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Denise Benedetto Obituary
The most important things in Denise Lenore Benedetto's life were her family and her Roman Catholic faith.
It was that faith that sustained her 10 years ago, after doctors diagnosed a spinal condition so serious that she had a 25 percent chance of being paralyzed from the chest down, said her husband, John Benedetto.
As it happened, she recovered fully after spending six months in a body cast, and was able to have a second daughter and eventually to work full time as a secretary at Aon in the World Trade Center.
Ms. Benedetto, 40, went to Mass every weekend at Saint Rita's Church, a block away from her house on Staten Island.
The church is not far from where she grew up, in a housing project down the street from her husband's childhood home. They met one evening when they were both 17, when she stood beneath his window and began talking to him. She went to get some ice cream, and when she came back it fell off the stick. They both laughed. "It was love from that moment on," he said.
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Lynda C.
August 15, 2023
I did not ever get to meet Denise. But when I was a student at ps 11 in Staten Island, around the age of 10, I was given an award in her name. Her name came to mind recently and I pray for her as she rests with our lord and savior Jesus Christ.
Rebecca
April 5, 2023
Thinking of Denise and her family. I did not know her, but came across her lovely smile and story today. Love from Ireland. Regards, Rebecca.
Dolores
September 11, 2021
Eternal rest grant unto her O Lord and let perpetual light shine upon her. May the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.
Hugs and prayers to all reading this.
Cindy Roe
September 1, 2021
Remembering Denise on the anniversary of 9/11....
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The Kindred Family
December 19, 2019
Our heartfelt condolences we send to your family. There are no words sent that will ever remove the pain of losing someone loved so much but the words of others show that your family is still cared about. With each new day may God continue to give the strength needed to cope. Denise is still very sadly missed and will always be remembered with love.
June 13, 2019
So sorry for your loss Denise. The Almighty Lord will continue to protect you.
Richard Mullins.
September 17, 2018
I'm so sorry for your families loss...I did not know Denise till now....I came across her at a online memorial...and was attracted to her because she went to mass every week....hers is a life well lived.....such a shining example of a Christian....and to see all the love....I will keep you and your family in prayer Rina.....you are such a wonderful and loving sister....and your Mom wrote beautiful poems ... your sisters faith has inspired me to dive deeper into mine.... She will not be forgotten ...God bless..... Richard....
Donna Spera
September 6, 2017
Thinking of you!
Rina Rabinowitz
August 9, 2017
My sister, my friend, my mentor
I love and miss you so much.
Del Newberry
August 8, 2017
While I did not know a single person who died in the events of this horrible day, it was an event that shocked the nation, that brought us all together. It is sad now all these years later that our nation is so divided and arguing about so many different things. I vowed to read one story of one of the victims each day and to pray for the family of that person. Today I came upon this beautiful picture of Denise. I am praying specifically for her friends and family, and ask that we all renew our desire to honor her legacy by strengthening our faith and be good, like she was. Much love from Texas,
Timothy Benjamin
September 28, 2016
My name is Timothy Benjamin, and I am a senior at Klein High School in klien, TX for a research project, I am creating a tribute to honor a victim of September 11, 2001 tragic events at the World Trade Center, the pentagon, and Flight 93. I have chosen to honor Denise Lenore Benedetto with my tribute.
I am sure that the memory of the event is quite painful, so if you prefer not to participate as a source in my research, please know that I understand completely.
In order to properly honor Denise Benedetto life, I am looking for any information regarding her interests. I would appreciate any pictures you could share of denise benedetto. Please share, too, any memorable stories about her, details of her job, family, friends, accomplishments, and personality.
If you would like to have more information about the project, feel free to contact my English teacher, Sally Lane at [email protected].
Than you so much for your time.
Sincerely
Timothy Benjamin
[email protected]
Rina Giordano/Rabinowitz
August 11, 2015
Norma Lee Markley
I saw what you had posted on this site and I am the sister of Denise Benedetto. I would be greatful to have the bracelet that was sent to you. Thank you for posting that.
NORMA LEE MARKLEY
August 8, 2015
IHAVE THE BRACELET THAT WAS SENT AFTER 9/11 WITH THE NAME OF A VICTIM OF 9/11. I HAVE THE ONE WITH DENISE BENEDETTO ON IT. IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO HAVE IT I WILL BE HAPPY TO GIVE IT TO A MEMBER OF THE FAMILY.
