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Robert Evans Obituary
If nicknames are a measure of affection, Robert Evans inspired plenty. "To me he was Rob, to Mom he was Bob and to the rest of the world he was Bobby," said his sister, Jeanne Evans, who lived near her brother in Franklin Square, on Long Island.
Firefighter Evans, 36, was also known as Jerry Lewis around the Engine Company 33 firehouse in Manhattan, a reference to his practical jokes and big heart. He often called his sister when he got home from work to say he was O.K., but once, catching her asleep, he decided to call back every 15 minutes. (To avoid retaliation, he then turned off his phone.)
"He was very, very protective, especially of me and my mom," his sister said. "I remember when he went sky diving, he didn't tell me about it. He comes over one day and says, 'Check out this tape.' I look at the TV and it's him sky diving. I said, 'Why would you go without me?' He says, 'There's only two of us, so only one can go at a time.'"
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September 11, 2023
Robert is never forgotten. Today we celebrate his life and remember his courage, service to others, and willingness to answer the call for help which resulted in his passing. May God provide those he loved peace and comfort. May you always rest in peace with your fellow firefighters. God bless
Ricky Reyes
September 13, 2021
passing Rath park always remember handball and you climbing the famous water tower, god bless you and your family forever and a day can't believe 20 years later and still thinking of you running up that water tower til we meet again god bless
Maureen Madden
September 12, 2021
Rob is my cousin. I went with his mom & sister and a couple of friends to the 20th anniversary memorial service and celebration of his life and the life of all those who we lost that day. I say "celebration" because even though its a day of tremendous sadness for so many, it is also a celebration of the beautiful souls we lost that day. God bless each and every one of them and WE WILL NEVER FORGET
Cindy Roe
September 11, 2021
Remembering Robert on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
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Chris Brunett
September 11, 2021
Former Captain of the USS New York (LPD 21), 2012-15. I retired from the Navy in 2019. I met Christina and Jeanne in 2013, when the ship was in New York City for Veteran´s Day. They were on a special tour of the ship for the families of 9/11 victims. We spoke briefly and Jeanne handed me an envelope that contained Bobby's memorial card. I spoke of him often while assigned to that ship. I still have that card and think about Bobby every year on this day. God Bless him for his sacrifice for all of us.
Maureen & Artie Madden
September 13, 2018
What can you say about Bob that hasn't already been said. He had a smile that would light up the room. Can't help wonder what he'd be up to now...would he be married and have a few kids? He'll always be missed.
Anthony C
September 11, 2018
You were a great friend, thank you. My prayers are with you and your family. AC
Mike N
September 11, 2018
Hey Rob Thinking of you .Watch over my son Mike N
Anthony C
September 11, 2018
Thinking of you man.
Joy
September 11, 2018
Thinking of you on this day and every year Rob...gone but never forgotten...thank you for your sacrifice. I will always remember the times we hung out at Donut Hut, Rath Park, etc... good times...you were crazy but a fun crazy...always the jokester and into the deep conversations. Miss you my friend. You were REAL
Alexander Wood
October 13, 2017
Miss you very much friend you truly are and always have been a very special person who shined like a bright light in the sky. Love you brother.
Chris Brunett
September 11, 2017
Thinking about Bobby and his family on this day. May we Never Forget his sacrifice.
Captain Chris "Bruno" Brunett, USN
September 11, 2015
Love you man. xx Maur
September 11, 2015
Hello,
I just heard Bobby's name read and saw his picture on TV during the 911 Memorial Service this morning. I didn't know Bobby, but when I saw he was from Franklin Square, and being a native Franklin Square(er) myself, I want to express my deep condolences to you, his family, for your great loss. I lost a child when she was only 11, and I know the pain runs so very deep... 14 yrs. today... more like 14 days ago, right? I scrolled through some of the comments left here. Sounds like he was a wonderful guy, son, friend, jokester... May peace, comfort and strength find its way into your hearts and lives... right into the very places within you that are still smarting or empty because of his passing. If you find you'd like support at this time (and I'm sure there were tons of loving people to help you along the way), please check out GriefShare.org. I ran a group for many years. Sincerely, Cindy Griffiths
September 11, 2015
I had the honor of knowing bob growing up,hanging out at Polk st. He was a fun kid everyone loved him. I moved from Franklin square . Before 9 /11 ,finding out years later,bob had become a fireman and was at the towers. When I think of all the brave ,bob is always in my hart. Today is 9-11-2015 as always I sit and watch the memorial sessions,and shed a tear for all,I will see bobs name on the screen say a pray for him,. When I hear those words never forget. I think of bob and smile about the good memories of being young and knowing him!
