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Daniel Song Obituary
Danny Song was a sociable guy, a backslapping bond broker at Cantor Fitzgerald and a former captain of his college football team who liked hanging out with his clients and spent a lot of time with his girlfriend, Mihyon Pak. But much more than your average 34-year-old, Mr. Song, who immigrated from South Korea as a child, was dedicated to keeping his nuclear family together.
He lived two blocks from his sister in TriBeCa. He made it financially possible for the family to buy a house in West Orange, N.J., over the summer so that his parents could finally move out from Wisconsin, where he was raised. And he was particularly close to his brother, Frank, 37.
The brothers had lived together in New York since 1990. When Danny Song first moved to the city and Frank Song was working as a bond trader, Frank Song carried him through the lean years. When Frank Song decided he wanted to become an actor, his brother returned the favor. The brothers would do anything for each another. "He's my soul mate," Frank Song said, "my partner in life." Now, Frank Song has quit acting and taken on a new role: Danny's job as a bond broker, at a different firm but with many of the same clients, who encouraged him to step into his brother's shoes. "It's kind of a way to remain close to my brother," he said.
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Andrew
May 27, 2025
I didn´t know Daniel and was only 3 years old during the attacks. I recently visited the memorial and took this beautiful picture. I thought it would be appropriate to share here. The messages on this forum brought Daniel to life. He was a great family man and a great leader. I am sure he is doing great things in heaven
Donald Byrd
September 12, 2024
Another year has passed
Katie ODonnell
September 13, 2023
You are loved and missed by the O'DONNELL family.
Donald Byrd
September 12, 2023
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Cathy Etheridge
September 12, 2021
Former staff and students along with present staff and students at Appleton East remember you always. The tree your classmates planted in front of school in your memory grows taller and stronger each year. Your family remains in my prayers.
Donald Byrd
September 11, 2021
It is 20 years later. On this day I again think if you with sadness as I have on this day for the past 19 years...
Samantha
September 12, 2020
Will always remember you Dany, such a good person
Donald Byrd
September 11, 2020
I remember...
Donald Byrd
September 11, 2019
Again this day arrives...you are still remembered.
Michi Schrader
September 11, 2019
Thinking of you and your family today and always.
Samantha
August 4, 2019
I Will always remember your kindness Danny...always a nice smile on your face ...Samantha From Paris
Alex lai
August 3, 2019
Hi, I am sorry for your sudden loss. Be at peace....
September 12, 2017
As my brother (Jim's) friend, I still think of you. You and I had wonderful conversations and they meant a lot to me. We (the O'Donnell Family) love and miss you.
Dan Ciaccia
September 11, 2017
The most memorable nights at Marquette included Dan. I don't think our days there would have been the same without you. Man do I miss you. Even after 16 years, this day brings me to tears.
Eric Hillebrand
July 11, 2017
Dan and I played football together at Marquette and were friends who went out after the games, too. We even got into some trouble together there (kids!). I am just finding out now, 16 years later, as I read the Marquette Alumni magazine , that he was taken in the 9/11 attack. What a silly world sometimes.
Dan, you were my friend and my team mate. I remember you so well. You had the confidence in yourself to be nice everyone.
Samantha Addi
September 12, 2016
Still thinking of you dear Dan...
Donald Byrd
September 11, 2016
We have arrived at this day again, now 15 years later. Still think of you...
I hope this means alot to you, it was a very moving day when we visited ground zero. I
lyn Parry
July 4, 2016
Samantha Addi
September 12, 2015
I did light a candle last night in your memory and in memory of all of the Sep. 11th victims. I explained my kids what happened that day, and I mentioned your names on Facebook and to my friends and family. You were a very sweet person and we had some fun nights out with your brother and friends, and some nice work outs as well, as sport was such an important part of your personality.
Miss you Dan, and will never forget,
Sam
Shannon
September 11, 2015
Danny you are missed. You were a wonderful brother and son. We will never forget you.
Donald Byrd
September 11, 2015
It is now 14 years since that awful day. I still think of you. Am grateful that in spite of the passage of time your memory is as vivid as ever.
Donald Byrd
September 11, 2014
This date returns again. Still think of you.
Donald Byrd
September 12, 2013
Yesterday when I wrote, " Here we are at September 11 again. Still think of you and still remember you", I did not sign my name. But later in the evening when I recounted the events of 9/11 and my recollections of Dan to two very young people, I felt the need to return and sign... Dan is still in my thoughts.
