Ryan Francis Smith

Ryan Francis Smith obituary, Laconia, NH

Ryan Francis Smith

Ryan Smith Obituary

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Ryan Francis Smith was born on January 20, 1987 in Wheeling, W. VA to Suzanne (Lewis) Brown. Ryan fought a hard 16 year long battle with addiction that continuously progressed and sadly came to a fatal end in the early morning hours of Wednesday July 26, 2017 when Concord police received a call reporting a possible drug overdose. Ryan was pronounced dead when the paramedics arrived to yet again, another substance abuse related death. This epidemic is proving yet again, to be another powerful, tragic, heartbreaking disease to all who go about battling it and leaving it untreated. Ryan was an avid music and movie buff, loved all animals, writing, drawing and tattoos. Anyone that knew Ryan would say he was a giant teddy bear, and just another big kid. He enjoyed making people laugh and had a contagious smile that made his eyes shine every time. He was the best uncle a kid could ask for, a gentle son, a protective big brother, loyal to friends, and intelligent beyond words. At the time of his death he chose to be homeless, withdrawn from his family and unwilling to accept any kind of treatment. He leaves behind his mother and step dad, Suzanne & Kevin Brown of Laconia, NH, his sister Kayla Smith, her partner Justin, and her 3 children, Kayden, Brantley & Cecilia, whom he adored all 3 beyond words could explain. He also leaves behind his grandfather Willian F Lewis of Shadyside, OH, and his uncle Robert Lewis of Moundsville, W. VA and his daughter Whitney Lewis. Ryan also leaves behind his cousin Haleigh Lewis of Shadyside, OH, and so many extended family members and friends, far too many to mention who loved him dearly, and will miss him beyond words. He also leaves behind 5 step siblings, Rebekah (Brian) Hinckley and their 4 children of NY, Ashley (Justin) Durand of MA, Sarah (Jason, who was like a brother) Packer and their 3 children of FL, Marissa (TJ) Hood and their daughter of VT, and Thomas Brown of NM. Ryan was preceded in death by his grandmother Rose M Lewis of Shadyside, OH and his "Uncle Bill" William F Lewis II, of Shadyside OH. As each and every day passes we will continuously be left with the one question "Why?" with tears in our eyes. If love could have saved Ryan, he would have lived forever. There will be no services at this time and the family is asking that all memorials and donations be made to the New Hampshire Safe Station: City of Manchester Fire Department 100 Merrimack St. Manchester, NH, 03101 In memory of Ryan F. Smith "I love my friends neither with my heart or with my mind. Just in case heart might stop, mind can forget. I love them with my soul. Soul never stops and never forgets..." -facebook.com/iloveinspirationlionhearteagle.blogspot.com

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September 25, 2023

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July 25, 2018

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February 14, 2018

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Renee Snider

September 25, 2023

Think about U n Uncle Lump, Everyday! Miss you, 2 so very much!

Helena Haeussler

July 25, 2018

I can't believe it's been 1 year already. Miss you everyday. Love you forever.

Itty Bitty

February 14, 2018

Still thinking of you every day buddy.
I love and miss you and your goofiness.
I'm glad you've found your peace, but we all wish we had you here on earth instead. Sleep well big guy. You won't stray far from my heart or thoughts. I've listened to in this photograph and free bird countless times with tear in my eyes and a bitter sweet smile and chuckle remembering the jokes we had about our own music choices.

Itty Bitty

November 14, 2017

Ryan, not a day has passed Since the last day I saw you 4 years ago without thinking of you, Without thinking of your constant battle and how I knew as a friend I wasn't the one that was able to help you even though I wanted so badly to be able too. I've felt guilt everyday since then and we hadn't spoke since that one day, and I always regretted it and I always wanted to reach out but didn't know how or what to say. And then I heard the worst news just go in one ear and out the other. Ryan Smith succumbed to his addiction. And I've been broken and heavy hearted knowing I never apologized. I never reached out to someone I once considered one of my closest friends and now I'll never get that chance back. You'll forever be in my heart and in my thoughts. We had some amazing laughs and pointless car rides. We didn't meet by chance, you grew up on the same street I grew up on and we never even knew until many many years later. You were friends with my cousins before we had even met. There was no coincidence that we became friends, it was just a tragic shame that I chose to end a friendship on bad judgment rather than being a real friend. I love you buddy, you were an amazing person to have the pleasure to have met, and the time we spent together will never go in vein, ill always look back on our shenanigans and look up to the skies and smile knowing you had great times in life but it was time for your suffering to end. You're finally free

MRM & HZH

August 20, 2017

We miss and love you so much.... but glad you are no longer suffering. Great, one of a kind friend from a great family.... I'll always cherish the great times from when we were younger. xoxo Love, H & M

Beth Macomber

July 31, 2017

Always in my heart pray you now have peace, lov eCaptain Jack and Beth

Callia Raymond

August 3, 2017

I am sorry that Ryan is gone. I tried to make him stay with me in treatment, but he didn't want to. If you guys need anything let me know.

