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Barbara Ayers
September 27, 2021
I never met Firefighter Cullen, III, but I light a candle for him every year on 9/11 and send a prayer to his family for their wellbeing. I will continue to light the candle until the day I am no longer. He and his family remain in my heart.
Ian Brennan
September 12, 2021
Remembering Tommy and his family on this tragic anniversary.
Norma Cullen Sinclair
September 11, 2021
In the arms of the angels.
Cindy Roe
September 5, 2021
Remembering Thomas on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....
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TERESA CULLEN
September 11, 2018
In our thoughts & prayers.God Bless you & your family. Teresa Cullen ,Scotland
Very honored today to carry Thomas's photo with me as I climbed the 110 flights of stairs for the Thomasville, GA, memorial.
Meghan Lodge
September 12, 2016
At the top of Monserate Mountain in Rainbow CA druing memorial 9/11 hike
Eric Robinson
September 12, 2016
My deepest sympathies go out to Thomas' family. I was fortunate enough to hike a local mountain the same height as the twin towers in his honor during a 9/11 ceremony over the weekend. We had a few hundred volunteers including the local police and fire fighting team involved. Each volunteer received a card with the picture and name of the fallen hero. I received Thomas. Even 3,000 miles away we still feel the grief from that day and do our best to honor those that save and protect.
Norma Cullen
September 11, 2016
Although we never met we send our prayers to you today. It makes our family proud to share the name. God bless
December 7, 2015
I visited the memorial for the first time yesterday and took one photo. It had Thomas' name visible, so I felt I should read about his life and put the story to the name. My heartfelt sympathy to his family and friends.
Girl Figherfighter
May 22, 2015
I was in a Stair climb for the firefighters that did not make it home on 9/11. We got to pick who we were doing the climb for and for some reason his picture and name kept sticking out to me. So I did the 110 flights in his honor. Do this climb for him made me grow a greater bond to firefighting and my honor and respect grew alot not only for this man but for the others that didnt make it home on Sept. 11 2001.
Josh T
January 4, 2015
I was drawn to his name when I went to the memorial I had to find out more information about thomas, he sounded like a great man and an even better father glad I got to read that.
David F.
September 24, 2014
I never knew Thomas, but I attended his funeral as an honor guard from another FD. We attended 5 funerals that weekend, one of the hardest weekends of my life. I cried again on 9/11 this year.
At Thomas's funeral, you handed out laminated photos with a poem on the back. That card is still with me today. It sits on my desk as a constant reminder to always look at the big picture. He never came home that night. No matter how bad my day, I will get to go home tonight.
God Bless and always remembering.
Mark Stevens, FF
September 14, 2014
Today I had the privilege of doing a memorial stair climb in Nashville, TN in remembrance of the 343. It was an honor to climb in recognition of Thomas Patrick Cullen III and his family. I will carry his name and legacy with me each day now and never forget.
Barbara Ayers
September 13, 2014
Thank you so much for having this Guest Book. I was selected in 2001 to light a candle for Thomas each year on Sept. 11th. I have honored that commitment each year and I pray for him, his spirit and his family each time the candle is lit and throughout that day. His wife and son will always be in my heart. God Bless you all who were his family and friends.
C.J. Hardy
December 21, 2013
This particular story really touched me since I have loved trains all my life. Im 53 years old and still have my old lionel train set and love to sit and watch the trains go by. God Bless you.
Susan Atkins
September 13, 2013
On 09/08/13 I participated in a Memorial Stair Climb in San Diego. We were each given a 'badge' with a name, picture & information on one of the brave first responders who gave their lives to try to save others on September 11, 2001.
My hero was Thomas Patrick Cullen III and he will be in my prayers forever.
Thank you to his family for providing the world with such a brave man.
Peter Cullen
September 11, 2013
My name is Peter Cullen, from Dublin, Ireland, but living in the US since 2008. My wife visited the WTC site in NYC a few weeks ago and Thomas's name was the first one she say. My two sons, are Patrick and Thomas. He will never be forgotten.
Colleen Maus
September 11, 2013
Hello
My name is Colleen Maus and today my sister received Thomas' name at school to wear all day long. She contacted me in my first year college because every year I look up the name I receive and search for their background. I just wanted to say thank you to Thomas for his duty and thank you to his family as well. Although I didn't know him, I know he was a treasure. Thank you again. Thomas and his family are in my prayers today and always.
