IRMA OESTREICHER

IRMA OESTREICHER

IRMA OESTREICHER Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 29, 2010.
OESTREICHER--Irma. On April 27, in her 89th year, from Lymphona, at her home, with her family. Born July 4th 1920 to Barnett and Dora Kaplan. Married 1943 to Martin Shapiro and had two children, Robert (Jacqueline) and Daniel (Lynne). In 1958 married Gerard Oestreicher and was a wonderful stepmother to his three children, Lee (Alejandra), Lynn (Noel Jeffrey), and Laurie (Larry Lowenstein). Adored her grandchildren, Holiday Shapiro (Robyn Linde), Brett Haussamen (Jim Sabo), Gerard Jeffrey, Jay Lowenstein (Jayme), Victoria Shapiro (Jon Forsberg), Abi Shapiro, and Caitlin Shapiro (Rowan Gay). Found renewed joy in her great-grandchildren, Evan, Sophie, Kara, and Ava. In later life she was grateful for the companionship of Dan Rodgers. She is survived by her brother Bill Kaplan (Anita). She was raised (forever proud) in Brooklyn, graduated Erasmus High School and Hunter College. She lived in New Rochelle and in 1958 moved to Manhattan (her true home). Her second husband, Gerard Oestreicher, was the chairman of Oestreicher Realty and a Broadway producer. He died in 1987. Irma became a Broadway angel and then a producer in her own right. She produced "Cantorial", "Mademoiselle Colombe", and co-produced "Long Day's Journey Into Night" for which she received a Tony nomination. She was a director of the American Theatre Hall of Fame. Active until her last few months she devoted herself to her family, her many friends, the Theatre, her charities, the Democratic Party, books, bridge, and crosswords. She will be sorely missed by many who loved her keen intellect and tremendous wit, her generosity and her loyalty. The family will receive at the home of Lynn and Noel Jeffrey, 33 East 70th Street, Sunday, May 2nd between 4-8pm. Services will be Monday, May 3rd at 11:30am at Frank E. Campbell, 1076 Madison Avenue, followed by a reception at the Jeffreys'. In lieu of flowers, please consider a contribution to the Democratic candidate of your choice.

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Alan Rothenberg

April 29, 2010

April 29th, 2010

The Erasmus Hall High School Alumni Association wishes to extend its sincere condolences on the passing of Irma Oestreicher.

April 29, 2010

Bob and family, I was so sorry to hear about your Mom. I remember her fondly, and included her in my prayers every night. I am glad she was able to live a full life, and have her many children, grandchildren and great grandchildren around her. She was a incredible woman with strength, spirit, and an abundance of love.
Elly Rodgers Yates

Kathleen Raitt

April 29, 2010

What a wonderful woman! I am so happy that I had the privilege of knowing her through the our mutual theatrical connections. She will be sorely missed.

Renee Daniels

April 29, 2010

Irma, thanks for always having such a generous Spirit! You are a "class act" and NY will never be the same without You. You will be missed by so many.

My Love and Blessings to All the Family.
Vanessa's Mom

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