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Terence McShane Obituary
The life of Terence McShane, so full and so brief, could be measured by his friendships. There were the buddies from Sts. Cyril and Methodius parish, St. Anthony's High School, lifeguarding, Siena College, rugby, his decade as a New York police officer, and the two years he spent as a city firefighter.
"Terence was still friendly with guys he went to nursery school with," said his older brother, Kieran. "He'd bump into someone and start talking, and I'd say, `Who was that?' "
"Some girl I went to third grade with," he would answer.
What drew people to him? Maybe it was the way he had mastered the art of drawing the best from small moments. Take one of his approaches to fatherhood: pushing a kids-packed stroller while in-line skating. Shirtless. Along Montauk Highway.
Mr. McShane, 37; his wife, Cathy; and their three children – the oldest of whom is 7 – had been living at a relative's house while their home in West Islip, on Long Island, underwent a wholesale renovation. And when he disappeared in the firestorm of Sept. 11, the Buddies of McShane banded together to finish the job.
Cathy McShane was back at the house a couple of weeks ago, preparing it for her family's first night there in months, when four men in uniform appeared at the door with the awful but welcome news: they had found her beloved Terence's remains. "I told everyone all along that I didn't want to come back to the house without him," she said. "And in a way, I didn't."
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William A Seely
January 28, 2023
Hi Terrance, It's been over a decade when the two aircraft struck and over three thousand individuals who worked in the area of the towers past on along with a large number of firemen. God Bless you Terrance for you stood up for America and accomplished your tasks at hand. RIP Terrance. My great-great grandfather Hugh McShane of County Down, Ireland, his wife Mary Close and all of his children who arrived in the USA stand with me in expressing our love to an American who stood up to ward off defeat. Thank you very much Terrance.
William A Seely
February 8, 2020
Terrance,
Probably linked with my McShane's out of Northern Ireland.
Years have past by and I feel that you have never rested and
are still on guard to prevent further losses! Time to secure
some rest Terrance, you've done your job well. RIP
Alexander
February 7, 2020
Thanks for your efforts to save lives that sad day in NYC, brother. Rest in eternal peace...
Trish Maloney
September 11, 2019
God Bless you Terrance. We thank you and we remember
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William A Seely
September 11, 2019
Terrance, We are with you and your family, and wish to express our THANK YOU for all of your focused efforts on 9/11 while just doing your job! God Bless you Terrance, you shall always be remembered. RIP
MaryCatherine McShane
September 10, 2019
RIP. I will never forget...I continue to pray for your family.
Megan McShane
September 10, 2019
Hi.
I know you dont know me, but my name is also McShane and in light of this anniversary coming up I just wanted to say my family in North Carolina always takes the day to remember him. We may have never met but hes a hero to me and from what i can see others say, a very good man.
Thank you Terence,
Youre not forgotten
William A Seely
September 13, 2018
Terrance was a true man who gave his all on this specific day and time does not reduce the impact of Terrance's untimely death brought about by explosions in the City of New York which destroyed two buildings and shook America's resolve to maintain itself despite this event. Rest In Peace Terrance McShane.
Susan P
September 11, 2018
Remembered then, now and always!
mary mauro henderson
September 13, 2017
you will never be forgotten. God bless. Mary
William A Seely
September 12, 2017
Years pass by as one reflects on the days of the past where the towers met their fate and
along with them, some very good men and women.
Your children are growing up and your entire family has adjusted to your loss, such a great loss ...........
Shall be joining you along the way and hope that every thing is as good as I was told in classes as a youth.
Semper Fi
William
Never forgotten my thoughts are with you and your family everyday. Rest in Peace.
Gary Furlong
September 12, 2017
Trish
September 11, 2017
We will never forget you. Thank you, Terence.
Siena friend class of 1986
Tom H
September 11, 2017
Today, 09/11/2017, we remember you Terry. Thank you for your service. To Terry's family members .. Share some of Terry's special characteristics thru your actions. All the best, with much regards.
William A Seely
January 8, 2017
Hi Terence,
As the fall enters our lives each year, I personally think of you as you fell giving your all, to a life sustaining effort in your line of duty. You met the requirement on 9/11 years ago and to this, I among many others pay you tribute.
