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Neal Berger

1939 - 2018

Neal Berger obituary, 1939-2018, Phoenix, AZ

BORN

1939

DIED

2018

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Neal Berger Obituary

Neal Berger

Phoenix Neal Sheldon Berger died unexpectedly on June 21, 2018. He had just turned 79 and had his very first surprise birthday party. He was ecstatic.

Neal was born at Newark Beth Israel Hospital in Newark, New Jersey on May 8, 1939 to Rose and Joseph. He graduated from the Yeshiva University in 1960 and then moved to Belgium to study medicine at the Catholic University of Louvain, where along with medicine, he managed to also teach himself French.

While studying, he was lucky to meet the love of his life, Helena - a stunning Dutch girl working and modeling in Brussels. Throughout their lives together, they continued to speak French, usually at the dinner table to the unending frustration of their children.

Upon his return to the United States, Neal involuntarily joined the Navy as a Lieutenant and was posted to Albuquerque, New Mexico where his inability to swim was considered an asset. Shortly thereafter he was assigned to Bikini Atoll where he was disappointed at the lack of the aforementioned swimwear.

He returned to Phoenix and opened a pediatric practice which grew into a four-physician group. Neal was an "old school" doctor, in the style immortalized by Norman Rockwell, only with less hair. He was truly interested in his patients, treating not just the symptoms or the disease, but the whole being. Neal not only treated them when they were sick, but offered himself and his time when they were well. He was a mentor, a tutor, a sage, and a sounding board. He always made time. Despite a full schedule, he never missed one of his kids' events. Baseball, softball, swimming, tennis - he showed up.

He retired in July of 2009. He picked up cooking and golf, and to everyone's surprise managed not to kill anyone with either activity.

Neal was President of the Maricopa County Pediatric Society during the establishment of Phoenix Children's Hospital and was an active practitioner and contributor to the resident teaching staff throughout his career. He was also one of the founders of the Arizona Center for Law in the Public Interest and the first non-lawyer to be elected to the governing board. He played an active role in the legislation requiring suspected child abuse be reported by physicians, nurses, teachers, and all others involved in childcare.

He loved sports. He fenced and played basketball in college. He was an excellent tennis player and a horrible golfer. He bowled and counted cards. There are people from college who still owe him money. He had an encyclopedic knowledge of statistics, facts and trivia with which he regularly wowed his grandchildren.

Neal also read. Everything. He wore out library cards. After his death, upon his bedside table was found a pocket notebook with an exhausting list of books scribbled in his Lilliputian handwriting.

Neal was a connoisseur of wine and bolo ties. He was a snappy dresser and wore polyester and pleated jeans before they were cool. He loved to eat and searched the globe for the overlooked hole-in-the-wall. He enthusiastically dragged suspicious friends and family into unsafe neighborhoods and dodgy storefronts on the promise of an amazing meal.

He was a world traveler. Neal and Leny explored the 4 corners of the world on elaborately researched but self-guided trips. He would often begin researching a destination a year in advance, corresponding with hoteliers, museums, musicians, friends, friends of friends, and half known acquaintances - whom he quickly turned into lifelong friends.

Neal was passionate about music, practicing at the piano almost every day. He taught his dog to sing. He was an accumulator of sheet music. He loved the symphony (opera, not so much), but he really loved chamber music. He was an integral part of the Phoenix Chamber Music Society for more than 35 years. He was asked to join the PCMS Program Committee in 1983 and joined its Board of Directors in 1989. Neal served as president for two terms. According to Neal, he was finally given Emeritus status to protect him from voting. He was deeply devoted to the Society and regarded it to be the best rewarding cultural and social relationship of his life.

His irrepressible sense of humor, especially in public venues, terrified his wife and family. Colleagues, too, backed away when he mentioned that he had seen "this Rabbi who walked into a bar". He was the master of the bad joke. The groaner. The horrible pun . . . the hand-puppet made from a sock in the middle of a restaurant.

Neal is survived by his wife, Helena, his son, Joshua and wife Maryanne, and three grandsons, Alexander, Michael, and Niccolo. His daughter, Natasha predeceased him in 2013, survived by his son-in-law Tom Blachowski, his wife Dawn and their daughter Adalynn. His older brother, Martin, his wife Pat and their family and dear close friends Wolf and Sari Safrin as well as their children and family, also mourn his passing.

