Photo courtesy of A. L. Bennett and Son Funeral Home, Inc. - Fredericksburg
1985 - 2020
May you continue to Rest In Perfect Peace and Paradise cuz we love and miss you ❤
Sharone Hudson
November 01, 2023 | Bowling Green, VA | Family
Fly high, and rest in power.
I will always carry and share your memory. I love you Jamie
Ashleigh Henderson
February 09, 2021 | Stafford, VA | Friend
I’d been freshly promoted to supervisor when Jamie was promoted and transferred to the Dale city Home Depot. I cannot begin to express the wisdom he instilled in me not only with his words, but his actions. Jamie had been with Home Depot much longer than I. Even though we were the same age, I looked up to him. I watched him grow as an ASM and using his example I became the man I did in large part because of watching Jamie fail, succeed, and thrive. Never once was Jamie too busy or too...
James Flanagan
November 25, 2020 | Fredericksburg, VA | Coworker
You will truly be missed Jay, and your laughter at family gatherings. Fly High Nephew
Debbie Rodriguez
November 18, 2020 | Fredericksburg, VA | Family
Christine and Jay--Prayers for your family during your time of grief. Jamie was a great support to Mike when he first started at Home Depot and was training as a new supervisor. May you find comfort in your many memories, knowing he had such a favorable impact on the lives of many with whom he crossed paths and in knowing he has gone on to be with our Father in Heaven. We pray you will come to find peace as you deal with this loss.
Joanne and Mike Wilson
November 17, 2020 | Fredericksburg, VA | Coworker
My prayers of condolences to your beautiful mom and family. May the peace of God continue to hold them up. Rest In Peace.
Denise Adams
November 11, 2020 | Fredericksburg, VA
At a lost for words. I remember Jay at the family cookouts. Jay was always so cool, calm, and chill. I have memories of him laughing and just enjoying life. You will be missed Cuzzo! Sending my prayers, blessings, and love! Rest peacefully
Deonté-Sonny Ragland
November 11, 2020 | Atlanta, GA | Family
We lost a great friend, but the universe received a new beautiful star. Remembering you in our minds and heart. May your soul Rest In Peace dear friend.
Sonja and Eric Murphy
November 10, 2020 | Fredericksburg, VA | Friend
You were the coolest, bro. I'm grateful that you gifted me your friendship. I am thankful for our moments together and will hold them dearly.
stephen hicks
November 10, 2020 | Friend
Jaime Lee Totten, Jr.
December 12, 1985 - November 2, 2020
Jaime Lee Totten, Jr., age 34 of Stafford, Virginia transitioned into his eternal life on Monday, November 2, 2020.
Jaime affectionately known as Jay, was born the son of Christine Henderson Simpkins and Jamie Totten, Sr., on December 12, 1985 in Fredericksburg, Virginia.
Jay gave his life to Christ at an early age. He received his education through Spotsylvania County Schools and graduated from Courtland High School in 1999. He furthered his education and received a Bachelor’s in Building Construction Management and a Minor in Engineering from Norfolk State University in 2004. Jay was a master of his trade and used it to further his 15 year career where he became an Assistant Store Manager at Home Depot. He enjoyed working with his fellow teammates at the Fredericksburg, Stafford, and Manassas, Virginia locations.
He was preceded in death by his maternal grandparents, the late Nancy and James Carter, and Sherman Henderson; as well as his paternal grandparents James and Alva Totten.
He leaves to cherish his memories, his loving mother, Christine Simpkins (Ski) of Spotsylvania, VA; his father, Jamie Totten, Sr. (Debra) of Midlothian, VA; one sister, Nekia Parker of Richmond, VA; two nieces, Taylor and Regan; aunts, Lorraine Simpkins (Cartrell) of Ruther Glen, VA, Carolyn Henderson of Ruther Glen, VA, Mary Durante (Jeffrey) of Spotsylvania, VA, Deborah Rodriguez (Bernardo) of Spotsylvania, VA, Gloria Cole (Curtis) of Stafford, VA, Shirley McCauley of Fredericksburg, VA, Lavern Bumbrey of King George, VA, Carolyn Fields (Dwight) of King George, VA, Linda Harrison (Walter) of Hyattsville, MD, Mary Carter of Bowie, MD, Esther Carter of Bowie, MD; uncles, Wayne Broadus of Washington, DC, Saudi Shabazz of Gaithersburg, MD, James Johnson of Spotsylvania, VA and David Carter of Springfield, VA; his god sister, Lori Sims of Stafford, VA; his Godson, Tre Taylor of Spotsylvania, VA; and a host of cousins, extended family members, devoted friends and co-workers.
A viewing will be held at A.L. Bennett and Son Funeral Home on Tuesday, November 10, 2020 from 5:00 PM – 7:00 PM and one hour before the funeral service. A funeral service will be held at A.L. Bennett and Son Funeral Home on Wednesday, November 11, 2020 at 11:00 AM. Interment will be held at the Henderson Family Cemetery.
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