My heritage McShane's out of Kircubbin, County Down, Ireland pay their respect to you for your
VALOR, COURAGE, and WILL to aid those in jeopardy.
Will always have you in mind ..... if not Spirit......
William A Seely
January 8, 2017
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
January 6, 2017
I went to grammar school with Terence. St. Cyrils in Deer Park. Think of him first whenever 9/11 is mentioned. We were such a close knit group at St. Cyrils. What a fun adorable bright guy. God bless him and his family Mary Mauro
William A Seely
September 12, 2016
Dear Terry,
Hello ! Once a year you shall find me on this website indicating to you, that you are of my namesake McShane, and one of my heros!
A decade and one half and I can still see the towers being struck and set ablaze from where I was teaching students in Newark, NJ. From the first hit, through the second hit, and then through the collapse of building 1 and then building 2 with not a defender in site......
But you and many others were there helping AMERICANS survive at your eventual peril of surrendering your most valuable soul in support of those who were in urgent need at that moment.
Looking forward to meeting you and shaking your hand for your ultimate donation of love for your fellow man, regardless of the tough cost ......
William A Seely of the McShane Clan of NI
[email protected]
Marie Colascione
September 12, 2016
Dear Terry, In the short time I knew you your presence and smile left a lasting impression on me. I always pray for you and your wonderful family. Rest in peace.
Terri Hermes
September 11, 2016
I visited the 9/11 memorial this summer, and I too was given a cloth to etch the name of one of the heroes who lost their life that day. I chose your name, and hang it with immense gratitude. You are honored, along with all of those who died that day. Thank you.
William A Seely
September 12, 2015
Hello Terrance. May I among many others express our gratitude to Terrance McShane for the efforts of he and others to save as many people working within the Towers on 9/11.
You shall remain in my thoughts as a fellow McShane forever !
Christy Davidson
September 11, 2015
Hello- I am doing the 9/11 stairclimb tomorrow here in Panama City Beach, FL. Everyone is given a lanyard to represent a fallen hero & I am honored to have gotten Terrence. I just read about his wonderful life. Prayers, hugs & lots of love!
Gary Furlong
September 11, 2015
Hello all, another year passes and my thoughts and prayers remain with all those that passed away on 9/11. Terence, your name etched on my piece of cloth hangs proud in a frame in my living room over here in London. It draws the attention of friends and relatives so that they will also never forget. God bless to all.
Gary Furlong - London
S J. Friscia III
October 28, 2014
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
susan p
September 11, 2014
Remembering a hero and lifting up prayers
JAMES McSHANE
September 11, 2014
THANK YOU
Marie Colascione
September 11, 2014
Dear Terence, It's been 13 years and you are always in my prayers and thoughts. I know you are proud of Cathy and the boys. RIP
William A Seely
September 11, 2014
Terence,
Another year has past, my does time fly by ! Today they are reflecting on your event, where as a firefighter you gave your all.
Terence you shall be remembered forever as a man who rose to the occasion despite the danger, which all responders were exposed to ...... thank you for responding to this time of need. God Bless you Terence.
Gary Furlong
May 1, 2014
Hello all, I have just returned to London after a brief visit to NYC. I made the trip because I wanted to pay my respects at the 9/11 memorial for all those who sadly lost there lifes. As it is for all those that pay there respects it was a very moving and emotional experience. Our tour guide gave us all a piece of cloth and suggested we take a rubbing of the name of a person, the name was drawn to was Terence. The piece of cloth that bears his name and Battalion will remain with me for always and I will never forget all the brave men and women who gave there own lives to save others. R.I.P Terence.
April 13, 2014
I saw your name on a tv programme today. It made me shudder as it is my family name too. I offer my love and respect.
Chris McShane (UK)
michael guarino
February 16, 2014
Terence I love you brother///you still make me smile
September 12, 2013
September 12, 2013
The clock continues its march onward without backward movement since your heroic effort to aid all others on 9/11.
Youth have aged and continue to enjoy both joy and happiness supported through your efforts that day in your support of life yielding yours..... while maintaining breathe yet to be seen in our lifetime.
Terence, I shall never forget you lad.
