John J. Duffey

John J. Duffey obituary, Egg Harbor Township, NJ

John J. Duffey

John Duffey Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 19, 2018.
Duffey, John J. , 67, of Egg Harbor Township, formerly of Margate, NJ, passed away on Thursday July 19, 2018. Beloved husband of Mary Ann (nee Cleary). Loving father of Erin Duffey (Mark Weikinger), Brian (Eileen) and Sean (Beth). Pop Pop of Samantha, Matthew, Andrew, Brody and the late Logan. Brother of Daniel (Susan), Maureen Brennan (Jim), Colleen Giambalvo (Charles) and the late Margaret Ann Crocco (Tony) and Mary Ellen Clark (Jim); and 17 Duffey and 39 Cleary nieces and nephews. John grew up in Roxborough, PA. Graduated from Roman Catholic High School (1969). Moved to Longport to help run his family business (Parti Pak Deli), where he was the manager then owner for 30 years. John helped cultivate a strong work ethic for many locals. In 1974 John met his wife Mary Ann at Parti Pak. John and Mary Ann married in November 1975. John loved to go fishing with friends in "the deep", crabbing with family on the bridge, and skiing with his family in the Poconos. Later in life John changed careers, and was a member of the Atlantic City Jitney Association. John loved to BBQ, and spend days in his pool teaching his grandchildren how to swim. John and Mary Ann loved to spend time visiting their daughter in South Carolina. They also loved seeing their boys rowing boats in the back bays and ocean. John was a positive influence to many and loved by all. He will be greatly missed. Relatives and friends are invited to share in John's Life Celebration Thursday, July 26, from 2:30 – 6:30 PM followed by his Memorial Mass 7:00 PM at the Church of the Epiphany, 2801 Ventnor Ave., Longport, PA 08403. Interment private. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions to the Dean Randazzo Cancer Foundation, P.O. Box 149, Somers Point, NJ 08244 or Ronald McDonald House Southern New Jersey https:\\ronaldhouse-snj.org. To share your fondest memories of John visit www.jeffriesandkeates.com. Family service by Jeffries & Keates of Northfield. 609-646-3400

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July 26, 2018

Tom Baruffi posted to the memorial.

July 26, 2018

Kathy (Travascio) Arganetto posted to the memorial.

July 24, 2018

James Bonner posted to the memorial.

Tom Baruffi

July 26, 2018

Had the pleasure and good fortune of working with Mary Ann for the past two years in Somers Point. The pride she and John had in their family and community was evident in so many of our conversations. He will surely be missed by many.

Kathy (Travascio) Arganetto

July 26, 2018

Every happy memory of Longport & Parti Pak Deli includes John Duffey. Whether we were all sitting on 32nd street beach together or working in the Deli, John made us laugh every minute.
My deepest condolences to Mary Ann & his family. My thoughts & prayers to you.

James Bonner

July 24, 2018

Another Roman "69" classmate of John. We have a close and intimate class. We morn our loss. But, it does not compare with the loss of a husband, father and pop-pop. My sincerest condolences. We were beginning to schedule our 50th reunion. John will be missed. I never developed the "words" to say or write, that Mr. Durkin tried to instill in his English class. But my mom taught me: Those we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day,
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
Still loved, still missed and very dear.

Kristen Howell

July 24, 2018

Mary Ann and Erin,

I was so sad to hear of John's passing. He was an amazing man who always made me feel like one of the family during your trips to SC. I hope that you can find peace in your memories of him. Please know that I am thinking of you during this, the most difficult of times. My heart goes out to your family.

Roseanne Critchley-Hazlett

July 24, 2018

Mary Ann and Duffey Family, so sorry for your loss. John was a great boss, and even better man. So many memories from working at Parti Pak! Know that John touched so many lives in the community.

Matt Swift

July 23, 2018

As a classmate of John, I, and his brothers from the RCHS class of 1969, are saddened to hear of his passing. We all know that John is now in the arms of the Lord looking down upon us. May the Lord give you all comfort during this most difficult time. The Duffey and Cleary families are in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you all.
Matt Swift - RCHS '69

Don Kaplan

July 23, 2018

I am so sorry for your loss. John was an inspiration for so many. All great memories of John and the Duffy family on 32nd st and Parti Pak.

JOAN NIGRO

July 23, 2018

rest in peace john joe and co worker joanie

Marc Calderwood

July 23, 2018

John was always so upbeat. It was a pleasure serving the deli. Marc Calderwood,Stroehmann Bread.

Kathy Cochran-Lally

July 23, 2018

Mary Ann & Family-I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have many great memories of all of you when I worked at Parti Pak. May John Rest in peace and you be comforted by your memories.

Michael Edge

July 23, 2018

RIP John

Lisa Willcox

July 22, 2018

To the family of Mr. Duffey, I am so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in all your memories and may God comfort you during this time. I am praying for all of you.

Joe McGlory, Jr

July 22, 2018

Rest In Peace my friend.

Robert S o m e r s

July 22, 2018

To the Duffey and Cleary family the passing of Big John was like a bolt out of the blue John and his wife Mary Ann always gave the youth in the community a start in the workforce it was the beginning of their careers in the future I will never forget that Big John was always there, was always there who needed him he was so good to me and my kids over the years my condolences to the families until we meet again on the top floor rest in peace my friend... Bobby

Heather Friel

July 21, 2018

You were a true inspiration and mentor to all who had the pleasure to work for you Big John. You will always be in my heart and I will always have a smile on my face when thinking of you. Thank you for all the wonderful years at Parti Pak, but most of all thank you for being such a caring role model for all of us. My heart breaks for the entire Duffey family. My deepest condolences. Rest In Peace Big John!

Mary Farrell

July 21, 2018

I'm really sorry for your loss. I'm praying for your family. John was a really great person.

Kathy DeMarco (Murphy)

July 21, 2018

So many fond memories of John and working at Parti Pak as a teenager in the summers. My thoughts are with his family.

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