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Robert Deraney Obituary
When Michele Haobsh learned last year that she had breast cancer, she called Robert Deraney, her brother, and said: "What do I do?" He provided answers, finding an oncologist and surgeon and accompanying her to chemotherapy and radiation appointments. Long before she did, he joined Gilda's Club, for people with cancer and their families, and made an appointment for her and her family. "He got me through it," she said.
Mr. Deraney, 43, a financial consultant who graduated from Princeton and the Wharton School, was at a breakfast meeting at Windows on the World on Sept. 11.
He was the "high energy" family organizer, Mrs. Haobsh said. He planned the annual reunions of 70 relatives, ordering Lebanese food and creating a game - Who Wants to be a Famillionaire? - based on Deraney trivia.
His Upper West Side apartment was furnished with family antiques. He set an elegant table with china and silver for 35 and ended evenings by playing the piano. "He was," Mrs. Haobsh said, "pretty much perfect."
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Bob Basile
October 12, 2024
I knew Rob for 20 years and two weeks before 9/11 we had dinner and he told me about "Mimi" (his sister).. I was humbled with taking Mimi to the 9/11 site for the first 3 years.i lost touch with the family, but his mom asked me to her home for a traditional Lebanese meal. After dinner, I´ll never forget Mimi saying it´s never going to be the same without rob, and her mother pointing to the grandchildren and saying, sure it is, there will be weddings, anniversaries and life goes on. I was humbled She lost her son on 9/11, her husband died of a heart attack in Dec and she knew the time with her daughter was limited. I will never forget the strength, humility and wisdom of her words. I recently visited the reflecting poools and took a picture of Rob´s name. I willl never forget..
Patricia Rose Labazzetta/Mastromonico
September 10, 2024
23 yrs later since that Horrific Tragedy of 9/11/2001. The day My Precious Brother died that day. No remains were never found. Mon frere, Robert J. Deraney's remains doesn't exist. He was @ a meeting in the North Tower of The WTC for a meeting. I wish he would have stayed home that horrific day!!
Robert, I will always hold you close to my heart forever.
Rest in peace, Mon Frere!!
Love you, Patricia Rose Labazzetta/Mastromonico
Class of 1976 WHHS
Patricia Rose Labazzetta/Mastromonico
January 5, 2024
Patricia Rose Labazzetta/Mastromonico
January 5, 2024
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Patricia Rose Labazzetta/Mastromonico
January 5, 2024
Patricia Rose Labazzetta/Mastromonico
January 5, 2024
I was a High School student with Robert J Deraney @ Wayne Hills High School. I became close to Robert in French Class. He was athletic on teams. He had the greatest smile & chuckle. It's now 2024 & Robbie has been gone for 24yrs this year.
Robert, you always lit up a room when you entered it. I continue to wear the special memories bracelet on my arm & always think of you.
Rest in peace My Precious Brother in Christ. I'm thinking of you a lot. I have never gone to the memorial @ the reflection pools in NYC. It has taken me 20yrs to watch the events that took you from us Classmates of Wayne Hills High School, Class of 1976.
Continue to rest in peace in Heaven.
I love you My Precious Brother in Christ.
Love Patricia Rose Labazzetta/Mastromonico
Clemmie King
September 12, 2023
It doesn't seem like 22 years ago, it still feels like yesterday. Each year our news stations feature even more coverage of families direly affected by 9/11. It is beyond heartbreaking, still. I will never forget your kindness, your sense of responsibility, and your inclusiveness in our many cross-cultural groups doing projects at Wharton Graduate School. You brought out the best in others by being encouraging, appreciative, positive, and open-minded to everyone's ideas and contributions. We were lucky to have you as a calm and unifying group member, always contributing brilliant ideas "outside the box!" I will never forget Walnut Walk when a group of us decided to skip (instead of walk!) between stops. Unforgettable times. Sending love and light to your amazing family that you loved so dearly.
Susan Lucas-Conwell
September 12, 2023
Will never forget, Bob was always the light of every room he walked into. I think of him every time 9.11 comes by and think of who he'd have been..
