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Eugene Whelan Obituary
He was no saint!" said Eugene Whelan's mother, Joan, her laughter bubbling up. "Yeah, he could be a giant pain!" her husband, Alfred, added, chuckling about the ninth of their 10 children.
But examples eluded them.
While Firefighter Whelan, 31, undoubtedly jettisoned saint eligibility at some Rockaway pub or Grateful Dead concert — a captain called him "the king of fun" — he was still terrific. He kept extra winter jackets in his Jeep in case he spotted a shivering homeless person. He was a persistent serial hugger, spreading those burly embraces known as "Eugene hugs."
He was a Mr. Fix-it and human Velcro to kids. In Bedford-Stuyvesant, Brooklyn, the neighborhood served by Engine Company 230, children would arrive at the firehouse with broken bicycles for Firefighter Whelan to make whole.
During a school visit, he asked why one child was left in the bus. The child was paralyzed, a teacher replied. Mr. Whelan carried the child to the fire truck. "He understood what life was really about," said his father, "so we feel pretty good about him."
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Tracy Cayton
September 11, 2023
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September 23, 2022
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Jackie Stankus
September 11, 2019
I have prayed for you and your family every year since I found your name on the memorial. My we all always remember how brave you were that day. God bless your friend and family
Tracie Boyd
February 22, 2018
Bobby & Eugene
Tracie Boyd
February 22, 2018
He knew even then he would be a firefighter.....
Tracie Boyd
February 21, 2018
Rockaway Beach, NY 19 years old
Tracie Boyd
February 21, 2018
Michele Smith
September 13, 2016
Laura Davis
September 12, 2016
Eugene's family and friends,
I've been thinking of Eugene this weekend as I remember the tragedies and heroes proved fifteen years ago. I met him at a family gathering during the time he lived on the west coast. I sensed he was a good man, but didn't realize I was meeting a hero. How proud you must be and how you must miss him. Much gratitude for the duty he preformed and the example he left. Condolences to you who loved him and have been missing his presence the past years
December 17, 2014
Merry Christmas ;)
Jackie Stankus
September 11, 2014
I have taken your name form the place you saw God for the first time took it home and have prayed for you and your family. I read about you and what you did for others and only hope my three sons are like you. My God wipe the tears form your family and friends eyes and smile with the love they have for you. You are remembered. Thank you so much for who you were and what you represent.
Kathy Brown
September 10, 2014
I am not a Whelan, but my cousin Rose is, and I have felt your family's loss. I will remember you every day, not just tomorrow, as I do my brother, Kevin Bracken, and another family member, Patrick Brown. Ten kids or one kid, the pain of losing a child is horrific. I hope your family has some peace.
Tracie Boyd
September 10, 2014
Not Fade Away
George Pickett
December 9, 2013
Eugene - god bless you brother firefighter. Marines say once a Marine always a Marine and the same is said about a firefighter. You were a young man when the terriorist took your life but you and the other 342 firefighters were doing all you could to save so many fellow citizens. Thank you Eugene and may god shed a special warm light on you. Rest in peace. George Pickett - Former Captain Ladder 18/Engine 17 FDNY
Tracina Navarro
November 25, 2013
Eugene, my girls and I honored 9/11 again this year and I always try to do it thru service. This year 9/11 was an especially hot day so part of what we did was decorate our van and drive around our town with popsicles and ice cold water. My little Mariana (6) was more than happy to hand them out and tell people it was in honor of you and the others lost on 9/11. People were so grateful and loved her willingness honor people she never met. It was a great experience for us all. Anyways, you have touched the lives of so many, but I want to thank you for the lives you touched in our family. I hope you still watch over them. I pray you do. You are so missed!
November 22, 2013
missing you
September 23, 2013
Cousin by Marriage Memory for Life
September 13, 2013
Always thinking of you, you mean so much to Our Family. As Conner noted here, you will NEVER FADE AWAY..I enjoy taking your pics and releasing you from hot air balllons, Fallen Hero Memorials where you are honored by members of Service and our latest trip this week with 800,000 bikes to DC where a stranger rode on with you to Shanksville..here is his message,
Arrived at my stopping point for the night in Fairfax Virginia. I met Michele Smith and her husband at our staging point in Columbus. Health prevented them from making the entire trip. As we were preparing to leave Fink's, she asked if I could take this picture with me to the 9/11 memorial.
