John F. "Fred" Moder Jr.

1929 - 2017

John F. "Fred" Moder Jr. obituary, 1929-2017, Pittsburgh, PA

John F. "Fred" Moder Jr.

1929 - 2017

BORN

1929

DIED

2017

John Moder Obituary

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John F. "Fred" Moder, Jr. died peacefully, surrounded by family, on December 8, 2017 at the age of 88. Fred is survived by his wife Diane M. (Elliott) Moder, Dormont, PA; son Mark and wife Stephanie, Mt. Lebanon, PA; son Scott and wife Janet, Reston, VA; close family friend Patti Irwin, Dormont, PA; and six grandchildren: Harrison, Victoria, Jordyn, Colston, Kathryn, and Trenten. Fred is preceded in death by his parents and sister Jane Stout. Fred was born on October 26, 1929 in Pittsburgh, PA to John F. Moder, Sr. and Nell M. Moder. He graduated from Dormont High School in 1947 and attended the University of Pittsburgh before volunteering for the U.S. Army. He served as a Sergeant with the Army Security Agency for four years, working as a Russian linguist in Honolulu, Hawaii during the Korean War before returning home and continuing his education at Pitt. Fred served as a mechanical engineer in the steel industry for Koppers, Inc. He married Diane Elliott on April 15, 1961 and moved into a new home in Dormont, PA. Over their lifetime, they celebrated 56 years of marriage and welcomed two sons into their home. At Koppers, Fred worked in the Project Engineering Group and was responsible for the layout of some of the largest blast furnaces in the United States and other steelmaking facilities. The blast furnace projects he was most proud of were the layout of No. 7 Blast Furnace at Inland Steel (now ArcelorMital Indiana Harbor Works) and Bethlehem Steel "L" Furnace in Sparrows Point, Maryland, especially the work he did helping layout and design the Automated Stock Houses. After retiring from Koppers, Fred worked for Kaiser Engineering and Paul Wurth. Fred later partnered with Steve Novak as one of the founding principals of ATAC Engineering. He was greatly respected in the steel industry, especially in regards to blast furnace charging and material handling work. He was passionate about his career and frequently talked about his engineering. Fred worked with Steve on blast furnace charging studies as recently as the month prior to his death, to include USS Gary Works. Fred was a devoted husband, father, son and brother who emphasized God, honesty, hard work and family. Fred designed and built a cabin in Confluence, PA that he enjoyed sharing with his family and friends. He loved spending his weekends and summers at his cabin growing fruit trees, maintaining berry patches and planting a large garden. He shared the fruit, berries, and vegetables with his family, neighbors and friends. Fred was an active and dedicated member of Berean Fellowship Church in Scott Township, PA. Fred's sons remember him as a man of integrity who loved his family and encouraged them to stay faithful to God while they raised their own families and pursued their personal and professional goals. His grandchildren called him "Pap" and remember him as a devoted grandfather who actively encouraged them while following all of their church, academic, sports, and Scouting events. Fred's family and friends are invited to visitation from 1-4 pm and 7-9 pm on Sunday, December 17, 2017 at William Slater II Funeral Services located at 1650 Green Tree Road, Pittsburgh, PA 15220. All friends and family are welcome to attend and celebrate Fred's amazing life at a special memorial service at 7:30pm on Monday, December 18 with a reception to follow at Berean Fellowship Church. The church is located at 300 Rockfield Circle, Pittsburgh PA, 15243. Fred's son, Pastor Mark Moder, will officiate the ceremony. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Berean Fellowship Church Youth Department in Fred's name via the church mailing address or http://www.bereanfellowship.org. The family would like to thank the staff at the Family Hospice in Mt. Lebanon, PA for their compassionate care during Fred's final days with his family.

