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Eileen Greenstein Obituary
When she finally moved from her old neighborhood of Jackson Heights, Queens, to the leafy suburb of Morris Plains, N.J., three years ago, Eileen Greenstein was determined to stay in touch with her extended family. So she helped start a cousins' club and went to dinner or a show with them once a month.
Ms. Greenstein had a knack for maintaining contacts, even when she didn't try.
She worked in the claims department at Aon in the World Trade Center, and from Morris Plains she could still see the silhouette of the towers.
"She was always kidding that she couldn't even get away from those things when she wasn't working," said her brother Howard.
Ms. Greenstein, 52, cherished loyalty. She never forgot birthdays, not even those of her friends' children.
She visited Florida several times a year, even in summer, to spend time with her brothers and her mother, who all lived there.
She was well known in the neighborhood as a person who would take in older cats no one else wanted. "She always was helping out the downtrodden and the castoffs," Howard Greenstein said.
When her final two-week visit to Florida ended last Sept. 8, Michael, another of her three brothers, drove her to the airport. "The strange thing about that visit was that there was no yelling, none of the typical family arguments," he said. "It was a really good trip."
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Charlotte Henley
September 10, 2024
I will always remember Eileen and heartbroken that she would die so tragically. She was a childhood friend. We spent many hours playing together. She was always so sweet and kind and easy to be around. Her friends, Margaret, Brian and I, had a reunion in New York, and went to the 9/11 Memorial. We looked for Eileen's name, inside the memorial, and when we found her we discovered that we were standing at her picture on her birthday. Eileen has a strong spirit to pull us together and stand at her picture inside the 9/11 Memorial in honor of her on her birthday. We stood in silence at the coincidence and then hugged each other. She will always have a strong presence in my heart.
January 27, 2020
In memory of Eileen.....
Annette Jops
September 12, 2019
Some memories for today. Eileen was my tennis partner. We met at a class in Queens, and for years often met after work to play. Always only for fun and health, somehow we were at the same level and enjoyed our games and encouraged each other. We shared tickets to the tournament when we could get them. We went to the Bahamas for a tennis camp and I remember her aunt and uncle met her at the airport to drive her home. I saw her before I left NYC and we visited as we walked all over the Village looking for bags for a vacuum her brother had given her as a gift. Her closeness to her family was always apparent. I am sure they miss her dearly. Peace to her memory and to her family always.
Lonnie
September 9, 2016
Had the opportunity to talk and deal with Eileen (Aon was our aviation broker). While in NYC in Sep 2015, was walking up to WTC memorial fountain and walked right up to Eileen's name unknowingly. An amazing, emotional coincidence. Still affects me today.
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Kathy M
September 11, 2014
I visited Morris Plains for a wedding this past summer and I stopped at the 9-11 Memorial by the train station. It was so nice to see the plaque made for Eileen's rememberance by the monument. It was a beautiful day to remember those who were lost during that time.
catie I
September 16, 2013
rest in peace
Caroline O
September 14, 2012
I received a bracelet about 8 years ago with Eileen's name on it. I will always remember her on 9/11. She sounds like she was a wonderful person and she loved cats like I do. I wish I could have known her. Rest In Peace.
Stephanie Fackler
September 13, 2011
To the family and friends of Eileen: I purchased a flag from the Healing Field in Hanover Pa in memorium of the 9/11 tragedy. I specifically looked for an Aon employee as I am will Aon as well and the New York office is near and dear to my heart. I did not know Eileen, but for some reason I was drawn to her flag and looking at the posts about her, I believe we would have been great friends. I will keep Eileen, and her family and friends in my prayers. God bless you all.
Carrie Starnes
September 11, 2011
To the family of Eileen Marsha Greenstein. I have never met Eileen, but she was choosing by the 9/11 Memorial on Facebook for dedication of my status to her. I pray for the family to have peace knowing she will be remembered by many. Rest in Peace my friend Eileen
Debbie Iocca Bouchard
September 8, 2011
I always enjoyed our lunches or after work cocktails with Eileen, which were too few. So much laughter. We worked together while I was with aviation reinsurer ERG Mgmt and she at Aon/FBH - she was a joy to work with even when things were difficult. She is missed. God bless her and her family.