He will be missed.

A Memorial Celebration will be held on July 14, 2018 at the Phoenix Country Club from 2 to 5 PM. Please, no mourning attire. Neal would have said that it's too hot to wear black.

In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory are suggested to the Banner Alzheimer's Foundation, 2901 N. Central Ave., Suite 160, Phoenix, AZ 85012 or the Phoenix Chamber Music Society, PO Box 34235, Phoenix, AZ 85067.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Arizona Republic from Jul. 6 to Jul. 8, 2018.

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Albert Dugan, MD

June 30, 2024

Recall Lt. Neal Berger USN Dec31,1969 sweeping onto OB wards and nursery in top hat and cape to check newborns(our new daughter Christine) and wish the Mom's(my wife Jeane)Happy New Year at Sandia Base Army Hospitals in Albuquerque. He did serve voluntarily as did we all. The option was to be inducted as a combat enlisted person. We had a CHOICE. He was a great colleague including an assignment to help clean Bikini Atoll after nuclear testing. We were stateside soldier doctors in those days. With thanks,
A Dugan, MD

Epstein Joshua

October 17, 2023

I am very saddened to read about Neal´s passing. We met quite often during our studies in Belgium. We remained in contact, met again in Tel Aviv, and renewed our friendship in Phoenix, where he organized a concert for our string quartet in 1977. Then again, much later, we met a few times during our visit to Scottsdale in September 2017. I suspected something bad, since I tried to call him from NY but couldn´t reach him.
My belated but sincere condolences to Leny, to Joshua whom I met as a kid and all his family.
Joshua Epstein

Robin Frondell

September 5, 2023

I am so sorry to learn of the passing of the Great "Dr. Berger". He was the best pediatrician to all three of my kids. He was even my pediatrician from the time I came home from the hospital until I had to go to an "adult" doctor. LOL, I was so sad I remember. I always loved his staff and have always remembered Mary and Jackie. RIP Dr Berger, You were the best and will be missed by millions, no doubt.

Albert Dugan

September 2, 2023

My wife recalls Lt Berger swooping in at midnight New Years Eve Dec 31, 1969 at Sandia Base Hospital to kiss the Moms of his newborns in the nursery. He landed for temporary duty Bikini Atoll in new Hawaiian shirt and leii to the surprise of his commander. A good doc. Maj A Dugan USArmy Med Corps

Robin Frondell

September 10, 2020

I am so sorry for your loss. I just saw this. We live in a diff state now. Dr. Berger was the best. I am saddened by this. Dr. Berger was my pediatrician my whole life, then my kids after. He was an amazing man. I always remembered him whenever we would eat at the Chowder house.(he told me to go there). RIP Dr Berger, always in my heart!! Robin Frondell and kids

Janel Yanez

April 19, 2019

We just learned of Dr. Berger's passing today. He was my son's excellent pediatrician from age three to his late teens. My son loved him and always looked forward to his doctor visits. Dr. Berger was gentle, patient, and funny. We have great memories of him that we still share at family gatherings. Please accept our sincere condolences. He will be missed.

Janel Yanez
Artemis Yanez

Nancy and Hank Markiewicz

July 14, 2018

Our sympathy and good wishes to the entire family. Dr Berger provided wonderful care, terrific medical knowledge and attention to our three kids, Joshua, Korye and Brad many years ago. Sorry we will miss the memorial celebration today, but our thoughts and prayers go out to all.

Lisa Rodriguez Bustos

July 14, 2018

Dr Berger was also my pediatrician since I was a little girl. My dad had his own lawn service and use to cut his lawn that's how we started going to Dr. Berger. He was also my children's pediatrician who are now 28, 23 and 21 years old. He was such an amazing and loving man. He didn't only care for the children but also the parents. After he retired he would visit the office and ask Jaque if my daughter Ariana who is special needs had been in and how she was doing and to say hi to us. My daughter was in and out of the children's hospital and he would come in every time to make sure the docs were taking real good care of her and if they weren't he would go find them and let them have it. She loved him very much. We all did. Thank you Dr Berger for always being there for my family. Condolences to his wife and family.

Michael Broyles

July 12, 2018

We lost one of the best today, an incredible man of incredible talent, intellect and, most importantly, heart.