Captain Chris "Bruno" Brunett, USN Commanding Officer
February 3, 2015
Friends and Family of Bobby,
Each night onboard all U.S. Naval Vessels at sea, the ship's Chaplain will pray over the 1MC (loudspeaker) 5 minutes before Taps (lights-out). Since joining the ship eighteen months ago, our Chaplain (Lieutenant Justin Bernard) has added to his nightly prayers, a short prayer by name for the families of one fallen firefighter. He has been going through the list of 343 alphabetically and last night was Bobby's night. Chaps was kind enough to allow me the honor of saying Bobby's prayer.
We on NEW YORK are with you. Our ship will continue taking the fight to the enemy in honor of Bobby and 342 of his brothers who perished with him that day. God bless you all.
"Strength Forged Through Sacrifice...NEVER FORGET!"
Captain Christopher "Bruno" Brunett
December 12, 2014
On February 14th, 2014, I took command of the USS NEW YORK (LPD 21) and placed Bobby's memorial card in my uniform chest pocket, close to my heart. For the past ten months, with the exception of just a few days, it has been there ever since.
When times are tough and the burden of command heavy, I pull out his card and find strength. When new Sailors check aboard, I use his card as a symbol of our countrymen who died in the towers that tragic day -- especially our brave first responders -- and what an honor it is to be part of a ship that memorializes them. When special guests visit the ship, I pull out his card and tell his story. I am comforted knowing he is with us and looks over me.
Yesterday, USS NEW YORK left to deploy overseas and will not return until sometime next summer. I have about six more months in command of this magnificent warship -- all of it will be spent in harm's way executing our mission.
As we steam east to protect America, I want those who loved Bobby to know that his legacy lives on. He is one of nearly 3000 souls who are part of this ship and now part of me. I will forever be grateful for the day I met his sister Jeannie in New York and learned about her brave and selfless brother, who gave his life for all of us. May we NEVER FORGET his sacrifice.
"Strength Forged Through Sacrifice...Never Forget!"
September 29, 2014
Back in the 80's, I went on one date with Robert to see the Monster Trucks at Madison Square Garden. We had a fun time that night but I was considerably older than him, so I decided it wasn't a relationship that would go anywhere. We were in different stages of life. I was looking for commitment and he was still spreading his wings and growing up. We never dated again. Over the years I would hear how he was doing from his cousin, Maureen and I was so glad to hear he was a fireman & was engaged to be married. Maureen & I went toa St. Patty's Day parade in the late 90's & we actually saw Robert marching by with his fire battalion, with his sparkling eyes and big smile. It was so nice to see that he had filled out and had found his direction in life and now was a man compared to the skinny young man he was back in the 80's. When the towers fell I was hoping I didn't know anyone in those towers. I didn't want to think anyone I knew would have gone through that horror. Unfortunately, Robert was the only one I knew that was lost that day and I have had in my prayers ever since. I only passed the “pit” one time in the past 10 or so years when the construction was taking place and really didn't want to go down there at all. But when it was announced that the 911 Memorial Museum was open to the public, I very much wanted to visit. I finally got there this past Sunday, (Sept. 28). I saw Robert's photo among the other thousands who were lost that day and it was so sad all over again. He was a credit to his family, to his firemen comrades, to his friends and to his love. He would have made a good husband and great father. I will remember him always.
