Photo courtesy of Freay Funeral Home - Mayville
1932 - 2023
My condolences to Betty’s family. Betty was the stepdaughter of my great uncle, Charles “Pete” Haffey. I met Betty at his funeral and thus began an unexpected friendship that lasted decades. Betty would always call me over the holidays to catch me up on Paula and herself. She was a lovely person. May she Rest In Peace.
Patrick Mahoney
July 23, 2023 | Groton Long Point, CT | Friend
Debbie, so sorry to hear of Betty's passing. Thinking of you and sending lots of prayers and love to you. Sincerely, Brenda Knipe
Brenda Knipe
February 27, 2023 | Bemus Point, NY
Betty and Jim were good neighbors to me while I lived in Wee Wood years ago. Good people. RIP Betty.
Francine Lloyd
February 27, 2023 | Ft Myers, FL | Friend
In loving memory of a wonderful lady. I miss you always..what a wonderful neighbor..she would call and check on me if she'd not seen me for a couple of days..I set out to see her in St. Vincent but I had people with me I vowed to self I would visit in Westfield..bad cold that is still lingering on...I feel such emptiness when I look out the window or drive by.
sherry durham
February 26, 2023 | Mayville, NY | Neighbor
MAYVILLE-Betty J. Dascoli, 91, of Mayville, passed away peacefully on Monday, February 20, 2023, at the Star Hospice House in Lakewood, NY.
She was the widow of Jim Dascoli, who passed away on November 24, 2016.
Betty was born on February 6, 1932, in Mayville, NY. She was a lifelong resident and attended Mayville Central School.
She had two sisters; Dolly Harris and Paula Larson, who have both passed.
Betty was the stepmother of three adult children; the twins; Debbie Kautz and Dianne Reyda, and a son; Michael Dascoli. She had several grandchildren: Mattie, Jimmy D., Tony, Mike D., Mike R., and Dustin. Also, the two Kautz boys; Jimmy and Farin. Two granddaughters; Jessie and Stevie Lynn, and a granddaughter-in-law; Ebony. She also had eleven great-grandchildren: Xavier, Emma, Callie, Dominick, Kayden, Addie, Luca, Nico, Harper, Aubrey, and Avery, and three cousins; Anne Cookson, Linda Potter, and Carol Jacobson, one niece; Grace Oldroyd, whom she was very close with, and one sister-in-law; Judy Dascoli, whom she loved as well. She loved them all so very much. They were a vital part of her life. Betty was the last surviving Jacobson of her generation.
Now I, Betty, want to say a thank you, especially to the girls for including me always in their group and made me feel young and happy. Always a great time! Love you all, Jody, Lisa, Kelly, Pam, Josie, and my Debbie. I also want to say the biggest and best thank you of all to Pinky. He was always there when I needed him. Thanks Pinky.
Betty loved to go shopping, especially with her two best friends: Debbie and Dianne. Also, her favorite thing to do was cook for the people she loved. Love you! Goodbye!
At Betty’s request, there will be no public services observed. A graveside service will be held in the Mayville Cemetery at the convenience of the family and will be announced at a later date.
To leave a remembrance or to post condolences to the family, please visit freayfuneralhome.com
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