Samantha Addi
September 12, 2013
Danny
Tu restes dans nos cœurs
Cathy Etheridge
September 11, 2013
I left a rose today next to the tree at Appleton East HS that your friends planted in your honor. I will not forget..
Tom
September 11, 2013
To Dan's family, cherish those moments when you feel Dan's presence and share that moment with him. We will always remember.
Lisa Coenen
September 11, 2013
I ran to the breakroom TV when I heard about the 1st plane hit. I watched the 2nd plane hit. In the days after, I continued to pray, and was thankful that no one I knew was affected... until I found out about Danny. I went to high school with him and will never forget what a beautiful soul he was. You will never be forgotten Danny!!
September 11, 2013
Thinking of you on the Anniversary of that terrible day in 2001. I dont know you personally as I live in England, but Ive never forgotten you from when I visited New York and bought a bracelet with you name engraved on it. R.I.P Daniel, God Bless you. Love Gail Ridgway (Manchester, England)
September 11, 2013
Here we are at September 11 again. Still think of you and still remember you.
Karrie Skarda
December 14, 2012
I did not know Dan. I went to high school with his brother Frank, who was always sweet. From all I read, I wish I had known him as he sounded like a special soul. May God bless him and his famiy. I am so sincerely sorry for your loss.
Donald Byrd
October 28, 2012
Still think of you.
Becca Busch
January 9, 2012
Daniel,
I hope you are doing well in heaven. In history we are doing 9/11 projects and i pick you for my project. You and my dad Gary both went to east and he said he had a few classes with you and that you are a really nice guy. I am so sorry to hear about your passing and hope you are doing well. My best wishes to your family. God bless.
tony lei
September 12, 2011
just got back from greece Dan. Thought of our vacation there when nick your your sis got married!
Donald Byrd
September 12, 2011
Here we are 10 years later and I still think of you. ... Today I am back at 303 Greenwich St where we both live and a few blocks from where The Towers stood. It all comes flooding back. Not just the horror of that day 10 years ago but also the seriousness, fun, focus, curiosity, and beauty I saw on your face when I would see you in the lobby or the elevator of our building. Those images of you stay with me.
Colleen Van Dyke
September 11, 2011
Dan,
tomorrow we are adding a dedication monument next to the tree we planted 10 years ago @ Appleton EAST High in your memory .
There will be many prayers and tears shed for you.
Bless your family.
September 11, 2011
To Daniel, 10 years today you were taken, I dont know you, but hope you have found peace and are happy, R.I.P.
Gail Ridgway
Manchester, England.
Samantha Arouete
September 8, 2011
Dear Dan, I can't believe it has been 10 years already. I remember so well when I spoke to our common friend Antoine who told me over the phone "they got Dan". It was really hard to hear those words. You were a truly generous person, with always a smile on your face. You are missed and I have been lighting a candle for you every year,
Katie O'Donnell-Goh
September 5, 2011
He was my brother Jim's friend from Marquette. I met him on graduation weekend and he was so kind to me. We miss him.
Rob Sheedy
August 9, 2011
I played football with Dan at Marquette and we were neighbors. He was a great guy and a great, tough football player. I am still shocked and sad. Dan will never be forgotten and I know his spirit is with us. He is in Heaven looking down on all loved ones.
Sarah Luckert
May 11, 2011
Hi daniel,
we are doing a project in History class on victims of 9/11. You're not forgotten. You never will be forgotten. Where ever you are now I pray that you're pain free and watching over your friends and family that love you very much. We all miss you and are sorry for what happened...
Gail Ridgway
March 22, 2010
My name is Gail Ridgway, I came to New York from England in 2009. I bought a velvet pouch with all the victims of the 9/11. I selected one and when I opened it I found your name engraved on it. I wear it every single day. Although I did not know you, you are always in my thoughts, and am so glad that I can put a face to the name. God Bless you and all the other victims of that terrible day, R.I.P.
Todd Bessey
September 18, 2009
Dan and I played football together at Marquette for a couple of years. He certainly was an enjoyable guy to be around.
joon pak
April 6, 2009
Dan,
I vividly remember you from my days at Marquette. You are such a nice guy. I still can picture you wearing Chicago Bulls' cap backward walking around the West Hall...
I will remember you forever. My friend.
Donald Byrd
September 4, 2007
I lived in the same building with Dan and his brother Frank. I found them both to be fascinating people. When I first saw Dan, I gasped. His energy was pure and beautiful and I was stunned. I never forgot that day. I did not know he had died on 9/11 until I was returning to the building where we lived and my partner said to me, “There is something you should know, Dan is missing.” I cried. Suddenly, the tragedy of 9/11 was personal and had a face, Dan. … I think of him often, especially when I see Frank.
kristine
August 19, 2007
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
March 17, 2007
In memory....