Patricia Mastromonico
December 22, 2021
It's 20yrs ago that I lost a Precious Classmate of mine, Robert Deraney, I hold his friendship from Wayne Hills High School close to My Heart. Robert sat behind me for 3yrs of French Class. He was a very special guy to me & I can't believe that he has been gone for 20 years. I really had wished he didn't attend that breakfast meeting @Windows on the World in the North Tower of the WTC on September 11th back in 2001.
I forever keep My Precious Brother in Christ, Robert in My Life Memories.
Robert (Bobby) may you continue to rest in peace. I love you & miss you.
Patricia Rose Labazzetta/Mastromonico
Class of 1976 WHHS
Marie-Claude Najm
November 6, 2021
20 years have passed, and Bob's smile is still on my mind, and in the heart of all of the family members here in Lebanon.
Francis Packer
September 12, 2021
Rob was one of those rare people who, when he walked into the room , seemed to effortlessly command everyone’s attention .
Clemmie King
September 11, 2021
Joining Susan and Cindy in remembering our incredibly gifted, generous, creative and successful friend who was a team player and a unifying leader of people. He worked hard, built people up, and made social events for our graduate class (including the infamous "Walnut Walk") outrageously fun and memorable. My heart goes out to his family who he loved dearly; his friends and coworkers; and to all who knew and loved him. He and all who sacrified their lives on this tragic day, and in the aftermath, will never be forgotten. Sending up prayers for Peace for our country and our world.
Susan Lucas-Conwell
September 8, 2021
Joining Clemmie and Cindy on the upcoming 20th anniversary of 9/11 and the loss of Bob in the WRC. The horrendous events of that day come flooding back to me as if it were yesterday on the anniversary, hard to believe 20 years have passed. He will always be in our hearts. I will say a special prayer this Saturday and think of Bob's contagious life, broad smile and smarts. Susan
Cindy Roe
September 7, 2021
Remembering Robert on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
Susan Lucas-Conwell
September 11, 2020
Hard to believe it's been 19 years since the world, and his friends, lost Bob in the 9/11 tragedy. Most years I've gotten up to listen to the names called and think back on the fun times in Wharton, his wonderful smile and big heart. He's still with us in spirit.
Clemmie King
September 11, 2020
Remembering my kind and brilliant classmate, Bob Deraney, and praying for his family and for the families and friends of all who grieve losses from that horrific day. I know you were right there with NY Firemen helping others escape, Bob. May your soul continue to shine brightly, and the light you brought to us in life, continue to uplift the hearts of all the lives you touched.
Patricia Mastromonico
September 10, 2020
Tomorrow is the 19th anniversary of the tragedy that happened on September 11, 2001. I lost My Friend, Robert J. Deraney, Jr, who was in the North Tower @ The WTC that day. Robert, Mon Cher Frere, I think of your smile & your perfect French accent when we were in High School French Class. Bobby, you live on in my heart, soul, & my prayers since you were taken too soon 19 years ago. Je t'aime beaucoup!! May you continue to rest in peace.
Alex
January 15, 2020
You deserved a longer life, Robert. Be at peace...
Patricia Mastromonico
September 11, 2019
Today 18 years ago a Sweet & Amazing Friend of mine died in the WTC. Robert was a great friend in fact I could say "He was a Brother to me." As we say in French, "Mon Frere". Robert, I wish you hadn't gone to that meeting & died before your time. I will forever love you & miss you, Mon Ami!! French class back in WHHS wouldn't have been the same without you in the class!!
Rest in peace, Mon Frere & know you are loved by me. To Robert's family, I'm sorry you didn't get closure for Robert. Just know he went Home to Heaven on that sun-filled day & was met @ The Pearly Gates of Heaven.
Love, Patricia Rose Labazzetta-Mastromonico
Michael Lineberry
May 15, 2019
I did not know Rob well. But he was a bit of sunshine. I was at the memorial this morning. I never could go before. (Too sad and scary.) I found his picture inside, I found his name at the north fountain quickly. So strikingly moved. God bless you, Rob. What a beauty.
Peter Gorobetz
March 10, 2019
Rob popped into my mind today for some reason. We played volleyball together. Not forgotten...