Yadira
September 16, 2014
Ism a sixth grade student and I was not even born when 9/11 happened, but I am sorry this happened to you . I know you loved your family and they were the most important people in your life and just like my family is important to me . I read about your 2 children and I hope they are doing just fine . I am sorry for what happend to you.
Staten Island Memorial
Rina Rabinowitz
September 12, 2014
Its been 13 years and it still feels like it happened just yesterday. Oh how I miss you so much. RIP my dear sister. You are forever missed and very much loved.
Dawn
September 11, 2014
Still missed but never forgotten
Al v
September 11, 2014
Not forgotten
Mary Ann (Giordano) Short
September 11, 2014
Dearest cousin,
You are always in my thoughts and prayers. May you know God's peace and love for all eternity.
Rina Giordano-Rabinowitz
September 22, 2013
thank you on behalf of my family...jeanne....i will never forget the name on your brothers helmet ...my sister denise is smiling down on your brother
Denise, YOU are a new part of my family forever...
Jeanne Emerick
September 21, 2013
On 9/11/2013 My brother had your name on his helmet in tribute to YOU Denise, lost way too soon. I would not have heard of you unless he made a long motorcycle ride to DC with thousands of other riders. I hope you and your family can smile knowing you are remembered and honored. love,
Jeanne Emerick
Mary Ann Short
September 11, 2013
Denise,
Rest in Peace and know that you will never be forgotten.
Donna
September 10, 2013
Rest in peace my friend.
kimberly cappiello
September 2, 2013
God bless you Denise
Barbara Boam
February 1, 2013
I walked a mile for you (mile #165) on 1/31/13 as a dedication to your life
September 15, 2012
ANother year has passed and it is still etched in my mind what a beautiful person you were. Thinking of you Denise Rest peacefully with the Angels
Dawn
September 11, 2012
Still missed
adam rivera
July 1, 2012
my name is adam rivera, your cousin, kimberly cappiello's son. i didnt know you but i wish i could have gotten to know you before this horrible tragedy. it really hurts to know i had loved ones involuntarily involved in this horrible act of terrorism. its crazy. but, we all know you are in a WAY better place. from hell to heaven, we all know your smiling down on us. :)
Connie
September 12, 2011
Denise we saw your name etched in the beautiful memorial pool yesterday for the 10th anniversary. It's hard to imagine 10 years have passed already. You would have loved my daughter Kristina Denise who was named after you in your memory. She will turn 8 years old in November. I delicately try to explain about 9/11 and the significance of her name and she seems to understand it a bit. It's horrifying to think about all that happened on that awful day. But know your family loves and misses you very much. May you rest in peace with your parents.
Cynthia and Peter Lieberman
September 11, 2011
We are each of us angels with only one wing, to fly we need only embrace each other. ~ Source Unknown ~
Dear family and loved ones of Denise Lenore Benedetto,
At the end of mass yesterday at St. Eudes catholic church in Chatsworth, California, the parish gave out wristbands of each of the names of the victims from 9/11, and we were asked to especially pray for the name we drew. My husband drew Denise's name and I drew Richard Blood's. We are wearing the bands today and praying for you and yours, wishing you peace and comfort. God Bless you now and always
September 11, 2011
Time passes but memories remain. Rest peacefully.
Al Vicelich
Joanne Wood (Giannelli)
September 11, 2011
Denise,
I still remember the times we saw each other at Aunt Emilia & Uncle Franks'
Peace to you and your family on this day and always.
Michael iezzi
September 9, 2011
Denise,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Andrew Bikofsky
September 8, 2011
I never wrote to you, but you we always in my thoughts. You might not have even remembered my name, but I will always remember yours. I hope that you know how much you touched my life even though we just worked together for a short time, passing through each others lives. You will never be forgotten.
Rina Rabinowitz
December 24, 2010
We miss you. Thinking of you always. We love you. Never forgetting you!
Rina, Neal, Briana, Arielle & Corey
Susan Wylie
September 9, 2010
Hi, my name is Susan Wylie and today I am voluntering my time at the Tribute Center. I have choosen to honor and remember Denise during my 1:00 tour today, and will ask and pray for her and her family. I did not know Denise - but will research data and share with the group. I am a former AON employee who survivied the 92nd Floor of the South Tower. It is only by the grace of God and the holy spirit that I made it out. There were three opportunities to be killed - it was not my time, and all I can say is how sorry I am for your loss. May Denise's spirit forever live in your hearts and minds and in all that you do - even the simplest of deeds. God Bless! Susan
Rina
September 13, 2009
Hey Dee
I am sorry that I haven't written in here in awhile.
