Richard Paul Dyjak

Richard Paul Dyjak, 75, of Ellington, died peacefully at home on January 2, 2023, after fighting pancreatic cancer for nearly two years. He was the loving husband of Mary Lou (Grater) Dyjak. Richard was born on June 29, 1947, to the late Charles and Louise (Ciszek) Dyjak in Springfield, MA. He attended Cathedral High School in Springfield and went on to study at the University of Dayton in Dayton, OH, where he met his beloved wife, Mary Lou. They moved to Ellington in 1972, following his service in the U.S. Army. A lover of reading and knowledge, Richard had a keen wit and enjoyed debating any topic. He could talk with anyone and struck up conversations and friendships with everyone he met. He loved to tell stories about his daughters' soccer games, remembering specific plays and reveling in the memory of past victories. He delighted in sharing stories about his own youthful exploits and lessons learned. Most of all, he just loved being with his family. He loved his wife and looked forward to cheering on the UConn women's basketball team or sharing a swim and a good meal with her. He was a constant presence in his grandchildren's lives supporting them at their athletic events, celebrating their academic achievements and enjoying their everyday successes. He was an emotional support to his daughters, never failing to step in with practical help and meaningful guidance. Among his many contributions to his community, his most beloved was coaching youth soccer. Whether coaching recreational, premier, or high school teams, he was a consummate coach who could always see the potential for excellence. His volunteerism and hard work benefitted hundreds of youths in Ellington. In addition to his wife of 54 years, Mary Lou, he is survived by his three daughters; Anne Kane of Cold Spring, NY, Lauren Mas and husband Greg of Enfield, Sarah Lundin and husband Mark of Granby; grandchildren, Olivia, Ethan, Piper, Charlotte and Aidan; brothers, Leon Dyjak and wife Ann of Orono, ME, Thomas Dyjak and wife Audrey of Ludlow, MA; brother-in-law Warren Talsma of Keller, TX; sister-in-law Marcia Binegar and husband Gary of Cincinnati, OH. He is also leaves behind his nieces and nephews and many other beloved family members and friends. A memorial Mass will be celebrated on Saturday, January 28, 2023 at 10:00am at the Church of St. Luke ,141 Maple St., Ellington, CT. In lieu of flowers, donations in Richard's memory can be made to Ellington High School Athletic Department, Coach Richard Dyjak Fund, 37 Maple St., Ellington CT 06029, to support youth in their athletic endeavors. The Cremation Society of CT in Windsor has care of the arrangements. For online condolences please visit www.CremationCT.com