Patricia Mastromonico
September 17, 2018
Robert J. Deraney was a dear, special, smart classmate of mine @ Wayne Hills High School in Wayne, NJ. Class of 1976. He was in My French freshman , sophomore, & Junior year class. He was special because he cared about everyone in the class. He sat 1 desk behind me. He always had a huge grin & was very likable by everyone in the class. He spoke perfect French & was very proud when he was asked to speak. When I heard he was @ The Breakfast Meeting @ Windows on the World in the North Tower, he was there for the conference. Otherwise, he would have been home that morning. Very active in all kinds of sports in Our School classmates, Football is what I knew of. I have been mourning his death every year since 2001. I wear a special bracelet I never take off in his honor & to remember him by. Rest in peace, Mon Ami. Je t'aime beaucoup!! Your classmate of 1976, Patricia Rose Labazzetta-Mastromonico
Clemmie King
September 12, 2018
On this 17th anniversary of the horrific attack on the World Trade Center, I salute Bob for his courageous actions to save others. His kindness, sense of humor, intelligence, humility, and family devotion will never be forgotten. So glad our paths crossed in Grad School.
September 12, 2017
Aw gee, Clemmie. Know what you mean. I posted on FB yesterday, Bob will always be in my heart. Such a wonderful human being, you lit up the lives of everyone around you, Bob. Susan Lucas-Conwell
Clemmie King
September 11, 2017
Remembering my honorable friend and colleague form Wharton days on this very sad sixteenth anniversary of his death. My heart goes out to his family. His kindness, generous spirit, intellect, and quit wit, will never been forgotten.
Michelle Briskin and Jeff Sandler
September 11, 2016
15 years later and we still cry when we see your face or hear your name or see it etched in stone. We have a lot of fond memories from high school and you will always remain in our hearts as sweet, kind, gentle, smart and incredibly talented Rob. God bless your soul.
Susan Lucas-Conwell
September 12, 2015
Wonderful to read your words, Clemmie. I listen the the calling of Bob's name every year.. very early in the morning when I was in Paris, early in the morning from Palo Alto. And look at his photo, remember hims so well as an incredibly smart, gentle, kind and talented soul. A rare human being, we were lucky to count him as one of us indeed at Wharton. I will never forget you, Bob.
Clemmie King
September 12, 2015
Yesterday I visited the 9/11 2011 site for Remembrance and looked up Robert. He was a classmate at Wharton Graduate School, very bright, humble, wonderfully centered, and funny. I saw him last at a reunion, smiling and enjoying life. He was one of the kindest people in our huge class of over 600. I am still saddened by this tragic loss, and want the family to know that I will never forget him and his gracious spirit.
September 12, 2015
Was thinking of Rob as we called him at Princeton. Such a sweet, gentle man. He always engaged with Fouad Ajami our professor so thoughtfully. He was a favorite of Ajami who appreciated Rob's interest in his Lebanese ancestry.
Perry Paul
September 11, 2015
Thinking of Bobby today!! I first met Bobby when we were 5 years old as he came up from NJ to Gloversville,NY to visit his Grandmother each summer. Together with his Brother Hank and sister Michele we had a lifelong friendship to which I am so thankful for. Bobby was a true gentlemen who loved life, may God Bless him and his family!!!
Clemmie King
September 12, 2014
Like Susan, I attended grad school with Robert. He was truly an amazing person! Brilliant, humble and funny--always kind to everyone. Keeping his family in prayer through the years.
September 11, 2014
I went to school with Rob and think of him often. What a wonderful person he was. Always had a nice word to say about everyone. I met him at church several times and enjoyed his company.
Susan Lucas-Conwell
September 11, 2014
9/11/2014.. thirteen years later and many more years since we were together at Wharton. Bob was the winning smile, the heart that filled the room and could make anyone laugh. We'll never forget you.
C M
July 19, 2014
I went to visit the memorial today and took a photo... In my photo was Roberts name. On my way home now and looked up his name. How very sad to have lost someone in the way that he left, my thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends. He will not be forgotten
Cora Monroe
September 11, 2013
In memory of Robert, my Princeton classmate, whom I'll never forget. Today, I spoke to my students in French language class of Robert, mon camarade de classe, un homme d'affaires américain d'origine libanaise. I told my students that we always spoke French, and I also told them how he proudly shared his Maronite Catholic heritage with me and another classmate at lunch one day, when he recited the Lord's Prayer in Syriac, which is as close as one can get to how Jesus first taught it. Thank you Robert, for enriching my educational experience, and that of my students. Rest in peace.