William A Seely, Cousin
Donna Rahuba-Cancel
September 11, 2013
Thinking about Terrence today as I do often. I think of his bravery, but mostly I remember the fun times we had at Siena. RIP Terence.
Peggy Mansfield
September 11, 2013
I now live in CA. I visited my family in Garden City as soon as the planes began flying again after 9/11. While there, we were in a shop that was fundraising selling t-shirts for a fallen FDNY man. His name was Terrance McShane. I wear that t-shirt every 9/11 in his memory as well as the others who lost their lives that day. My heart goes out to his family and friends.
Peter Smith
September 11, 2013
Deepest sympathy for this tragic loss to the McShane family. I graduated from St. Anthony's with Brian in 1976 and remember the many good times there.
May 1, 2013
Hi my name is Kyleigh, I am a middle school student. I am deeply sorry for your loss. I am researching Terence McShane for a school project. Then we will go to New York City and visit the World Trade Center. if there is any information you could provide for me about Terence, please contact me. Thank you
Patrick Kanaley
September 12, 2012
Thinking of you Terence today and everyday as I look at your photo in my den. I will never forget you or that day. NEVER!!!! Your friend Patrick
Nicole Slutsky
September 12, 2012
Remembering you always Terrence!! RIP
FF Jason Linder
September 11, 2012
Even though we never meet in person my brother, I want to let you know I work at fire station 101 here in Los Angeles. Last weekend I climbed 110 floors in a 9/11 memorial in San diego, Ca. While it was by far one the hardest things I've done to date, I carried your picture with me the entire time. God bless you and your family!
Never forget!
September 11, 2012
I continue to think of you and all of the fun summers we spent together at your house. You were a great cousin, I miss you dearly. We will always be greatful to you and all of the Firefighters who had gave their lives to protect us.
Chris
Rob Montefusco
September 11, 2012
Terence,
I was saddened to hear of your passing and remember the fun times I had in my youth with you, your buddies Keith,Tommy and the rest of our crew. I will always remember your upbeat personality and great sense of humor. All my best to your family.
Rob "Monte" Montefusco
Maureen McDonough
September 11, 2012
Thinking of you today Terence. I shared memories of you with my class and showed them online pictures of you and your family. They too believe you are and will always be a hero. May God always bless you.
Kevin Gross
September 13, 2011
F.F. Terence McShane, you will always be remembered. My name is Kevin Gross, I'am a Lieutenant with Cobb County Fire Department in Marietta, Georgia. I did a memorial stair climb in your honor on September 11th 2011. 110 flights never once taking your picture out of my hands. God Bless you and your family.
Never forget!
William A Seely
September 13, 2011
A decade has passed and the clock is forever running downstream, yet I remember you Terence A. McShane as the embodiment of youth, joy and happiness forever.
Shall not forget thee ... cousin
Catherine McShane-Pickelsimer
September 12, 2011
You have been remembered....we will never forget.
Catherine McShane-Pickelsimer
Carol Harris
September 11, 2011
I picked your flag at the Memorial in Broomfield, CO today, and after looking at your pictures, I am so sad to know that your life was cut so short. May your family be comforted by the time that you all had together, and may they know how grateful we are as a country for your bravery and your service. May God bless you
Ed & Carole Flynn
September 11, 2011
Our deepest sympathies to the McShane family, now 10 years after Terrance lost his life bravely fighting to save others. We watched his name scroll by on the TV today and I recall when Kieran told me he had lost his brother. Such a tragic loss for your entire family and our country.
Yanese Arevalo
September 11, 2011
You will always be remembered McShane. May god bless you and your family, and you will always be knowned as one of Americas brave heros.
Maureen McDonough
September 9, 2011
I think of you often Terence, especially every time I go to Overlook Beach and walk past your memorial. It is an honor to now have my son lifeguard at the same beach that you enjoyed so many of your summers. You and your family are forever in my thoughts and prayers....will never forget!!!
Karen
September 7, 2011
I never knew Terence McShane, but from seeing his pictures and reading about him I'm sure he was a wonderful and fun-loving man. Shortly after September 11, 2001, a local restaurant started selling bracelets with the names of the New York firefighters who courageously gave their lives to save others on 9/11. I looked over many bracelets and held quite a few before I chose the one with the name Terence McShane. I've kept that bracelet on the dashboard of my car for the past 10 years. I look at it often and my heart still aches for him, his family, and all those who lost loved ones on that horrible day. God Bless the McShane family.
