Charles P. Brumder

Charles P. Brumder obituary, Oconomowoc, WI

Charles P. Brumder

Charles Brumder Obituary

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Brumder, Charles P. Our beloved Charlie passed away peacefully, at home, surrounded by his family on May 3, 2014. He is survived by his devoted wife of 26 years Katie, his daughters Bradley (Eddie) Wabiszewski, Ellery (Quentin) Thomas, Karley, Lexi and Eily. He was "Bumpa" to his grandchildren Augie, Charlotte, Molly and Thomas Wabiszewski and Leo Thomas. He is also survived by his father, Robert C. Brumder, siblings Thekla Sanford, Robo, David and Amy Nunnally, and his nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his loving mother Barbara B. Brumder. A true family man, Charlie's life was dedicated to community and bringing people together. He was a passionate philanthropist, committed to supporting University Lake School, Tall Pines Land Conservancy and Children's Hospital of Wisconsin. He was an active member of St. Peter's Episcopal Church, Heileger Huegel Ski Club, Pine Lake Yacht Club, Chenequa Country Club and the Milwaukee Club. He was a cowboy at heart and loved spending time at Rancho de Los Caballeros in Wickenburg, AZ. Charlie's unconditional, selfless love touched countless lives and he will be remembered for his overwhelming charisma, impeccable style, and passion for life. A celebration of Charlie's life will take place on Saturday, May 10, 2014 at Blessed Teresa of Calcutta at 11:00 AM. W314 N7462, State Hwy 83, Hartland, WI 53029. There will be a visitation/reception for family and friends at Chenequa Country Club from 12:00 PM to 4:00 PM. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to University Lake School, Tall Pines Land Conservancy, and Children's Hospital of Wisconsin. To send flowers or a memorial gift to the family of Charles P Brumder please visit our Sympathy Store.

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August 3, 2014

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May 21, 2014

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May 15, 2014

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Hobby Ryan (Brumder)

August 3, 2014

Always loved ya Charlie. Condolences to the family. Love, Hobby

May 21, 2014

Charlie was my American Dad when I was 19 years old and spent a memorable summer in Wisconsin. It was my first experience in the USA and I hold great memories of all his family.
Charlie, you will always be in my heart!
With all my love,
Pepa Novell

May 15, 2014

Katie,
I thought very highly of Charlie and appreciated our friendship and working relationship. So sorry for your loss. John Sawyer, Carlson & Erickson Builders

May 14, 2014

We are shocked and so sorry for your loss.
Peace to your whole family.
Michael and Maria Moran

Peter Bradford

May 11, 2014

So sorry to hear about Charlie. He was such an easy natured wonderful guy. I have so many fond memories of him and his wonderful family at Pine Lake. I especially know how hard this is as I lost my brother, David, last November. We Bradford's will miss him very much.
Sincerely Peter

cr Davidson

May 10, 2014

Peace be with you.

May 9, 2014

Dear Katie, Karley, Lexi, and Eily,
Charlie was one of my favorite people. He always had time to say "hello" and chat for a bit whenever I saw him. I loved his commitment to USL, but more than that, I loved how he cared about his daughters and their education. I send my deepest sympathies to all of you. I pray that God will give you peace in your time of grief.
Pam Hansen

May 9, 2014

Jim and I are so sad about Charlie. We loved seeing him during our summer visits and will never forget his warm and kind friendship. He was such a unique and rare personality, and a truly good person. We will all miss him so much!
Love to Katy and the family,
Tori Lawrence

Daniel Murray

May 9, 2014

Katie and Family, Our deepest Sympathy at your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. What a Charming Man! A true pleasure to know. God Bless, Sincerely Dan Murray

Jeff Walker

May 8, 2014

I was stunned and deeply saddened to learn of Charlie's passing. It was my great privilege to work with him on various proposals and prospect research projects at Children's Hospital of Wisconsin Foundation, as well as at UWM. I like to think we became friends, too -- an even greater privilege and, with such a gentleman, a high honor. He was always warm, down-to-earth, direct, funny, and passionate, in a refreshingly, endearingly low-key way; he also was clearly someone who savored his relationships with people. I am so very, very sorry for your loss. The world is a darker place without Charlie's bright light. All the best during this unbelievably tough time ... . -- Jeff Walker (Director of Research, UWM Development & Alumni Relations Office)

May 8, 2014

I was stunned and deeply saddened to learn of Charlie's passing. It was my great privilege to work with him on various proposals and prospect research projects at Children's Hospital of Wisconsin Foundation, as well as at UWM. I like to think we became friends, too -- an even greater privilege and, with such a gentleman, a high honor. He was always warm, down-to-earth, direct, funny, and passionate, in a refreshingly, endearingly low-key way; he also was clearly someone who savored his relationships with people. I am so very, very sorry for your loss. The world is a darker place without Charlie's bright light. All the best to you and your family, during this unbelievably tough time. -- Jeff Walker (Director of Research, UWM Development & Alumni Relations Office)

May 8, 2014

Wonderful guy who will be sorely missed. Your loving family will carry your spirit forever.
One love,
Michael & Janice Thomas, Door County, WI

Marna Stotzer Banks

May 8, 2014

It was a very, very sad day for me when I learned of of Charlie's passing. I am still filled with sorrow at the loss of such a wonderful, big hearted, and loyal friend whom I have known since junior high school. And while our paths rarely crossed in recent years, it was a joy to see him occasionally in Door County. My deepest condolences to all the family whom I know he loved so much.

May 8, 2014

Katie and All ... my heart skipped a beat when heard of Charlie's passing then streams of tears. A remarkable childhood friend will be missed greatly. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Always love, Catherine Davidson

May 8, 2014

My thoughts and prayers to the Brumder Families. Charlie was a good person to work for and he will be missed by all that knew him.
Margie Martinez

May 7, 2014

A wonderful, caring gentleman and a good friend to many. Charlie will be missed but always remembered. Bill Frye and family

Mari Kay Bittl

May 7, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. His obituary says it all. Charlie was a wonderful man and I will miss him very much.

May 7, 2014

My favorite song comes to mind when thinking of Charlie "Unforgettable" There will be no other like Charlie:) How blessed to be surrounded by your family at the end of a beautiful journey. No one could ask for more. Our prayers are with you Katie and your beautiful daughters, and all of the Brumder family. We love you. The Monserez's

george oelschig

May 7, 2014

Charlie was a man who loved and was loved.
Love only comes from one place and I have faith that he is now in that place!
He will be sorely missed but remembered for his courage and true grit.
I will have an annual brandy alexander in his honor.
My love and condolences are offered to the entire family,
George Oelschig

We will always remember you Charlie...you will live on in each of our hearts. Love, The Burrows

The Burrows

May 7, 2014

Kathy & Stewart Friend

May 7, 2014

We will remember you in so many places: the slopes of Heiliger Huegel ski hill, canoeing in Canada, fireworks on the 4th of July and in our hearts ALWAYS!

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