The picture is of her cousin, Eugene Whelan. He, along with his lieutenant and 4 other fire fighters of Engine 230 gave their lives doing what they do that horrific day. No trace of him was ever recovered.
Yes. I absolutely will get the picture to the memorial for you. It is the least I can do....Michele Smith , Eugene made it to the pentagon memorial today. I had a picture taken of me holding it. I can't load it now due to connection issues. A member of our armed forces (I wasn't sure what branch at the time, and you will understand in a bit) in dress blues saw the picture and asked me about it. I told him about Eugene , and how he along with his lieutenant and four other fire fighters of engine 230 gave their lives that horrific day doing what they do. He then told me "I am a fireman. This really means a lot to me. Don't ever let this die." Then he shook my hand. I have never had someone in dress blues (Including white gloves) shake my hand. It was to say the least an overall very moving experience.
I did not think it appropriate to leave Eugene's picture there, as I felt it would have ended up being thrown away by someone that really didn't care. Any time that I am in Knox county (and that is about every other week) I can bring Eugene back to you, his family. Then he can continue his travels as you see fit. I feel honored to have been part of this.
Tracie Stewart Boyd
September 12, 2013
Went out to dinner last night. He is almost 21 now. We shared some funny memories.....we miss you. We think of you and your siblings, your parents.....all your family and friends and how much we wish you were still here with us....we miss your laugh, your jokes.....your accent.....your kindness......you were such a good friend to so many. See you in heaven!!!!!
Rachel Edwards
September 12, 2013
<3
Jackie Stankus
September 11, 2013
At mass and when I said the rosary today I remembered you and all who were loss or effected by the loss of so many that day. I hope to meet you one day at gates of heaven. God Bless your family and know that you are with him now.
Jackie Stankus who visited the memorial and chose your name to take home with me.
P Whelan
September 11, 2013
We are thinking of you.
Connor Whelan
September 10, 2013
Rest in peace, my cousin.
Your life was an affirmation to the American sprit and your smile still shines through all of our hearts!!
Rest in peace..
Connor Whelan
September 10, 2013
Hey Eugene. Its me again. It's been 12 years since you were gone. I will always remember what a heroic man you were as a firefighter and what a great cousin you've been. Thank you so much for showing me what it means to be a true American. You are in our thought and prayers. Your love will not fade away.
By the way, I saw Further this summer. Your body was gone, but your spirit was still there!
Jo
August 16, 2013
I know you're in peace
Connor Whelan
September 11, 2012
Hey Euge, its me, your cousin Connor. Its been 11 years since you left us and life is not the same without you. But you are not forgotten. You are always in our thoughts and in our prayers. Not fade away!
Christi Bragg
September 11, 2012
Wow, so hard to believe 11 years have gone by and your presence is still so strong in our lives. Anthony and Chris will always know and remember what a hero and amazing gift their "uncle Genie" was. This picture here is exactly the way we all remember you, always smiling, laughing and living life to the fullest. I have comfort knowing you are still watching over all of us and keeping us close within your wings.
Thinking of you always, we miss and love you Eugene.
Michele Smith
September 11, 2012
Thinking of you and your family today, you made the ultimate sacrafice that will NEVER be forgotten!
Tracina Navarro
September 6, 2012
Thinking of you and your family today. From the looks of the pictures posted and the comments made, you are still leaving your mark on this crazy world of ours! They are living in your memory with the honor you deserve! So beautiful to see the respect that they have for your life. You really do live on! How inspiring!
Allan Williams
July 28, 2012
Mr. Whelan - I was very humbled by your kindness and generosity, and your wisdom when we met a long time ago, and then later in the elevator when I had Chinese officials with me. Sir - you remain a true Canadian, a gentleman who is ever remembered with great admiration and respect.
Trisha (Whelan)Powers
April 16, 2012
Thinking about you today, just got a chance to chat with Bobby on FB and he was telling me his friends check him in, in crazy places. And I said it sounds like something funny you would have done! Everyone misses you like crazy. It makes me so happy to think about you, even though it brings tears to my eyes. I tell my husband how much fun our family parties used to be. I could write forever on the funny things I used to see you guys do! Hopefully soon the family can come back together to make new memories for us,and the youngest generation!
