peace.
Uncle Sam
March 11, 2002
Let us never forget out sister, who died so that we may live. I knew you only a short time, but the world is a better place because you are a part of it. REST IN PEACE and know your death will no be in vain.
Teresa Jahn
January 9, 2002
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Dmitriy Milfer
December 28, 2001
To the family of Tatyana, God blass you all, god blass America.
Sarah Ulmer
December 5, 2001
To the friends and family of Tatyana Bakalinskaya - you may not know me, but please take comfort in knowing that my thoughts are with you. In a world of uncertainty only one thing is certain, that those people we care about most in life are always taken from us too soon.
IRENE STAPINSKI
December 4, 2001
GOD BLESS TATYANA BAKALINSKAYA..REST
IN PEACE..GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND
FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND MAY
WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01
November 15, 2001
To the family of Tatyana, I pray for you daily for strength to endure your loss. God Bless you.
barbara summers
October 20, 2001
Our deepest regret in the loss of your family member.The entire nation morns with you. God bless you
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