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Henry Harrison Hayden III

1947 - 2020

Henry Harrison Hayden III obituary, 1947-2020, Scottsdale, AZ

BORN

1947

DIED

2020

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Hansen Desert Hills Mortuary and Cemetery - Scottsdale

6500 E. Bell Road

Scottsdale, Arizona

Henry Hayden Obituary

Henry Harrison Hayden III

On the evening of September 30, 2020, Henry Harrison Hayden III (of Scottsdale) unexpectedly passed away. He was only 73 years old. Henry was born to Henry and Peggy Hayden, in Burbank, CA, in 1947. Henry's parents were very active with the foreign exchange student organization AFS (American Field Service). During his high school years, he had foreign exchange students from all over the world that lived with the family; giving him a more culturally inclusive worldview. He graduated from Burbank High School in 1965. He was a proud alumnus of the University of Southern California (USC) and, after graduating, assisted foreign exchange students from all over the world with the (AFS) in New York City. He became a librarian at the Braille Institute in Los Angeles, CA, where he met the love of his life, Susie, whom he married in 1978. They raised two children together, Kimberly and Lindsay, in Scottsdale, where they have resided for 31 years. He was a librarian with the Arizona State Talking Book Library and with Chandler Public Library. He will be greatly missed by the thousands of readers whose lives were touched by his compassion and love for knowledge.

In his spare time, he enjoyed reading and meditation at the Franciscan Renewal Center. He also enjoyed spending time with his family. He loved playing with his grandchildren, being in nature especially the ocean, playing with his animals.

Henry is preceded in death by his mother Peggy, his father, Henry, and his mother-in-law, Betty. He is survived by his wife Susie, his daughters, Kimberly and Lindsay, his son-in-law Christopher, his grandchildren, Shealeigh, Leighanna, and Everleigh, his sisters Barbara and Dena, his nieces Lizzy and Katie, and his nephews Daniel, Travis, Hayden, and Jake. He is also survived by several cousins as well as brothers and sisters-in-law.

A public viewing will be held on Wednesday, October 7, 2020, from 5-7 pm at Hansen Desert Hills Mortuary located at 6500 E. Bell Rd with a rosary to follow the viewing. His funeral Mass will be Thursday, October 8th, at 10:30 am at the Church of Our Lady of the Angels (aka the Franciscan Renewal Center) located at 5802 E. Lincoln Dr, culminating with burial services at St. Francis Catholic Cemetery. His services will be livestreamed and can be accessed by clicking on the following link: https://youtu.be/-KORezdhfKk

Henry has met many wonderful people during his 73 years young. He loved service and he loved the people he served. He loved and will miss all of you. Please visit hansenmortuary.com for online condolences.

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Published by The Arizona Republic from Oct. 5 to Oct. 6, 2020.

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Esperanza Garcia

October 20, 2020

I’ve been using the AZ taking Book service since the mid 90’s and I’ve been helped by Henry more times than I can count. He always knew what books I would enjoy and he always made me feel like we were close friends anytime we talked. I will miss hearing his voice and his amazing book suggestions. I pray we can meet again one day. May his soul rest in paradise.

Stephanie H. Foster

October 12, 2020

When I was new to the Reference Desk, I was privileged to work with and learn from Henry at Chandler. He was a wonderful librarian and a truly special human being--his passing is a loss to the profession and the world.

David Haskins

October 9, 2020

I am a volunteer at Arizona Talking Books Library. One of my greatest pleasures was to greet Henry twice a week when I arrived to do my volunteer machine repair. We had a most friendly rivalry; Henry went to USC and I went to Oklahoma University (OU). We talked football a lot. I know from talking to Henry's clients that he was a very helpful librarian and much admired. He was a great guy! We will miss him.

Mary Handley

October 8, 2020

To the family of Henry Hayden , I want to express my sorrow for their loss.
Also to let you know how much I appreciated the helpful and polite way Henry
treated me when ordering books from Az. Talking Book Library.
There were times I was at a loss for what I wanted to read and Henry would say
" I'll pick out some books I think you will enjoy" . . and I did..
I realize there are other staff members at ATBL that have similar qualities as Henry
bu in my heart. no one can take the place of Henry Hayden.
May God be with his family.

Alice Gallagher

October 7, 2020

Whenever I called about books, he was always so gracious and always had time for me. He always had a good book or two. Can't say how much I appreciated this, He will be missed. I am so glad I kne w him if only on the phone.My thoughts and prayers are with his family

David MacKay

October 7, 2020

I'm going to miss Henry. We worked together for almost 20 years here at the Chandler Public Library and together we helped each other grow and learn the ever changing ways of the library. I did my best to show him the ways of Circulation and he tried to get me to watch sports with him. In the end we just loved talking about great movies. Well I should say movies in general, our taste in films were not always the best. Ha! I will always remember him and his voice. We laughed at the desk as we told stories, and try as we might, we did occasionally get shushed by a patron. Oops. We're loud and we can't help it. Gonna miss you big guy.

Kathi Fischer

October 6, 2020

I will miss my best-phone-friend, Henry. He has assisted me with books from the Arizona State Talking Book Library for over 12 years. We have had many enjoyable, funny and witty conversations during this time. (He spoiled me rotten.) My heart is broken for his family and co-workers. Sincerely, Kathi Fischer

Tina Herbison

October 6, 2020

I worked with Henry Hayden at the Braille Institute. We have kept in touch over the years. I am proud to know him, he was kind and compassionate. He was the first person to express to me that I had a natural gift as a manager/leader. I pray for his family to be comforted and to have peace. Kind regards, Tina Herbison

Larry Cassady

October 6, 2020

I was a co-worker with Mr. Hayden at Cholla Library in the 1990s. He was a gentleman, first rate librarian, and a pleasure to work with. I am truly sorry for your loss.

October 6, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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6500 E. Bell Road, Scottsdale, AZ 85254

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6500 E. Bell Road, Scottsdale, AZ 85254

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