2011
December 10, 2011
ground zero 2011
December 10, 2011
Tracie Boyd
December 10, 2011
Happy Holidays to your friends and family all over the world. We miss you.
Rockaway Beach 2011 Swim for Eugene - Happy Birthday
December 10, 2011
Michael Whelan - run
December 10, 2011
November 25, 2011
I never met you but I was at the your grave this week and prayed for you and your family and all who were lost but will never be forgotten. May God bless your family and friends with the grace of forgiveness and hope for peace. I remembered your name from my visit and will pray often for you and your loved ones.
Jackie S. Eastlake,Ohio
Connor Whelan
October 8, 2011
Hey Eugene,
This is your cousin Connor writing you this message. I just want to let you know how much I am grateful for everything you did for the family. Every visit you made to see us made it the perfect day. I even remember when we sat next to each other at the bon-fire upstate. You had a meaning for this family. Your death by running into the twin towers while the others ran out might not have been necessary to us, since we needed you around, but when you heard the all-hands response while off duty, you did what was right. You just put on you mask, ran out of Rockaway Beach, hopped into the firetruck, and headed on over to the towers. You were willing to go in there to save the lives of thousands of people, but sadly, it led to your death, but it was a happy death, in which God favores so, as to be a sacrifice for this country. Nobody will ever forget what a heroic man you were as a firefighter. You were so brave that no emotion was able to get in your way. Your death set the shining example of the sacrifiece that not every man could make, but that it could be made by someone who so loves his country and puts himself into service for it, and that someone is you.
God is definately grateful to have given you life on this earth, and to have it preserved well till the end. You truly fought a good fight till the end. The family has overcome the sadness and grieve that overtook them since 9/11. There was never such greater in which you gave your life for your brothers, Chris, Bobby, John, and all the others. You are gone but not forgotten. We will keep your memories alive in us. Your love will not fade away!
An Irish blessing:
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm on your face. May the rain fall soft upon your field.
And until we meet again, may God forever hold you in the palm of his hand.
Phillip Demick
September 11, 2011
Some, of the happiest memories, in my life are family picnics, with you. Thank's for being you, Eugene. God bless & keep you 'til we meet, again.
Barbara Hunt
September 11, 2011
To honor and remember a fallen hero. Never forgotten.
Barbara and Carl Hunt
Denise Demick Case
September 11, 2011
Thinking of you and your family..
September 11, 2011
Dear Eugene,
Although our paths crossed just a few times, you are remembered.
Thank you for the ultimate sacrifice.
Chris and Peggy Whelan
March 31, 2011
We miss you.
Chris Whelan
March 31, 2011
Thinking of you.
Tracina Navarro
September 11, 2010
OK Eugene, I decorated the van! People over here will know your name, that's for sure! LOL! It is plastered all over my van with pictures of you and other hero's and victims of 9/11 along with EACH AND EVERY NAME. I like having people come up to me and shake my hand, thanking me, in your honor, for remembering. I feel like it's "something" I CAN do to keep the memories alive of the almost 3000 souls lost. The girls and I also had tshirts made up. The ones from your family are quite worn out and ready to be retired!
I am thinking of those who knew you best today and those who miss you most. I pray that they will find peace and forgivenss. I can't imagine how much it hurts for them sometimes. I wonder if you've been able to help them thru somehow...At this point I can only hope that they know they will see you again someday. I will pray for them tonight....Love Tracina
PS I did take pictures, I'll get them up soon!
September 11, 2010
We remember! We miss you!
Tracina Navarro
September 10, 2010
I'm preparing my van again Eugene. I think it's important that people all the way over here on the west coast remember too. If they don't, well, I'll help them a bit I hope! I'm doing it not as much for you, because I know where you are...I know your OK. It is for your family, your loved ones, the families and friends of 9/11 victims and the WORLD who have lost our precious heros. See you sooner or later!
Mary Whelan
March 15, 2010
Today the boys were in the yard having a handstand contest and they were both terrible at it. Tom and I both commented how lucky they would be to have you here to teach them how. Just another example of us missing you, every single day........
9-11-2009
September 18, 2009
We remember
Never forget
September 18, 2009
My sister Tracina's van. She does this ever year.