Kathy D'Eletto
July 29, 2011
It was a privilege and honor to know Terence McShane. He had one hell of a smile and loved a good laugh. I also went to St. Anthony's High School in Huntington.
Kathy McMahon D'Eletto
John Higgins
July 29, 2011
Nice job Kieran---Terence, I think of you often-You'd be proud of Cathy and the boys-- your always in our prayers
Patrick kanaley
May 10, 2011
Terence, my old friend. I have known you all my life and I miss you to this day. I think about you alot and your picture hangs in my den, I tell my kids about you and how you gave your life to save others. someday we will meet again, with that smile on your face.You were always there for your friends and people that needed a friend. you were always there. So for now let your spirit shine down upon us and we will all be together one day. goodbye my friend, for now!!!!!!!!
May 1, 2011
R.I.P. Terence.
NICOLE SLUTSKY
April 13, 2011
GOD BLESS YOU MCSHANE FAMILY! WE WILL NEVER FORGET!
Dan O'Donoghue
April 12, 2011
My name is Dan O'Donoghue. I was just on facebook and saw a fourth grade picture of my class at St. Cyril's and Methodius and it brought back memories. Through other avenues I then came to learn about Terence. Terence and I were in the same class most of the way up to 6th grade when I left to live in Ireland. I will always remember him because he was the only boy who offered me any competition in class. I was deeply saddened to hear of what happened. This note is just to let you know that people are thinking of Terence, not just in NY, and the USA but he has touched people who are now spread much further afield.
Veronica Roberts
January 23, 2011
You have a tree in Kinsale, Ireland Terence! Rest In Peace.
Josh
January 23, 2011
My prayers & thoughts out to Terence & the family.
Steve Willasom
January 23, 2011
You dared your life to save us... and you lost. Thank you for saving a lot of us on that sad day.
God Bless You...
Kevin Willmouth
January 23, 2011
For Terence and for you and the rest of your crew.
Sundays are such grounding days
God Bless
November 28, 2010
Dear Catherine,
As being from Hugh McShane b. 1821 - d. 1891, and Mary Close McShane, of County Down, my gggrandfather, I wish to express my sincere heartfelt thoughts to you, yours, and Terrance's family.
God bless you all.
September 14, 2010
Dear Cathy, My name is Sue Mahoney McCann. I live in Jacksonville Fla, but grew up in Point Lookout Long Island. About four or five years ago while browsing through a local Good Will store, always on the hunt for a NY Yankee tee shirt for my son, I found a tee shirt in memory of your dear Terence. I wondered how such a treasure would wind up in Good Will, but realized it was meant to be mine. I wear it every memorial day and of course on 9/11. As I was at a consignment shop on Sat, the girl who runs the shop asked me if I was a relation to Terence...and I told her how I came to have the shirt and she googled him for me...and there he (and you and your beautiful family ) came up! I know God put the shirt in my path for a reason and I wanted to share this with you. You are all in my thoughts and prayers, and I pray God continues to give you courage and strength to carry on. Peace be with you, Sue
September 12, 2010
We Will never forget you Terrence! God Bless you and your Family! xoxoxoxo
September 11, 2010
We Remember......
May God Bless Your Family Today and Always.....
Catherine McShane Pickelsimer
Charlotte, North Carolina
Judith Volborth
August 30, 2010
Bless you and your family. Hoka Hey!
Aanarian Stevens
August 13, 2010
May God Bless All of You. I attended Siena College and graduated with Terence in 1986. I lived in Hennepin with many of the rugby players for two years. I last saw Terence in 1993 while home on leave from Vicenza, Italy. I was on the beach (Orchard?) in the Bronx with Luis Marquez (Siena Grad-my Hennepin roommate/after Ed Gentner), and there was Terence walking towards us in a policeman's uniform. I had no Idea that he had been a police officer at the time. we exchanged kind words, and kept walking along the beach in separate directions. The image of him walking towards me is with me forever. I have no recollection of him walking away. Love you Terence. I'm blessed and proud to have known you during our Siena years. CPT (P) Aanarian "Nate" Stevens, Siena '86
Megan Forsthoefel
September 11, 2009
WTC- Ground Zero
Vesey-Liberty-Church-West Sts.