Colleen
Faith
May 1, 2013
My name is Faith and I am creating a memorial celebrating Thomas for school. If you want, you can send information on Thomas so I can add it to the memorial. From what I have read, Thomas sounds like an amazing and smart person and loved by all his family and friends. I'm very sympathetic to your loss and God bless you. I will think of Thomas and all the firefighters who gave up their lives to save others when I see a 9/11 memorial again. I pray for all his family and friends. Thomas Patrick Cullen III will never be forgotten.
May We NEVER Forget!
Angie Schmucker
September 11, 2012
Jean Wolfgang
June 30, 2012
Hi.. I had the honor of running in Hero Rush in Southern California today, June 30, 2012. My wave was the 343 wave in memory of fallen firefighters.. I had the honor of running in memory of Thomas Patrick Cullen III.. This event was sponsored by the National Fallen Firefighters Foundation
katherine jones
September 25, 2011
May God always be with you. These wonderful selfless heroes will forever walk tall.!!
Thomas Cullen
September 10, 2011
To the family of this brave young man, my name is Thomas Patrick Cullen IV, I live in Hawaii and first heard of the tragedy of a firefight with my same name, a month after 9/11. For some reason it made me feel alittle more connected to this horrific event, from over 5,000 miles away. My stepson Micah is a firefighter here on Kauai, and his mother and I are so very pround of him. If any of the family of this wonderful young man, ever visit Kauai, it would be an honor to meet you and invite you to a family Luau here at our home. Tomorrow on the ten year anniversary, and our thoughts and prayers will be with your family, God bless you all. The Cullen Family, Kauai, Hawaii
Kristi Beeler
September 8, 2010
I have had the pleasure of working with Tom's father. He speaks of him often and misses him more than anyone could know. God bless your family and know he will always be with you no matter where you go.
Paul Cullen. Firefighter/Paramedic
February 23, 2010
GodBless you and your family, my thoughts and prayers are with you everyday...
Robyn Cullen
September 11, 2009
May your family stay strong and be inspired by the wonderful hero that you are...
Doug Abraham
March 25, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Patrick Stepler
March 16, 2009
I know it has been a few years since that horrible day in September. I just want to let you know that you will be missed and loved by many but never forgotten. I met Tom's dad a few years ago in Virginia. He had nothing to say but wonderful things about his son. He talked so much about him, its like I have known him all my life. I hope we never have to see anything like this again. God Bless you all
Patrick Stepler
Mt. Weather Fire and Rescue
David Bickford
December 16, 2008
when people ask me to name a hero, your name is first in mind. Your father misses you terribly and I grieve for him as much as I morn your loss. Rest in peace in the love of God with all the 343.
Engine 290
October 20, 2008
You Dun Good...
Allison Roberts
October 15, 2008
Your son Thomas and my son Steven are best friends. What a joy it is to watch them together. You would be very proud of Thomas...he is a great little boy with a heart of gold. My family is lucky to have him in our lives. Everytime Thomas is with us I always think to myself that somewhere you are looking down and watching over him.
Patrick Countryman (Cullen)
September 13, 2008
I just want you to know you are not forgotten. One firefighter to another.
Ian Brennan
September 11, 2008
You were one of the best friends my dad ever had, and I will never forget playing sports with you as a kid at Rockaway Beach because you were always the coolest, most fun guy to be around and look up to. My family and I will always remember you and your beautiful family, and we all miss you dearly to this day.
S
July 28, 2008
I miss you so much. I need your help now bro...
Allison Roberts
December 2, 2007
I am a lucky person to know Thomas Cullen's wife Sue and his son Thomas. Just knowing them makes me a better person. Thank you. You will always be in my prayers. Your sacrifice will never be forgotten.
Tommy and Bruce...
September 5, 2007
Kristine
October 23, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
September 18, 2006
In memory....
Evelyn B
September 15, 2006
Thank you for your courage and bravery. You are truly a hero. You will never be forgotten. God Bless!
Mel Woodley
September 12, 2006
I will always remember Tom boyish face and bright smile. Tom and his wife attended my wedding where Tom caught the garter belt to his shock. To his wife who was a friend and co-worker to my wife. We have a great picture of Tom at our wedding we would love for you to have. If you see this note please call Carol Simpson-Woodley 804 339-4556
M P
September 11, 2006
"Its been a long time since we laughed together, its been a long time since we cried. Raise a glass to the comrades we've lost, my friend its been a long, long time"
James Johnson
September 11, 2005
God Bless You...
THOMAS CULLEN
February 11, 2005
Never forget. Hero's are all around us. God bless.