Robin Vitale

July 31, 2017

RIP RYAN,,,PRAYERS TO ALL.... ROBIN AND MIKE &BLAKE

Jess D

July 30, 2017

I knew Ryan in another life. We met something like 11 years ago. We stayed in contact; occasionally checking in on one and other. Every single day since I read that he left us I replay in my mind over and over the times we had together, things that I didn't even know that I remembered. My favorite memory is the day that I was having an awful day, he showed up at my house with a rose, just to make me smile. He was always so good at that; making me smile. He was one of the kindest people I have ever known, and I will miss him every single day for the rest of my life. I pray that he now has the peace that he so deserves.

Jessie Rice

July 30, 2017

Ryan you were such a great friend to so many of us, you were funny, talented, kind hearted and definitely a big teddy bear to only name a few but there are endless words that describe what an amazing person you were and always will be in the hearts of those who loved you and grieve over the loss of that handsome smile and kind face laughs and good times were shared now we share the tears and memories love you forever my friend you will never be forgotten xoxox

Angela Basnar

July 31, 2017

Ryan, you were one of the dearest friends I could have asked for. I asked you so many times to please just get better and was so proud of you for going to rehab. Now this...why? You were better than that life and i knew it from the first day we met. You were always hitting on me but never to a point of disrespect and when i was with u I swear I didn't stop laughing longer than 5 minutes. You were so loyal to me that u walked from laconia to tilton bc u couldn't find a ride to me before finding out that i fell asleep. God u were p*ssed! But we laughed about it later. That's how i will remember you. I live with regret everyday and wonder if I could have saved you. We were suppose to go pick up a friend of yours from tilton the night you died but i ended up not being able to make it. I live with that pain now of knowing I may have been able to change it.that if I went you wouldn't have been able to do it bc I wouldn't let u. Im so so sorry Ryan.know that i wanted to be there with you and that i love you so much. Rest easy my friend. I promise I will never forget you.

Lauren Ledoux

July 31, 2017

I am so so sorry for your loss. The hold that drugs have on addicts is so strong. It is a devastating epidemic. I hope that your family finds peace.

Cassie Elderd

July 31, 2017

Ryan in our younger years you were my big little brother I lived being around you, you made me laugh like no one else. I will keep you and your family in my heart. Love Cassie elderd

Troy Lamarche

August 2, 2017

Ryan..... I just saw you bro not to long ago u told me about rehab. When I found out, I was so shocked bc I thought things were getting better. Just know I'm always here for your family. U were my family since we were young. I'm still in shock about this ... I know you r doing better now and I know your watching down on us all... but honestly it's not the same without you... fly high Ryan see you again sometime

Ashley Hood

July 31, 2017

Love you forever and always

Robin Vitale

August 1, 2017

RIP RYAN,,,PRAYERS TO ALL.... ROBIN AND MIKE &BLAKE

Angela Basnar

August 1, 2017

Ryan, you were one of the dearest friends I could have asked for. I asked you so many times to please just get better and was so proud of you for going to rehab. Now this...why? You were better than that life and i knew it from the first day we met. You were always hitting on me but never to a point of disrespect and when i was with u I swear I didn't stop laughing longer than 5 minutes. You were so loyal to me that u walked from laconia to tilton bc u couldn't find a ride to me before finding out that i fell asleep. God u were p*ssed! But we laughed about it later. That's how i will remember you. I live with regret everyday and wonder if I could have saved you. We were suppose to go pick up a friend of yours from tilton the night you died but i ended up not being able to make it. I live with that pain now of knowing I may have been able to change it.that if I went you wouldn't have been able to do it bc I wouldn't let u. Im so so sorry Ryan.know that i wanted to be there with you and that i love you so much. Rest easy my friend. I promise I will never forget you.

Lauren Ledoux

August 1, 2017

I am so so sorry for your loss. The hold that drugs have on addicts is so strong. It is a devastating epidemic.
I hope that your family finds peace.

Ashley Hood

August 1, 2017

Love you forever and always

Cassie Elderd

August 1, 2017

Ryan in our younger years you were my big little brother I lived being around you, you made me laugh like no one else. I will keep you and your family in my heart. Love Cassie elderd

Beth Macomber

August 1, 2017

Always in my heart pray you now have peace, loveCaptainjack and Beth

Jess D

July 31, 2017

I knew Ryan in another life. We met something like 11 years ago. We stayed in contact; occasionally checking in on one and other. Every single day since I read that he left us I replay in my mind over and over the times we had together, things that I didn't even know that I remembered. My favorite memory is the day that I was having an awful day, he showed up at my house with a rose, just to make me smile. He was always so good at that; making me smile. He was one of the kindest people I have ever known, and I will miss him every single day for the rest of my life. I pray that he now has the peace that he so deserves.

Jessie Rice

July 31, 2017

Ryan you were such a great friend to so many of us, you were funny, talented, kind hearted and definitely a big teddy bear to only name a few but there are endless words that describe what an amazing person you were and always will be in the hearts of those who loved you and grieve over the loss of that handsome smile and kind face laughs and good times were shared now we share the tears and memories love you forever my friend you will never be forgotten xoxox

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