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Jeffrey Lowther Obituary
AGE: 57 • Asbury Park
Jeffrey C. Lowther, 57, of Asbury Park, died on July 18, 2015; he was born in Jersey City, NJ. Jeffrey worked as a seafood clerk for Shop Rite in Neptune.
Surviving are his brothers, Charles and Ronald Lowther; sisters, Michele Kelly-Spiewak, Jacqueline Hicks and Jennifer Lowther and many nieces and nephews. Jeffrey was preceded in death by his parents, Charles and Jacqueline Lowther; and by his partner, Brian Banach.
Visitation will be held on Wednesday, July 22, 2015, from 7-9pm at John F. Pfleger Funeral Home, 115 Tindall Road, Middletown.
In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to Jeffrey's family to help with funeral expenses. For more information, to send condolences or for directions, please visit www.pflegerfh.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Jeffrey Lowther
karen wagner
July 26, 2015
Jeff, it's been 25 years since the days we partied together in Boots, in Asbury Park.Out of all the people I hung with you are the only one I always will remember fondly.You were a great person to be with.I will always remember how gentle and sweet you were.Rest in Peace.Love you always.....Karen M. Wagner.
Erin Lowther
July 24, 2015
Jeff,
We send our love and light to you on your journey. Be at peace.
Erin, Rich and Faith Lowther
Liz
July 23, 2015
Love you, Uncle Jeff!! Thank you for always treating me like a blood niece. Miss you already. Rest easy <3
Carol Bonura
July 23, 2015
Jeff, haven't seen you in years since, I moved. I will always remember the many good times we had. Rest In Peace My condolences to your family & friends.
Lynn. Aka pixie Zawada
July 22, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with the Lowther family and everyone who loved and cared for Jeffrey . He was a kind soul
Ronald & Fatima Lis
July 22, 2015
My deepest sympathies to the lowther family.Rest in peace Jeffery.
Eduardo Garcia
July 22, 2015
You meant a whole lot to me for those three years we shared a life together...
I have always had you in my mind, and I have always wished you the best in this life, ...a life you have already left behind to join the angels in Heaven...
Now when I look up in the sky, and I see the brightest star, I see you Jeff... And some day I will be looking for its shine to guide my path into Heaven where we will eventually meet again...
Mike Anan
July 22, 2015
Jeff, just because you're in heaven now doesn't mean you can stop rooting for the Devils! Rest in peace, old buddy. My deepest sympathies to Jeff's family.
July 22, 2015
Jeff, I remember our days back in the apply department the breakfast pizzas that you made the hot foods .... but most of all your smiling face, R.I.P Jeff..
July 22, 2015
You have left all of us with a void in our hearts.
Fritz Richter
July 21, 2015
Jeff I am devastated. I cant imagine Jersey without you. And i will always treasure the time we spent on Cape Cod. You were such a great friend and I only hope I told you that . Rest in peace dear friend.
Stephen Dexter
July 21, 2015
May you rest in peace Jeff; a good and kind man. I feel privileged to have known you.
Brigitte Hayes
July 21, 2015
Anyone who had the privilege to know you met an angel in disguise. I will miss you my friend!
Samuel Nagy
July 21, 2015
Will surely miss that warm welcome you always gave me. Enjoy paradise !!
July 21, 2015
Jeff I will miss seeing your smiling face. May God bring you family comfort at this time. R.I.P
patty siano
July 21, 2015
hey jeff I will always remember the atlantis club where you bartended.
July 21, 2015
God Bless Rest in peace!!
Wayne and Eileen Hicks
July 21, 2015
Our prayers and love are sent your way.
July 21, 2015
Jeffery, you will be missed,so grateful our paths crossed. RIP our friend.
Christopher Wiley
July 21, 2015
Rest in peace
Mickey Carter
July 21, 2015
Jeffrey, you will be missed by so many. You were such a sweet, kind and caring person. My condolences to all of your family and friends. RIP until we meet again.
Karen & Les Wagner
July 21, 2015
Too sudden, too soon...God will I miss you. Tell Brian hello. R.I.P. my friend.
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