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Elizabeth Darling was moved by a sermon at a Baptist church in Newark last Sunday about the struggles that make you stronger. Ms. Darling had enough struggles to turn her into Superwoman. She was the single mother of a 2-year-old boy. She feared being laid off from her job as a business analyst at Marsh & McLennan, a financial services conglomerate. She worried about her mortgage payments. The daughter of a minister, Ms. Darling, 28, was a spiritual person. She spoke to her best friend, Toyia Burks, about the sermon, and was surprised to learn that Ms. Burks had heard a similar sermon. It seemed to tell Ms. Darling that she was on the right path. "She was going through a lot of transition and just trying to find a balance," Ms. Burks said. "She reached back to her Christian roots."
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Elizabeth Wright
April 6, 2025
Elizabeth you are like me, an Elizabeth Ann but mine is with an E. I never met you, but I saw your name at the 911 memorial and read your story .your son has a mom now with angel wings! Rest high angel from one Elizabeth Anne to another!!
Angel
September 25, 2024
Baby girl you are truly missed,I know and for years I've been doing my best to show you Will never be forgotten
Cindy Roe
September 6, 2021
Remembering Elizabeth on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....
Dwight Deserne
February 10, 2021
You crossed my mind today. You are missed. God Bless you my friend.
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Anita Pittman
September 11, 2020
I didn't know her but I happened to see her name and picture during the memorial reading of the names today. It caught my eye that she was from my hometown, Newark, New Jersey. I just felt compelled to know more about her. She seems to have been a beautiful person inside and out. Praying for her family, especially the little boy that lost her. Rest in heaven Jersey girl.
Elisabeth Moeller Hayes
September 8, 2020
I am beside myself every year, alwasy post up remembrance of you. We had literally jist reconnected a weekn before you were taken away from us. I will forever remember the sleep overs at your house when we were little. Swimming in the pool, and just being kids together! You were always a beautiful sweet giving person. My thoughts are and always will be with you. I am sure you are a guardain angel for your son now. Rest in eternal peace Elizabeth.
Sharon Wise
September 13, 2019
18 years since you were called home and my sisters and I still think about you, you will always be in our hearts. May you continue to Rest In Peace. We love you, Sharon, Saundra and Antoinette❤
September 12, 2019
This is my distant cousin. I never met her, but she was so beautiful, smart, successful. So proud to be related to her. Such a tragedy that such a beautiful life was cut short. RRP liz
Janet Fisher
September 13, 2018
Elizabeth was my best friend and I still miss her like we just saw each other yesterday. The years don't seem to get easier and I am saddened on each 9/11 date. May she continue to rest in grace and peace. I love you Elizabeth!
Sharon Wise
September 12, 2018
Elizabeth, another year has come and gone and you are still missed. I think of you all the time but my thoughts are enhanced around this time of September, we love you and truly miss you ... Continue to Sleep In Peace
Edward Plummer
September 11, 2018
Rest in Peace Elizabeth Ann Darling
Sharon Wise
September 12, 2017
We miss you Elizabeth Ann Darling, 16 years ago today you left us to go home. It seems like yesterday. My sisters and I will never ever forget you. May you continue to Sleep in Peace
Damon White
September 12, 2017
Liz,
We crossed paths many times in high school and I remember your smile! The sound of your laugh had no drama attached to it......At least in the small world I resided in. :) I will never forget when you and your closet home girls were around enjoying yourselves after school, during lunch, walking in the hallways. Those that have love for you would appreciate the sound of you laughing at frivolous things and your beautiful smile. Please welcome our brother Jim Baten to the table. :) I think of the finest when i think of you both.
Janet
September 11, 2017
Reminiscing about you as always. I love you.
Sharon Wise
September 12, 2015
Hi Elizabeth, I just wanted to let you know you are always in my Prayers... May you continue to rest in Peace .... <3
September 11, 2015
Elizabeth, you are the one person I selected those many years ago, as my 9/11 angel. I post a photo of you every year on my social media- and I pray for you, your husband, and child. I saw Michael on television that terrible day, looking for you. I saw your beautiful photo, and was touched, as I am an Elizabeth as well...As long as I live, you will always be special. My adopted 9/11 angel...Elizabeth Andujar, Columbus, Ga...
David Bates
September 11, 2015
Very much thought of Elizabeth and missed. God rest your soul
September 15, 2014
im doing a essay about you and im making it perfect God Bless Your Soul
September 11, 2014
You are remembered. May God bless your child and your family with peace.
Janet Fisher
September 11, 2014
Hey Liz: Miss you so much. You bestfriend/sis Janet Fisher. I love you and think of you often.
Carolene Darling
September 11, 2014
Hi Liz. I'm thinking of you always and cherishing the few but precious memories.
