Photo courtesy of Colonial Funeral Homes - Brick
Mar 17, 1920 - Mar 11, 2022 (Age 101)
So sorry to hear of his passing. I worked for his son Howard and always asked how he was doing. He seemed to be so full of life and did not let growing old hold him back. I am so sad to hear of his passing and offer my sincerest condolences to the whole family. They will all miss this smart and intelligent man. Deepest sympathies. Peggy Wells
Peggy Wells
March 24, 2022 | Florence, NJ | Friend
Our deepest condolences. My wife and I lived across from Howard and Mildred in Poughkeepsie and we were very fond of them. Howard always told me how much he enjoyed our Christmas lights. He’d comment you put them up but I get to enjoy them. Loved him.
Thomas and Tina Wile
March 20, 2022 | Poughkeepsie, NY | Friend
Hello! Please accept my condolences. My maiden name was Gail Carpenter. I believe I went to school with your Dad’s son Howie, at Spackenkill and Poughkeepsie. He raised a truly good kid! It is sad when we lose our parents. If this isn’t the correct family, please know I am am truly sad for your loss. Peace of mind and heart to you all. Gail
Gail Rose
March 20, 2022 | East Falmouth, MA | Friend
I worked with Howard at IBM in the Education Center in Poughkeepsie, New York. He was always very pleasant, courteous, and a joy to work with. I moved to Hyde Park where I met and became friends with his daughter, Karen and her family. I continued to see Howard and his wife, Mildred, when they visited Karen. They have remained friends for over 50 years. He truly was a wonderful friend and a blessing to all who knew him. He exemplified the Greatest Generation. I will miss you dear friend.
Ann Marie Grzinich
March 20, 2022 | Austin, TX | Friend
I knew this day would come, but your passing is still a shock to me.
You were a great kindhearted, compassionate person and l thank for our path crossing.
I learnt so much from our friendship which had made me a better person. I will forever miss you. May God grant you eternal Rest.
Freda Archeval
March 17, 2022 | Leominster, MA | Friend
Well done! A lovely tribute.
Ann Neary
March 16, 2022
Howard R. Lay, Jr., age 101, died on March 11, 2022, at his home. Howard was born in Montclair, NJ, on March 17, 1920, and was raised in Upper Montclair, then relocated to Poughkeepsie, NY, before moving to Brick, NJ over 25 years ago.As a teenager, Howard designed and built his own rowboat,...
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