8 years have come and gone....It is still fresh in my head. They say that it gets easier as time goes on. I don't think so, but whatever.
I LOVE YOU and MISS YOU SOOOOO MUCH!
toni Damaskinos
November 7, 2008
Rina
My name is Toni Damaskinos, I used to live in the apartments in west brighton. Our mother and fathers were together alot I dont know if you remember me. My name then was Toni Tanaka. My mom and dad were Connie and Donald...you were very young. I met your sister again about a year before she passed and we were laughing about meeting after so long. She was still the happy person I knew her to be when we were young. I asked about your mom and dad. I was sorry to hear about your dad. I am very sorry to hear Denise was in the trade center that day - I often pass the site when I go to work and I say a prayer for your sister and I also lost my brother in law on that terrible day. Thomas Damaskinos. I saw your mom at one of the memorials on 911 at the site. She looked great. My prayers are with your and your family and i will continue to pray for Denise...
Rina
October 19, 2008
HAPPY 48th BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN
<3 ALWAYS & 4EVA <3
Rina Rabinowitz
September 11, 2008
7 Years...
What can I say?
I LOVE YOU & MISS YOU
Also...thank you for taking mommy by the hand when she lost her fight. I know this....cause I saw you in my dreams when it happened.
REST PEACEFULLY
Rina
Al 'V'
September 11, 2008
I still mention you often to ex fellow managers as a person who always listened, learned, did a fine job and came a long way from the time we first met. You were a good person 'Dennis' and I wanted to let you know you are not forgotten
Rina
December 28, 2007
MERRY CHRISTMAS IN HEAVEN
HAPPY NEW YEAR IN HEAVEN
I LOVE YOU SOOOOO MUCH
Thank You for being there for Mom when she arrived to you. I MISS U, MOM & DAD SOOOOOO MUCH!
HOLIDAYS WILL NEVER BE THE SAME!
Rosa Maria Salichs
December 5, 2007
Sorry Christine to read about your cousin. My name is Rosa M. Salichs.
I currently live in Maryland but I am originally from Puerto Rico. Are we related? My dad was from Juana Diaz/Ponce Puerto Rico area.
If you feel like e-mailing me, please do so. My e-mail is:
[email protected]
Rina Rabinowitz
October 19, 2007
Happy 47th Birthday! You are missed and loved by ALL.
@------->-------
Doug Abraham
October 19, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Jessica Finkelstein
October 19, 2007
Happy Birthday "Mom" we miss you terribly! Love and miss you!
Michael iezzi
October 19, 2007
Denise,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Tina Karmann (niceevilbadger)
October 10, 2007
Rina, after visiting with you tonight on POGO, I just had to look at the site. I didn't know anyone personally that passed on 9-11, but through all the wonderful words that I have read about your sister Denise, I know she was a wonderful, caring person. My heart and prayers are with your whole family today as they have been for the past 6 years.
Christine Lanotte
September 11, 2007
Denise, just heard your name called on tv as we remember on this 6th year. You are always in my thoughts.
Love ya,
Christine
Briana Rabinowitz
August 17, 2007
what to say...what to say...
theres TOO much to say..how much i miss you, how i wish everyday that u were here with us..but i know that it cant happen...no matter how mcny tears ive cried it cant bring you back...
it only reminds me of how much i love you and miss you
Your Neice,
Briana
patti diserio
July 26, 2007
I did not know you all that well, I was/am a friend of your sister Rina. My heart goes out to your family. What a horrible tragedy. Rest in peace. Rina, if you happen to read this please be in touch. We miss you!
Al
January 26, 2007
Shortly after the disaster I saw your daughter on TV looking for you. I was stunned. You were carrying her within you the last time I saw you at the HSBC. May you rest peacefully.
Rina Rabinowitz
December 24, 2006
Merry Christmas in Heaven
Christmas Blessings
Of the Heart...
Never shall they fade.
Always I'll remember,
Always I'll treasure,
Christmas memories we've made.
I Love & Miss You!