Patricia Bondor
March 17, 2004
To the family of Thomas Patrick Cullen III: I still wear my mercy band and think of the sacrifice that Tom made for us all. My prayers continue to be with you and your family. If it would provide you any comfort, as much as I treasure my bracelet (I never take it off) I would be happy to send it to you. Sincerely, Patricia Bondor
Rich CULLEN
December 18, 2003
Sorry for your loss of such a great
man. God bless his family and the FDNY.
Zulma Cruz
September 11, 2003
God seems to have an army of angels up there!!Tom, may you rest in peace and tell God to let you keep an eye on us down here. Sue and Tommy my regards and may God bless you and keep you. I always think of you and pray for you. Your neighbor Zulma
Doug Boccuzzi
September 11, 2003
Godspeed, Tommy.
Harold Lampasso
September 8, 2003
I had the pleasure of being a new lifeguard @ Rockaway Beach, NY under Tom. He was a Liuetanant there back then in the early 90's. He was one of those guys that you always wanted backing you up, especially sitting on 116th St. A fun guy and a great hero.
Dawn Bartiromo
October 25, 2002
I had the extreme honor of knowing Tom, if only for a short while. I am his hairstylist, & was shocked when I had heard Tom was among the victims of the WTC. I had only seen him about 2 weeks earlier...
Let me tell you - there are few men who love their families like Tom did. Susan is a wonderful woman... so strong ( I envy her strength) & his son is one of the most beautiful children. I have the pleasure of seeing them every few weeks... and it tears my heart every time I see them to think of how their lives have changed. I have Tom's photo on my mirror at work, along with a beautiful picture of the Towers. Every day I think of him, & all the precious lives that were lost. It makes me so appreciative of what I have... My husband & baby are the most important things in my life... now, more than ever.
Make sure you tell your loved ones that they are just that... LOVED.
Tom, you'll always be in my prayers... & I'll always be there for Susan & Thomas...
God Bless You All....
Bill Schaubel
October 20, 2002
Words seem so inadequate to try to describe the feelings of loss, the emptiness, and the sorrow you must all be feeling, even a year after this great tragedy. As a fire chief and a father, I pray that I will never have to experience the loss of my son or the loss of one of my firefighters. But know that the dedication to duty those that perished at the WTC displayed has not been lost, it lives on in every firefighter, every police officer, and every medical tech.. I know this because I see it every day, those people going out and doing a job that takes a very special kind of person to do. And after reading about Tom and meeting his dad this week, I know that he was and always will be a very special person. Not just a firefighter, but a son, a brother, a husband, and a father. Please accept the condonlances of myself and the Lloyd Volunteer Fire Rescue, the citizens of Lloyd,Fl. and the citizens of a greatful nation. And thank you for allowing us the opportunity to share this very special time with you.
Sincerely,
Bill Schaubel, Chief
Lloyd Vol. Fire Rescue
Betty Maher ( McGrath)
October 2, 2002
On hearing the tragic news of Tom Cullen III, it is with great sadness I send my Sympathy to His wife and yound son. Also to his mother, Rita and dad Tommy. Whom I have very happy memories of in Breezy Point, NY.
Love, Betty.
Maryanne Cleary Zavagnin
September 16, 2002
Listening to the radio in my office on September 11 2002 I heard Thomas Patrick Cullen III's name read aloud at the Ground Zero Memorial service. My first reaction was that it couldn't possibly be the same Tommy Cullen who I remembered as a little boy. Then I grabbed that days NY Times special section and when I saw his photo I knew.
It has been many years since my days at Breezy and the many happy times I shared with the Cullen family; and the later times when visiting Breezy with my own children we often met up with young Tom, his parents and little sister Rita.
I am so deeply saddened by your family's enormous loss and the pain you have suffered .
My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you.
Maryanne Cleary Zavagnin
Kevin Reilly
September 13, 2002
ESPN and NFL Films broadcast
a feature on the FDNY football team
this past week.
Tommy Cullen was a valuable member
of that squad
The film portrayed Tommy as the consummate friend, father and husband
I had the good fortune of knowing Tommy in his early years as a high school student as his coach and teacher.
It seems like yesterday that Tommy
and his best buddy Pags would drop by to see me in the athletic office.
The two of those guys were a guaranteed laugh.
Watching the show a year after 9/11
arose in me anger but also a feeling of respect for a young man who packed an awful lot of life in
to his way too few years with us on earth
God Bless Tommy and his family and friends.
Mary Schaefer
September 13, 2002
It's with unbelievable sorrow that I write this. When I first heard about Tom. I thought no way, it can't be him. "He is a lawyer". Unfortunately I was wrong.
I use to lifeguard with Tom in Rockaway. He truly was the Nicest guy and would go out of his way to help anyone. My sympathy goes out to his family. He is now watching you from above.
