Benjamin-Pascucci-Obituary

Photo courtesy of Rivet Funeral Home & Crematorium Inc. - Merrimack

Benjamin Aufiero Pascucci

Sep 25, 1935 - Jan 31, 2025

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I will never forget Ben as "Moonface" in Anything Goes, with his favorite girl Alice 'hoofing it' in that ATC production! The love and light you shared with each other lives on. I always felt like I was greeted with the warmth of being another son any time I saw you both. Wishing the family deepest condolences and the peace knowing that he is now at rest. So thankful we did get to see each other, all together with his famous Antipasti, a few years ago. Blessings as you navigate these new...

My deepest condolences to Alice. You and Ben have been such a special part of my life at Actorsingers. Ben was a gentleman's gentleman, a class act through and through. I could always see the love between you especially when you danced together. May you hold your memories close. Peace and love to you! Tina Cassidy

Alice,
Our thoughts are with you and your family. Having moved to Osprey Lane we were very fortunate to have met both you and Ben! Ben was always ready with his charming way and a wonderful sense of humor! He was just a genuine good guy!
Our sympathies to you and your family,
Ann and Bob Chessen

Alice, the Ben and Alice show was the greatest show on earth. I will miss Ben. As a close friend I hadn’t seen for years said, you don’t need to see other often to still care. All my best in this difficult time. —Don

Dear Alice & Family. I have been very fortunate to have met & worked with you & Ben in the theatre over the years. Ben was a very talented man and a wonderful talent for making everyone he met seem like a long time friend. My sincere sympathy to you.

When I first met Ben (with Alice, of course ) I was struck by his warm and delightful personality. He and Alice were so welcoming to a newcomer to the CCP family. I remember that we served on the food committee for the cast party of a show we had done and I loved how he knew what to feed the hungry crew of actors and backstage people. In fact, I remarked that my husband would love his way making sure everyone had enough. That's what the Italians do. Well, when I got home and told John about...

So sorry to hear about the passing of uncle Ben. I remember all of us being at Nana Aufiero's house every xmas. All us kids would line up and he would help light our candles, we would march around the house. Ben and Alice would keep a close eye on me because I would always get to close to Andreas dress with my candle. RIP Uncle Ben. Paul Aufiero

My deepest condolences to the family of Benjamin Aufiero Pascucci.
He will forever be remembered for his exuberant smile, bigger than life personality, and the most engaging ability to make all those around him feel welcome. Life was brighter in his presence. May he rest in peace.

Ben and Alice Pascucci were theater friends. It was a joy to know them in and out of theater. Their sense of humor, kindness and talent was unmatched as was their love for each other. They will always have a place in the hearts of everyone who knew them. So sorry for the loss of Ben. Sending prayers to his family. Rest in peace old friend. GOd Bless...HUGS

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Benjamin's Obituary

Benjamin “Ben” Aufiero Pascucci, 89, of Merrimack, NH “formally from Andover, MA and Burlington MA passed away on Friday, January 31st, 2025, at his home with his wife Alice of 67 years by his side.

Born in Boston, MA on September 25th, 1935, he was the son of the late Pasquale and Margaret (Orlandella) Pascucci. He was raised in Somerville MA, graduated from Somerville High School in 1953.

Ben was a veteran of the U.S. Army and received an honorable discharge for his service. For many years, Ben was the co-owner of Brooks Precision Supply until he and his late partner “Sonny Gordon” sold the business to MSC Industrial Supply in 1997 and where he continued to work for them as a salesman until his retirement in 2016.

In his spare time, Ben enjoyed time with family, Theater and boating on Lake Winnipesaukee. Ben, and his beloved wife Alice, have been active members of the local theater community for more than 50 years, gracing the stages of numerous theatrical groups in hundreds of plays and musicals. Whether on stage, backstage or in the building shop, Ben was the heart and soul of every organization he belonged to with his bright smile, welcoming spirit, good humor and incredible talent. A few of Bens’ most memorable roles include Heir Schults in Cabaret, King Herod in JC Superstar, and Isidor Straus in Titanic, He will be forever remembered for his favorite audition song, I Won’t Send Roses, from Mack & Mable. He made his professional debut in 2011 in Guys and Dolls as Arvide Abernathy at the Palace Theater in Manchester NH.

Along with his parents, Ben was pre-deceased by two children, Andrea Pascucci and David Pascucci. His siblings are Sally Bruning, Theresa Masone, Anthony Pascucci, John Aufiero, Nick Aufiero, Tillie Aufiero, Florence Aufiero and Anthony Aufiero.

He will be forever loved and remembered by his wife of 67 years, Alice (Nadeau) Pascucci; his sons Ben Pascucci, his fiancée Rebecca Ferra, Edward Pascucci and his wife Susan Freedman; two grandchildren, Grace Pascucci, Mollie Freedman fiancé and Marcelo Gripp as well as many nieces and nephews.

Calling hours will be held at the Rivet Funeral Home, 425 Daniel Webster Highway, Merrimack on Thursday, February 6th, 2025 from 3 - 7 PM. A funeral service will be held at the funeral home on Friday, February 7th at 11 AM.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Ben’s memory can be made to “Voices of Hope” https://donatenow.networkforgood.org/voicesofhope

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