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1970
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2019
Andrea Redeker Obituary
Andrea was preceded in death by her mother, Maria; and survived by her sisters, Heather and Dawn; and her intentional family here in Anchorage. In lieu of flowers, we ask to "pay forward Love, Kindness and Acceptance to all ... "
"I had a friend, she was fierce, and fabulous, and funny. I had a friend, and now she's gone. I had a friend and she died. I had a friend, she died for being transgender. She died for being who she was. She didn't die in a single act of violence, though all too many do. She died thousands of small deaths, until she couldn't face the world, couldn't believe in the beauty, she didn't have any hope.
""She died a little with every snicker, every eye roll, every snide look. She died every time she encountered someone and they had a choice: they had a choice to accept her, to embrace who she was, and they didn't. Every Neanderthal that clocked her at the grocery store, every bank clerk that rolled their eyes, every time someone chose judgment instead of acceptance. I had a friend, and she died because society couldn't accept and love her for the amazing woman that she was.
""I had a friend, she was a force to be recognized. She was brave, she was strong, and we stole her in little moments, over and over, until one day she was gone. I had a friend that is gone because instead of loving, she received judgment. Instead of open arms, she felt scorn.
""I had a friend, I loved her, and now she is gone and I miss her."
- Jessica Moore
Trans Lifeline: 877-565-8860
Crisis Text Line: 741741
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Memories and Condolences
for Andrea Redeker
Kelly E
February 26, 2019
Andrea was love. Kindness. Acceptance. She was funny and loving. She was the drop everything you're doing and drive hundreds of miles to rescue a friend amazing. She was a light that shined brightly. She was the kindness in your soul. To know Andrea, both before coming out as trans and after, was to know how beautiful she truly was. My heart breaks hearing this news. You will always be so very special to me. My life is better because you were in it.
February 6, 2019
I offer my deepest condolences. May God who "heals the broken hearted; he binds up their wounds" give you the strength to endure and ease your great pain during this difficult time (Psalm 147:3).
February 4, 2019
I didn't know her but she sounded like a beautiful person, my daughter and I read the beautiful obituary, so sad, we were brought to tears. People can be so unfair and judgemental...:'( I am so sorry for your loss. God Bless her beautiful soul. <3
Chadene Krome
February 1, 2019
My deepest sympathy to those who treasured Andrea. Her obituary is a beautiful tribute to her life.
January 31, 2019
You will be missed. Our deepest condolences to your family and friends.
matthew anon
January 31, 2019
i was so sorry to hear that another trans person fell victim to our cruel world. thanks for sharing translifeline's number. to a future where all trans people know they belong!
January 31, 2019
thoughts and prayers to the family and friends of Andrea. from Denise Newton
Dee Lyon
January 31, 2019
This breaks my heart. Although I did not have the privilege of knowing Andrea, she sounds like a lovely person. I will remember the words of this obituary forever--and I'm sending my heartfelt condolences to her family and friends. May we all learn love and acceptance.
Jennifer Weaver
January 31, 2019
I am not sure that I ever had a chance to meet Andrea, but I wanted to say how sorry I am to hear of her passing and to wish peace to her family and friends. Our town has lost a bright light and we are the worse for it. I hope everywhere you go in the journey to say goodbye to Andrea, you are met with the welcoming smiles and respect she deserves.
January 31, 2019
Thoughts and Prayers from the Merrigan Family.
Janie Henderson
January 30, 2019
May she Rest In Peace May God Grant all who knew and loved her peace that goes beyond all understanding.
January 30, 2019
Please accept our sincere condolences. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times that you shared together. May the underserved kindness of our Heavenly Father provide you with the comfort that you need. (Psalms 94:19)
January 30, 2019
As you remember your beloved one, may our Father the God of peace give you comfort and peace in every way today, tomorrow, and always. Please accept my sincere condolences. Psalms 94:18-19 *
A D
January 30, 2019
Our heartfelt condolences to the Redeker family over the loss of their beloved Andrea. We pray that God gives you everlasting comfort, strengthens your hearts, and gives you hope towards his promises (2 Thessalonians 2:16,17).
January 30, 2019
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times that you shared together. May our loving Heavenly Father provide you with the comfort and support that you need during this difficult time. (Psalm 145:18, 19) Our thoughts and heartfelt condolences goes out to the family.
January 29, 2019
Our condolences to the family. May God fulfill his promise of binding up the brokenhearted. Isa 61:1.
January 29, 2019
Please accept my condolences during your time of great sadness. May you cherish fond memories of Andrea to help you cope with the pain from day to day. Take note of the comforting words at 1Thessalonians 4:14, the beautiful hope of seeing your love one again.
January 28, 2019
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
January 28, 2019
May you receive comfort from reflecting on the peace and hope that comes from our loving creator. My sincere condolences to the family and freinds of Andrea.
Jeremiah 29:11
Mickey Bezak
January 28, 2019
Beautiful tribute to a Beautiful Soul......May we all remember her laughter and joy...and yes...Play kindness forward in memory of her.
Gina J
January 28, 2019
My sympathies are extended to the Redeker Family, during this time of bereavement. Reflect lovingly on cherished memories, and meditate on future promises, John 11: 23-29.
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