Sharon Wise
September 20, 2013
I am stopping by to let you know you are missed but never ever forgotten, you will forever be in our heart's Elizabeth....Love Always The Wise Family
September 14, 2013
Miss you cuz.
Alexis Mills
September 12, 2013
Liz and I worked together on a team in 1999/2000. I didn't know her that well but she always had a big smile on her face. What a tragic loss to the world. I will never forget her and wish the best for her son and family.
Eddie Plummer
September 11, 2013
I think of you always and miss talking to you.
Charmaine Darling
September 11, 2012
On this day an well as many other days I think of you, I remember babysitting you and the wonderful talented woman you turned out to be. You were well on your way to conquering the world, may I see you one day.
CAROLENE DARLING
September 11, 2012
Liz is my Cousin and the short moments that we spent together throughout our lives were good ones. There are no words to express how much our family love and misses you Liz. Grandma Ivy talks about you every time I visit. I feel her hurt and sadness that you cannot visit her. I enjoy reading the comments from your friends and other family members. They remind me that we are not the only ones who know how special you are.
Lee Carrier
September 11, 2012
Lizzy,
You are missed everyday
Sandra Blake
September 12, 2011
Dear Liz,
It's now 10 year, I still love you very much, i still think of you, i will never stop loving you.
Aunt Sandra
class of 1991
September 11, 2011
9/11/2011
your high school class is still thinking about you. 20 years since graduation...
our love is with you...
Sharon Wise
September 12, 2009
Dear Elizabeth,
My memories of you are of you when you were just a little girl, my mom and dad lived in the same house as you and your parents it was a two family house and your parents owned it. You were such a little sweetheart and the most prettiest little girl. My mom use to babysit you. When your name flashed on the television I started to cry and I went to call my sister's to let them know but they already new and we all cried together. Today I wanted to cry but didn't because I know you are in a better place now. This is the first year I didn't cry you are our Angel now. You will be truly missed and always loved.
Doug Abraham
April 10, 2009
Happy Easter Weekend!!!
karen cooper
March 10, 2009
My Dear Sweet Liz,
My Dear Cousin, It has been over 7 years and as I was driving home tonight talking to my mother on the phone she brought you up and asked if I've had any recent contact with Little Mikey. We reminisced about how sweet you were and how grown up Mikey must be. I also thought about the story of my mother visiting you in NY fr Chgo when you were about 6 or 7 years old and she fell in love with you and you with her. She came back to Chicago and you sent her a cassette tape saying how much you missed her and asking/pleading with her to come back to visit. I remember when I finally met you for the first time almost 20 years later, I would tease you periodically about the pitiful sounding cassette that you never owned up to being the author of! You and I had so many laughs about that tape and I can vividly see you laughing and denying any knowledge of the tape. I miss you dear Liz. You indeed were a SPECIAL person and I'm not just saying that because you're my cousin. There was something special and different about you. Although we only met and knew each other for a few years, I'm so glad to have shared a part of your life.
Robert (Rocky) Worrell
December 6, 2008
Hey Lizzy I'm sorry to have just found out that you have moved on. I've been trying to find you for a long time now. I wish i could've seen you prior to 911 I hope the family is doing well I miss you now it's more than ever cuz i will never get to see you again.Damn 7 years laer and it hurts like it was today. There was so much I wanted to say guess I'll never get that chance. I miss you and will always love you you were the best. Damn trying not to cry.
Karen Darling
September 12, 2008
Hi Cousin Liz,
We spent a short time together when growing up but the last couple of weeks before you left us we were just starting to get to know each other as adults. I will hold on to those last few days and remember them always.
Love your Cousin Karen
andre murrell
September 11, 2008
Dear Luv,
I will always remember and love you... I hope lil man is doing well... love ya
Karen De Lisle
September 11, 2008
In loving memories of a friend. Everytime this day comes around I think of you and the wonderful person I knew. May God continue to bless those you have left behind.
tanya rogers
December 28, 2007
i know you are with god i did my room in red white and blue for all the people that died on 911
Tony Williams
August 22, 2007
Wow, Liz, wow. What can I say? We waited days after 911 to hear if you were okay. We got the answer while driving and had to pull to the side of the road and cry. I'm crying now, six years later.
You were such a good friend, co-worker and confidant. We shared a lot. I wanted to find your son and make sure that he was alright and stumbled on this site. It's good to hear he's being loved. I remember the play dates we had with our kids. (My son is seven now) I remember us living "on the road" for work. I remember most how good and sweet you were. I remember the picture of me you kept on your desk just because you liked it. I remember your smile.
You still are a blessing to everyone you touched.
Constance M Jackson
July 3, 2007
I miss you much and will never forget your preciousness and gentleness.
Kristine
October 24, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
September 20, 2006
In remembrance....
Theresa Siligrini
September 11, 2006
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Constance M Jackson
June 1, 2006
Your sweetness and energy will always remain in my memories. You ought to know how much everyone has the highest regards for you and they love you equally as much, including your grandma. We will not forget.