Alice Swenson
September 11, 2013
My parents live in the building where Rob lived. I met him at a New Year's Day party. He was wonderful. Thank you for sharing him with us.
Mary Linn Lombardo
September 11, 2013
I will always have fond memories of your family and am sorry for the heartache of losing your beloved.
Renee
September 8, 2013
I ran in a 10k race today to remember those that lost their lives in 9/11. At the end of the race we were handed American flags. I placed mine at Roberts spot in the memorial. I'm so sorry for the your loss. It was an honor to run in their memory.
Terry Wrong
June 2, 2012
I was reading about the 9/11 museum and as I always do I thought of Bob--and his smile and strong jaw. A sweetheart of a guy. We had great discussions in Ajami's seminars at P'ton, always stopped to chat on the paths. And then we ran into each other again six months before that day. It was on Columbus ave. and I think he had a new job. He looked just the same. It is painful. Bob would probably have tried to understand their motivations. And probably more than me. He was better than most of us that way.
Cora Monroe
September 11, 2011
Robert, I'll never forget that lunch hour in Wilcox Hall when you proudly recited for Sharon and me the Lord's Prayer in a language I didn't recognize, (Syriac, I learned later), followed by the Catholic sign of the cross. More often than not, we conversed in French during the course of our four years at Princeton. In my mind's eye, I still see you taking a mid-afternoon TV break in the Dodge-Osborn lounge in senior year. At our twentieth reunion, I thought I saw you from afar, but one interruption after another meant that I didn't get the chance to reconnect with one of the most interesting persons I knew in college. I'll confess I was miffed--how could YOU not spot me from afar--but you know what, it wasn't you, I later realized. And about a year and a half later, on the very day that I was thinking about the coincidence of speaking French with another friend named Robert of Lebanese ancestry on a college campus, the one where I teach, I read what happened to you. Well, now you know what I meant to tell you at the next Reunion. You can see that I haven't, and won't, forget you. Au revoir, Robert.
Rick Mullen
September 11, 2011
It has been exactly 10 years since the attack on the World Trade Center and I am thinking of Rob with warm thoughts today.
I met Rob in San Francisco about 15 years ago. We met through a good friend of his that went to school with him at Princeton. We connected right away and on his next visit to San Francisco he stayed with me for a few days and I got to know him even better. He was fun, kind, interesting and full of life.
We rode bikes in Golden Gate Park, over the Golden Gate Bridge and into Sausalito.Then we took our bikes onto the ferry back into the City and rode all the way back to my house on Twin Peaks.We became very close that day, talking about our lives, hopes and dreams. A few months later I went to NY. and stayed with him and he took the day off of work and showed me New York.
I will always remember this wonderful man.
Philip Hyden
May 5, 2011
How strange it is to hear of bin Laden's death and think in the same second of Rob's passing....I hope his family has felt some sense of meaning, and comfort so many years after that tragic day. I miss you, Rob, still...
Philip Beal
September 12, 2010
Still miss you and that smile buddy...
Rosemarie Kulp
September 10, 2010
I miss Bobby as much today as when the day he left us. I miss his laughter, consideration, warmth, bright wit and intelligence. His light shines on inside of me forever.....Love, Cousin Rory
Sharon Miller
September 11, 2009
I just learned today, 8 years after Bob's death, about his passing. I went to elementary school through high school with Bob and remember his generous heart, his infectious laughter, his gentleness, and his warmth. I remember so many things that happened in elementary school and remember many funny things happening and hearing Bob's laughter resonating in the classroom and on the playground. Not only did he have a great sense of humor, but he equally enjoyed to laugh. To the Deraney family, I am so sorry for your loss.
Doug Abraham
April 20, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
Doug Abraham
April 20, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
Doug Abraham
April 20, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Kristine
October 24, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
September 23, 2006
In memory....
Susan Lucas-Conwell
September 9, 2006
It is almost five years later, but Bob lives on in our hearts and minds as an exceptional human being who brought light wherever he went. May he rest in peace, and may we never forget what happened 9.11.2001.
Kathy
May 3, 2005
Bob tutored me in algebra when I was at Wayne Hills. He was kind and patient. I walk by the WTC site every day to and from work and think of him often. He will never be forgotten and I feel fortunate to have known him.