Katie O'Donnell-Goh
September 11, 2003
Dan,
I remember the day that I met you, during my brother, Jimmy O'Donnell, graduation week. I will never forget you, Dan. You are such a great guy, a dear friend, to my brother Jim. All of us in the O'Donnell family miss you!! You are in my prayers.
HOLIDAY BLACKMON
November 7, 2002
I DID NOT KNOW MR.SONG AT ALL BUT I LEARNED ABOUT WHO HE WAS THROUGH A LOCAL SCHOOL THAT DID A REMEMBRANCE FOR ALL VICTIMS,AND I RECEIVED MR.SONG NAME TO WEAR IN HIS HONOR AND I JUST WANTED ALL HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS ALSO ALL THOSE WHO KNEW HIM THAT YOU ALL WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY PRAYERS AND GOD BLESS ALWAYS AND FOREVER.
Stella Min
September 12, 2002
I don't know Dan in person but I met him twice while he was dating with my girlfriend. In my memory he was a very sweet and nice person and always talked about his family. Last year when I found his name and picture on the lsit I couldn't believe my eyes and even one year later I have the same feeling. I believe that your soul rested in better world...
Samuel SW Baik
September 11, 2002
...we all miss you dearly...your easy smile, your hearty ways of doing things -from ordering huge meals and never allowing others to pay, your expertise in physical fitness, your devotion to your family, and just being a great and loyal friend to us all.
And hearbreaking tears still fall when we realize our loss of you on that 9/11. But comfort we find in knowing that now you are back with Angels in Heaven.
Angell Lisa
September 10, 2002
The Appleton Post-Cresent recently published a wonderful article celebrating the life of Danny Song. I did not know him but I was moved by the love and closeness that Danny's family emotes. May God bless you and keep you during these difficult times.
Joan Tabak
August 28, 2002
I didn't know Dan, but went to highschool with his sister Julie. My heart goes out to the Song family during this heartbreaking time. We will never forget and Dan will never be forgotten.
Angie Campbell
May 16, 2002
God Bless the family and friends of this man and watch over them always. Rest in peace..........
May 7, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL YOUNG MAN..DANIEL W.SONG AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS LOVING FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY GOD AND THE BIBLICAL DANIEL GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Matt Quigley
April 18, 2002
I met Dan when he was a freshman at Marquette. He has made an impression on me I will never forget. It sadden me that I run into him and talk about those days.
David Snyder
April 18, 2002
I went to Marquette University with Dan. We never had any money and he used to bring us exotic dishes like kimchi upon returning from weekend trips to Appleton. He was supposed to live with a group of us during our sophomore year. He respectfully declined our offer because he felt he would never get anything accomplished living with such a motley crew. From what I read in the online tribute, Dan was well on his way towards achieving his lofty goals. Guys like Dan are few and far between and the world is a lesser place without him. May God provide his loving family with strength in their time of need.
Jim Peck
April 18, 2002
Dan, or "Danno," was my neighboor during my first year at Marquette University. He became my friend. I'm stunned to learn of his passing and know many will miss his easy smile, sense of humor and generosity. All my best thoughts and prayers to his family and loved ones.
---Jim
Amy Schneider
March 11, 2002
I didn't know Danny, but I shared a few high school classes with his brother Frank, who was one of the few people from high school I've always wanted to check in with and see how he was doing. Frank, I've been thinking of you and your family ever since I read the terrible news about your brother. I'd like to send my deepest condolences to everyone who loved him.
J. Teng
January 30, 2002
I used to hang out with Dan occasionally about 5-6 years ago when we both used to frequent the Asian professional scene. Always very level-headed, with a dry sense of humor. He used to work out big time, from what I remember (!)
rest in peace, Danny.
Injung Hong
January 23, 2002
I am incredibly saddened to hear the news of Danny's passing. The NY Times profile of Danny perfectly captures my childhood memories of him - charming, gregarious & completely devoted to his family. All my love and best wishes to the Song Family.
Sincerely,
Injung Hong
maureen hastings
December 28, 2001
dan song...i chose your name randomly out of all the victims of 9.11 to remind me of the impact of the horrible events of that day. i pray for your soul every day, and for your family.
Teresa Jahn
December 11, 2001
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Trish Murphy
October 23, 2001
Danny was loved and cherished by his family. My love and prayers to his sister Julie and all of the Song family.
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