Tracie Boyd
September 18, 2009
Tracie Boyd
September 11, 2009
Time does not change how we are all affected by the loss of you. I have come to realize that you will always be missed. It will never be the same and it will never be acceptable. Time does not heal that, it just allows us to learn how to live with the loss of you and to focus on the good times we shared.
Cinde Cormier
September 11, 2009
The world needs more people like you!
You are truly missed!
Tracie Boyd
August 21, 2009
I've seen fire and I've seen rain. I've sunny days that I thought would never end. I've seen lonely times when I could not find a friend but I always thought that I'd see you again....
Tracina Navarro
May 14, 2009
Eugene, we are just past Mothers Day and I am thinking of your mom. I hope she is still able to feel your love thru those who loved you and the memories of you. As I scroll through the entries it's nice to see so many still reaching out with thoughts of, and for you. Times like this it feels good to see peoples soft side. So look, you are still touching peoples lives...what a gift you've been. In life and in death.
Kevin Whelan Age 8
May 2, 2009
THE KING OF FUN!
Eugene Whelan son of Joan
In Heaven he sits in a throne,
We love him, we miss him
Just like our own.
God bless his soul.
I love my uncle and miss him very much.
Liam Whelan
May 2, 2009
My uncle died in the Twin Towers on September 11, 2001. I want to thank him for saving as many people as he could. Though I never knew him that much because I was only 2 he was an awesome uncle. He was my Dad's brother so I feel bad for him. He was an awesome uncle and I will always miss him.
Bob Whelan
April 20, 2009
We never met but your story touched my life. We share the same last name; both drove a white Jeep and other things. I worked as a Structural Specialist for an Urban Search and Rescue Unit motivated by you. In your honor I wanted to keep your work alive and every winter have gathered coats to give to the homeless like you did. A small thing but, I thought it was something I could do.
Tracie Boyd
September 11, 2008
It doesn't seem possible that I have not seen or heard from you in 7 years. Sometimes I can talk about you without getting choked up....sometimes out of no where...tears fill my eyes. Your sooo missed and sooo loved and time will never change that. Your alive and well in the hearts of your family and friends. I am so lucky to have known you. Not fade away. I love you, Tracie
Trisha
September 11, 2008
Hey Euge another year without you. It doesn't seem right, My son knows that your name is his middle name and he is so proud. Doesn't yet understand what happened. Love you, and miss you.
Tara Coyle
March 29, 2008
Thinking of you today and always.
I love you.
Tracie Boyd
September 12, 2007
Eug,
I carry you in my heart with me, every day always....I send love and prayers to your mother, your brothers and sisters, your friends in NY and all over the country as we honor you, think of you and miss your magnetic personality....This world was a better place with you in it...not the same without you. The statue here in Oregon has a permanent home now! Lot's of people here visited it yesterday and placed flowers and left tears. I think it is so cool that there are places all over this country that have memorialized you and those lost on September 11th. I am grateful for our time together. I wish my children and my husband would have known you. xoxox Trace
Denise Bradish
September 11, 2007
Dear Chris and Family.
You are in our thoughts and in our prayers. May God Bless you all and keep you strong today and always.