Philip Beal
May 18, 2004
It has been over two years since Rob died, and I think of him anytime I hear a reference to the World Trade or September 11th. He was the only person I knew who died in the attack. I met Rob in Gotham Volleyball and we played together in the city and on the beach at Fire Island, and although he stopped playing volleyball long before I did, we still kept in touch because we lived near one another on the Upper West side. Whenever we ran into each other, he always had the latest on mutual friends and never failed to ask how I was doing in work, lovelife - and volleyball. He was really a special guy with a genuine interest in his fellow man. I continue to miss him.
Kelly Volcy
September 11, 2003
After reading all of the entries I must first say that I am saddened that I never had the priviledge to meet Robert, however, I now have a better understanding of what a wonderful man he was. I am a co-worker of his sister-in-law, Debbie, and have heard her talk about him in such high regard as a brother, son and uncle. Keep all of those special memories close to your hearts. My prayers are with you!
Andy Conte
September 11, 2003
Bob and I went to high school together. He always struck me as a deeply caring and considerate individual. He was well rounded, participating the gamut of activites, from Theater Arts to Football. I know that we will all miss him at our reunions.
Rob Mann
September 11, 2003
I knew Rob from Scient and enjoyed speaking with him when we talked about different things. My most memorable experience was traveling back from California when we were caught in an airport and had time to talk about the more important, non-business side of life. Strangely, I have come to know even more about him after 9/11 - after reading the different memorial notes and testimonials. It makes me feel as if being caught in the airport with Rob was a "tip of an iceberg" opportunity - enabling me to get a sense of what he was all about. My wishes go out to family and friends whose hearts and minds will carry his long-to-be-lived memory.
Ellen Ketterer-Holloway
September 11, 2003
Dear Deraney Family,
I had the pleasure and priviledge of being Bob's friend through high school and college. I remember many happy times practicing my (always weaker than his) French, dancing to terrible disco music together, and visiting at Princeton. Bob was always the life of my party! I miss him even though we had not seen each other for many years prior to 9/11. I hope you are doing okay, staying strong, and are comforted by the thoughts of others sharing your grief.
Sincerely,
Ellen Ketterer-Holloway
Frank Joanlanne
September 11, 2003
I worked with Rob at Deutsche Bank in the early 90's. I was the new guy on the desk and will never forget how Rob treated me from the outset. He was generous with his time, patient and had a great sense of humor.
My prayers go out to his family.
Bill Salisbury
February 19, 2003
I was lucky enough to have known Robert and his family during his high school years in Wayne, New Jersey. His beautiful sister Michele was my high school sweetheart! I was welcomed into their home like part of the family, and learned to love hummos and backgammon thanks to the wonderful "Nana" Deraney! I remember Bobby as a warm, intelligent, fun guy; always a smile on his face! I have always wanted to thank the Deraney family for their love and hospitality back then, and my heart and prayers go out to them now and always.
Paul Vineis
September 13, 2002
I went to Wayne Hills with Bob. I remember him as a true Renaissance man; excelling in everything he did. He was always upbeat and positive, accomplishing more in a day than others did in a week. And always with a great sense of humor. Of course Bob's greatest accomplishment was the positive influence he had on the lives of those who knew him. This website is an important legacy, but Bob's true legacy lies in the memories of the people whose lives he touched along he way. My deepest sympathies to Bob's family, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
KEITH K. WEST
September 11, 2002
I WAS SADDENED TO LEARN OF ROBERT'S PASSING LAST NOVEMBER AS I SAW THE COVER OF THE ALUMNI WEEKLY. ROB AND I WERE CLASSMATES AT PRINCETON, AND I REMEMBER HIS WIT & GOOD HUMOR, AS WELL AS HIS CARING NATURE. HIS LOSS IS TRULY AMERICA'S LOSS, AND HE WILL BE MISSED BY ALL WHO KNEW HIM. MY CONDOLENCES TO ROB'S FAMILY AND CLOSE FRIENDS, AND I ASK THAT YOU TAKE COMFORT KNOWING THAT HE WILL ALWAYS LIVE ON IN THE HEARTS OF EVERY PERSON WHO PATH WAS BLESSED BY HIS CROSSING.
