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When Jennifer Brennan was pregnant with her first child, her husband, Thomas M. Brennan, would play Grateful Dead tapes loudly, hoping the music would reach the ears of his unborn daughter. When the baby kicked, as she invariably did, Mr. Brennan was delighted. She, too, he would say, was a fan.
On the last day he spent with his family, the Sunday before Sept. 11, Mr. Brennan, 32, played Grateful Dead compact discs in the car as the family shopped for furniture for their new house in Scarsdale in Westchester.
Strapped to her car seat, Mr. Brennan's daughter, Catherine, now 19 months, laughed and moved to the music. And that is how Mrs. Brennan would like to remember her husband: as the only person who could make their daughter giggle uncontrollably.
With his wife pregnant with the couple's second child, a boy who was born last month, Mr. Brennan took on many of the child care duties. He often got up early with his daughter, fed her breakfast and carried her when she needed a hug.
Mr. Brennan, an investment banker with Sandler O'Neill, treasured the time with his family, in part because he traveled constantly for work. Tuesday, Sept. 11, was the only day of that week he was scheduled to be in the office.
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Cindy Roe
September 2, 2021
Remembering Thomas on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
Del Newberry
May 8, 2018
Praying today for Tom's many friends and especially for his family. We will never forget. Much love from Texas,
Alexis Salas
September 26, 2016
Hello right now I'm in class writing and creating a tribute for Tom. I personally read and just these few words touched my heart. I hope I can give him some justice in my tribute. My respects for the family
Elizabeth Brennan
April 10, 2014
I am lighting this candle Uncle Tom for a reason peace you are amazing I love you
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Elizabeth Brennan
April 10, 2014
Hi Uncle Tom it's your niece elizabeth Brennan Ann I want to say I love you so much and I am praying for you and children and wife ??
Wes Singleton
January 29, 2014
In reading Tom's bio on his memorial website I realized I share the same exact birthday with him. Though I didn't know him personally one thing we have in common is the ability to laugh! May God continue to bless Mr. Brennan's family and we will never forget him or the lives lost on that day. Many blessings!
Barbara Boam
July 1, 2013
I walked a mile for you (mile #251) on 5/21/13 as a dedication to your life.
September 11, 2011
I am Marie, a 64 year old grandmother of 4. I live in Southington, and tonight I attended a tribute to the victims of 9/11. I chose Tom Brennan as the person I prayed for all day.
I never knew Tom, but wanted you to know that he was in my prayers today.
May God Bless his family.
Eddie MUlholland
September 11, 2011
When I would come over to play with your brother John when we were kids, you were a pain in the butt. I ended up marrying a GCHS and BC grad, so i guess the joke's on me. I pray for you often, Tom!
Kevin Molloy
August 3, 2011
Tom,
Coming up on 10 years buddy. Miss you, but I know you are in good hands.
Kevin
Kathleen Ryall-Hart
August 24, 2010
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. I WENT ON GOOGLE TO LOOK UP MY LONG LOST COUSIN TOMMY BRENNAN WHO WAS IN THE GOLDEN GLOVES IN THE 60S AND WON A SCHOLARSHIP TO BOSTON COLLEGE AND THEY SAY THERE ARE NO COINCIDENCES. WHAT A WONDERFUL TRIBUTE TO YOUR HUSBAND TO HELP SOMEONE THROUGH COLLEGE. YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY PRAYERS KATHLEEN RYALL - HART
Doug Abraham
December 4, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Kristine
October 13, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vane. We will always remember.
P Tabbernor
August 28, 2006
In memory....
Frank Miller
July 17, 2006
I bought a commemorative bracelet a while back to remember someone directly from 9/11... I am now just finding the courage to search the name and identify my previously unknown friend.
I am pleased to read about his life and his passions for work and family.
Godspeed,
FM
Kathleen Flynn Del Visco
September 12, 2003
Dear Jennifer,
I happen to discover this web site. My thoughts, prayers, and deepest sympathy are with you and your family. God bless you and your children.
We attended St. Bernadette School together. You were a few years ahead of me. You used to live around the corner from me growing up.
I just want you to know that I am thinking of you.
Love, Kathleen
Patty Horowitz
September 11, 2003
Dear Mrs. Brennan,
I went to GC High with Tom. When I heard that he had been in the tower the first thing that I remembered about him was how kind he always was to everyone. He always had a smile on his face. I will always remember him walking through the halls in his "hippie" attire. When I read his tribute page, I couldn't help but smile because I knew he hadn't changed. I was so happy to hear that he has a daughter and a son who will continue his legacy. Even in heaven I know that he will always be by your side and his childrens.
Alberto Manrara
July 16, 2003
Hello Mrs. Brennan,
I had the pleasure of meeting Tom at a Federal Home Loan Bank conference at Hilton Head Island in 2000. During the course of our conversation, I found out that he was a BC alum...and my daughter had just chosen BC to start college. I was full of doubt and concern...and he made it all go away. He told me you were also from BC.