Much Love,
Andre Murrell
May 25, 2006
UMBADA, I was just think of you.. Bookie keeping his promise, I will never leave you again.. I love you always...
Andre Murrell
July 27, 2005
Dear 1st love,
Everyday I think about you, time has not made it easy to live with out you..I hope Richie is doing well I tried to do what I could.. But you know... I often and frequently think of you.. I will always LOVE YOU.. Andre'
I wish you were here.. MY-Umbada
Bernadette Jones
June 2, 2005
To The Family of Lizzy,
Let the memories be the light during times of sadness and may God Bless and Keep You All!
Constance M Jackson
September 7, 2004
'Miss you and love you passionately!
Grandma Jackson
Marg Adu
March 23, 2004
What a wonderful testimony and thanks for sharing it! How wise of God to use "the concern of a mortgage payment" to get her back on the right path before meeting her Maker face to face. God is good all of the time!
September 11, 2003
Rest in Peace Elizabeth.... REST IN PEACE, dear lady.
Audrey Matlala
September 11, 2003
May your sould rest in peace in the presence of God. I pray that your baby will be taken care of by the Almighty who never fails any one who loves Him.
Phyllis Wilkes
August 30, 2003
For Elizabeth Darling and the family of Elizabeth.The pain and horror are still very real for this family and the countless others. It is indeed very difficult to understand or know why such events happen but you can be comforted by the knowledge that God is still in charge and still has you in his care. May God continue to give you the strength to meet the challenges each day brings and some measure of comfort as you face the upcoming anniversary of 9/11 knowing that you are kept in prayer and that Elizaberh is present with the Lord.
Bernadette McClinton-Jones
August 1, 2003
To the Family of Elizabeth Jackson, I am someone who still feels the hurt and pain since the first day. I read about "Lizzy" and I ask myself why. That is an answer only God can answer but I do know this. There is a mission much more important for her to travel than the mission she had here on earth. That is why God called her home. It still saddens me even though I lost no one at that time, the pain stays in my heart and soul. I pray that God blesses all of Elizabeth's family and friends, and especially Lizzy's precious son. Always remember, there are many of us who will never forget and I pray for you all everyday. Lizzy's spirit will live on and don't you forget that. Much love to all my sisters and brothers called HOME. I'll meet you at the crossroads when HE CALLS ME HOME.
Constance Jackson
July 28, 2003
Well, My Dearest Lizzy, your sweet presence is so much still missed – the ache never goes away. Today, July 28th, is your son, Mikey, Jr’s, 4th birthday. His daddy threw a fine birthday party for him last Saturday, where many family and many friends (tiny people and big people and a poodle, too) happily celebrated his day. It’s two years later now, and Mikey Jr. is so handsome (of course, a great grandmother is fairly prejudiced, you know) and he’s quite big and tall already. He speaks very clearly and seems to be a gentle boy even while being a very strong one. His daddy deserves much praise for the way he has taken on such good care of him as a single parent. Remember how we’d bandy back and forth about exactly who Mikey Jr. looked like and you’d repeatedly tell me that you thought he looked just like you and I’d constantly say, “No, Liz, he looks just like his daddy”? Well, now he has begun to look like you, too! He has absolutely everything a little guy could possibly want, including mucho love from all. I just thought you’d want to know how wonderful we all think he is and how well he’s doing.
Love, Grandma Jackson
Bernadette McClinton-Jones
May 14, 2003
To the family and friends of Elizabeth. I am one of many who feel the same pain today that was felt when our loved ones were called to Heaven. It is sometimes difficult for us to understand why, but when God calls us Home the answer will be very clear. Until then, keep Elizabeth's memory alive and remember her spirit is with us all, especially her son. May God bring strength to all of those who knew Elizabeth and remember there are many of us who pray for you everyday.
Constance Jackson
January 23, 2003
Oh, how I miss your bouncing energy and presence, Dear Lizzy. I know now that I'll never get over the loss. Thank God your soul resides with Him and that one day you will be reunited with your family and friends.
Love,
Grandma Jackson
Jose Danoys
September 16, 2002
As a Detective in the Newark Police Department,who also helped in the recovery efforts, it always saddens me to find that one of the citizens of Newark, N.J.,my home town where I was born and raised,had been one of many who died on that September day.
My thoughts and prayers go out to this young ladies family,her son,and all the others victims. They have gone HOME and will await our arrival when our day comes.
With all of my love and support,
Detective Jose A. Danoys Jr.
Newark Police Department.
MONICA
September 15, 2002
Liz was my cousin whom I never got to meet but I know that I know that I know she was a beautiful person inside and out my prayers are with you. I have never heard one negative comment. I hope we will someday meet in peace.