David Sheehan
September 11, 2002
I met Rob for the first time on September 8th, 2001 after hearing very nice things about him on several occasions from some shared close friends. We met over lunch, which Rob prepared beautifully, at a mutual friends beach house. It was a sparkling Saturday in an idyllic location and I was making a wonderful new friend. He was quick, approachable and so tuned in. Very easy to meet and a pleasure to get to know.
Later that afternoon I watched as he and our friend paddled a canoe out from the house dock after lunch. I sat on the dock and read and they paddled away and back, chatting and laughing. A perfect crystal blue day. We repeated the occasion the next day at another friend's house. After lunch we sat outside on another perfect day, swam in the pool and watched while Rob practiced diving. He had good form! At the end of a wonderful Sunday afternoon we all shook hands, said good-bye and promised to see one another soon to continue the new friendship.
Less than 48 hours later Rob was gone, as I discovered on September 13th with a palpable chill and other physical effects. And though I had just met him I felt a loss and a personal pain, and still do, dwarfed of course by the loss felt by you,his family, to whom I send my sincerest condolences and a prayer. The world needs more people like Rob.
I would just like to say finally to the sister who described Rob as "Pretty Much Perfect" that his last weekend was that way too, and he made it more so for those of us fortunate enough to have shared it with him.
Joan Eubank
September 11, 2002
I did not know Robert well, but felt a warm and wonderful connection to his sunny, warm and loving face. He had the most fantastic smile! He was a joy and a breath of fresh air. The last time I saw him there were red balloons and streamers in the meeting room where we had gathered one morning in August of 2001. I will always remember sitting across from him, those streamers above, now as a tribute to his beautiful spirit.
Susan Lucas-Conwell
September 8, 2002
To the family of Bob and to his friends. a born and bred New Yorker myself, it was with shock and deep sadness that I learned Bob was in the Towers that fateful day-almost a year ago. And only now did I discover this guest book.
Bob and I were classmates at Wharton,and while we were not close friends I remember him as if it were yesterday. His smile, his charm, his happiness in life and love of people stood out. Always enthusiastic, ready to help. I will miss him and pray for him across the ocean, far away, in the American Cathedral here in Paris on the anniversary.
Susan
Lucas Conwell (Wharton grad '83)
Larry Paley
August 26, 2002
Rob and I worked together at Scient...I was always impressed with his high energy level in any assignment he was involved in...but more important, with him as a person who always was thinking of others before himself and of his keen ability to make me chuckle/laugh when we needed to take the edge off of things.
He has/will continue to be missed.
John Norris
August 15, 2002
I wanted to express my deepest condolences to the Deraney family. I played football with Bob for 3 years at Wayne Hills. I backed Bob up at center. Bob was a great guy and even though we competed for the same position, he was always a gentleman. I will always remember him as a true gentleman and great competitor.
Jay Deraney
August 10, 2002
My family extends our sympathy to you and all of Robert's family.
I heard about Robert from my brother, Mike, who lives in New York City. Mike had planned to attend your Deraney reunion which was planned later in September.
We must never forget September 11th and all the wonderful people like Robert who were taken from us.
Sergio Lopez
May 9, 2002
Dear derany family sorry about what hapend in Semptember,11 I hope you can move on and never forget Robert
Sincerely,
Sergio lopez
Erin Deraney
April 30, 2002
I was reading along your guest book and came across the name "Deraney" I was amazed to see that because I am a Deraney too...I've read through all of the entries about Robert. Sounds like he was a great man...Im so sorry about your loss. Maybe there are some ties between us. Who knows? Our family is Lebanese also. Once again...Sorry about your loss...May God Bless...
Pattie Monsaert
April 2, 2002
To the Deraney Family:
I attended the most moving memorial service for your brother Bobby with my son, Sean Lobosco. I never had the pleasure to meet Bob, but I bet he was on the soccer field many times to see Hank and Sean play. I wish I could have met him - what a perfectly wonderful brother. I am happy to know the Deraney's but so very sad for the loss of a wonderful man. You were blessed.
With our sympathy - Pattie, Sean, and Stacy Monsaert/Lobosco
Michele Haobsh
March 27, 2002
It's so comforting to me and my family to read all of the tributes to Bobby. We always knew he was special and you've all confirmed that. Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. Bobby lives on in all of our hearts and memories.