Dora Wade

July 8, 2018

Dr Berger was my dr from age 3 along with my 2 brothers. Both of my girls saw him too till he retired. They are 23 and 9 now. I knew we were in good hands with him and his office staff. They knew me by voice on the phone. The last time I saw him he gave me a hug and said I was his baby. He really did take time to take care of the problem and never made you feel like you took up too much of his time. He mentored me being a single parent and encouraged me every time I saw him as well as asking about my parents and brothers. The Wade family, Don, Sue, Donald, Aaron, and Dora leave our condolences to his family and wonderful office staff. Dr Neal Berger will be missed!!!

"Those calling upon Him" Psalms 145:18

July 8, 2018

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Kathy Rampy

July 8, 2018

Dr. Berger was my childrens' doctor from birth to adulthood. Dr. Berger saved my daughter's life on 11/28/92 and we will be forever grateful that he was there. Rest in peace, you deserve it, the world is better because you were in it.

Lucia Perry

July 8, 2018

Our three kids were patients of Dr. Berger. I always enjoyed talking with him. I was sad to see that he had died, and yet happy to see his image in the paper, which made me smile. Thank you, Dr. Berger, and thanks also to the family for the obituarya last chance to hang out with our Favorite Doctor, and a remarkable person. A life well-lived. Condolences to the family.

B R

July 7, 2018

Dr. Berger was my doctor from the time I was born until I was 18 years old. I have such fond memories of him and would have died as a toddler without his in-depth knowledge and care for his patients. I send my deepest condolences to Dr. Berger's family and my thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

J

July 7, 2018

With deepest sympathy may you find comfort knowing that our Heavenly Father cares for you in your time of grief. John 14:1

J

July 7, 2018

With deepest sympathy may you find comfort knowing that our Heavenly Father cares for you in your time of grief. John 14:1

July 6, 2018

Josh & Family:

Carol ,Bernard & Jim Dougherty express their deepest sorrow when reading of Dr's ,passing..
We have fond memories of his compassion, skill & love for all children..including our John when he & Josh shared a room at St. Joseph's Hospital many years ago..
Take comfort in those beautiful words of his obituary..a good man...for all seasons..

With sadness but joyous memories,

Carol & Bernard Dougherty

Libby Atwater

July 6, 2018

We have lost a beloved cousin, great friend, and wise mentor. Neal and I missed 30 years of each other's lives, but we made them up in the 36 years we shared as first cousins. Our visits were filled with adventures, especially culinary ones, and our talks were endless. The talks have ended, and we will live with warm memories of a lovely man who touched every life he entered. Our condolences to his family and to all who were fortunate enough to have had Neal in their lives. We will miss him.

Natalie Allen-Sullivan

July 6, 2018

I am so sorry for your loss. I have never met Neal. However, his obituary makes me wish that I had! Whoever wrote this is a super star! It was HILARIOUS and honestly, I was hoping that it would have gone on for longer. You have brightened my day :) I am sending prayers to you and your family ♡

Natalie

Carole

July 6, 2018

Dr. Berger was my son's pediatrician. He was such a good doctor and my son loved him. I am so sorry for your loss.

KJ

July 6, 2018

My sincere condolences for the loss of your dear loved one. May fond memories and the love of family and friends comfort you during this difficult time. Jeremiah 29:11.

RK

July 5, 2018

Please accept my dearest and heartfelt sympathy; I am so sorry for your loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn" sustain your family during this challenging time. Isaiah 61:1, 2

Kathy Wilmer

July 4, 2018

Dr. Berger, who was my neighbor growing up didn't know I had gotten married and had a baby. He was so thrilled for me when I came to him with my son for his first check-up. Dr. Berger was such a kind doctor and so easy to talk to. I was disappointed when he retired, but felt fortunate he got both of my kids off to a healthy start in life. Thank you Dr. Berger.

Dr. Brad and Carol Klock

July 1, 2018

We are shocked and deeply saddened to learn of Neal's unexpected passing. He was a kind, compassionate, learned and wonderful friend, physician and humorist. Feeling blessed to have known him and his family the past thirty years. He shall be missed and remembered endearingly. Sincere condolences to Josh and his family...

Ed Goldstein

June 26, 2018

Dedicated in all endeavors. A good man and good friend. Will miss your contributions to the betterment of humanity and to the Phoenix Chamber Society.

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