Aubrey James-Mays, Jr.-Obituary

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Aubrey James "AJ" Mays, Jr.

May 23, 1945 - Feb 10, 2025

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Sandra, we are so so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

What a presence this great man had. I was lucky enough to know A.J. and get to see his upbeat personality on a regular basis. What a loss you must all feel. A.j. will br greatly missed. My prayers for peace during this time, in Jesus name. Proverbs 3:5-6

Sandra, I am so sorry to get this information of your loss. I wish my condolences and the best for you and family. It has been so long since I spent summers with your Kemp Family, farming in Oklahoma. I have always regretted that I did not maintain a relationship with all of you, but my life has taken me many places.

I have added "A.J." passing to our England Family in America book.

Mr. May's was mine and my brother's principal when we were in Jr. High. My family and I always liked and respected Mr. May's. He believed in respect, patience, and kindness. My family and I extend our sincerest condolences and prayers for Mr. May's and his family. He was a very good man.

Sandra and Family-
We are so sad and so sorry to hear about AJ -
He was such a great guy- and friend!!!
Always always loved seeing you both and visiting with you-
Of course- we grew up together in Devol- and then attending BPH with both of you- I have wonderful memories if those times-
Again- we are so very sorry-
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you- and especially Sandra-


Sandra, Trent and Jason

Sorry to hear and read about AJ and also that I will not be there for the celebration of his life this Thursday. His presence and contributions to so many will be remembered, including teaching our son Joey in Junior High! You are in my prayers and thoughts.

Sandra and family,

What a great man Mr. Mays was and we enjoyed seeing y’all every time we ran into you. We are very sorry for your loss. Our prayers go out to you and the family.

Dale and Karla

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Sandra and family, I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband and father. I will pray for your family to feel God’s tenderness at his time.

Obituary

Aubrey James's Obituary

Aubrey James “AJ” Mays, Jr., 79, of Burkburnett, passed away Monday, February 10, 2025.

A celebration of Aubrey’s life will be 2:00 p.m. Thursday, February 13, 2025 in the chapel of Owens & Brumley Funeral Home in Burkburnett with Rev. Joe Coombes, officiating.

A son of the late Aubrey James Sr. and Thelma Adaline (Whitley) Mays, Aubrey Jr. was born on May 23, 1945 in Walters, Oklahoma.  He was a graduate of Big Pasture High School, and went on to graduate in 1969 from South Eastern State College, and later received his Masters from Texas Womens University in Denton in 1989.  AJ proudly served his country for 6 years in the Army National Guard.  He married the love of his life, Sandra, in August of 1967 in Randlett, Oklahoma.

AJ served as Assistant Vice Principle in Burkburnett and later served as Principle at Grandfield High School for several years.  He enjoyed the outdoors, especially fishing, and looked forward to meeting his friends each morning at McDonalds.  AJ was a longtime active member of First Baptist Church in Burkburnett.

He is survived by his loving wife of 57 years, Sandra Mays of Burkburnett; two sons, Jason Mays and wife Shalae of Pell City, Alabama, and Trent Mays and wife Amy of Wichita Falls; his sister, Fran Dodson and husband Joe of Burkburnett; six grandchildren, Brittany Anibal and husband Ben of New Hampshire, Blane Mays and wife Maggie of Alabama, Austin Mays of Alabama, Davis Mays of Wichita Falls, Kyler Mays of Alabama, and Hannah Mays of Wichita Falls; and four great-grandchildren, Max Mays, Emmie Anibal, Grady Anibal, and Brayden Anibal.

Condolences may be sent to the family at www.owensandbrumley.com

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