William Cullen
September 12, 2002
Sympathy from a fellow "Cullen".My dad was Tom F.Cullen an "Irish cop".
Joseph Marcheso
September 12, 2002
I was a good friend to both Tom (little Tom) Cullen and his sister Rita back in the summers at Breezy. I was very shocked when I found out that he died. Its true that I hadn't thought of that name for some time, but now he guarantees that an event that severely hurt this country will forever personally hurt me. He was always a lovely, exuberant young man, and now he always will be.
My love to the family.
Joseph Marcheso.
katie g
September 11, 2002
a year later, you are still a consumate hero. thank you tom.
Patricia Bondor
September 10, 2002
I made an entry last Nov. about the Mercy Band with the name Thomas P. Cullen, III on it that my sister gave to me as an early Christmas present, never knowing just how much that bracelet would come to meann to me.
On Dec. 23, my sister was on her way home to NC from GA with her family when a lady on I-85 lost control of her car, became air born and crashed first into the door of the car where my sister was. This split second in time caused a 6 car pile up, with many injuries. My sister was taken to the hospital as a "Jane Doe", her husband was transported to another hospital, and her son to a 3rd hospital. I called the hospitals to find my sister and had to ID her by the Mercy Bracelet she was wearing. What I felt waiting to hear if she was alive or dead.....I can only imagine how all those with loved ones involved in 9/11 must have felt. Pam's left side of her face was crushed and she was in a coma for 2 weeks and has lost the sight in her left eye. We are only 17 months apart and are like twins, I can't imagine life without her. We were lucky, because she is alive. The closeness and bond we share (especially now) cannot be described! I have worn my Mercy Bracelet every day since she gave it to me. It is my physical reminder of just how fragile our time on earth is. I pray for the Cullen family, and for all families everyday. Please, remember to tell those you love just what they mean to you EVERY day, never forget. God bless America and its heros. My best to you, Mrs. Cullen, thank you. With gratitude to all the heros of 9/11 Patricia Bondor
Ed Campion
September 10, 2002
I graduated from Brooklyn Prep in 1967 with this hero's dad Tom, Jr. When I looked at his photo, it reminded me so much of his dad Tom III is now in God's protection.
Sikorsky
August 14, 2002
Please visit FF Cullen/Squad 41's
memorial website:
www.angelfire.com/ny5/sikorsky/sq41.html
Angie Campbell
April 23, 2002
**********GOD BLESS YOU**********
Michael Gannon
April 3, 2002
Tom,
You are my hero, brother. Not just to the world, but one of my own personal heroes. I think about how incredibly nice you were to everybody we know, and especially those we didn't. We shared some great times lifeguarding, and going out afterwards, times I won't ever forget. I thank you for always being so level-headed, it really taught me a lot. I will see you again, my brother. God bless you.
Mike
Barbara Schwindt
March 19, 2002
To Susan and Tom,
I am making a block for the united in memory quilt in memory of your husband. I read about him and knew that he was indeed a find young man. I know that I would have been proud to call him my son. I hope that you will be pleased with what I am doing in his block.
Hugs
Barbara
Sean Cullen
March 11, 2002
I am Tom's younger brother Sean. I would like to personally thank all of you for your support in this tough time. Thank you for all of the kind words and good wishes. Much like this country, my family will get through this, but never forget. Thank you again.
Anita Seibel
February 19, 2002
To the Cullen family: First, our blessings to you and thank you for raising such an outstanding young man. Second, I am e-mailing you to find out if Thomas was related to Assemblyman T.P. Cullen. My grandfather, Adolph Paul Brown, had a newspaper clipping of T.P. Cullen, who was an attorney in New York. Mr. T.P. Cullen was my Grandfather's nephew. My grandfather's sister, Katie Cullen was T.P.'s mother. We have a picture of T.P. Cullen and there is quite a resemblance to Thomas Cullen's picture. If there is a relation, we would enjoy further contact. If not, again, our family, friends, and our entire community in Portland Oregon want you to know Thomas Cullen is our hero. Anita Seibel and Pauline Christensen
Thomas Cullen
February 11, 2002
I did not know Thomas Cullen, however we shared the same first and last name, I am Thomas John Cullen, and my heart goes out to the Cullen family. I'm sure he was a great guy and damn proud to be a fireman. I can not even fathom running into a burning building, yet Thomas did it for a living.
I'm sure such a good, caring unselfish man is in God's gentle hands.
