Barbara-Miller-Obituary

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Barbara Ann Miller

Nov 22, 1957 - Dec 8, 2025

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Oh Barb!
Our sister never stopped driving us crazy! She had crazy demands, crazy expectations and crazy stories.
Barb never let facts get in the way. According to Barb, we are a family of great success! Professional golfers, baseball players and even royalty. She was so surprised that we weren’t going to the Queen’s funeral. Oh Barb!
Barb loved this family, our family, like crazy! Our brothers are the best! Jeff and John were so good to her over the years, especially after...

I had the pleasure of meeting many individuals, but none as humorous as Barbi. Her presence brought immense joy and laughter to everyone around her. Upon hearing the news of her passing, I felt profound sadness. Heaven has indeed gained a humorous angel. Her smile was contagious, and she will be deeply missed at The Westchester House.

My deepest condolences to all of Barb’s family. I will never forget our Barbie, she was a ray of sunshine and would always come up to the front desk and chat. She loved to tell me about her family and loved them so very much. She loved to greet anyone who walked in the doors. I would always joke and tell her she’s going to take my job because she welcomed all so well and even told them where anything was. She stole my heart from day one and when I heard she gained her angel wings, my heart...

I have so many sweet, funny, and heartwarming memories with Aunt Barb. She held an extra special place in my heart and always will. xo

Family,

Our recent doughnut day with Barb at Westchester with the entire Gravatte, Budnick and Furlong family allowed the great nieces and nephews to meet Barb as well as Alaina, JD, Maggie, Erin, Kelsey and David to spend time with her. It is a day we all will remember fondly for the joy it brought to all!

Aunt Barb never forgot to remind me about being birthday buddies. Gave amazing hugs and was always smiling. She was the best story teller, true or not ;) . We could all take a page out of her book. Elvis will be happy she’s home.

Obituary

Barbara's Obituary

Miller, Barbara Ann, born 11/22/1957 and died in her sleep 12/8/2025.

Loving daughter of the late Walter and Margaret Miller.  Loving sister of Jennifer (Doug) Gravatte, Jeff (Patti) Miller, John (Kathy) Miller and the late Jim Miller.  Loving aunt of Alaina Gravatte Budnick, J.D. (Kelsey) Gravatte, Maggie Gravatte, Erin (Ryan) Furlong, Paige (Alex) Finan, Brooke (Arthur) Daus, Taylor Miller, Johnny (Maria) Miller, Danny (Grace) Miller and Emilie (Brian) Pandolfo.  Loving great aunt of Kendall and Dillon Budnick, Ellis, Finn and Blair Gravatte, Frances Furlong, Beckett Finan, Carson Miller, Penny and J.P. Miller, Evie and Mae Miller.  Loving cousin to the Menkes and Tubertys.  Loving friend to the residents, staff and supporters of The Westchester House.  

Services:  Funeral Mass at St. Clare of Assisi Catholic Church, 15642 Clayton Rd, Ellisville, Tuesday, December 16, 2025 at 10:00 a.m. Private Interment. Visitation at the church from 9:30 a.m. until the time of the funeral mass at 10:00 a.m. 

As a service of the SCHRADER Funeral Home and Crematory, friends may sign the family’s on-line guestbook at Schrader.com.

 

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