New York, NY 10038
September 11, 2009
Dear Mr. McShane,
My definition of hero is someone who puts the needs of others before their own. I want to thank you for what you did on September 11, 2001. You helped get others to safety when the Twin Towers were attacked. Because of what you did you are a true hero.
With all that you did for our country I am sure that your kids, Aiden, Colin, and Sean are very proud of you and will miss you very much. I am very thankful for what you did on that day. I’m sure your wife Cathy will miss you very much on this day as well.
We will always remember what you did for our country and for Ladder 101. Though you had no way of knowing what would happen that day, you will never be forgotten. Every Patriot Day, we will remember you and the other heroes of September 11.
Sincerely,
Megan Forsthoefel
Patrick Kanaley
September 11, 2009
I grew up with Terrance,I have known him since We played pee Wee Football together with St.Cyrils and Methodius and he also lived in my neighborhood.I later on invited him to my Wedding and we all had a good time, I saw Terrece 1 week before Sept 11,at the time I was a New York City police officer and Terrace was now a Fireman, he was working part time as a Limo Driver and I was guarding the Isreali Mission and All of a sudden I see this limo pull up and I notice it is Terrece so we start talking and I said to him "Terrece, You took a cut in pay from a sgt., to a fireman, and his reply was YES, I KNOW BUT I GET TO SPEND MORE TIME WITH MY WIFE AND KIDS BECAUSE OF THE BETTER WORK SCHEDULE. Them I never saw him again. So to this day I keep a picture of my friend Terrece on my book shelf at my home and when my kids first asked me who that is and I would rely to them."This kids is a Great Man" and my friend. I will never forget his friendship as long as I live.
NICOLE slutsky
September 10, 2009
MAY TERRENCE'S SOUL BE RESTED! AND MAY GOD BLESS THE MCSHANE FAMILY!!! MAY ALL YOUR BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES LIVE ON FOREVER! ALL OUR LOVE ~ THE SLUTSKYS
suzy dwyer
May 4, 2009
i grew up with terrence and have some funny memories im so sorry suzy
Jennifer McShane
September 11, 2008
My last name is McShane, I was just married last year. Our family is from Southwest Philadelphia. I do not know if we are any distant relation, but any where we go, my husband is always related to someone. I came across your name while reading the tributes. My heart and prayers go out to you and your entire family. This day is still so fresh in my mind. I will never ever forget. Thank you for being a hero. This day fills me with so many mixed emotions - anger, sadness, helplessness, etc. I will pray for peace for your family. I am so sorry this happened to you. God Bless You All!
Jennifer McShane
thank you
luis
April 14, 2008
Thank you for sopporting our country and our life for us.
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Kasey Doyle
March 5, 2008
Terence was my second cousin. His children Aiden, Collin, and Sean, are great kids and I miss them so much. I havent realy spoke to them much after that day but i still see them hanging out at the beach his father was once a lifeguard at. My cousin was great man and will be remembered forever!!!!
Jason Clark
September 14, 2007
McShane Family,
Thank you for teaching your son right from wrong. His bravery in wanting to help others in a time of need is a direct result on how he was raised. Knowing full well what could happen he still went to save others before himself. I still pray for all of everyone from that day, and will keep on doing so.
Amy Clark
September 13, 2007
I was watching on tv like alot of other people. With me was my 4 year old son and he watched with fear in his little eyes. I did not think he understood what was happening. He said "mommmy what happened to the people in the big place" And that is when it hit me what is happing out there.We got down on our knees and prayed for all of you and all affected . THANK YOU for all that you have shown us and for fighting a great battle.
