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Sara Trahey Obituary
Sara Elizabeth Trahey known to some in the Toms River community as "Goodie" was a beloved wife and mother, sister, daughter, friend, educator and so much more. A school librarian at Ella G Clarke elementary school in Lakewood, NJ who had an infectious love of reading that inspired her career path. A devoted mother who you would often find on the sidelines or coaching soccer and baseball games, volunteering at school events, or spending time near the water. She was always on the move planning the next fun family activity and as an avid adventurer regularly had her family out kayaking, camping, snowboarding, boating, crabbing, tubing, etc. Her infectious smile was constantly affixed to her face all while being able to razz you with a sarcastic joke. A free and wild spirit that had a powerful love for life, her family and friends. Saying she will be missed is an understatement but we know she is with us whenever we feel the cool breeze coming off the water and the warm sun shining on our face.
Sara is survived by her husband Jeffrey Trahey of Toms River, Daughter Casey 8, Jaxon 7, Riley 2; Parents K.C. Goodwin, Helen Goodwin, Father-in-law Jack Trahey, Mother-in-law Karen Trahey (Heller) Grandmother Lynn Jordan, Grandmothers-in-law Gladys Trahey and Elsie Heller, Sister Crystal Pepkowski (Goodwin), Brother-in-law Luke Pepkowski, Brother Thomas Goodwin, Sister-in-law Jackie Schaffer (Trahey), Brother-in-law Joe Schaffer, Brother-in-Law Shawn Trahey, Sister-in-law Jennifer Trahey and 6 nephews Conner 8, Cameron 6, Dean 6, Tyler 4, Grant 3, Cole 2 and so many other loving relatives.
Visitation will be held on Wednesday, February 12, 2020, from 4 to 8 p.m. at Anderson and Campbell Funeral Home, 703 Main St., Toms River. A Funeral Mass will be held on Thursday, February 13 at 11:00 a.m. at St. Joseph's Church, 685 Hooper Ave, Toms River. Cremation will be private. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to Sara's GoFundMe page. Condolences may be made by visiting www.andersonandcampbell.com.
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Kenneth Goodwin
February 14, 2020
My sincerest condolences K.c and the rest of the family for your tragic loss. Just looking at her photo you can tell that she was a dynamic woman with a warm smile and a kind heart. I am sure she will be missed by all who knew her.
Kerin O'Brien Dezell
February 13, 2020
We are so very sorry to hear of Sara's passing. Please know we will keep Sara and the entire Trahey family in our thoughts and prayers.
With our sincerest condolences....
Kerin O'Brien Dezell
Angel Maldonado
February 13, 2020
Sara was a great teacher. And a good friend. She was a beautiful person inside and out!! May she RIP. She will be missed!! She'll always be in our hearts.
Kali Burgos
February 12, 2020
You will be missed, Sara. You were a very kind soul at Ella G. Clarke. Since Day 1, you've always had a smile on your face. Now fly high and smile with the Angels looking down upon your family and protecting them!! RIP, Sweetie!!
Laurie Roberto
February 12, 2020
Soar with the Angel's Sara my Friend
Beverly Smith
February 12, 2020
So very sorry for both the Goodwin and Trahey families losing this happy cheerful beautiful girl. God bless you all. Beverly and Greg Smith
Ian Moran
February 11, 2020
What a good person. I am very lucky to have been able to grow up in the same neighborhood with her. I am so sad that this has happened. I hope that her family can find some form of peace in this.
Kerry Dalziel
February 11, 2020
We will always remember her smile and spunkiness. She could light up a room in an instant. Our hearts are heavy. Sending love, prayers and comfort to all who had the honor of sharing their lives with her. There are no words for the grief and tremendous loss. With love, The Dalziels
Laurie Roberto
February 10, 2020
Our deepest sympathy on this Loss of a Beautiful Person and w wonderful friend.Sara you will be deeply missed and forever remembered.Jeff and your beautiful Children,I send heartfelt Prayers to carry on someway ,somehow... Your friend Laurie.
Laurie Roberto
February 10, 2020
Our deepest sympathy on this Loss of a Beautiful Person and w wonderful friend.Sara you will be deeply missed and forever remembered.Jeff and your beautiful Children,I send heartfelt Prayers to carry on someway ,somehow... Your friend Laurie.
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