Ruth Phelps
Dina Cohen
September 8, 2014
I was lucky to have met you briefly on the steps of 250 Mercer St around the summer of 2000, when you guys were called there for something that turned out to be nothing. We chatted for about ten minutes outside, and you were funny, charming and cute. As you were leaving, you said I should stop by the firehouse to say hi one day. You asked for my card, but I was out of them. I don't know why I didn't, and even considered doing so over the next year more than once, but always saying to myself, 'not today, but someday,' but in waiting, I squandered the chance to meet again, and for that I truly regret. You seemed like a fantastical dynamic person, and my heart goes out to your family.
October 25, 2013
Hi I live in Tallaght, Dublin, in Ireland. Some time ago I found a memorial card for Robert on the path outside my house. Obviously he must have relatives or friends in this area. I would like to contact them to return the card card if possible. Can anybody help with this.
Regards Mary Byrne
Ricky Reyes
September 11, 2013
Knowing you are watching over all of us. God Bless You and Your Family. Holding your spot open for handball, Rath Park, see you soon. Ricky and Lorie Reyes
Beth Richardson
June 28, 2013
I work for Delta Airlines and spoke with his sister Jeanne today on a random call into our call center. We somehow got in a chat where the Fallen Firefighters organization were to be at Kentucky Speedway this weekend near my home and out of that she asked me to come here. She shared great stories of him and I instantly felt like I had known both of them forever. You were right, Jeanne....he is a looker!! Love and peace to you and your family. I will never forget the two of you and our nice chat today...we all will never forget..thank you Robert for all you did...
April 28, 2013
Happy Birthday Rob
- With Love Cecilia & Mitch
John
April 27, 2013
Happy Birthday Rob.
Suzi Williams
October 20, 2012
Rob,
Finally got to GZ with Jeanne and saw your name. It sounds odd but Jeanne and I had a great day together, your Mom couldn't make it. She took me around to show me the sights related to the attack and all of the heroes. What an awesome and emotional experience it was. So sad, such displays of heroism. The best and worst of humanity in one day. Saw the video of you at the 9/11 Memorial. As always, God Bless you and your family.
Kelly Conlon
September 12, 2012
We all miss ya still playing handball in RATH PARK Evans!!
You are NEVER forgotten!!
We miss seeing you on your beach chair waiting for "next game".
Katie
September 11, 2012
You are among the most brave people in the world with what you did. I thank you for that so much. You are in my prayers.
rzr lawman
February 13, 2012
last year on the tenth ann. of 9/11 i rode in honor of firefighter robert evans here in knovilee tn. every year we here have a memorial motorcycle ride sponsered by the area firefighters and police it makes you stop and think about our fallen heros. everyone rides in honor of aour fallen heros. last year there were over 600 riders. NEVER FORGET.
Aubryn
September 29, 2011
You seem to be such a brave person. At our school, in honor of the ten year anniversary of 9/11, we have let balloons go and have planted a garden, all to show how much we appreciate everything you and every other firefighter, police officer, and any other hero did on that day to ensure the safety of so many people.I wasn't old enough to remember that day, but I would still like to say thank you.
Suzi Williams
September 17, 2011
You sound like such an amazing person. I didn't know you, but I saw your turnout boots in Battery Park when I was visiting from Washington State. The sight of those boots and how they were displayed really touched me. I grew up with my Dad wearing those same boots. I cannot tell you how many discussions we have had in my office about what those boots represent. Everyone wants to know why I have a picture of boots. I can't think of a better picture for my office. My husband is a retired deputy sheriff. Thank you for your service.
May God Bless and keep you.
Wade Dietz
September 11, 2011
Need help...My Name is Wade and I am an Austin, TX Firefighter, afer 9/11/01 I received an MIA medal wrist band in Roberts honor. I have had his wrist band this whole time while on the job and wanted to send his wrist band to his closest family member. If any of Roberts friends or family can assist me in a valid address or phone # please contact me via email @ [email protected]
Thanks and God Bless
Donna Galasso
September 11, 2011
You teased us as the little girls hanging at the park...LOL...you always made me laugh!! God bless always!