R BJORKLUND
September 12, 2007
McShane Family,
God Bless you and know that we will never forget Terence or your sacrifice. I am proud to call Terence my friend, my teammate and fellow alumni from Siena. Never Forget.
paddy doyle
September 10, 2007
my mom margaret mcshane /doyle was terence,s aunt .growing up i remember going out to there house for thanksgiving. and playng football out in front .well familys lose touch with each other for what ever reason,s .but i can say i have happy memories of the terence and his family . may GOD WATCH OVER THE McSHANE FAMILY& ALL THE OTHER FAMILES WHO HAVE LOST A LOVED ONE ON 9.11 thank you patsy & family and luca for you hard work on this beautiful website
Lori Hensley
September 10, 2007
Thank you to all who worked so tirelessly on 9/11. God Bless you! And God Bless the family and loved ones of Terry, may He hold you in His hand and comfort you. Lori A. Hensley, Rockford, IL
Michele Leon
September 10, 2007
I didn't know Terrence personally but what he did speaks volumes. He and all the ones that carry on are in my prayers. Thank you isn't near enough.
PETER MARMORATIO
September 10, 2007
GOD BLESS ALL THE MEN AND WOMEN PAST AND PRESENT WHO
GIVE EVERYDAY ON THE JOB FOR OUR PROTECTION. MAY WE NEVER FORGET
THE DATE 9-11-2001
roxanne
September 10, 2007
Thank you for putting others lives before yours. I'll never forget and keep you and yours, along with the others in your company, in prayer.
Michael
September 9, 2007
He was such a good man, hero, husband and father. No matter how many years have passed, we miss him very much.
Thank you Terence for all you were and did. We'll always remember you.
Luca & Pat
September 9, 2007
Father William L. Fichteman of the Cathedral of Assumption in Louisville,KY is offering prayers this week for all those who lost their life in that terrible day and their families. After being told of their story by a friend of Terence's cousin Paddy, he assured he will remember in his prayers especially Terence and his family.
Pat & Luca
September 9, 2007
Another year passed but our prayers and thought are still with Terence and his family and we thank him again for the sacrifice he made for all the innocent people of the WTC. Terence put his safety after the life of thousands people he didn't know, he showed how much love can be given in one's life. May his courage and his dedication be a lesson for all the worlds, for we'll finally learn to live in peace.
Alexandra G.
September 5, 2007
You are never forgotten. Your courageous life is an inspiration to others. May your family and friends take comfort from your brief but heroic life.
Angela Gallo
September 4, 2007
Know that my thougths and prayers are with your family, and my wish that they may find their peace in yours. Thank You Terence, for your sacrifice, and for the courage that most certainly came with it.
God Bless,
Sandra Holloway
September 4, 2007
There are no words.... You gave your life for others. What more is there? Your family can be very proud of you.
Doug Abraham
August 29, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
P Tabbernor
December 30, 2006
In memory....
Kristine
October 30, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
October 3, 2006
juan melgoza
September 13, 2006
thanks for saveing the people in the tradcenter.
Luca Manunza
September 11, 2006
I didn't know Terence, I never met him, but I was together with Pat, paralyzed by shock while the tragedy happened and Terence was offering his life to save as many as he could. Thank you Terence for your sacrifice and for being such a wonderful person to all those you met in life - You'll be always in our memory and in our hearts. Honor to all the heros of 9-11, we'll never forget you.
Alexandra Gubbins
September 11, 2006
Exactly five years ago this morning an event of such horror was perpetrated on U.S. soil that shock waves reverberate still around the civilized world.
Among the innocent lives lost on that day was Terence, a good and lovable man just doing his job.
May we never forget those who perished, and may their families find comfort in the knowledge that their memories are held dear, both by close friends and complete strangers alike. May God grant you comfort on this poignant anniversary.
Je me souvens
Alexandra G. (Kingston, Canada)
Larry M.
September 11, 2006
And on this day five years ago these brave passed through the curtain of fire and steel and now await us on the far side, we are made poorer by their loss but heaven made richer in its angels.
Teriann Sera
September 11, 2006
I went to St. Cyril's for 8 years with Terrence and have nothing but fond memories of him. He was always kind and always smiling. I just want to express my deepest condolences to his family and friends. We will never forget him and hold him in our hearts forever. He died a hero and with great honor......
Denis Horrigan
September 11, 2006
I played rugby at Siena with Terence and John. Terence was one of those guys that you alwys looked forward to seeing when he came back to campus - He always had a smile on his face. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you - John John, Cathy and the boys. Terence's memory continues to glow brighter and brighter and I still look forward to seeing him again.
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