Denise and Steve Bradish
Mary Whelan
September 11, 2007
As I sit here today, in many ways I find it hard to believe that 6 years have passed since you were taken from us. On one hand, it is easy to see how time has passed and life has gone on, especially when I look at all the kids (your nieces and nephews) and how much they have grown. On the other hand, I can still see you and hear you, and the sadness I feel at your loss and its effect on all of us has not diminished one iota in 6 years. I hear people talk about how 9/11 changed their lives and I know how they feel. I truly do view my life now in terms of before September 11 and since September 11. I know that for this family, none of us will ever really be the same. As a unit, we are strong, as always. Individually , we all have our own thoughts and demons to deal with. We were changed fundamentally that day. Yes, we have "moved on', and we have had many chances to celebrate over these years, but I know that not an hour passes for me, and probably all of us, without some thought of you. We miss you terribly not only today, but every day. We will never be the same, and we will never forget. Continue to watch over us, and help us to continue to try and remain positive as we face the anniversary of your death, and also as we face our lives without you. We will do our best here to make you proud of us and to live our lives the way you lived yours. You know our love will not fade away...........Mary
(Your oldest Niece) Bri Whelan
August 26, 2007
I was just thinking about you today, I Google’d your name to see what came up and I found this. It seems kind of silly to write in a guestbook online but it's nice to see that other people do the same. The 6 year anniversary of your death is fast approaching and it still feels the same as it did 6 years ago. The family hasn’t been the same since that day. You were the glue that held us together with your hugs, smile & contagious laughter. I have not kept in touch since grandpa’s funeral 2 years ago, sometimes I think it’s that way because it’s so sad. I guess that’s not a very good excuse though. Travis the other day started talking about a picnic we had at the old house, which I didn’t even think he could remember. He said “Remember when Uncle Eugene & the other uncles threw you in the pond? “ It made me cry, and then I remembered the pictures I had of you throwing me in, and you walking back up the hill laughing. That made smile. Travis inherited your personality to a T. He is SO much like you. Brody just keeps growing, I told mom to stop feeding him. :-) I start college tomorrow and I turn 21 in a month. It seems as though time is flying by, and the world keeps turning… but your memory doesn’t fade. I love you and miss you. Rest in Peace.
Elaine Whelan
May 8, 2007
We are the Whelans of Lederach, Pennsylvania. We first saw your name in the 9/11 heroes tribute at the National Liberty Museum in Philadelphia when my book "My Mom's Making History" was being introduced. We too have a Brianna, a Eugene and a Tara and are amazed how much you look like a younger version of the Whelan twins.
P Tabbernor
April 17, 2007
In remembrance....
USS NASSAU
Vince Farrell
February 23, 2007
Memorial dedicated to FDNY Brooklyn Firefighters on USS NASSAU
Vincent Farrell
February 23, 2007
Tara Manzella
December 31, 2006
Dear Eugene,
31st December 2006, Today i came across your guest book for the first time and feel compelled to write a note of thanks to you, your family and friends. Please let me tell you how i came to write this note. Today being New Years Eve started fairly normal, my children playing with their Christmas gifts (and fighting too!)my fiancee Nigel looking on the Internet at different web sites and myself doing the house hold chores (Ironing being my biggest pet hate!) both of us worrying over our future and what it has to hold. when Nigel brought down the computer and asked out of the blue if i had ever blogged my own name? No came my reply and off we searched! Typing in Tara Manzella - up came your site, we both stopped in our tracks and read the messages left for you. I'm a big believer in things happening for a reason and feel that we we meant to come across your guest book today of all days so that we can take stock of the things we have and not the things we don't. to live every day to the full as you did and cherish those around us. I will go into 2007 and remember this day and your site.
THANKYOU.
Tara Manzella
Rugby,Warwickshire,UK.
Patricia Whelan
September 23, 2006
Eugene,
I can't believe it has been 5 years. I miss your smile and your bright blue "Whelan" eyes. Shortly after your memorial service I found out I was pregnant. I swore if he came out with blonde hair I would name him after you. But of course in the ball busting Whelan tradition he came out with black hair. LOL So I named him Keegan and his middle name is Eugene. I always tell him about how much his name means to the family. And show him your pictures that I have. I try to tell him the funny stories but he is 4 so obviously he doesn't get them yet. I miss you and please take care of Great Grandma Rita and your Dad up there.. I love and miss you all. The family just isn't the same without you. Hopefully we can regroup and start to have more family parties, so that my son will know the family bond we all have. Miss you, love you.
Your cousin
Trisha
Joe Biondi
September 12, 2006
Eugene and I met at the Union County Technical School in September 1992. He quickly became a close friend of mine and others in our class.
One night we got together so we could study for our final exams. We didn't study much, but we sure did drink a lot.
If you weren't careful, he would grab you in one of his famous bear hugs. He was always someone that you could count on when needed.
On occasion, I will run into an old classmate and we will share a story about Eugene. He is missed by all of us who only knew him for that short period of time.
He told me that his dream was to become a firefighter in New York City. Not many people get to fulfill their dreams, but he did. I am sure that he served his community and family with strength, loyalty and love.
Take care my friend, see you again someday...
