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Todd Pitman and Gary Gerst had a friendship that began when they were 4-year-olds growing up in Skaneateles, N.Y., and stayed strong — even when Mr. Pitman skipped a grade, went away to boarding school and college, and finally moved to Manhattan, where he worked as an options trader at Cantor Fitzgerald. "When he got home in the summer, we always hung out," said Mr. Gerst, a middle-school English teacher and soccer coach in their hometown.
About the same height and build, they eventually began to think of themselves as family. Mr. Pitman, 30, was a favorite of all the Gersts, and paid special attention to his friend's sister, who is autistic and mentally retarded. Mr. Pitman had a special whistling sound he used to make her laugh.
He lived in the East Village but was building a lake house in Skaneateles, said his sister, Erica. Last year, Mr. Gerst invited Mr. Pitman to be best man at his wedding. The ceremony took place earlier this summer; Mr. Pitman's father stood in his son's place.
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Kelly Ferris
September 13, 2024
I was in school with Todd, Gary, and Erica...I do remember Todd well, and even as a kid, he was kind and funny. He made me laugh so hard once that milk came out of my nose! A lot of us had a pretty solid crush on him. He was a great guy.
Eileen Phillips
September 11, 2024
Todd
You and your friend and my son, Eddie Aguilar, are looking down on us from heaven. Eddie introduced me to you in Tokyo some 25 years ago. You drove us to a great restaurant in your open Jeep. You were so kind, generous and thoughtful. I always remember you on this Patriot Day.
Blessings,
Eileen
Ashlee Todd
September 8, 2024
Hi Chris! Every year I find someone to learn about on the anniversary of 9/11. This year it was you. I hope you're looking down on your family. You are not forgotten.
Alex lai
December 19, 2019
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Christina Francis
September 11, 2019
Thinking of you today, like so many other days...
Christina Francis
September 11, 2018
Thinking of you today and everyday...
S..J. Friscia III
September 29, 2017
In Memory with
Honor & Respect.
Bryn Meredith-Foster
September 12, 2016
Thats a quick 15 years but you'll never be forgotten. I'll have a gold slinger for you and all the other guys Xx
Christina Francis
September 11, 2016
15 years - you are still missed. Not a day goes by where I do not think of you...
Christina Francis
September 11, 2014
13 years ago today - not a day goes by that I do not think of you.
Melissa Wilson
September 11, 2014
13 years today... Thoughts of you still bring a smile to my face... Miss you my little bro xx
Greg Harden
September 11, 2013
Thinking of you on this day. My thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
Christina Francis
September 11, 2013
I find it hard to believe that it has been twelve years. You are still dearly missed my delta queen.
Ricky Fulps
September 11, 2012
Thinking of the Pitman family today, and many time throughout the year, Bless you all
The Fulps Family
Christina Francis
September 11, 2012
11 years today. You are dearly missed and continue to inspire so many of us.
bryn meredith-foster
October 27, 2011
hey i just found this page after 10 years ! Remembering those times in mr stamps in tokyo , Gold slingers in new york !!
Never forgot you buddy.
Jared Sprole
September 11, 2011
Thinking of you Todd as many other Hotchkiss friends are today.
Charles Pitman
September 11, 2011
Good Speed. May your spirit Rest in Peace knowing that you are a HERO here in our hearts and minds. Your will always be missed.
Christina Francis
September 11, 2011
It is so hard to believe that it has been 10 years today since you were taken from us. Please know you are dearly missed and continue to be an inspiration every day.
Dotsy Malone
September 8, 2011
Rest in peace knowing your are not forgotten
Christina Francis
August 24, 2011
Happy Birthday Teddy! I hope that no matter where you are, you are enjoying your special day...
Christina Francis
September 11, 2010
Todd, it is hard to believe it has been 9 years today. I think about you every day. Please know that you are dearly missed.
Lynn (Talerico) Benko and family
September 11, 2010
Thinking of you Todd, Erica and Eric. You will never be forgotten.
Lisi
September 10, 2010
Nine years tomorrow. Thoughts are with you and your family as always on this day.
Christina Francis
September 11, 2009
Teddy, it is hard to believe that it has been 8 years today. Not a day goes by that I do not think of you. In my heart you will always be my delta queen.
Lisi
September 10, 2009
Eight years tomorrow Todd. I still think of you often. Went back to Hotchkiss this June and its as though it was yesterday we were there together. Fondness always.
Bob Slivinski
July 26, 2009
Thoughts of you my friend came again today. Almost 8 years later and we only worked together for a couple of months.. Your memory lives on..
James Aldrich
September 11, 2008
You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
Christina Francis
September 11, 2007
It is 6 years today. Please know that you are not forgotten and so many of us think of you everyday. I am playing Van Morrison in your honor - always think Bahamas. I hope you have found peace wherever you are Teddy.