Alexander Labora
March 20, 2002
We were close during our Wharton years. However, didn't keep in touch after graduation. I learned of the tragedy and was very sadened by the great loss as elocuently expressed by the other guests. What I've learned out of this experience is that one should keep in touch with her friends and family as much as possible because one will never know when is the last time that will be able to do it. My most sincere condolences to his family and friends.
Theodore Ellenis
March 11, 2002
Robert was my close neighbor and lived 3 doors away. Older than I, he often served as the adopted "big" brother to many of the younger children in the neighborhood. I was fortunate enough to have known him in that capacity. Robert was always a very warm and understanding individual. His gracious charm and influence are something I will always cherish. Robert was a true American patriot. May God look over him and bless his family.
Kathy Millar
February 4, 2002
I didn't know Bob well--he was three years behind me in high school. But I was friendly with kids who did know him, and I remember driving him home a few times. I remember being impressed about how friendly and outgoing he was, and that he fit in with so many different groups of kids, so effortlessly. It was something I really admired--when you're young, you tend to stick to the group you feel most comfortable with, and Bob seemed so comfortable with everyone he didn't have to choose. I remember wondering how he did it. I think he was wise beyond his years back then, and that showed. Although I didn't keep in touch with him at all over the years, it didn't surprise me that he was so successful in life. I was deeply saddened when I read in the paper that he'd died in the Twin Towers attack. We're all the poorer for his loss. My sincere condolences to his family and friends.
Joe Vallo
January 31, 2002
I have known Rob for over 14 years. For the past 4 years we were neighbors and lived one block away from eachother on the Upper West Side of Manhattan. I think of Rob often and will always remember his wonderful smile and his shining personality. in December, that Rob had attended in the past, I remembered Rob in my comments recounting the year's events. Rob was a very devoted family-oriented person and I want to extend my sincerest sympathy to his family. My office was at the World Trade Center and although I surived the attack, those who perished, including Rob, are always on my mind, in my heart and in my prayers.
Michael Schroeder
January 16, 2002
There are moments, some sustained and some not, that have great impact on our lives. Bob was a terrific, alive and energetic man who showed me the beauty of history and the necessity of laughter. Thanks Bob!
January 10, 2002
MAY THE DEAR LORD BLESS ROBERT J.
DERANEY AND MAY HE REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS
HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS HIS SISTER..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND
MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..AMEN.
GOD BLESS THE LEBANESE PEOPLE.
Teresa Jahn
January 5, 2002
We are deeply sorry for your loss of Robert. May his warmheart, his ability to comfort others, his life and love carry on in those who love him and in those who have been touched by his life. May you find comfort in warm memories of times shared with Robert. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Craig Kornfeld
January 1, 2002
Bob was my next door neighbor and classmate in Wayne,NJ.
He was a very proud American and an upstanding family man.
My prayers and thoughts go out to his family.
Jeff Sandler
December 11, 2001
Robert and I went to high school together and I got to know him during our junior year. He was a very warm person with a great sense of humor. My thoughts go out to his family.
Andy Dral
November 24, 2001
I went to high school with Bob during the '70s. I played football with him. I believe he's the first one we've lost from the Electric Company -- offensive line. My condolences to the family. Bob was a leader and great competitor. They all deserved much better. Bob will not be forgotten.
Alice Swenson
November 12, 2001
My heart is with Rob's family. He was a charming and lovely person who will be missed by everyone he met.
philip hyden
November 4, 2001
My heart goes out to Rob's family, who lost more than a son or a brother--they lost an icon. All who knew him or called him their friend were fascinated by his presence...he will be truly missed. May the Deraneys be comforted with the thought that now, everyone else knows what the family has known all along--Rob was, is, and always will be-- a hero.
leslie miller
October 30, 2001
I wish there were something I could say to ease your pain. Please know that we care, we cry with you. Please find comfort and strength in good memeories.
Don Chanfrau
October 26, 2001
I just heard yesterday (10/25) that Rob was a victim of the WTC attacks. I worked with him at Scient from early to late 2000. He was a very intelligent, lovely person to be around, and I'm very sad to know that he's gone. I send my sincere condolences to his entire family.
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