September 11, 2011
bob,you are in our minds every day,and in our heart every second
dad&pat
Michael Mayer
September 11, 2011
10 yrs goes so fast Rob, still think I see you going down the street. Miss the hilarious antics and the energy you put into life. God bless you a great friend and real American hero.
rich lisi
September 11, 2011
rest in peace Rob
September 11, 2011
Bobby, you went from the funny kid in the neighborhood to the man you always knew you'd become. You always fought the good fight. You sacraficed your life for our survival 10 years ago today. GOD not only blest you but all those who were fortunate enough to know you and yes, you are and always will be remembered for the "Hero" we always knew you were. Miss ya, man!
Missy Cassese
September 11, 2011
Loved hanging out with Bobby at the park...such a sweetheart with the greatest smile. Great times when life was simple and the world was safer.
Frank Steinbeck
September 11, 2011
Rob,
You know that I think of you often, and today you will be in so many of our thoughts and prayers. We pray that you are at peace in Heaven, and will never forget you.
John DiNicola
September 11, 2011
I never met you but you are my hero.
September 10, 2011
Rob, You will always be a part of who I am.
Dawn
xxx
Michael Ghiraldi
September 10, 2011
The Years & Years of laughter and Parking lot philosophy you provided for myself and all of our friends hanging out is Priceless. Still Brings a Smile to my face everytime I think about it. Miss you My Dear friend !
Shannon Brokaw
September 9, 2011
Prayers for you and your mom!! And for the light that Bobby is....xx
Jill Shely-Fleming
September 9, 2011
Bob when we see 33 we so wish we could see your sweet, kind face. The Fleming-Shely family misses you. We keep you live in us by being kind, funny and brave!
Cecilia/Mitch Matlin
September 9, 2011
Thinking of you and the family..
You're in our thoughts and prayers
Karina Vargas
September 8, 2011
R.I.P Robert Evans
I'm sorry to the family and for there loss. Its been 10 years but rest assure your loss will never be forgotten.
Jennifer Temple
August 3, 2011
RIP Rob, I never got to meet you but I have heard so much about you that I feel I did. Lots of love to all the family from your Irish cousins xx
valerie bland
May 16, 2011
Ten year has past but those of you who lost your lives will never be forgotten.
My heart goes out to all of you especially the family and friends of Robert Evans
Sean conlon
May 15, 2011
RIP Rob. Too bad we didn't get a chance to catch up. Remembering you from high school and knowing you were part of FDNY made me proud. You came along way. I'm proud of you.
January 29, 2011
may you rest in peace rob. you sound like a fun guy to be with. r i p.
Joanne Mucciolo-Pastore
September 12, 2010
God Bless you my dear friend! May you rest in peace always! Forever missed! Always a Hero!
Michael Cuoco Jr.
September 11, 2010
EVs always enjoyed you on the handball courts your hustle was impressive a great guy....
Thomas Russo FDNY (Ret.)
September 11, 2010
Miss you tons brother. One of the best things that's happened in my life was my team on the pile having the honor of bringing you home to your family. Nothing can convey how sad we are that we lost you, but no words can describe how happy we were that we found you. Rest easy friend.
Mary DiBitonto
September 11, 2010
Forever a Hero~You are missed!!
Judy Kennedy-Armanini
September 11, 2010
You are so very missed Bobby. Many memories, always the Hero.
Tom Scully
September 11, 2010
Polk Street School, Bike Tag, the Burke's house, Rabbit, Ebbs, Sunoco, Donut Hut, Yo man, you need a pack of smokes??, Skobes! LOL, Did you get the results of the FDNY test yet? NO!, fast as the speed of sound, the happiest guy I ever knew.
Maureen Henry
September 11, 2010
Often, I stop & smile, thinking about the crazy things we used to do back in the day.... Rob, you are always in my heart & I truly miss our friendship. Love you man.
Frank Steinbeck
September 11, 2010
God bless you, Rob-O. I'm sure you are making everyone in heaven smile like you did here on Earth. We will never forget neither the price you paid for us on this day 9 years ago, nor will we ever forget you!
Shane and Matilda Fleming
September 11, 2009
Our Hero!
