Ronald J. St. Onge

Ronald J. St. Onge obituary, Stuart, FL

Ronald J. St. Onge

Ronald Onge Obituary

Published by Lawrence Funeral Home - Darien on Jun. 6, 2017.
Ronald J. St. Onge, who rose to lead one of Connecticut's top technology law firms, died on June 6, 2017, at his home in Stuart, Florida. He was 86. His parents moved to Stuart in 1924 but fled within a few years as Florida's real estate market crashed and the Great Depression gripped the nation. Ron was born Oct. 6, 1930, in Kingsport, Tennessee, where his father Albert found work en route north. After the untimely death of his mother Violet (Franzene) St. Onge in 1936, Ron was raised in Kingsford, Michigan, by his father's sister Anna Goffinet and her husband John. He attended Kingsford High School where he played baseball and edited the school newspaper's humor section. Good jokes were among his life-long passions. After graduating from high school in 1948, Ron put himself through college and law school by working during vacations and serving in the ROTC. Having heard girls were prettier at Michigan State University than other schools, he decided to attend. He graduated in 1953 with a chemistry degree and then joined the Air Force, serving as a lieutenant at the end of the Korean War. He was a radar officer on the Japanese island of Sadoshima for over a year. Experience in both electronics and chemistry later proved invaluable in his law practice. After returning from overseas, Ron toured the country as an announcer for General Motors' Motorama, an automobile extravaganza geared to whet public appetite and boost sales with fancy displays of concept cars and other special models. With help from the G.I. bill, he entered the University of Michigan Law School in 1956. Following graduation in 1959, he joined the law firm of Blair, Spencer & Buckles in Stamford, Connecticut, which specialized in patents, trademarks, copyrights and unfair competition. He practiced with the firm for over 40 years, focusing on intellectual property litigation. He became senior partner in 1966. When he retired, the firm was known as St. Onge, Steward, Johnston & Reens, as it remains today. He was active in the Connecticut Bar Association and served as president of both the Connecticut Patent Law Association and the Stamford Bar Association. He was also involved in Stamford affairs, heading the city's park commission, where his efforts led to the city acquiring Mianus River Park and building Terry Conners Ice Rink. Ron enjoyed golf, tennis and skiing. He was a member of various civic organizations, including the Stamford Rotary Club and the Computing Sciences Accreditation Board. He had a wealth of knowledge about many subjects and a unique sense of humor, which combined to make him a delightful companion and father. Ron was preceded in death by his parents and his brothers Ray and Jerry. He is survived by his wife Patricia (Hill) St. Onge; his four children: James St. Onge of Birmingham, Michigan, Ronald St. Onge Jr. of New York, New York, Jeffrey St. Onge of Washington, DC, and Sarah St. Onge of Mill Valley, California; his sister Yvonne Metzger of San Rafael, California; as well as his stepchildren: Donald LeBuhn of Mill Valley, California, Gretchen LeBuhn of Corte Madera, California, and Andrew LeBuhn of Jupiter, Florida; grandchildren: Katrin and Genevieve St. Onge of Birmingham, Michigan; Caroline Howell of Mill Valley, California; and his first wife, Julie (Windham) Boardman of New London, New Hampshire. A Funeral Service will be held at 11:00 AM on Tuesday, June 27, 2017 at First Presbyterian Church (Fish Church), 1101 Bedford St, Stamford, CT 06905. Burial will follow at Spring Grove Cemetery in Darien. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Treasure Coast Hospices – North, 1201 SE Indian Street, Stuart, FL 34997 tchospice.org Or the University of Michigan Law School: https://www.law.umich. edu/alumniandfriends/giving/ Pages/How-to-Make-a-gift.aspx www.lawrencefuneralhome.com.

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Michael-John van Rhyn

June 18, 2017

What a beautiful obituary. That sounds strange to say, but it was really nice to read about your dad. I only knew him from one perspective but from my perspective he was always such a big personality, especially when I was young, and always so likeable and big-hearted. I'm really glad I knew him.

I have wonderful memories of your dad. I still think of him making everyone pancakes early in the morning before driving us up to Okemo for a day of skiing. Or taking us fishing on the Sound in the Mako and showing me what to do (and not do). Or letting me borrow an emergency $20 to fund my first date when my parents were away. Or that beautiful Z28 he had.

But my main memory of your dad was him talking. Somehow he seemed to know so much about everything, which always amazed me, and he was so engaging. He will forever be a key figure in my childhood.

Thanks Mr. St. Onge for everything!

Laurie Haggerty Dolian

June 12, 2017

Dear St Onge Family,
Thinking of all of you at this time. I loved your Dad and lived next door to all of you on Overbrook Drive. In fact, I use to babysit for all of you. I have fond memories of your Dad walking me home and playing tennis with him at DCC. He was a wonderful family man and incredibly smart with a great sense of humor. Thinking of your Mom.

Darlene Barker

June 12, 2017

Dear Pat:
We are so saddened by Ron's passing. He will be missed by all. May the wonderful memories you all have of him help through this difficult time. My Deepest Sympathy.

June 11, 2017

Thank you for your service to our country.
A grateful American

Michele and Eric Macke

June 10, 2017

Jim, Eric and I are so sad to hear this news and wish we could lessen the sorrow you are feeling. We never met your Dad but after reading his obituary, we see how much of your Father lives on, in you. He was quite a well rounded and intelligent man. Even the great smile lives on. Sending love from Ann Arbor. Michele and Eric.

Sarah Harrington St.Onge

June 10, 2017

I love you so much Dad, and I miss you every single day. Thank you for being an amazing father and being the funny, witty, smart, incredible man that I was so lucky to look up to for 48 years. You will not be forgotten.

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