Doris-Harris-Obituary

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Doris "Eileen" Harris

Jan 28, 1927 - Feb 13, 2026

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Dear Helen,
My heart weeps for you and each of your dear Mother's loved ones.
Mothers are so very special and never leave our hearts. Your Mother was a lovely woman, who raised a beautiful family. May each precious memory of her that floods your mind, your heart and soul, bring you comfort, knowing how much she loved you.
You are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Sending love and wishing you many Blessings,

Kathryn Reed

Shelly-
Sending our deepest sympathy and biggest hugs ❤
-Erik and Sheela Balcome

We want to offer our condolences to the entire family,

Following Roy and Eileen's purchase of the lake cottage next door to us at HyKnoll it became obvious this was a lady of character, determination and family commitment. It is assuredly an understatement to note how missed will be her sense of humor, easy laugh, card playing skills and constancy to be a friend and kindred spirit to us as neighbors.......

Wayne and family, so sorry about your loss. Hugs and Prayers to all

Wayne, So sorry to hear about your Mom. Our thoughts and prayer are with you and your family at this difficult time.

So sorry for your loss. Hope they are playing cards in heaven.

I'm very sorry to hear about your mom's passing. I always enjoyed hearing my mom talk about the "good old days," when she, your mom, and the other women of Rutland Center were young wives and mothers together. I'm the youngest of Beefy and Sylvia's girls, and I know my sisters join me in keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.

Helen and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. May many memories of the happy times you shared together live on forever in your hearts and minds. I personally have many memories of your family's welcoming home on the "famous curve" in the center of Rutland. We had many good times throughout our years at Copenhagen. So many wonderful memories that I cherish to this day. Your mom was a beautiful...

Obituary

Doris's Obituary

RUTLAND, NY – Doris “Eileen” Harris, 99, passed away peacefully in the early hours of Friday, February 13, 2026 at Samaritan Medical Center.

Calling hours will be held on Tuesday, February 24, 2026 from 10-12 pm at Reed & Benoit Funeral Home. A funeral service will immediately follow at 12 pm at the funeral home. Burial will be held in the spring in Maple Hill Cemetery, Rutland.

Born in Rutland on January 28, 1927, Eileen was a daughter of the late Arthur and Helen (Curtis) Parks. Her parents and five siblings were all born in Canada. She is the only member of the family to be born in the US. She began her education in a one room schoolhouse in Rutland, attending through grade 7, then she completed her education at Copenhagen Central School, graduating in 1943. She became a licensed beautician in 1944 and operated a beauty salon in her home in the town of Rutland until retiring in 1990.

She was married to Roy L. Harris of Champion on June 10, 1945, at the Rutland Congregational Church by the late Reverend John Wetzel. Roy passed away July 9, 1999.

Eileen was a member and trustee of the Rutland church, a charter member of the church's Club '47, past chief, treasurer and charter member as well as Chaplain of the Ladies Auxiliary of the Rutland Fire Department.

She was the coordinator of the Rutland summer youth program for 23 years. She was also an election board inspector for Rutland District #1 for 55 years and Trustee of the Maple Hill Cemetery Association.

Eileen enjoyed being with family and friends, playing cards and dancing. She also loved dressing up for Halloween and won first prize several times at local dances. She treasured her summers at the cottage on Lake Ontario. 

Eileen is survived by four children, Wayne (Doris) Harris of Watertown, Lauren (Sherry) Harris of Glen Park, Helen (Joe Coniglio) Reno of Watertown, and Shelly Waite of Sackets Harbor; 9 grandchildren and 14 great-grandchildren; as well as many nieces, nephews, and cousins.

In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her husband, Roy; a daughter and son-in-law, Donna and Sheldon Monteiro; a son-in-law, Herby Waite; and five siblings, Evelyn Staplin, Allan Parks, Earle Parks, Harold Parks, and Hilda Hayes.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Eileen’s memory may be left to the Maple Hill Cemetery Association, c/o Bill Dealing, Treasurer, 32940 County Route 163 Carthage, NY 13619, or to Hospice of Jefferson County, 1398 Gotham Street, Watertown, NY 13601.

Arrangements are with Reed & Benoit Funeral Home, Inc. and condolences may be left online at www.reedbenoit.com.

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