Doug Abraham
August 24, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
P Tabbernor
February 2, 2007
In memory....
Kristine
January 4, 2007
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Me Representing Italy and America...9-11-01 is never forgeted....~in loving memory Todd Pitman~
Danielle Rofrano
September 13, 2006
Todd---> i know you don't know me. as my assignment in class i had to choose someone from an article that read the sept. 11th tradgedy memorials to the deaths. i seen your name and wrote it down and carried it in my binder so everyone can see your memory is still alive. i would like to know more about your life. i'm so sorry to all of the people who miss you. You are missed So much by your relatives and friends. The lord be with you.
Bennett Dixon
September 11, 2006
Todd - I think of you often, but especially today. Five years later, it's no easier to believe or accept the fact that you're gone. You live on in all our memories.
Kristi Howard
September 11, 2006
Five years ago today. You're missed.
Christina Francis
September 11, 2006
Teddy,
It has been 5 years yet not a day goes by that I do not think of you. The picture of us in the Bahamas still sits on my desk and our time together still occupies my heart. You would be happy to know that I finally got our mastiff and have started a rescue organization to help save special needs puppies - it makes me think of us and Blue. Oh, and I still play our "what if" game...
I hope you are in a better place surrounded by those that you love - you will always be my Delta Queen (ok - runner up :))
Christina
Gillan Hawkes
July 21, 2005
Todd,
I am just sitting here at my desk today after hearing that for the 2nd time in 2 weeks there have been terrorist bombs on the tube in London. Then a song that always reminds me of you started playing on my mp3 player, and I started to cry. I think of you often -- at odd times. You would have been one of the people I would have emailed today at home to let them know that I am fine -- was not on the tube thank God. Also, I know your b-day is coming up in a few weeks, as is mine, and I wanted to say Happy B-day! Don't worry, I am still 18 days older! Know what we miss you tons down here -- take care
Love Gillan
Mimi
October 16, 2004
I have a very different memory of Todd. When he was a very young child, I was one of his YMCA "Kindercamp" counselors. He was one of my favorite campers. I just couldn't believe I was in the midst of this incredibly beautiful child!! He had jet black hair, mesmerizing eyes and a sweet smile. I also baby sat Todd and Tippi on occasion. Based on what I've read, he grew to be a very humane and loving young man. I'm glad to have had the opportunity to share my memories of this precious individual.
Melissa Dale
September 10, 2003
Todd,
It's the eve September 11 2003... and I just wanted to let you know how much you are missed.
I often look through photos of our times together in Tokyo & in Oz and they always bring a smile to my face. Five years of memories that will live on forever.
You will always hold such a special place in my heart.
My thoughts are with Tippy,Eric & all your family & friends tomorrow and always.
xox Mel
Bennett Pitman
September 8, 2003
Todd,
As the second anniversary of that horrible day approaches, I just wanted to check in and tell you that you are so very missed. Chris and I had a very good laugh the other day regarding an inside joke you and he shared....it made me cry for a half-hour afterward, of course, but it also made me smile. You were the best of bunch, Todd.
xoxo
Tanya (Posecznick) Davis
September 8, 2003
Nearly two years later we all weep for that horrible morning. Odd how we all remember little things that were different about Todd. My memories were of a quiet jr.high soccer player. Now when your class mates get together we share pictures of you from childhood. I am sure that your family and "Buddha" struggle daily to find strength to make it through each day. We all miss you and pray for your loved ones. God in His infinite wisdom knows why this happened, and we are left to endure. You were a true Laker. An entire village remembers you, and classmates across the country feel a tremendous loss.
Kasi
September 13, 2002
I am very proud to be labeled an "American" and people like this I am proud to call my brother. Not my brother technically, yet we all understand why he died and we know that it wasn't in vain. We will never forget anyone who parished that day!
Tina & Timothy Ryan
September 12, 2002
Simply the SWEETEST kid. The quiet type yet charmingly cool. Todd was so comfortable with himself and being himself.
We got to know Todd over the years whilst in Tokyo back in the mid 90's. We shared the "American (Beach) House" for a few summers.
You will be sadly missed by many at home, in New York, no doubt, but also by many here in Tokyo.
You remain always in our hearts and prayers. May God bless you.
kris hudgins
September 12, 2002
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Pitman family. I also grew up in the small little town where Todd lived and he was always a very carefree individual and full of spirit. God Bless! Peace be with all of you!
Gabriel Rojas
September 11, 2002
Todd was a wonderful friend when we were young children. We had great times together swimming, playing hockey and just being kids in our small town upstate. Although we grew in different directions the older we became there is always part of Todd that lives within me. Our final moments together here in NY were shared after running into each on the upper west side and having a "catching up" conversation.
Todd, you will be missed dearly. Thank you for adding a wonderful page of memories in my life. Your memory lives inside me forever. Blessings to your family wherever they may be.