Ruby Gutierrez
September 12, 2002
To the family of Elizabeth, my prayers and thoughts are with your family. Elizabeth is now in heaven prasing God and will forever be the guardian angel for her family and little boy.
Robert Ashton
September 11, 2002
Elizabeth was a 1996 graduate of the University at Albany. Today, the first anniversary of her loss, her alma mater planted two trees in memory of her, the other seventeen alumni lost with her, and the thousands of other voices silenced so brutally and suddenly. We especially want her son to know how proud her University is of his mother. We share today in the grief of so many families, and we renew our commitment to the value of each human life.
Cecile Thomas
September 11, 2002
Elizabeth I pray that you are surronded by Love One's who passed before you, I also pray that your child is in good hands.
Cariana Dean
September 10, 2002
Hello my name is Cariana Dean. I am very sorry to hear about your family member's death. I don't I know what it is like to have your family that you know and was very close to to die. Well I will keep you in my prayers and honor your family member who died I am very sorry.
Darlene Edwards
September 5, 2002
I cried.
When I saw your picture, I cried. But you are now the most prettiest angel. I know that you will look upon, and guide your little one in spirit.
I was at work, and had some worries that were similar to yours. We were facing lay-offs, which were to start Oct of 2001, and all I wanted was to have my job long enough to close on my house.
I will pray for your family and your baby, and I feel in my heart that your family will raise your son to be a well-rounded young gentlemen.
May god bless you and your family
Occie McLendon
July 17, 2002
EVEN THOUGH I DIDN'T KNOW YOU PERSONALLY. MY HEART AND PRAYERS
GOES OUT TO YOUR FAMILY FOR THEY
ARE THE ONES THAT NEED COMFORTING NOW. MY HIS GRACE AND MERCY FOREVER BE WITH YOU ALL. MY MAY HER CHILD
HAVE PEACE,LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING
TO OVERCOME THIS TRAGIC. WE LOVE YOU
BUT GOD LOVED YOU BEST. SLEEP ON TIL
WE MEET YOU IN TGHE AIR. GOD BLESS
AND KEEP YOU. MY SISTER IN CHRIST.
Sharon Aldridge
March 11, 2002
God bless your family and rest in peace, dear.
Wendel Lumer
March 11, 2002
The Bible says that evil can take away our flesh but they cannot take away our soul. In the shadows of sorrow your family must find strength, courage to deal with your loss. You will never be forgotten Elizabeth Darling. You will be in our mind forever.
Donna Owens
February 28, 2002
To the friends and family of Elizabeth Ann Darling ~ please know your pain is in my heart. God's peace be with you.
Donna
Lou gould
January 30, 2002
I am just a concerned American who is praying for Elizabeth's family and friends who miss her.
Kamala Patrick
January 23, 2002
Dearest Liz
My heart still cries for you. I also feel for your baby. I still miss the times that we talk about the kids and other stuff and I will always say a prayer fro you and the little one you left behind. I know we will meet again.
Love
Kamala
Kerry Cooke
January 21, 2002
Liz, Your smile and gentleness are never to be forgotten. I was blessed to have known you. Rest in His care always.
Teresa Jahn
January 5, 2002
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
January 4, 2002
DEAR GOD BLESS ELIZABETH ANN DARLING
AND MAY SHE REST IN PEACE..GOD BLESS
HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS
AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..AMEN.
Nay Mulgrave
December 14, 2001
Lizzy,
As my friend you always made me laugh, smile, dance, think, understand and be thankful. In life you showed great strength in your triumphs through all adversity. In death you taught me to appreciate everyone and everything every day. I hope your kind and giving nature will be a model for all of us. Thanks for being a good friend and I’ll meet you at the big party by the pearly gates someday. I shouldn't be too hard to find I'll be the one dancing even when the music ends. You can laugh, nod your head and exclaim "Hi Ms. Naomi"!
Love Ya,
Nay
Constance Jackson
December 6, 2001
Oh, My Dear Lizzy, How much my very heart aches over losing you. I cry so many times. I hurt so much deep inside my soul. With my own eyes I watched everything while trying to reach you that day. Only that you are with Jesus and your Mom gives me some solace.
Grandma Jackson
A picture will follow.
Jonathan & Amanda Wood
December 2, 2001
Through our church, we have "adopted" Ms. Darling to be in our prayers. Any info you may have about her life and family would be appreciated. Thanks you and we are praying for Elizabeth. The Wood Family.
Charlotte Adkins
November 20, 2001
May God be with you at this time and may His grace through Jesus Christ our Savior comfort you.
With love and Prayers.
Charlotte Adkins
Peggy Clement
October 31, 2001
I shed tears everyday remembering September 11.
God Bless your family.
leslie miller
October 25, 2001
Our hearts are with you. We will never forget. Please find strength.
Kindra Robinson
October 19, 2001
I will keep you and your family in prayer.
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