Melanie Elaine Oakman

Melanie Elaine Oakman obituary, Charleston, SC

Melanie Elaine Oakman

Melanie Oakman Obituary

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Melanie Elaine Oakman, 56, of Charleston, SC, passed away peacefully on the morning of October 16th, 2014, after a long illness. Family and friends are invited to attend her Funeral Service at 10:45 a.m. on Thursday, October 23, 2014 at the J. Henry Stuhr, Inc. Downtown Chapel, 232 Calhoun Street. The family will greet friends at the funeral home from 10:00 a.m. until the time of the service. Born June 28, 1958, Melanie graduated from Fort Johnson High School, attended the College of Charleston and worked for the Medical University of South Carolina. She was also a Realtor who managed the family-owned Oakman Properties. Melanie was a skilled boatswoman, a sport, an excellent cook, and a Charleston character, whose adventures were portrayed in Blanche Boyd's collection of essays entitled The Redneck Way of Knowledge: Down-Home Tales. She loved animals, open water and her native Charleston. She is survived by friends; two aunts, Jennie Sheppard and Vivian Wallin, both of Asheville, NC and an uncle, Roy Cook of Kernersville, NC; her "nanny for life," Anna Washington and numerous cousins, including Grace Lee Quillian and June Oakman Thomas. She was predeceased by her parents, Clarence Oakman, Jr. and Theda Oakman and her grandmother, Carrie Lee Oakman. Her family thanks Grace Lee Quillian, Daniel Ravenel and Anna Washington for their ceaseless succor, support and love through the years. Also the caregivers, doctors, nurses and staff at Heartland of West Ashley, Roper / St. Francis Hospital, and Hospice of Charleston. Memorials may be made to Pet Helpers,1447 Folly Road, Charleston, SC 29412 or the Charleston Animal Society, 2455 Remount Road, North Charleston, SC 29407.

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October 11, 2021

Blanche Boyd posted to the memorial.

October 11, 2020

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October 26, 2014

David Jones posted to the memorial.

Blanche Boyd

October 11, 2021

You still break my heart.

sandra schmid

October 11, 2020

We went to Citadel Square together, around seventh grade. You were tall, blonde, blue eyed, and athletic. Seems you got the basketball in the hoop every time.
We'd spend the night at your grandmother's house in downtown Charleston, exploring all the old rooms.
I never met your horse but to me, you were free and lovely as one.

David Jones

October 26, 2014

Had some good times through high school, and on James Island growing up around Mel. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family....

sandra young schmid

October 23, 2014

In high school, we tried to boil some live crabs but felt sorry for them so carried them back in a bucket to the sea.
You were that kind of person. I miss you.

Nancy Lynch Powell

October 23, 2014

RIP Melanie. I know you are in a better place.

Alfred Ray

October 23, 2014

So sad that you are gone, Melanie. You were a good friend to me all those years ago. Condolences to family and friends!

Donna Davis

October 22, 2014

First Baptist memories of Melanie. We shared some good times. May she Rest in Peace.
Thoughts and Prayers to her family!!!

Steve Small

October 22, 2014

Its an almost defeating challenge to keep up with someone who lives and loves life as much as Miss Oakman did.

M Elaine Proctor

October 22, 2014

Sending prayers and deepest sympathy.

Barbara Edmondson

October 21, 2014

Thank you, for all of those years of wonderful memories riding together at Suprise Acre's. May you ride like the wind!

Claudia Hawkins

October 20, 2014

You were a great friend and gave me two of the sweetest kittens ever! I will happily donate to the animal shelter in your memory. RIP, Dadness!

October 20, 2014

I'll never forget you, Bunny. It was a wild ride for which I've always been grateful.
With love in my heart always,
Nancy

Randolph Martz

October 20, 2014

I have Melany stories too. And a few fine quotes to go with them. I guess that we all do. I wouldn't lose one of them for the world

Penelope Sloan

October 19, 2014

Okay, Mel. I'm driving down for your crossing-over, some ash-scattering, and some story-telling (most of which will be true!).
-Sloan

Robert Maguire

October 19, 2014

Dear Family & Friends of Melanie:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Melanie was a dear friend who we have missed for a long, long time. My son Ashley, who died in December of 2007, and I visited Mel when she was first admitted to the hospital but were never able to tell her good by but both Ashley & I cried that day as I did Saturday when reading the paper.
Robert Maguire

Brian Horne

October 18, 2014

Mel....my dear old friend

jeff jones

October 17, 2014

I remember Melanie from my days at Ft.Johnson HS. She was a lot of fun to be around.

Blanche Boyd

October 17, 2014

I loved Melanie very much and am sad to hear of her passing. She was an extraordinary person who taught me a great deal about life. My sympathy to all who cared about her.

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