Ree
Rina Rabinowitz
October 19, 2006
Happy 46th Birthday Sis.
There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you.
A Sister is a special gift of Love.
Forever my Sister, Forever my Friend.
Sisters by birth, best friends by choice.
For there is no friend like a sister.
@---------->------->-----------
Love you and miss you
Ree
Michael Iezzi
October 19, 2006
Denise,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
A loved one lives forever in the hearts of those who cared.
A loved one lives forever in the memories that were shared.
Kristine
October 12, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vane. We will always remember.
Christine Lanotte
September 12, 2006
Denise, yesterday was 5 years that you were taken from your family. I agree with Rina, sometimes it feels like it just happened. The pain and anger still feels so raw.
You are so missed!
Love ya and will never forget!
Your cousin Christine
john benedetto
September 11, 2006
Hey you it`s john.So it`s been five years and i still don`t know why this happened.It not the same since you been gone. The girls are growing up so fast but thier doing well.Bradley is getting old and he smells funny.We LOVE AND MISS YOU VERY MUCH AND NOT A DAY GOES BY WITHOUT THINKING OF YOUR BIG SMILE.LOVE US.
Rina
September 11, 2006
I can't beleive that it is 5 years since I heard your voice. It feels like all of this just happened yesturday. Time is going by so fast. My memory of you still feels the same as it did when we were kids together. I will never forget how happy you made me and proud to be your sister. Not only did I look up to you because of your height, but because of the sacrafices that you gave.
Our Family Chain is broken,
and nothing seems the same;
but as G-d calls us one be one
the Chain will link again.
I will always remember your smile and your giving ways. I am putting all that you taught me, to my kids. Your legacy will always live on.
Missing & Loving you Always
@------>-------
Your Sis and Trusted Friend
Rina
Valerie R
September 11, 2006
I shared a cubicle area with Denise the week before 9/11; I was late that day to my temp job. I'll always remember her love for God and her sharp wit. One day when I made a mistake at my computer I said "Jesus!" then quickly remembered that this might offend Denise. "Pardon my French," I said. "I don't think that's French," she said right back, with a warm, forgiving smile. Love to her daughters who I met very briefly days before. It may seem odd but I think of you often and wish you much love.
Donna Spera
September 8, 2006
Denise,
Remembering you always.
P Tabbernor
August 23, 2006
In memory....
Gayle D
August 6, 2006
Rina... After you shared with us ( in pogo) the story of your loss of your sis, I had to look her up. What a beautiful picture of her and of the one of you both. One can only imagine what those days of pain were like. I always tell everyone." Just close your eyes and they will be there in your mind and heart"
Gayle ( Mainerzzzz)
Kimberly Cappiello Rivera
June 30, 2006
God Bless you
Rina
May 14, 2006
Happy Mother's Day in heaven
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Love ya Sis
Denise Boyle
April 1, 2006
I just had to leave you a note. I am so sorry for your loss. She looks like an incredible woman. I feel the loss of her and I have never met her.
Denise
Rina
March 16, 2006
If sisters were flowers,
I'd still pick you.
I'd let the sun shine
so you'd never be blue.
I'd show the world
how beautifully you grew
with bright bold colors
and strength through and through.
If sisters were flowers,
I'd pick you right away
because you cheer me up
and bring smiles each day.
If sisters were flowers,
for what it's worth,
I'd always pick you
-the best sister on Earth!
I Love & Miss you!
Rina
December 23, 2005
Merry Christmas is Heaven
I Love You @---->-----
Rina
October 19, 2005
Happy 45th Birthday Dee!!!!!
Miss you and will always LOVE you!
Michael Iezzi
October 19, 2005
Denise,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Donna Spera
September 12, 2005
Denise,
Always in my thoughts and prayers.
Me and my sis "Always Happy"
Rina
September 11, 2005
Today marks the 4 year anniversary of your death. As my eyes well up, all I think about is the fun we used to have back in the days of our youth. My heart aches with pain. I miss all the sisterly advice that you always gave. I could use some guidence right about now. The sadness is over whelming for me.
Ree
Rina
November 25, 2004
HAPPY THANKSGIVING IN HEAVEN
This is the holiday that we are supposed to give thanks. I am giving thanks for all that I have and don't have. You know what I mean.
I love you and miss you much
Rina
Rina
October 19, 2004
HAPPY 44th BIRTHDAY!!!!