David Wood
September 11, 2009
Bob, Missing you Brother. God Bless
Lucietta Izzo/Butts
August 6, 2009
This goes to the Evans Family and all the familys who have lost someone special in there lives. Jeannie I am so sorry to hear about Robby. I know you love him and he is yor heart and soul. I am sorry I was not around for you.I thank God that you and I have found each other again. I remember growing up and going to your home and Robby giving you a hard time and the argueing you to did. The funny part of everything was the hole time you would see the love you two had for each other. God bless you and your family. I am again sorry I was not there for youand your family.
You are in my thoughts and prays.
Robby you are in a better place and watching over all who love you. I also believe that you are there giving all of us that little joke that just happens every once and awhile. So to all that kmow and love you when something funny just happens think of Robby and know he did it so you remember him.
Love you Robby and I will miss you. See you later no goodbye.
Daniel Linehan
August 2, 2009
God Bless you for the ultimate sacrifice.
David Popeil
August 2, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Bobby & Alex at my house in F.S.
Michael Izzi
July 14, 2009
Bobby...
You were like a brother to me... My little brother. I miss you dearly and thank you for making the ultimate sacrifice! I love you forever. Bobby, I know you're in a real sweeet place! One day, maybe we'll see each other again...
Miss you my friend!!! Rest in Peace...
Jill Shely
June 11, 2009
Engine 33 just passed us on the street with the American Flag waving in the back. Always thinking of you. Much Love...Jill, Dan, Shane and Matilda:)
April 27, 2009
Happy 44th Rob,
Loved the exploding balloons and attack geese at the cemetery, nice touch.
More Heineken and Corona, less Bud- I know.
Jill, Dan , Shane Robert and Matilda love ya, like we do.
Asta,
J
Doug Abraham
April 27, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
JUDY CORDELL
April 25, 2009
JUST HAD WONDERFUL WORDS WITH JEANNE ON THE PHONE, SHE HAD CALLED AVIS AND SHE TOLD ME TO CHECK THIS OUT.
MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND YOUR BROTHER LOOKS LIKE A WONDERFUL PERSON AND I LAUGHED WHEN THEY DESCRIBED HIM AS THE JERRY LEWIS.
David Wood
January 14, 2009
Evs,
You are always in our hearts, souls and prayers. Missed more than our words or tears could ever express. Released from the burdens of this physical existence, your spirit endures an eternity of blessings in the arms of our LORD.You are FOREVER EMBEDDED in our HEARTS.
Love Eternal,
David Wood (Woody)
Alex Wood
January 13, 2009
You are never forgotten and always in my thoughts and prayers. We have spent many special times growing up together that I will always cherish. I miss being able to call you, and get together and laugh our butts off! I named my son after you Bob… and he knows who you are and what you stand for. I love you and await the day I come to see you. The last time I saw you clearly you came to me in a dream and I said to you, does your mom know your ok? And you ran from me I chased you into an auditorium that was pitch dark, when I finally caught up with you, I said Bobby come with me, and you touched my hand and said with the warmest smile, Alex, I cant, and I don’t want to come back, I am so happy where I am it is so beautiful, and you ran off. I love and miss you.
John Picone
September 11, 2008
Bobby,
After many years I will never ever forget you.
Your Sister
April 27, 2008
Thank you Rob,
For your laughs and your smiles,
your friendship and fun.
For your encouragement and strength,your spirit of life.
For your bravery and sacrifice, your heart and soul.
For your love, For You.
Have a great 43rd Birthday!
Doug Abraham
April 27, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
September 11, 2007
We'll meet again.
Dawn
xxx
Donna coniglione
September 11, 2007
Bobby
We all remember you on Saturday mornings in Rath Park, on the bench with a cold beer in your hand, while waiting to play handball. Your smiling face, your sense of humor that will always be in our hearts and minds. You are missed everyday and every year that passes. send our love to all those who joined you on that day, our heroes and family members. We will never forget .
September 11, 2007
NEVER EVER FORGET!!!!!!!!!!