He was right. BC has been an excellent experience for my daughter.
We stayed in touch after that and we were fortunate to have had him visit us in Miami.
I hope all is well with you and your children.
Kathy Kuntz
February 12, 2003
Hi Jennifer and all,
I stumbled across this site quite by accident. What a beautiful tribute! I am continually amazed by your strength and courage. Dorothy updates me frequently on how you are all doing, and I think of you often. My love and thoughts are with you. I really regret that I didn't have a chance to know Thomas better, but you and the children hold a special place in my heart.
Lots of love,
Kathy Kuntz (Doug's wife)
CATHY ALBANO
January 18, 2003
HI TOM, YOU DON'T ME. THE OTHER NIGHT I HAD THE PLEASURE OF MEETING YOUR WIFE. YOUR LITTLE BOY WAS NOT FEELING WELL. SO SHE CALLED 911.AND I RESPONDED TO THE CALL.YOUR LITTLE BOY WAS OK WE TOOK HIM TO THE HOSPITAL, AND WE ALL KNOW YOU WERE WATCHING OVER HIM. AS SOON AS I WALKED INTO YOUR HOME I FELT SUCH A PEACFUL FEELING, AND AFTER SPEAKING TO YOUR WIFE, I KNOW THERE WAS SOMETHING SPECAIL ABOUT HER.SHE IS A BEAUTIFUL PERSON. IT WASN'T UNTIL LATER ON THAT NIGHT, WHEN I RAN INTO HER AT THE HOSPITAL AGAIN THAT SHE TOLD ME ABOUT YOU. SHE IS DOING A GREAT JOB.. YOUR LITTLE BOY IS AN ANGEL. REST IN PEACE... CATHY ALBANO .... [email protected]
Cynthia Gelinas-Rothman
November 14, 2002
Dear Jennifer:
I have wanted to reach out to you so many times since September 11, 2001. I really didn't know how. It was too hard for me. A friend of mine just told me about this internet site. I saw Tom's face, for the first time, and knew it was time to reach out to you. I have heard such wonderful things about Tom. Now, I can put his nice face with the name. We are so saddened by your loss. May God bless you and your daughter and son. They are so very blessed to have you as their mother. I have such fond memories of you; maybe we will meet again at IHM or somewhere one day. With love, Cynthia, Roy, Jack Michael and Brendan Rothman
jan sanders
November 6, 2002
Good morning, Tom. Today I will walk and pray with you. I'm needing some giggles, so I'll meet you at the alter on the mountain @ sunrise and we can have a giggle or two together. We'll send much love and some comfort to your family too, okay? See you there! Love, jan
Deirdre Murphy-Reilly
September 11, 2002
To the Brennan Family:
My name is Deirdre Murphy-Reilly, and Dorothy McCabe is my friend and the mother of my niece Laura Murphy and my nephew Danny Murphy, Thomas' cousins.
I send my love to all of you, especially Anita, and hope that you will take care of each other and find comfort in the "rock music and giggles" of your memories.
God Bless.
Deirdre Murphy-Reilly
Taylor Teresi
September 10, 2002
Our prayers and thoughts are with you especially at this time of the year. Your loss has saddened all of us. May Tom's wonderful spirit shine brightly through you and your children.
Angie Cambpell
April 22, 2002
I did not know anyone who passed away on 9/11/01, but I have cried for all of the people that have left us. May they all rest in peace.
Thomas Balacki
February 6, 2002
Jennifer, May God Bless you and your
children. My prayers and deepest
sympathy are with you. I have been
very sad for you and Tom since 9/11.
I think of him often and cheerish
the times that I spent with Tom both
at work and socially.
May God Bless You!
Thomas Balacki
Marcia Hunt
January 29, 2002
My prayers and deepest sympathy are with Jennifer and her two babies.
Don and Anne Currey
January 16, 2002
Our thoughts and prayers are with Jennifer and the rest of the Brennan family during this sad time.
Teresa Jahn
January 7, 2002
We are very sorry for your loss of Tom. May warm memories of times together lighten the sorrow in your hearts. May Tom's life and love live on in you. May you always feel the warmth of his love radiate into your hearts. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
December 10, 2001
MAY GOD BLESS THOMAS M. (TOM)BRENNAN
AND MAY HE REST IN PEACE.GOD BLESS
HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS
AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET
9/11/01
Thea Torrenti
December 3, 2001
My deepest sympathy the Jennifer and her beautiful children. May the memory of Tom be with them always!
Barbara Capalbo
December 1, 2001
I hope it helps to know that others have not forgotten what happened on September 11. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Mimi Locke
November 18, 2001
My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to the family and children of Mr. Brennan.....may God bless you.
Sincerely,
Mimi Locke
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