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Philip C. Ruddy, 78, beloved husband, father, grandfather and prominent Kane County Attorney, died peacefully at home, surrounded by family, on Thursday June 25, 2020. A true renaissance man who vividly embraced and loved life, he was born, lived and practiced law in Aurora, Illinois until 2013, when he and his wife Colleen moved full-time to their wonderful cottage in Union Pier, Michigan.

Mr. Ruddy attended Holy Angels School and Marmion Military Academy, and received both his undergraduate and law degrees from the University of Notre Dame. He began his legal career in 1966 as a law clerk to Chief Justice Roy J. Solfisburg of the Illinois Supreme Court, and then joined the law firm founded by his father, Clarence J. Ruddy. The original firm, Ruddy, Myler and Bartsch, eventually became known as Myler, Ruddy and McTavish, in which Mr. Ruddy worked for over 45 years.

In addition to the practice of law, Mr. Ruddy also held many civic and political positions, including serving as City Attorney and then Corporation Counsel for the city of Aurora from 1969 until 1976. In 1970, the Illinois Junior Chamber of Commerce selected him as one of three outstanding young men in the state. He also served for many years as Vice Chairman of the Aurora Human Relations Commission. In 1972, Mr. Ruddy was elected a delegate to the Democratic National Convention in Miami, and served as an Illinois Special Assistant Attorney General from 1984 through 1988. He was a founder and an original director of the Kane County Bar Foundation from 1966 through 2001, and an active member of the Illinois State Bar Association, where he served as Chairman of the Ethics Committee. In his later years, Mr. Ruddy also relished serving as a volunteer docent for the DeBartolo Performing Arts Center at The University of Notre Dame.

Mr. Ruddy is survived by his beloved wife of 54 years, Colleen (Murray), his son Philip C. Ruddy Jr. (wife Ana) of Glendale, California, his daughter Erin Ruddy Sabey (husband Andrew) of Lafayette, California, and his grandchildren Julia Colleen Sabey, Reed Andrew Sabey and Benjamin Oak Ruddy. He is also survived by his sister Mary Margaret Ruddy Zumoff (husband Robert) of Tempe, Arizona and his brother C. John Ruddy (wife Lorna) of Aurora.

Mr. Ruddy's gregarious "joie de vivre" was renowned and exemplified through his love of family, friends, food, wine, film, art, philosophy, history, fresh flowers, and classical, blues, and rock and roll music. He also loved to travel, including many trips to Southern France and Northern Italy, as well as Mexico, Greece, and his ancestral home of Ireland. He never missed a sunset if he could help it, preferably on a beach, with his wife at his side and a glass of wine in his hand.

Even as his illness progressed, Mr. Ruddy never stopped sharing his enthusiasm and appreciation for all that life has to offer – a sentiment that was echoed time and again, by the kind words he received from family and friends around the world, whose lives he touched in ways both big and small. In his honor, we invite you to embrace life, take time to enjoy every moment, the sun, the sky, the flowers – and toast every sunset, for the days we are gifted.

In light of Covid-19, there will be no services at this time. In lieu of flowers, the family invites you to consider a donation to your local hospice organization.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Beacon News on Jun. 28, 2020.

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Lurdes and Luis Aceves

June 22, 2023

Time flies by too quickly for us all but I am certain to his children, grandchildren and especially his beautiful wife Colleen it seems like yesterday when Philip left them. I for one am surprised it´s almost a year since his passing. Recalling how much he loved sunsets I made a conscious effort to seek the sun setting and bask in its beauty! Next sunset the Aceves Family will raise a glass of wine in your honor.

Shirley Cantrell

June 22, 2021

To the Ruddy family,
It's hard to believe that Philip has been gone a year already. We spoke on the phone just a short time before his passing and he was still extremely kind and generous with his words to me. I've been an employee of Old Second for over 30 yrs now and had known Philip for many of those years. He was always a pleasure to speak with and will be missed for a long time. My thoughts are with all those that loved him and those that he loved as well.

Kindest regards,
Shirley Cantrell

Jeanette&Kieran Mone

July 21, 2020

We only knew Philip and Colleen since December and are always enjoyed Philips interesting anecdotals and his sneaky sense of humor. We are grateful we got to know the little bit we did. Our hearts break for Colleen and the entire family.

Marie Sedona Vigliotta

July 8, 2020

This world feels a little bit emptier today, for the passing of this good gentleman, scholar, connoisseur of fine wine, food, sunsets, beaches and flowers; a man who knew how to thoroughly enjoy and appreciate every stage of his life. My deepest condolences go out to his entire family- especially to Colleen, Erin and Philip Jr. What a gift he was to us all!
I'll always remember him standing in your Aurora kitchen, brandishing some kitchen utensil in one hand, wine glass in the other, as he described the delicious, aromatic recipe he'd just prepared for our elegant, candlelit dinner, with Colleen bustling in the background, making sure the table was perfectly set and ready for the evening's entertainment. Oh, how that man could cook!
I'm so grateful for his presence in our lives.