Hartmut Reinsch
September 10, 2007
In memory of FDNY Robert Evans
Sept. 11th 2001
~Always remembered and never forgotten!"~
Greetings from
Firefighter poet Hartmut Reinsch
Toronto / CANADA
br>Tribute to Firefighters of FDNY!
In the battle against the beastly fire...
They stay together, ready to fight!
To help all the victims of every accident,
committed to rescue, by day and by night.
These are the courageous Firefighters,
In their cities and towns of every land.
They stand together as really true friends,
Routinely they're all working hand in hand.
Everyone of them looks after the other,
Their brotherhood knows no borders...!
They are ready to help in their unselfish way,
Without fear, they follow their orders!
Many of them gave their lives in New York,
On September the eleventh, two thousand and one...!
Firefighters everywhere will remember that day,
And their feelings of loss will never be gone.
Written by Hartmut Reinsch
(German-Canadian Goldsmith and Homeland Poet)
September 16, 2001 Toronto Canada
May we always remember their sacrifice,
in their quest to help and save the lives of innocent victims,
on that tragic day of Sept. 11. 2001 in New York City, USA.
A word after..., from "ground zero!"
What we are left with,
surrounded by death and fear,
is our sense of loyalty and of duty...
which calls upon us
to place a shining beacon of hope in this world,
and to entrust the universal darkness
to the light of God.
H. Reinsch. Toronto 2001
[email protected]
Nancy
September 6, 2007
Thinking of you Bobby
God Bless you..
Nancy Nee
Mario & Leann Meise
July 5, 2007
My second image of Jeannie at the FDNY Memorial.
Jeannie Evans rubbing her borthers name to a piece of paper
Mario & Leann Meise
July 5, 2007
We have never met Bob, but this past Monday we had the honor of meeting his sister Jeannie at the WTC Tribute Visitor Center.
Not knowing who she was I took 2 images of her while she was rubbing her brothers name to a piece of paper at the FDNY Memorial.
Jeannies strength and love for her brother are inspiring.
Margaret Frost
April 28, 2007
What a fine young man he must have been. The world is poorer without him.
Doug Abraham
April 27, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
April 7, 2007
Happy Easter Bobby...
Hope you and George are hanging out,causing a lot of laughter!
Nancy
Kristine
November 2, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
October 3, 2006
In memory....
John Picone
September 10, 2006
Hi Bobby,
I went to H.Frank Carey High school also, and hung out with bobby growing up. I can recall his blue camaro he loved, also when we where together in the summers back then Bobby would always put a smile on our face. I can recall he loved to put scary fake cut marks on his nose like it was Holoween. We where a tight group. Bobby, myself, mike, bobby b, kevin b, would love to drive the turnpike looking at old hot rods. My hart goes out to the evens family, and bobby you always thought of others 1st. You will always be missed buddy.
John Picone
Franklin Square
lucenda
August 29, 2006
I have never met Robert Evans, I breifly fixed a reservation fo rhis sister Christine. She And I chatted about everthing possible. She Said New Brunswick Was the Best! But, she also talked very fondly of her late brother Robert, and he loosing his life in such a tradgady. So, this is out of respect for everything he did. Thank you.
Limerick Toast! Raise your glasses!
Shannon Brokaw
February 12, 2006
Ok here is the toast for Bobby in Limerick. I know you told my mom, dad and I that it was your favorite city in Ireland. It's very nice indeed.
A Blarney Toast to Bobby
Shannon Brokaw
February 12, 2006
In the town of Blarney, one of the relatives in this photo was a cop in New York long ago. So they were very happy to toast Bobby! Cheers!
Bottoms UP! First Pint in Ireland for Bobby!!
Shannon Brokaw
February 12, 2006
Sorry, I'm blonde and can't seem to catch onto posting pics!! Forgive me, let me give this thing another whirl! : )
nancy nee
October 5, 2005
Hey Rob, i never met you, but my brother George Cain from Ladder 7 is probably one of your buddies by now.. He was also taken from us on September 11th. Your mom, Jeanne and Anne, have become a part of our extended family now, as have all the other families we have met since that awful day. I wish I had had the chance to meet you and your beautiful smile and dimples, but for now, until we do meet, i always have your picture to admire.. Stay strong, and give my brother a big hug and kiss from his sister..Take care for now, with love and thanks, Nancy
James Johnson
September 11, 2005
God Bless You...