We shared so much together. Our birthday's were very close also. Just one month ago was mine. I always said that I wish I had something that was mine and I didn't want to share it with anyone. I wish that I can take that wording back. Cause I would give anything to share things with you again. Mommy always said, "Watch what you wish for". I should have listened to her. But me, being as stubborn as I always am, I didn't. And now I kick myself for saying that. If I can only turn back time, if I can reach the stars, I would pull you back to us.
You are missed by so many people. I love you Denise.
Your Sis
Cheryl
October 19, 2004
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DENISE..
Miss you very much. It's not the
same. I would do any thing to have you back here again with your family.
Love,
Mom # 2
Maria Giordano
October 19, 2004
HAPPY BIRTHDAY in HEAVEN MY ANGEL.
No Farewell words were spoken..
No time to say good bye..
You were taken from us suddenly
and only God knows why..
My heart will be broken forever..
My love for you is never ending..
Knowing I will never see your smiling face or hear your voice or
embrace you..
Telling you I love you and missing
you is more then I can bare..
I'm told time heals all wounds..
The more time that goes by, it just gets worse..
So I guess this doesn't apply to
me.
Love Your Devoted
Mother
Rina
September 14, 2004
Hello Denise.....
The last entry, alot of words were not posted for some reason. What I was saying in the last entry was that I could not make the Memorial in NYC. It is getting harded and harder each year that passes. The heart is the worse organ any one can have. Cause it hurts too many times thoughout life. And this is the worse hurt of all, loosing someone so special. The heart will never mend. Also, feeling the pain of my birthday. Well, you know the rest.
I miss you so much Nee. I need to talk to you so bad. I will never get a chance again. Only in my thoughts. But you are always in my thoughts, reguardless.
Love and hugs
Ree
Rina
September 11, 2004
Denise..........
;I am sitting here, at my computer, not knowing what to write. It is the 3rd Anniversary of your death, 9-11. I am finally, after all these years, speechless! I bet you never thought that I would say that. You have been trying to shut me up for years, and now...... all I do is cry. There are no more words. I cannot be there at ground zero. It is getting harder and harder for me to get through this. Mommy, Cheryl, Connie and Christine are going to be there. I wish that you can hear me, when I call your name. All my thoughts are my own. I share them with no one. You were the only one that I can share things with. But you are gone. Feeling so lonely, but yet angry.
I am also feeling the pain of my birthday coming. I am having a really hard time about it. I am going to be 40 and you were killed at the age of 40. I wish that I can write, "Please write me back when you get a chance."
Mi ss you so very much, it hurts
your baby doll
Donna Spera
September 10, 2004
Dear Denise,
You are always in my heart....
Donna Spera
Christine Lanotte
September 6, 2004
Hi Denise, It's approaching 3 years since you were taken away from your family. I think about you all the time! Connie and I will be meeting your Mom and Cheryl at the memorial to honor you and and all the others lost on that horrible day.
I know you are looking down on us and already know this but I have to tell you what great, beautiful and sweet daughters you have.
Always thinking about you and will never forget!
Love your cousin,
Christine
Rina
July 5, 2004
Hey Sis
HAPPY FOURTH OF JULY
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As we were setting off the fireworks to the heavens, all I could think about is you. Hoping you were there catching them, knowing that is was from me.
I love you and miss you!
Rina
May 26, 2004
Hello Denise
I am sorry that I haven't been here in awhile. I have been busy celebrating Corey's 4th birthday and Connie's babies Christening party. I was very nice to see the family again. Wish you were there. Connie named her baby after you, her name is Kristina Denise. She is the most beautiful baby.
Speak to you soon
Love you Lots
Your Baby Sis
Rina
Rina Rabinowitz
December 25, 2003
MERRY CHRISTMAS & HAPPY NEW YEAR
Hello NeeNee....
I wanted to wish you great holiday's. I saw an image of your face yesturday, Christmas Eve. You were laughing and smiling. I know you saw all of us while we were having the Holiday meal. And I now know that you are with us all the time. I felt so comforted by your pressence.
Marina and Dina are doing just fine. They are the most beautiful kids, inside and out. The love that I have for them is so amazing, they will never know how much they are loved.
We will keep you in our hearts, in our thoughts and in our prayers.
Ree Ree
Rina Rabinowitz
October 6, 2003
Hello Denise.........