Gabe
Allison Quick
September 11, 2002
My thoughts are with you today... I placed a flag on the quad of Pitt's campus this morning in your memory. God bless you, Todd. You are dearly missed by your family and friends.
Bennett Pitman
August 26, 2002
Happy Birthday, Todd!
I know I'm 2 days late...nothing new about that! I just wanted you to know that we miss and love you more than ever. It still seems so unreal to me that you are gone. I hope that wherever you are you know that we all think about you all the time and wish you were here with us. August 24th was tough without you.
xoxo
B.
Bennett Pitman
July 15, 2002
Todd,
I can still hear your laugh and see your smile. I walk by Ground Zero every day on my way to and from work. I talk to you the whole time - checking in, so to speak. It hasn't gotten any easier and I'm not sure that it ever will. I am trying to take comfort in the knowledge that you are in a better place and you are hanging out with a bunch of friends. I just know how terribly Tip and Gary and your dad miss you - how much we all miss you and wish you were here with us. I have alot of things to say to you that I never got around to saying before that disgusting September morning. I hope that you hear me talking to you every day. I hope you are still laughing and smiling and are having lots of Jack-n-Cokes up there. Say hello to Sean Schielke for me - he'll know who I am! We miss and love you so much, Todd!
xoxo Love,
Boodsie
Angie Campbell
May 9, 2002
May God Bless you and watch over your forever more. Rest in his loving peace forever more.
March 25, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN..CHRISTOPHER TODD PITMAN AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE..PRAY..AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK FOREVER..MAY JESUS AND ST.CHRISTOPHER GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Kay Escobar
March 18, 2002
I am only one of so very, very many of Americans who cry, grieve, and hurt due to the loss of this man and all the others who are gone forever but yet will live always as heroes of our time and of our American Way of Life.
Todd is just one but yet Todd is so very precious and vital in the whole of what happened that day.
There is nothing I can write that will explain my thoughts or stop my tears.
I write only like so many others will after me, just to put something somewhere, so someone will know I hurt and Im sorry that Todd was taken and all the others.
I love you Todd. We are truly one even if it is after the fact.
I am a 40 year old American Woman and this year for the first time I have realized how very important being and living in America really is.
Todd's death is not in vain, nor is the death of any.
None were unimportant or insignifigant. Every life that was lost is precious and will always hold a power of it's very own.
The Tower's and the horrible day of Sept. 11th will be a mememorial for them always.
For me I will always remember, "It was the day I realized how very important it is to honor our country and to be grateful for the freedom that we have and the freedom that I have taken for granted.
Nothing can express my grief and mine is so small in comparison to you his family and friends.
I am so very sorry for his loss and I can only imagine your pain, however as an American I can say I feel the loss of life from that day.
For whatever it is worth to you, I am a human being that was touched by Todd's life and death and am forever changed.
Thank you for him and for sharing him with us.
Kay Escobar
Gary Gerst
January 10, 2002
Never Say Goodbye
I t has been ten days since you were so unfairly taken away,
The knots wrenched in my stomach will not fade,
My heart has never felt this way,
But I will pull through,
Because I know that is what you would want us all to do.
Your contagious smile coupled with your patented laugh,
Will be etched in our minds and will never fade away.
We will all hold tight to all of our precious memories of you,
Because someday our tears will subside and smiles will begin.
Your heart has infected so many peoples lives,
Which makes us all realize that your spirit will always be kept alive,
We can all rest easier because you are in a better place.
And I can say to you my dear friend,
I will never say good-bye because I know we will someday meet again.
TODD YOU WERE MY BROTHER AND I WANT YOU TO YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY BEST MAN.
MANY TODAY ARE SAYING GOD BLESS AMERICA,
TODAY I SAY GOD BLESS TODD PITMAN.
Memorial Service September 23, 2001
Christina Francis
January 9, 2002
I was fortunate enough to have Todd a part of my life. He was one of the finest and kindest men I have ever had the honor of knowing. Knowing he is gone leaves and unbelievable emptiness.
James Aldrich
January 3, 2002
My sincerest condolences to the Pitman family. I grew up with Todd, playing baseball and basketball with him when we were kids. I lost touch with Todd over the years but, never forgot our childhood. He will be missed dearly yet live on in our memories forever. Peace be with you Todd.
Tim Steenstrup
December 26, 2001
My deepest support for the Pitman family. I knew Todd from the days when he was living in Tokyo. We both worked together at Cantor, though on different desks. I can't say I knew him well, but he was a good guy, always open, ready to talk-life fully ahead of him. On several occasions we went out for drinks together with a group of people. He was easy going, a golf fan. We used to razz each other about who we had picked in the office golf pools. Todd, we will miss you.
Teresa Jahn
December 16, 2001
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
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