Bob Webster
July 17, 2011
On September 11th 2011 the Morris Plains 9-11 committe will dedicate the completed 9-11 memorial. We have not forgotten our neighbor Eileen. The memorial will remember Eileen with a granite plaque in the main patio area. Any family,friends,co-workers who would like to attend please contact our town. Input for the ceremony would also be welcome.
Frank Devlin
May 7, 2011
Eileen You and Nancy and Sheila are in Heaven The coward who took Your Life Will never know peace!!!
May 4, 2011
Eileen justice was served Ossama is dead rest in peace
Doug Abraham
July 23, 2009
Happy 60th Birthday!!!
Caroline Canfield
September 11, 2008
I signed up to get a memorial bracelet about 6 years ago. I have kept it and I came across it in my drawer the other day. Eileen's name was on it and it has 9/11/01 next to her name and it has an American flag. I wore it all day today in her memory. I never knew her. I just googled her name and this popped up. She sounds like a lovely person and it's such a shame she lost her life on this tragic day. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and my God be with them and her forever.
Jonathan Greenstein
September 11, 2007
Never forget
Kathie Rockett
November 27, 2006
I worked with Eileen in AON's Aviation Division in WTC 2. She was always cheerful and ready to help anyone who needed it. She had a sharp wit that I really appreciated and she could always make me laugh.
I am glad to see that someone has taken care of her cats they were an important part of her life, she loved them so much.
It doesn't seem possible that such a vital person could be snuffed out so unjustly. My heart goes out to her family who have been robbed of so many good times together. Be strong for each other and remember that she is watching over you.
Kristine
November 2, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
October 26, 2006
In memory....
Shirley Crankshaw
September 12, 2003
To Eileen's Family and Friends:Please know that Rowland and I miss her friendly greetings and acts of kindness to older neighbors like us here at Foxwood. We will never forget her, and hope knowing we share in your loss is a comfort. Wishing you God's Peace today (9/11/03)... and Always.
Karen O'Neill (Mrs. Thomas) Mucci
September 11, 2003
For Eileen -
I worked with Eileen for 16 years in the aviation dept at FBH/RHH/AON. From my first day at work when I sat at her desk until I got my own (she was on jury duty) and after a rocky start (until I discovered it was mornings she didn't like, not me) we were close friends and colleagues. I met all her cats, she and Jo gave me my beloved Samantha-cat, she came to my bridal shower and wedding, we worked together every day. So many memories of shared work and shared lives. After I "retired" from AON after my marriage, we still kept in touch, although as our lives diverged we did not speak to each other as much as we would have liked. Then came 9/11. I regret every day that passed that we did not speak. She still lives in my heart and I often think of her. It has taken me two years to be able to write this. Eil, I love you and thank you for being part of my life. God bless you and may you rest in peace. Karen
Jean De Filippo
September 11, 2003
In Memory of Eileen,
Eileen I never had the chance to meet you yet, through pictures @ your brother's house ( Greeny ) and conversations with him and my husband you were truely a special person indeed. You are missed terrible and my prayers are with your family
September 11,2003
Adam Osman
July 11, 2003
He Who makes peace in His heights, may he make peace, upon us and upon all Israel.
Kaddish
Jeff Abreu
November 7, 2002
To the Family & Friends of Eileen:
I love to ride motorcycles and on 9/11/02 about 8000 of my fellow Americans and others rode in a parade that lasted all day and closed down Interstate 10 for 40 miles as we made our way to the state capitol here in Phoenix,Az.
We were each given a bracelet with the name of an American hero and best friend of someone....
I'm not sure if Eileen liked Harley's or not but I know that on that day she rode with me and will ride with me forever on the great american highways and byways.