Your Sister
April 27, 2005
Dear Rob,
It's your 40th Birthday and I finally thought I could put into words,just how much I miss you.
But there will never be enough time or space,so for now,please know that you always did and always will,mean the world to me and I LOVE YOU.
Happy Birthday in Heaven My Friend
Deb Bell
March 28, 2005
Hi Jeanie and Paul
I met you in New York in August 2004 during my around the world trip. I've just gotten home to Australia and I wanted to let you know that just as I promised, I showed Bobby the world. I took his picture with me to Mexico, Ecuador, Peru, Bolivia, Chile, London, Israel, Jordan and Thailand and I showed him everything. He slept in a hammock on a deserted Carribean beach, hiked the 4 day Inca Trail in Peru, saw Stomp in London's west-end, experienced the beauty of Jerusalem at sunset, partied hard on the beaches of Thailand and so much more. You guys are an inspiration and I will hold onto the pictures you gave me forever.
May you only ever experience joy in your life.
Deb (21 years old)
Anthony Arena
March 1, 2005
In 1983 I graduated from H. Frank Carey High School with Bobby Evans. I only recently found out he died on 9/11/01. Although I hadn't seen him since high school, I remembered him as one of the kids who I really liked. He was fun, friendly, and warm. I remembered him as a kid with longish scruffy hair and a bad teenage mustache, and when I dug out my old high school yearbook I saw he looked exactly as I remembered him, (except for the suit and tie.) He wasn't part of the 'cool' crowd, but he always had the biggest and happiest smile you ever saw. Somehow, (unlike me) being left outside the 'cool' crowd didn't get him down. I was surprised to learn he'd become a boxer when he was 21 because I remembered him as skinny, shorter than the other kids, and definitely a non-jock type- although he was fast and scrappy. Still, he wasn’t a tough muscle guy and was not aggresive and mean, so the idea of him punching guys out in the boxing ring somehow doesn’t fit my picture of him. Being a fireman does make sense to me though, because I remember him as liking other people and liking excitement. What I really remember most about him though, was how he was funny, and always had a big bright smile on his face everyday. Even though I’ve learned of his passing four years after the fact, I’m nevertheless profoundly saddened.
Keith Thompson
July 5, 2004
To the Evans Family. My sincere and heartfelt condolences. I didn't know Bobby very well. I was in his Graduating class. I found out about his loss at the 20 Year H.S. Reunion in Nov. 2003. I haven't seen him since graduation. It seemed he found a job that he loved. So many people look to Fire Fighters as a special kind of hero. Only special people can fill those shoes. Bobby, I wish I could have known you as a friend. I leave these words to your Family. You Really Don't Have To Know Somebody. To Care. God Bless. Peace Always, Keith Thompson.
Jennifer Permenter
October 24, 2003
Rob,
I've never met you personally...but I know you through the lovely stories your mother Christine and Jeanne has told me about you even before 911.
It is a complete shame that I never got to meet you personally. I really think that we would have been good friends...we are both completely nutz!!
Although you did not know me, I feel in my heart to keep your spirit alive...to spread around how much of a hero you are and a unselfish loving soul.
I know that God is cradling you in his hands like a gentle dove. For your actions on earth, proved you are a true loving spirit.
Carlos Patino
September 11, 2003
I remember the day when Rob told me he had pasted the FD test and was going to be a fireman.I was really glad for him cause he seemed very happy about it.With the kind of person he was,I knew he would be a great fireman.I moved to UT in Feb. of 2002.I still had alot of things in boxs till I found a house.The day we moved into our house,the first box we unpacked had pics inside.I took out a pic of my wife and I from one of the times our familys had Thanksgiving together,and when you look in the backround,you can see Rob as clear as day with that unforgetable smile.We will never forget him and the great person he was. All our love,Carlos/Heidi/Nicolas & Kaylee Patino
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