Shirley Cantrell

July 4, 2020

My condolences Colleen and family: I've known Phil for a long time and was a client at some point. He was always a pleasure to speak with. We had a conversation only about a month ago. It's hard to believe he is already gone. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Hugh Stevens

July 4, 2020

Phil was a genial member of the Harbor Country community; it was always a pleasure to run into him and exchange a few words. We will miss him.

Jo Fredell Higgins

July 1, 2020

Dear Colleen and family, My deepest sympathy on the passing of Philip. He was a fine man who made an outstanding contribution to the Aurora community and will be greatly missed.Love, Jo Fredell Higgins

Lavonne Burkhart

July 1, 2020

Phil took over our office space in the old Aurora National Bank building when we moved our practice to the west side of Aurora. I always felt we had left the place in good hands. Knew Phil for many years. He never forgot a face and always called you by name. Just a kind, caring man. He will truly be missed. My deepest condolences to Colleen, Erin and Phil, Jr.

Mark Anderson

July 1, 2020

His sharp mind and positive outlook on life will be missed. We shared the same locker room area at the YMCA on Garfield and engaged in many lively conversations. My condolences to John and Phils families.

Leslie and Fred Knight

July 1, 2020

When I think of saluting the sunset on Lake Michigan, Phil pops to mind. Meeting Phil and Colleen at the Townline Beach many years ago with their glass of wine and joyous salute to the sun, I knew they were kindred spirits. And, from then on, whenever we would meet, it was a happy reunion. Who could be more optimistic, upbeat, fun loving, kind, interesting than Phil? We feel lucky and honored to have him as a friend and neighbor. He leaves us with fond memories and will be forever in our hearts as we salute the beautiful sunsets in Union Pier. Peace....

Kerry Shay

July 1, 2020

I send my condolences for the passing of Philip. He was a true gentleman and a great conversationalist. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. May God bless the family and surround them with comfort and love.

Kathy Murphy Robertson

July 1, 2020

Many good memories of Phil and his family in Aurora. So terribly sorry for your loss of a wonderful man.

Nancy Priebe

July 1, 2020

I was a client of Mr. Ruddy many years back now. He was a very caring Attorney. He helped a person fight for what was right. An angel on earth.
Many blessings.....

Jack Cunningham

June 30, 2020

Rest in peace Phil

Joyce Artman Smith

June 30, 2020

I especially remember Phil during my high school years: showing up in his red Marmion jacket and his dad's yellow & white Buick Roadmaster...always smiling, enthusiastic, and "game" for new adventures. And I am smiling as I write this, thinking about the times I saw him over the years...never a bad comment about anybody, and always with that wondrous smile. To Colleen, Erin, and Phillip: rest assured that all the love you gave him is still with him, and all the love he gave you stays with you. He is set, and so are you.

Jorge Joglar

June 30, 2020

I wish to express my deepest condolences to his family, especially to Colleen and also to all his friends

Patrick Kinnally

June 29, 2020

Colleen

I am very sorry Phil is no longer
With you & the rest of us

He was a true advocate. I
Had two cases with him
When he was counsel for
The Aurora Human Relations
Commission. Both were hotly
Contested and he was patient
And a good steward . The
Results made Aurora a better
Place.

I will miss him

John P Duggan

June 29, 2020

My sincere condolences to Phil's beloved family and countless friends. Phil was a wonderful Member of the Aurora and Kane County Bar that I had the honor of working with often. He will be missed as a colleague and a friend.

Bonnie Lee Kunkel

June 29, 2020

Phil was great. If you enjoy intelligence, humor and spark you had to love him. What a great lawyer and a great man.

G Alexander Alexander McTavish

June 29, 2020

I was Phil's law partner for 30 years. We had our ups and downs but I will remember him most for his help with the adoption of our daughter. I know he had a special fondness for Maisie and will never forget that morning in court. When Maisie saw him she rushed over to him and he gathered her up in his arms. It was a special moment. She, too, had a special fondness for Phil and for that memory I will always remember him and be grateful.

Kevin Mccarty

June 29, 2020

I have known Phil for 35 years. He was a gentleman, intelligent, honest and more than capable. We all should aspire to his standards.

harry schaffner

June 29, 2020

I was friends with Phil for all my 35 years as a lawyer in Kane County. We shared mutual interests in the arts, food and family. We just enjoyed each other. He was always the well dressed gentleman. My wife and I send our condolences to Coleen and his children. Harry Schaffner

John P. Chapski

June 29, 2020

As a young lawyer in Kane County, I recall how nice it was to work with a veteran lawyer that didn't take advantage of my lack of knowledge . Phil was a real pleasure to work with on cases. I think about him often. He will be missed. Sorry for your loss.

Arleen L Podschweit

June 29, 2020

As a legal secretary, I remember working with Phil. Very pleasant person to associate with.