I have had you on my mind alot. We are getting ready for our brothers wedding. I know that you always wanted to see him get married, and now he is. I know that you are going to be there, just like our dad. Today is 2 years since your memorial service. I wish that we had a place to go to, to visit you. They will find you soon, I hope. It is also going to be your birthday soon, on the 19th of October. You would have been 43 years young. You are so young to be gone. But I am keeping your memory alive. Sleep well!
I love you and miss you lots and lots.
Your baby sis.....
Rina
Connie Lanotte
September 16, 2003
Denise, another year has slipped by us and we will never forget that tragic day. It is hard to imagine that two years have passed. It seems like an eternity to a certain extent. You would have been happy to know that I am finally expecting my first baby due Thanksgiving. We do not know if it is a boy or girl, but if the baby is a girl, her middle name will be "Denise" in honor of your life and spirit.
Miss and love you
Cousin Connie
Dave Nickelsen
August 16, 2003
Denise,
I, Donna and Ashley think about you often. We continue to pray for your family, especially Marina, who we know very well. Marina is doing just fine. I want to tell your family that they are constantly in my prayers.
- Dave Nickelsen
Rina Rabinowitz
July 7, 2003
Hey Big Sis....
I know that I haven't been here in awhile, but all I do is think about you. I want to reach out and grab you from wherever you are. So much time has passed and they are still looking for you. Hope to find you soon and bring you home where you belong. Mom hasn't stopped worrying about you. We all miss you terribly. Life will never be the same.
Speak to you soon...HAPPY FOURTH OF JULY
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Your Little Sis
Rina
Dave Nickelsen
February 9, 2003
Denise,
God bless you and your family. I stop by often at Cortlandt street and I think of you often. I haven't seen Marina in a few weeks, but when I last saw her, she was doing well. Donna, Ashley and I continue to keep you and your family in our prayers.
-Dave Nickelsen
Barbara Altbrandt
September 16, 2002
Denise,
I am sorry that we never met. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. God Bless!
Dave Nickelsen
September 16, 2002
Denise,
My family and I think about you everyday. This past week was a difficult time for your loved ones. We pray to God to comfort your loving family. We saw Marina today at my daughter's birthday. She's doing okay.
Dave
Michele Mayo-Zackaroff
September 12, 2002
Words cannot express how sorry I am for your lose. I grew up just two floors down from Denise's husband and I was really great friends with Denise's younger sister, Rina, in our early teens. I remember Denise so vividly, she always had the biggest smile on her face and was always so nice to me. I remember the three of us hanging out together in their bedroom and just having a great time. It saddens me so deeply to think she is gone for she was such a great person. I think of her family often and I somehow find comfort in thinking Denise is an angel now watching over all of us and taking care of us. My condolences go to her family and children. You all were truly blessed to have her in your life.
Danielle Barnes
September 11, 2002
For ten months I have been wearing a mercy Braclet I bought over the internet with Denise Benedetto WTC written on it.This braclet never came with any information on who she was. Today being the one year anniversary of that horriable day that will never leave my memory I was determaned to find some information maybe even a picture if I was lucky. I not only found information about who she was I found a picture.Seeing her face for the first time sent chills down my spine. Now everyday I look down at my wrist I not only see a name I see a wonderful person.
Rachel
September 11, 2002
I did not know Denise, but I have heard alot about her from what I have read in the tributes to her. She seems like a truely wonderful and incredibly loved lady. I had recieved a 9.11 tribute bracelet with Denise's name on it, and have never taken it off, since recieving it. Its funny, since i never met her, but since recieving her bracelet Ive felt like Ive had an extra gaurdian angel on my side.
Robert, Nancy, Dustin and Laura Sutton
September 8, 2002
In memory of Denise Benedetto
We did not know Denise but my husband is a brother of Cam Sutton who works for Aon. I came across this on the internet and wanted to express our deepest sympathy. I have thought of all the lives lost that day and especially of the ones from my brother-in-laws office and it still hurts deeply. Our deepest deepest sympathy to the family.
Nancy Sutton
Cousin Connie
September 8, 2002
Denise, it is Sunday, September 8th. In just three days, it will be one year since you so tragically left us. Chris and I will be down at the site with your Mom and sister to remember you and the others that were lost. We still find it so difficult to comprehend the terrible loss and the devastation that we all feel. We continue each day to try and understand why this has happened. My mother can not and will not acknowledge your loss. She feels your presence and struggles each day to make sense of it all.