Sincerely,
Thomas Cullen
Manhattan
Kevin Reilly
January 21, 2002
I had the privilege of coaching
Tom Cullen for two years at Loyola
School. He was a great kid. I know that term"great" is used to much
but Tom was an all-around individual.He worked hard in the class room and on the playing field.
His most impressive quality was his infectious smile. It was a great shock to hear of his death. May God
bless his family and friends
Michele Crespo-Fierro
January 20, 2002
I just wanted to express my sorrow over the loss of Tom. My sister, Kathleen and I went to Loyola with him. Seeing his picture in the tribute, he didn't change much. I am glad that he followed his heart and was the best at it. God bless him and your family and Thank you.
PETER CULLEN
January 18, 2002
THOMAS CULLEN WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED BY AMERICANS FOR HIS GREAT SACRIFICE AND HIS DEVOTION TO DUTY.THOMAS AND ALL THE FIREFIGHTERS,POLICE,AND RESCUE WORKERS WHO PERISHED THAT DAY WILL LIVE ON IN OUR HEARTS AND MEMORIES AS GREAT PEOPLE WHO CAME TO HELP OTHERS.THERE IS NO GREATER LOVE THEN THOSE WHO GIVE THEIR LIVES TO SAVE OTHERS!MY FATHER R.I.P. AND MY OLDER BROTHER ARE BOTH NAMED THOMAS CULLEN .THE N.Y.FIREFIGHTERS AT THE WORLD TRADE CENTER ATTACK REMINDED ME OF THE INFANTRY IN VIETNAM ,THEY WERE EXHAUSTED YET THEY STAYED FOCUSED ON THEIR MISSION.GOD BLESS THE N.Y.F.D. FIREFIGHTERS! PETE CULLEN
Daniel Yu, Loyola 86
January 10, 2002
I remember Tom Cullen as a lanky kid who was a fun and friendly guy. Back as Loyola HS, he had this quirky looking jump shot, but he made the school team. I am sure that he easily made the most important team of all. God Bless You, Tom, and God bless your family.
Teresa Jahn
January 5, 2002
We are deeply sorry for our nation's loss of Thomas. We thank him for dedicating his life to help, rescue, and care for others as a firefighter. Such a dedication comes with a brave, warm and caring heart. May Thomas's enjoyment for trains, his courage, life and love live on in his son, Tom, and all who love him. May the warm memories of times shared with Thomas lighten the sorrow in your hearts. May you always feel the warmth of his love surround you. Our hearts cry deeply for America's loss of a hero.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
January 3, 2002
MAY THE LORD BLESS THOMAS PATRICK
CULLEN 111...MAY HE REST IN PEACE
WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS
HIS SON AND WIFE HIS FAMILY AND
FRIENDS...GOD BLESS FIREMEN EVERY
WHERE...GOD BLESS AMERICA AND MAY WE
NEVER FORGET 9/11/01
Shannon Pletsch
January 2, 2002
Hello, I have written to your family in relation to the Macy's Day Parade, I wore Thomas' Badge during the parade in memory of his bravery. I just wanted to send out my prayers and best wishes to everyone who knew Thomas Cullen, you knew he was a hero and now so do the rest of us. It is very important for me that you know that you are in my prayers and the rest of Pickerington's. I marched with a very special pride for Thomas and everyone else. GOD BLESS-Shannon
A Friend
December 25, 2001
Dear Thomas,
I never met you, but I believe on this Christmas Day you are joining all your fellow Angels in Heaven to celebrate your first Christmas with God.
Rest In Peace and may your loved know you will not be forgotten!
Sharon Chase
December 2, 2001
Thank you for giving the biggest sacrifice imaginable. I will never forget the 9/11 heroes from the FDNY. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Patricia Bondor
November 29, 2001
I received a "mercy band" bracelet from my sister for an early Christmas present. What a gift! Do you know about these bands? It's a sterling silver band with your husband's name on it and that he was a fireman. By wearing the bracelet it will remind me to pray for his survivors (you and his son). I read his biography and was so touched by the story about his son and the train. I have two children, my youngest is a boy, and I am a single mother. I just wanted you to know that you and your son will be in my family's prayers daily. Thank you for the great sacrifice made by you and your family. God bless you. Patricia Bondor, Clayton, NC
Jennifer Rozmus
November 7, 2001
To the Cullen family, especially Sue and Thomas,
It breaks my heart to know that someone as caring and special as Tom is gone. He was a wonderful friend to me in college, and I will always remember him as a true friend and hero. I hope that his wonderful sense of caring lives on in his young son. No words can express the sadness that I feel for all of you right now, but Tom is an angel now and he is looking over all of you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
--Jennifer
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