James J. Ruddy

June 29, 2020

Our deepest sympathy to Colleen, Phil Jr., Erin, Mary, and John. Phil was an outstanding man, lawyer, father, grandfather and just a great person. He will be truly missed. Jim & Janis Ruddy Family

john plain

June 28, 2020

I could write a book about Phil. Our parents associated and we grew up together. We went to nursery school, cruised Downer Place, drank beer in my kitchen, went to Walt Bothe's lake house in Wisconsin, worked at Yellowstone Nat. Park, and he was my Best Man. We had a lot of great memories to last a lifetime. My condolences to Colleen and the whole Ruddy family.

June 28, 2020

So sorry for your loss! Our sympathies & prayers for Colleen & families! Sincerely & God bless you! Brad & Carol White❤

John hawking

June 28, 2020

To the entire Ruddy clan, Im offering my deepest sympathy. Phil was my friend from high school to the present & well beyond.

John hawking

June 28, 2020

To the entire Ruddy clan, Im offering my deepest sympathy. Phil was my friend from high school to the present & well beyond.

Lurdes Aceves

June 28, 2020

Phillip was an accomplished man but what I will remember him best is for his charisma, humor and passion for his family. He adored his children and left a legacy of living life to the fullest to his grandchildren. He will be missed and in his honor we at the Aceves Household will definitely continue to live life to the fullest!

Tony Toma

June 28, 2020

went to Marmion with Phil and he was a great individual. He will be missed and my condolences to his family.
Rest in peace Phil and God Bless.

janet Schrader

June 27, 2020

Philip always had a smile to give you.

Celeste, Nara and Zachary

June 27, 2020

What a beautiful person you were! We were so blessed to have known you, Uncle Phil. We so enjoyed your wonderful hospitality at your lake home in Michigan. We will always remember your kindness and generosity toward our family, especially toward Nara and Zachary You will be missed!

Ed Duffy

June 27, 2020

It is an absolute shock to hear of Philip's passing. My warmest thoughts and condolences to Colleen and his family. He know how to live a life well, to treasure all the beauty that life has to offer, whether it be a great wine, or a great book. .... may god hold him in the palm of his hand.

Zaida Rodriguez

June 27, 2020

My condolences to Colleen, Philip, Erin, John and the entire family. Philip was the best boss ever and I have wonderful memories working at the law firm. Philip and Erin, you were his pride and joy. I remember how he lighted up when he spoke about you. Colleen, his love for you was immense. He gave me tickets to a Friday Cubs game that led to me meeting and dating a Major League Baseball player. Bet you didnt know that. He gave me a gift that led to beautiful memories of a lifetime. He is now forever in your hearts and only a beautiful memory away. Truly one of a kind. Im saddened by his passing and wish I would have stayed in touch. May he Rest in Paradise.

Debbie Goldenthal

June 27, 2020

So very sorry for your loss, I always saw him at Barneys, always a smile, such a kind gentle man... my deepest condolences
Debbie Goldenthal

Jane Lynn

June 27, 2020

Colleen, I am so sorry to hear about Phil. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. It was always fun to see Phil and I know he will be missed.

Suzanne Aberly

June 27, 2020

Ansel joins me in sending our condolences. We have fond Union Pier memories of dinners in your home enjoying Philips wonderful cooking...all best, your Dallas friends, The Aberlys.

Suzanne aberly

June 27, 2020

Ansel joins me in sending our condolences to you, Colleen ,and your lovely family..we fondly remember our many lovely Union Pier evenings with you two enjoying Philips wonderful cooking! All best, your Dallas friends, The Aberlys.

Elizabeth Granoff

June 27, 2020

My deepest condolences. I'm so very sorry. I have so many good memories of the being with the family at your house on LaGrande in Aurora and also stopping by in Union Pier. What a wonderful man and family. He was kind and helped so many people as a lawyer.

Hanni U. Taylor

June 27, 2020

A toast to you, dear Philip!
How precious, how tender It is to watch a sunset over water, much more so is the remembrance of your joie de vivre that has so enriched our being. Thank you, friend. Condolences, Colleen, Erin, Philip and family!

Carole and AndyArliskas

June 27, 2020

So terribly sorry to hear about Phil. Our sympathies to Colleen and the family. We was one of the good guys always a smile on his face. We were good friends when he lived in Aurora. We wish him a good journey.

Richard G Larsen

June 27, 2020

I am deeply saddened to hear this. Phil was my partner, friend, and mentor. Phil was a great lawyer, but more importantly a great human being with a zest for life that is unmatched. My best to Colleen, Erin, and Phil, jr. Phil will be missed by all who knew and loved him.

Shana Kirby

June 27, 2020

We will always smile when we think of you, Good Heavens! We love you and will always remember you lighting up a gathering with your songs, wonderful stories, good wine, food, and of course your friendship. You will be missed!

Jennifer Trout

June 27, 2020

So sorry to see this. He was such a friendly person and I always enjoyed seeing him at the Roadhouse. Sending my love to Colleen and the family

Jack Marcus

June 27, 2020

It was an honor knowing him.
I always enjoyed our chats at The Red Arrow Roadhouse.
He will be missed.

Jacqui Schiewe

June 27, 2020

So sorry to learn of Phil's passing. He filled a room when he entered and always brought a smile. I always looked forward to visiting with him. A life well lived.

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