I keep thinking about her and wonder what she was like.I found this site today and I know that sooner or later someone that knew her will read this and wish for me, peace and faith to those who knew her best.
I hope that we all keep the light of those that are led by Eileen in our hearts and never ever forget the beauty of the glow they gave us .
Every time I climb onto my ride I know that she will be with me. I ask those of you who knew her best "could I have a better partner on the back of my bike ? ".....I think not.
God bless you and may we always remember those who gave so much.
Peace be yours
Jeff Abreu
Eddie Greenstein
September 18, 2002
My name is eddie I am Eileen's youngest brother and i just wanted to thank everyone for keeping Eileen's memory alive God Bless YOU ALL
Mary A. Hartmann
September 9, 2002
Eileen, you will be greatly missed. I worked with Eileen in the Aviation Dept and if it wasn't for her help, support, and kindness I don't think that I would have stayed. Eileen sat two desk behind me and we would always talk in the morning and through the day. When I first heard that the plane came into tower 2 and that she was missing, I was very upset and hoped that she would turn up and be alright but that didn't happen and I will greatly miss her. She was one great person. Eileen, is now with the angels and will watch over her family. You will be missed.
Robert, Nancy, Dustin and Laura Sutton
September 9, 2002
In memory of Eileen Marsha Greenstein
We did not know Eileen, but my husband is the brother of Cam Sutton who works for Aon. I came across this on the internet and wanted to express our deepest sympathy. I have thought of all the lives lost that day and especially of the ones from my brother-in-laws company. It still hurts deeply. Our deepest deepest sympathy to the family.
Nancy Sutton
Nancy Otero
May 20, 2002
May God bless you and keep you in his care. May your spirit live in the hearts of those whose lives you've touched so dearly. Your disappearance has brought your brother Eddie and I together again as friends we once were, almost 25 years ago. It's strange how tragedy can bring people together again. Eddie misses you and is trying to keep strong. May we never forget a beautiful person and never forget September 11, 2001.
Angie Campbell
April 30, 2002
May God Bless you and watch over the ones that you left behind. Including the furry kind. Rest in his loving peace..........
carol duarte
March 10, 2002
Greenie, that this horrific thing happened and I knew you were lost too I'm sorry for the past and I hope where ever you are there is peace, and you know I have a cat named Gabbi too
Margaret Moynihan
February 3, 2002
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change...courage to change the things I can and...wisdom to know the difference.
It's a shame we lost touch but I'll never forget all the wonderful years growing up next door to each other.
January 28, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS
WONDERFUL WOMAN EILEEN MARSHA GREENSTEIN AND MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..AMEN
Stacy Watkins
January 17, 2002
I knew Eileen when I worked at AON back in 1993. She was such a very kind and considerate woman. I was shocked, hurt and saddened to hear she was missing. Rest in Peace, Eileen. And my prayers go out to her family. Stay strong.
Missy Feigelson
January 11, 2002
Eileen, I still wear the charm that you gave to me as a gift on my 13th birthday. You are always with me and we'll never forget.
Elizabeth Galindo
January 8, 2002
I remember "Greeny" growing up in Queens, NYC.
My heart is heavy with the thought of all who were lost...they will never be forgotten.
Brandy and Gabby
The Arends Family
January 1, 2002
You will be remembered in our family for a long time. Gabby and Brandy are safely with us and are getting all the love they could possibly need. They are adjusting fine but are still a little shy. Adopting the girls was without hesitation and with love.
Teresa Jahn
December 30, 2001
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Rachael Metcalf
December 19, 2001
I was given a Mercy Band for Christmas bearing the name of Eileen M Greenstein WTC. My thoughts and prayers go out to her and her loved ones. I will never forget this name, of a stranger, who died so tragically on 9/11/01. The rest of my life I will "Bear Another's Name Daily" and that name is Eileen M Greenstein, a woman I wish I could have meet.
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