The only peace we have is that you are with your father and grandparents. They will forever comfort and love you in the same way that we do only closer.
All our love forever
Cousin Connie and Aunt Betty
Maria Marston
September 6, 2002
I only knew Denise through the stories told to me by my neighbor, her Aunt Anita. Everytime Anita spoke of Denise, it was with love and pride. I know Denise brought happiness and laughter into Anita's life. Her Aunt loved her very much.
I know how devastated Anita was when the realization started to set in that Denise was not coming home. I grieved with her and for her and for all the families. To lose a person who could so profoundly affect the lives of those around her is truly a loss the world should not have had to bear.
I know Denise is at peace in her home with God and I hope Anita and the Benedetto family can find comfort in knowing that the love that Denise shared will continue to grow through all the lives that she touched while in this world.
I did not know her but I do know she was a remarkable person and the world is a better place because she was here. I will always pray for her, for her family, and for all the families touched by this tragedy.
We must never forget.
My love to Anita and her family.
Anita Palmieri
September 5, 2002
"Love is Patient,
Love is Kind,
Love is not Jealous,
It does not brag,
Love is not Proud,
Love is not Rude,
Is not Selfish,
and does not become angry easily,
Love does not remember wrongs done against it,
Love is not happy with evil,
But is happy with the truth,
Love patiently accepts all things, it always trusts, always hopes, and always continues strong,
Love never ends." Corinthians 13: 4-8
This pure love was the fiber of Denise's precious soul. She was very special.
Anita Palmieri
September 5, 2002
I have a lifetime of memories of Denise. I was living with her parents when she was born, as was her Aunt Diane, my sister. We were there for her first tooth, her first words, and her first steps. She was our first niece and my first Godchild. I recall many happy times with Denise as a child. I baby sat her and her brother and sister in Staten Island. She also stayed a weekend with me in my Bronx apartment. We had a lot of fun playing, looking at books and cooking. On one occasion she bit her tongue and cried for me to put a band aid on it. After wrapping one band aid atop another, I could not understand a word she was saying. She stared at me until we were both giggling. She had that same giggle and sense of humor as an adult.
We did get very silly and outrageous sometimes just to make each other laugh. In one of her letters, she wrote 'to my crazy favorite Aunt who I've come to love so very much'. I still have some of her letters and cards. They meant a lot to me then and everythig to me now. I have one letter written by her daughter, Marina. Denise was so busy working late and tending to her daughters that she dictated the letter while she prepared dinner. She didn't want me to feel forgotten. That was Denise, always taking time to reach out her hand. She had a tremendous capacity for love, joy and kindness. It was hard not to love her.
She always sent me more than one Christmas card because she found a funnier one that would crack me up. It always did!
She was a beautiful bride and I was so honored when she wore my veil. When this tragedy happened, I prayed she would be found. I looked out my window and cried 'Denise, please come home'. I know now she could not come home. She went home to God's open arms as He whispered 'Well done my child, well done'.
Rest easy my heart 'til we're all dancing and giggling together again. I will forever love you. I will forever miss you.
All my love,
Aunt Anita
Maria Giordano
August 8, 2002
My Dearest Denise, My Sweet Daughter, My Friend, My Angel in
Heaven.
I can't believe it is almost 1 year, that you were taken from us. Our lives will never be the same. We miss you so very much. Our hearts are heavy with grief. We still can't believe or accept the fact that you are gone. There is not a second in our lives that we don't miss you and cry for you. Our hearts are broken forever.
You were always a perfect example of God's teachings. You always looked for the good in everyone, and often turned the other check. There was never any malice or hatred in your heart for anyone. I know God has chosen you for one of his Angels in Heaven. I can't wait for the day, I can be with you and wrap my arms around you and never let you go.
I Love You My Sweet One
Till We Are Together Again
All My Love,
Mom
Rina Rabinowitz
July 21, 2002
Hi Big Sis.......
I wanted to start off this little letter by saying "We miss you".
Please know that I always think about you morning, noon and night of everyday. Not one day goes by that you are NOT on my mind.
You were always such a happy person. We miss that smile of yours and the happiness that you give.
I will speak to you soon.
Love you and miss you alot
Your little sis>>>>>>>>RINA
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