Tracina Navarro
September 11, 2006
Eugene,
The time I knew you was brief and the time it has taken me to write this is too long. You and Tracie helped my first and only trip to NYC be the experience of a lifetime! Your family was so amazing and welcoming, it is no wonder you became the man you did. Your language was a little hard for me to get used to… J but over time I grew to know that that was just you, and it took nothing away from the honorable man that you were. Sometimes I wonder if you truly know how you have touched us all? You are an inspiration of service and good deeds. Your lived your life in the spirit of serving your fellow man and I believe you were a tool in our Father’s hands that day. He used you to serve so many souls in need of comfort or a strong hand to guide their path. Eugene, I know you are in His favor this day, where you belong. I am still so sad that this happened. I’m still so sad that we have lost so many heroes, especially our very own. However, I am proud to have known you, and want you to know that I try to live my life better, serve more, and be a more integral part of my community in your honor. I have joined the Community Emergency Response Team in your honor and will serve my community whenever the need arises, and unfortunately, we know it will. I will be there for them as I wasn’t able to be there for you and NYC. Thank you for the man you were, hopefully God will make more just like you, we need them more than ever now. (Put in a good word will’ya. I’m sure you have some pull.)
All my Love and Gratitude,
Tracina Navarro
Susan Jackson
September 11, 2006
I learned about Eugene thru Tracie, his good friend from Portland. My brother, Jay ran for him in 2001 St George Marathon. Jay was having a difficult time during the race, but he wouldn't give up and Eugene was one of the reasons. Thanks, Eugene, for touching our lives.
Cathy Stewart
September 11, 2006
Eugene,
Not a day goes by that we don't think of you.
WE WILL NEVER FORGET you and your Brothers that went into hell that day. You saved lives.
God knows you were all scared....
but you went in.
Straight to heaven you all went.
Know greater love can a man show than to give his life for another.
Thank you FDNY......To the ones that were killed and to the ones that had to pick up the pieces.....
YOU MAKE US PROUD.....love to you and bless the Whelan fanily and friends.
Mary Stewart
September 10, 2006
I'm so glad I was able to meet Eugene and get to know him a little before he left this life. He was always so kind and helpful to others, no surprise he picked a job where he could keep doing what came natural to him. He will always have a special place in our hearts.
Rachel (Greenberg) Edwards
September 9, 2006
At a very impressionable 14 years old was when I met Eugene. He taught me about feeling free and at peace with myself as a self conscious teenaged girl. He introduced me to Jerry Garcia and the wonderful place that the Grateful Dead took me to. A place that I still go when I hear them. I cannot hear The Dead 21 years later without thinking of Eug. He was a very, very special part of my life. He frolicked through the joyful parts of life and taught me the same.
Karen Penland-Costello
April 6, 2006
Thinking of you and your family always! (Will never forget the days with Turtle & Hughes)
Tracie Boyd
January 18, 2006
Graduation Day
Tracie Boyd
January 18, 2006
Eugene & Tracie Graduation Day
Tracie Boyd
January 18, 2006
Eugene & Tracie 1996
Tracie Boyd
January 18, 2006
Breezy Point, NY Memorial
Tracie Boyd
October 20, 2005
Eugene's helmet in bronze, Portland Oregon 9-11-2005
Tracie Boyd
September 19, 2005
Veronica and Jay
September 11, 2005
We are praying for your family and remembering you fondly - especially today!
Firefighter Whelan with some local children
Tracie Boyd
September 7, 2005
Eugene and Tara, soulmates
Tracie Boyd
September 7, 2005
Eugene and Tara 2001
Tracie Boyd
September 7, 2005
Eugene and Tara 2001
Tracie Boyd
September 7, 2005
Eugene and Bobby, inseparable......
Tracie Boyd
September 7, 2005
Eugene and Tara 2001
Tracie Boyd
September 7, 2005
Eugene with friends in Portland, Oregon 1993
Tracie Boyd
September 7, 2005
Firefighter Eugene Michael Matthew Whelan
Tracie Boyd
September 7, 2005
Eugene Michael Matthew Whelan
John, Eugene and Chris Whelan, Graduation Day
Tracie Boyd
August 23, 2005
Street Named In Honor of Eugene, Rockaway Beach, New York
Tracie Boyd
August 23, 2005
Eugene's Bench, Long Beach New York
Tracie Boyd
August 22, 2005
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