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December 17, 2017

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December 14, 2017

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September 19, 2021

I have just learned (September 2021) of Fred’s passing and the news saddened me more than I would have imagined. Maybe, in part , because I’m older now. I was just a kid when I met Fred, just about 4 years into my career in the steel industry, approximately 42 years ago. Well, that’s the start, but most important to mention is that he was a tremendous help to me as an operator of blast furnaces trying to maximize our production. I’m sure anyone reading this knows that Fred was smart and technically very competent, and that he used that gift to become a foremost authority on blast furnace charging systems. We became friends over the years as I listened and learned from him. I’m sorry I didn’t stay in touch, our last lunch meeting was in probably 2013 in the downtown Pittsburgh steel building. My condolences to his wife and family. I’m thankful for the opportunity to have worked with Fred.

Julie and Kayla Ponder

December 17, 2017

We are sorry to hear of Uncle Fred's passing and want to send our condolences. He was a good family man; it is good to know he is in a better place now, where he will see you all again. We want to send our sincere sympathies during this time to you, and our love and blessings.

Jay & Sherry Becker

December 14, 2017

Dear Diane and Family,

Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you all during your loss! May you be surrounded by the Love of the Father, family and friends during this time and days ahead. Jay and I enjoyed the camaraderie we had with Fred and never tired of his stories! He was so much fun to talk with! Many times I saw that twinkle in his eye like he was sitting in the catbirds seat, especially during a debate! We appreciated his Love of family and how proud he was of his wife and each family member and their achievements. So glad to have known him; faithful Christian, a sweet, loving, dedicated, loyal, interesting and wise man! What a great Heritage and Name he left behind that will Bless many for years to come! Love you!! (Jay & Sherry Becker)

Tim Gosnell

December 13, 2017

Wonderful memories flood my mind and heart of all the great times we shared. Even the trip to St Louis!

Laura King

December 12, 2017

Dear Diane and family
My deepest sympathy to you. May you find comfort in the knowledge that Fred has "graduated" to God's open and loving arms.
I think of you all often and I am truly blessed that you took in this little country girl while she went to school in the big city.
Hold tight to the wonderful memories of such a wonderful man and know that many are holding you in their hearts and remembering along with you.
Laura Sanner King

December 11, 2017

Dear Diane, Mark and family,
My sister and myself want to express our condolences. Fred was a wonderful man. Our dad always loved Fred as a brother. This time of separation is truly difficult. But, Praise the Lord, it will be a brief separation. Our love and prayers are with you all. God bless.
Love,
Bernie and Jackie Rosenstern

Clyde Oliver

December 10, 2017

My condolences to the Moder family. May the peace of God surround you and keep you during this time!

Sandy Gross

December 9, 2017

So sorry for your loss, but thankful we will meet again in heaven.He was a great man....

Judy McRae

December 9, 2017

Dear Diane, I love that you said your husband "graduated" for he is in that glorious place that is our true home. I pray peace for you and your family as you transition into a new phase of life. Heaven is just beyond the veil and I pray a true shalom peace and purpose and energy for you until you and John can be reunited again.

Karen and Robert McLellan

December 9, 2017

Diane and Family,
Fred was one of the kindest, warmest, most intelligent man we have had the pleasure to know. We can only imagine the sorrow in your hearts, but take some comfort in knowing he is in the Lord's arms. We consider living next to him one of life's great rewards. Please know you are Loved.

Ed and Joan Nock

December 9, 2017

Dear Diane and Family,

May your many cherished memories provide comfort at this time. Fred was a kind man who took tremendous pride in his family and in his professional accomplishments. Our deepest sympathy goes out to each of you.

Love,
Ed and Joan Nock & Family

Beverly Gadboius

December 8, 2017

So sorry, Diane and sons. Your husband and father sounds like a great human being. His work in thr steel industry is impressive. I was born in , and lived near Gary where the steel industry is the foundation of thge city. I recently took care of my mom before she passed into the arms of Jesus so I am sharing a feeling of sorrow with your loss. May Holy Spirit comfort you all in ways you may have never experienced before.

Phyllis Bargo Fox

December 8, 2017

Rejoicing at Fred's transition.
Mourning with family & friends.
Diane, you are in our thoughts & prayers tonight.
Every Blessing & Love
Phyllis & Steve

Wanda Pitts

December 8, 2017

Precious Diane and Moder Family our deepest sympathy. May you be surrounded in God's peace and comfort

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